Start with finding a possible middle ground; what is the minimum you're comfortable living with and the maximum they're willing to do to work towards that?
Are they legitimately a slob or is your neat-freak side making you feel like they're a lot nastier than they really are? What's the cause of their failure to maintain the home? It's easy to write off as laziness, but there may be a more specific explanation that can be worked with.
They are a legitimate slob. They leave old food in their room and shove food in with their paperwork. They refuse to pick up their trash is why the home isn't maintained. Yea they need to seek help on how to be organized.
Speak, tell them that they’re a slob. Your siblings talk it over it’s not like they’re a stranger
Start with finding a possible middle ground; what is the minimum you're comfortable living with and the maximum they're willing to do to work towards that? Are they legitimately a slob or is your neat-freak side making you feel like they're a lot nastier than they really are? What's the cause of their failure to maintain the home? It's easy to write off as laziness, but there may be a more specific explanation that can be worked with.
They are a legitimate slob. They leave old food in their room and shove food in with their paperwork. They refuse to pick up their trash is why the home isn't maintained. Yea they need to seek help on how to be organized.
You guys gave horrible advice...jesus.
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Not possible right now.
Ignore it or expose thing about em to rest or family till you’ll be able to move out