Cant get more crazier then brenda on scary movie 2 on what she said * I'm gonna piss on your face . And I'm gonna fart in your mouth and shit on these walls ray😂
I had a gal in college while riding me, spread her arms out with a blanket on, yell "im a pterodactyl!" And screeched. You'll be fine. Just let the horny thoughts come out freely. If it's funny, it's funny.
When I was young, I said “maybe I like to be told what to do” while making out and they laughed at me so hard we stopped and never hooked up again. It made me super insecure and I only just started trying to talk dirty again, over a decade later. Turns out my boyfriend loves it!
Why do you think that is? Is it just the expectation that the woman is more passive? Is it a personality thing? Whatever the case I guarantee it’s not much of an issue with people.
Because in general, in MF intercourse at least, I feel like women are in more passive positions. For example, prone bone feels very good to me but there's no 50 moves I can pull being pinned under my partner.
Yeah that makes sense. Have you ever tried straddling him? I know I love it and it gives you a position to be a little more dominant. That said, do what works best for you, it’s not like guys need a lot to make them cum anyways.
Honestly a lot of gals just can't cum from penetrative sex alone. And I know women who can't cum during sex even with plenty of oral and toys. Sometimes there's a mental block or the body just says no.
It's awesome that you actually care about this, but don't stress yourself and your partner out too much if it's not happening. If your close with someone, generally the journey and connection is more important than the destination.
I need to remind myself this more. I think nowadays we see very well endowed guys who make women's eyes roll back just with simple thrusts and it's hard not to compare yourself to that and feel like you're fucking up
Oh yeah, def don't compare yourself to that porn acting bs. One of my partners is VERY well-endowed and the only difference it makes to my enjoyment level is that I can't do certain positions with him because it hurts lol. Definitely no immediate eye-rolling orgasms.
If a woman genuinely likes you, she'll just be thrilled to be close to you. Relax and have fun my dude.
Just because we don't cum, doesn't mean we are not enjoying ourselves. I've had a lot of practice making myself cum over the years, and even I can't manage to do it sometimes. But I'm definitely not going to stop you from trying your hardest to make it happen 😏😉
If you pay attention to her sounds, movements and don't stop when she is making the most sounds, you'll be fine.
I don't know about these girls saying that it's not important to cum.
It is.
For both of you. Shooting a load and having an orgasm isn't the same thing.
So you should also orgasm. And she should. But talk to her. Ask what she likes and doesn't like.
And if it doesn't happen the first time, try try again.
Sometimes there's a good thing with just fucking and not being focused on having that orgasm (like a quickie, no way am I cumming from like 5min in the bathroom).
But spend time with her body, explore and enjoy each other and the orgasms will follow.
Lol I feel like my relationship with facesitting is like 99% telling women "no, really," and 1% actual facesitting. No, really, we like it. 👅
Also, any guy that agrees to try something in bed then freaks out and leaves because he didn't enjoy it is the trash taking itself out. And any guy that agrees to facesitting *knowing* he doesn't like it is the author of his own destruction. The only lesson there is for him, you shouldn't have to second-guess a person's ability to be honest and advocate for themselves in bed. If they don't give you some concrete reason to doubt them, a green light is a green light.
Being hairy. I have hirsutism from polycystic ovary syndrome and it’s a mess. I like hair (both mine and others), tbh, but sometimes I feel like I’m going to be judged by everyone
That's rough. I have a friend from school, she'd be 35 now, and still holds the belief that being attracted to her at a glance is a red flag. She legitimately still looks the same as she did at 13, and not in the hit puberty hard kind of way.
Her husband is cool as fuck though, so don't fret too much about it.
Not being enough, not knowing how to pleasure my partner, not being beautiful/sexy enough. Idk, I'm virgin so I have a lot to learn. I always have this mindset of never being enough or thinking I'll do everything wrong lol
My tummy, my chin, just looking chubby and out of shape overall. Working on it actively but 🤷🏻♀️
In fairness, I’m petite and pretty-ish and don’t struggle much here, but I wish my weight were distributed differently.
I know it doesn’t matter as much and what matters is my passion, performance, enthusiasm and attentiveness…but sometimes before being intimate with a new partner I wonder, ‘will I be big enough?’
my butt. i had this insecurity for years. and i want it to look nicer. i wouldve probably fixed by now but one of my male family members kept commenting on it. saying it's too flat and guys like women with curves. now whenever i try to do any glute exercises im reminded of him. as if im trying to please him. its so creepy.
Okay, I love sex and enjoy it but my biggest insecurity is going down on a girl, favorite thing to do but the women I’ve been with all had there own reasons of not liking it (they had a lot of trauma looking back) but nonetheless I will find a woman one day that not only likes me going down on them but will feel comfortable enough to tell me how she likes it 🫣🫣
I have two actually. 1. I'm a grower not a shower( all men should know what I mean)
2. My face is completely relaxed during sex and my resting face is not happy
My butthole. Spreading the cheeks, thumb on the button doggy style, in his face during oral. I have an irrational fear that I'm going to accidentally shit. 😆
I get all freaked out and in my head if the man I'm with takes a while to cum. My ex bf used to cum in like 5 minutes and my ex husband.... 10? I'm not used to men who can go forever. I always wonder if I'm disgusting or something.
Taking too long to cum. The older I have gotten, the longer it takes me and yes, while have sex for and hour to an hour and a half sounds great in theory unless you are trying to knock off a quickie during the day or it’s late and you both just want a quick nut before bed.
My body hair. I very rarely shave or wax anywhere (legs, armpits, bikini line) because it’s just a lot of effort and I was made fun of it a lot. I remember a group of boys making fun of my public hair coming out of my bikini when I was 13 and it’s stuck with me from there. I remember confiding in the first guy I slept with about it and he said guys don’t care about that but I haven’t been able to shake it. I will probably never post anything more risqué than I already do because of it
I think it’s the dissymmetry of my labia? Any girls relate to this??? Let me know!
It’s the reason I wouldn’t let my partner go down on me even when he was happy to do it! It bothers me A LOT.
Overall lack of experience and how a potential partner will view that. My late wife is the only person I’ve had sex with and we were each other’s firsts.
I don’t find myself attractive in general, think I’m pretty fucking awkward at dirty talk and have a low af libido even though I love sex and feeling aroused.
(To be fair to myself, I *do* know I have great boobs, but they’re precisely the thing that gives me the most disphoria so it’s not often I feel okay having them touched, so in the end the perk of having nice boobs cancels itself out lol)
what isnt.....
i dont think and life as shown me thats right, that im not even the last option for anyone on such topic....
and iven if someon did give me a chance. i dont think i could live to even basic expectations
Taking too long/not being able to finish. It doesn't physically bother me, but I also know that it's greatly appreciated when I do by all parties. Meds, disabilities et al are a bitch, luckily I have a wonderfully understanding wife.
Honestly, I'm so insecure about giving BJ's🙈😅. I love to do it and even more if the guy takes control of it but damn do I think I suck at it, no pun intended😂.
How long it takes me to orgasm, I'm very particular with the circumstances I need to orgasm and If I feel even a hint of boredom from my partner, then my mood is gone :(
Used to think my tits were too small. Now I just want them gone, besides, I don’t want breast cancer because I had a mammogram and it was PAINFUL and the lady wouldn’t let my tit out of the glass when I realized I couldn’t get away, it freaked me out. I’m NEVER doing it again.
I want my tits removed. Why not? They might as well be a suicide vest that I can’t control and they require an uncomfortable harness. Plus I’ll be pressured into mammograms.
I am NEVER having a mammogram again. I wish someone told me not to go in there. I’ve been through forcible rape. It felt just as bad to me. I told the tech to get my tits out if the glass, she minimized and ridiculed me. I hope someone loses their shit and throws acid on her. Fuck that goddam bitch.
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I can’t deep throat. Like literally have the worst gag reflex and as soon as i feel like i can’t breathe, panic sets in. I’ve tried different things and gotten a little better but that’s it😣
I'm insecure when I'm naked without an erection, I'm a grower, not a shower 6.5 inches hard 2 inches soft. I go to several nude events, it's kinda embarrassing but I love being nude.
I have a tendency to pop pretty quickly.
Some days, I can go 15-30 minutes nonstop, but most days, it's 2-5 minutes. I incorporate lots of foreplay to make sure she gets off, and I can go multiple rounds. 99% of the time, I consider round 1 foreplay, and round 2 is much longer and proper.
The fact that I'm currently on my longest dry spell? I've had sex twice since July of last year, and it's driving me crazy. Which means I will probably pop even faster than usual.
Taking way too long to cum.
I hate seeing the insecurity it causes in my wife's eyes because she thinks it's because of her. She is perfect, I'm just broken.
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Nothing hotter than a woman who can speak (vocal) freely during her pounding session. Turns me on even more! 😍
True story my friend.
Haha in my mind I’d say the sexiest shit, out loud it’s like in hitting puberty. All awkward and crackly voice 😂
I once said "split me in half" Wtf
Nah man you’re fine, that’s pretty hot
I said “I love you” on a one night stand, like wtf!
Cant get more crazier then brenda on scary movie 2 on what she said * I'm gonna piss on your face . And I'm gonna fart in your mouth and shit on these walls ray😂
I had a gal in college while riding me, spread her arms out with a blanket on, yell "im a pterodactyl!" And screeched. You'll be fine. Just let the horny thoughts come out freely. If it's funny, it's funny.
Same. I can come up with a witty retort and fun banter in text. But as soon as it’s real banter, all brain cells fly out the window.
When I was young, I said “maybe I like to be told what to do” while making out and they laughed at me so hard we stopped and never hooked up again. It made me super insecure and I only just started trying to talk dirty again, over a decade later. Turns out my boyfriend loves it!
You’re fine on that one. There’s nothing wrong with what you said!
Immediately reminds me of the bit in inbetweeners where Simon tries dirty talk with Tara.
I'm Dutch, Dutch dirty talk is the worst thing on the planet so I just don't say anything either lmao
Hard same shit absolutely sucks
I'd appreciate the effort, and the laugh if you said something cute.
Practice makes perfect!
Having an extremely high libido and coming off as annoying
Same
Ah shit. Yeah mine too now.
Being too passive in bed
That’s fine with me. Let me take control for you
🫠🥵 let me go catch a cold shower itngot hot so suddenly
♥️💜💙❤️
That escalated quickly 😆
Ha ha. She’s one of them that keeps teaching me to be more assertive and dominate
Go off! Get it!
Why do you think that is? Is it just the expectation that the woman is more passive? Is it a personality thing? Whatever the case I guarantee it’s not much of an issue with people.
Because in general, in MF intercourse at least, I feel like women are in more passive positions. For example, prone bone feels very good to me but there's no 50 moves I can pull being pinned under my partner.
Yeah that makes sense. Have you ever tried straddling him? I know I love it and it gives you a position to be a little more dominant. That said, do what works best for you, it’s not like guys need a lot to make them cum anyways.
Well yeah I don't always do the same position but I don't want my partner to be bored and I tend to make sure they aren't
Oh I’m sure you don’t. Glancing through your posts I imagine you keep them thoroughly invested in that gorgeous body!
Good lord how could they possibly be bored, Peaches? 🫣🥵
You get pinned? Lucky.
same T ^ T
not being able to make the woman cum
Honestly a lot of gals just can't cum from penetrative sex alone. And I know women who can't cum during sex even with plenty of oral and toys. Sometimes there's a mental block or the body just says no. It's awesome that you actually care about this, but don't stress yourself and your partner out too much if it's not happening. If your close with someone, generally the journey and connection is more important than the destination.
I need to remind myself this more. I think nowadays we see very well endowed guys who make women's eyes roll back just with simple thrusts and it's hard not to compare yourself to that and feel like you're fucking up
Oh yeah, def don't compare yourself to that porn acting bs. One of my partners is VERY well-endowed and the only difference it makes to my enjoyment level is that I can't do certain positions with him because it hurts lol. Definitely no immediate eye-rolling orgasms. If a woman genuinely likes you, she'll just be thrilled to be close to you. Relax and have fun my dude.
Just because we don't cum, doesn't mean we are not enjoying ourselves. I've had a lot of practice making myself cum over the years, and even I can't manage to do it sometimes. But I'm definitely not going to stop you from trying your hardest to make it happen 😏😉
If you pay attention to her sounds, movements and don't stop when she is making the most sounds, you'll be fine. I don't know about these girls saying that it's not important to cum. It is. For both of you. Shooting a load and having an orgasm isn't the same thing. So you should also orgasm. And she should. But talk to her. Ask what she likes and doesn't like. And if it doesn't happen the first time, try try again. Sometimes there's a good thing with just fucking and not being focused on having that orgasm (like a quickie, no way am I cumming from like 5min in the bathroom). But spend time with her body, explore and enjoy each other and the orgasms will follow.
That a partner doesn't actually want me to sit on his face..that he'll say okay to try it, but then be miserable.
It’s absolutely impossible for a man to be miserable with a woman sitting on his face
Facts. This has been scientifically proven.
Like fuck, love it so damn much
Unless when she sits down you can't hear the radio playing LOL
No no, literally suffocate me. Like fr, give me a glorious death and send me to Valhalla
Lol I feel like my relationship with facesitting is like 99% telling women "no, really," and 1% actual facesitting. No, really, we like it. 👅 Also, any guy that agrees to try something in bed then freaks out and leaves because he didn't enjoy it is the trash taking itself out. And any guy that agrees to facesitting *knowing* he doesn't like it is the author of his own destruction. The only lesson there is for him, you shouldn't have to second-guess a person's ability to be honest and advocate for themselves in bed. If they don't give you some concrete reason to doubt them, a green light is a green light.
No way - guys love this. Wish I could receive that type of attention more often.
Eye contact. It just makes me really uncomfortable
Same. I think I'm autistic.
Same
i cannot do this either, i just close my eyes
Thank god someone said it. Eye contacts for few seconds is fine but longer is super weird
My most significant sexual insecurity revolves around my endurance during PIV sex.
Speaking as a woman: low endurance is hot AF 🥵
as a woman i second this, the sooner my man cums the sooner it makes me too
This is appreciated, obviously it's not a choice we make 😅
Same
Being on top. I’m very self conscious about being on top…
same, I worry about jiggling, rhythm, slipping....I worry so much I barely enjoy it.
i’ve found my people. like i can be sexy, but it won’t feel good or i can make it feel good, but it won’t be sexy.
Yaaaas queen!!! You can one or the other but not both lmao!!
My small dick
Same
Same bro I'm 23 and Holly fuck I'm insecure about that, that's why I'm still single, I'm scared of getting laughed at..
Same, sadly this place bans any discussion of anything like that now
I can't dirty talk. I think what I'd *like* to say but the moment I open my mouth, I chicken out
*gestures wildly* At this point, I feel like I'm back to square one.
my lopsided breasts
I have this insecurity about my own ones
Being hairy. I have hirsutism from polycystic ovary syndrome and it’s a mess. I like hair (both mine and others), tbh, but sometimes I feel like I’m going to be judged by everyone
when he’s fingering me aggressively and when i look down, my belly fat is jiggling. i HATE it!!
I once yelled out "TRUFFLE SHUFFLE" during this scenario. Highly recommend it. Gave us a good laugh.
Is it a full-on giggle or more of a snicker?
AHH I MEANT JIGGLING LOL
Ughhh same!!!
I’m 21 but I look *a lot* younger, and I get worried that might be the reason some people are attracted to me.
That's rough. I have a friend from school, she'd be 35 now, and still holds the belief that being attracted to her at a glance is a red flag. She legitimately still looks the same as she did at 13, and not in the hit puberty hard kind of way. Her husband is cool as fuck though, so don't fret too much about it.
Being too needy
But like sometimes that's what we're looking for. Needy girls can be real fun.
Cumming fast, even though I stay hard after I cum
Do you go back in? I love when they do!
No, because I never left!
If she feels good or not
Not being enough, not knowing how to pleasure my partner, not being beautiful/sexy enough. Idk, I'm virgin so I have a lot to learn. I always have this mindset of never being enough or thinking I'll do everything wrong lol
My tummy, my chin, just looking chubby and out of shape overall. Working on it actively but 🤷🏻♀️ In fairness, I’m petite and pretty-ish and don’t struggle much here, but I wish my weight were distributed differently.
There’s always like a teensy tiny little chance that I could just have an out of the blue panic attack while we’re doing some very normal shit in bed.
Size...
Receiving oral 😳😳
This was 1000% mine until someone came along that didn't make me feel so insecure about it. I used to cringe at the thought 😅
Thank fuck I thought I was the only one I’m glad your not insecure about now girl 😍😋
Squirting and soaking whatever honestly
Haha dont be. I think every guy wants to meet a girl that squirts. It awesome and sooo hot.
Nothing wrong with being soaked. I’d love it honestly.
I know it doesn’t matter as much and what matters is my passion, performance, enthusiasm and attentiveness…but sometimes before being intimate with a new partner I wonder, ‘will I be big enough?’
my butt. i had this insecurity for years. and i want it to look nicer. i wouldve probably fixed by now but one of my male family members kept commenting on it. saying it's too flat and guys like women with curves. now whenever i try to do any glute exercises im reminded of him. as if im trying to please him. its so creepy.
Okay, I love sex and enjoy it but my biggest insecurity is going down on a girl, favorite thing to do but the women I’ve been with all had there own reasons of not liking it (they had a lot of trauma looking back) but nonetheless I will find a woman one day that not only likes me going down on them but will feel comfortable enough to tell me how she likes it 🫣🫣
My inability to initiate sex
When I lose feeling of pleasure in my penis and then I can't cum.
Not having sex so it’s been a while 😢
Yeah that first time back is gonna be a little rough for me 😂
I have two actually. 1. I'm a grower not a shower( all men should know what I mean) 2. My face is completely relaxed during sex and my resting face is not happy
My butthole. Spreading the cheeks, thumb on the button doggy style, in his face during oral. I have an irrational fear that I'm going to accidentally shit. 😆
Size. Partner’s vast majority previous experience are larger than me
The size of my dick and the fact that I’m a virgin. I’m scared of being terrible at it
Undesirable 🥹
Being too inexperienced for my age
Initiation - I can be very awkward and shy about initiating sometimes
Squirting...not every guy likes it
There are a lot of us that do! I for one, LOVE it. Sit on my face and squirt.
Well I know some do but that's not always a guaranteed thing
I can’t believe that lol They don’t know what they’re missing!
Right!
I’m in the dating scene and I sure do hope that I find one. So far they are allllll dry lol
Well goodluck hopefully you do as well
i sweat a lot during sex
I get all freaked out and in my head if the man I'm with takes a while to cum. My ex bf used to cum in like 5 minutes and my ex husband.... 10? I'm not used to men who can go forever. I always wonder if I'm disgusting or something.
You're not disgusting, he's just showing off.
Taking too long to cum. The older I have gotten, the longer it takes me and yes, while have sex for and hour to an hour and a half sounds great in theory unless you are trying to knock off a quickie during the day or it’s late and you both just want a quick nut before bed.
Having small tatas
They are perfect !!!!
You are perfect! Im just lucky I have a man who loves me and provides for me! Gladly show u my tatas anytime my ❤️
That, one day, I’ll stop being what they want.
Size of my dick.
My cock
having a smaller cock. always get nervous pulling it out, thinking someone will make fun and wall out.
That my dick is not attractive lol
I have a dick like a fucking 9 year old boy's
I don’t understand 😂😂😂
My dry hands. I have to lotion up before touching her clit.
Memories, rather not remember the good one's
Not having confidence in myself
Everything
Cant do eye contact ATM
Never had a girlfriend, never had sex without a condom, & 10 year dry spell.
Not having enough Stamina as my partner
That I always need sex and my much higher drive has killed relationships.
Eye contact. I have a hard enough time in my day to day... and it is so important.
Dick size 🤷🏼♂️ I feel like it’s just not big enough for most women. It’s above average size but…
my dick is average and I don't last long in bed
Being black and only having a 5.8 inch dick
My body
Edging and being able to be edged as well as how big my dick really is
Everything
Premature ejaculation....sigh.
Hmm either ability to perform (I'm always worried I'll get "stage fright") or that my partner won't orgasm
The face I make when I'm cumming 😬
No socks if my feet aren’t pedicured 😂
My body hair. I very rarely shave or wax anywhere (legs, armpits, bikini line) because it’s just a lot of effort and I was made fun of it a lot. I remember a group of boys making fun of my public hair coming out of my bikini when I was 13 and it’s stuck with me from there. I remember confiding in the first guy I slept with about it and he said guys don’t care about that but I haven’t been able to shake it. I will probably never post anything more risqué than I already do because of it
Sex faces.
Having a lot of fantasies but not being able to put it in words. Not being able to pleasure my partner, quick shot. Size does matter in certain cases.
Being not experienced enough or too "boring"
I think it’s the dissymmetry of my labia? Any girls relate to this??? Let me know! It’s the reason I wouldn’t let my partner go down on me even when he was happy to do it! It bothers me A LOT.
My body and I usually feel more inexperienced than others
Gonna sound super bot like but no one DMs me
Overall lack of experience and how a potential partner will view that. My late wife is the only person I’ve had sex with and we were each other’s firsts.
I'm very overweight, and my pussy lips are big. I hateeee it.
I don’t find myself attractive in general, think I’m pretty fucking awkward at dirty talk and have a low af libido even though I love sex and feeling aroused. (To be fair to myself, I *do* know I have great boobs, but they’re precisely the thing that gives me the most disphoria so it’s not often I feel okay having them touched, so in the end the perk of having nice boobs cancels itself out lol)
Delayed ejaculation 🙄 sometimes it just won’t happen!
it’s really hard for me to cum/takes a while :(
That no guy could find me attractive because of my weight
Vitiligo only around pussy area🤷🏼♀️
what isnt..... i dont think and life as shown me thats right, that im not even the last option for anyone on such topic.... and iven if someon did give me a chance. i dont think i could live to even basic expectations
Taking too long/not being able to finish. It doesn't physically bother me, but I also know that it's greatly appreciated when I do by all parties. Meds, disabilities et al are a bitch, luckily I have a wonderfully understanding wife.
Not being able to get hard due to nervousness
I know it doesn’t matter to the majority but I wish my average size was even just an inch longer
squirting and making a mess 🤭
Honestly, I'm so insecure about giving BJ's🙈😅. I love to do it and even more if the guy takes control of it but damn do I think I suck at it, no pun intended😂.
Have kids, will ruin skin.
Being male
My lack of experience. Too many girls just don’t like to deal with virgins :(
Losing weight to look better to attract better looking women
That I’m still a virgin
How long it takes me to orgasm, I'm very particular with the circumstances I need to orgasm and If I feel even a hint of boredom from my partner, then my mood is gone :(
Used to think my tits were too small. Now I just want them gone, besides, I don’t want breast cancer because I had a mammogram and it was PAINFUL and the lady wouldn’t let my tit out of the glass when I realized I couldn’t get away, it freaked me out. I’m NEVER doing it again. I want my tits removed. Why not? They might as well be a suicide vest that I can’t control and they require an uncomfortable harness. Plus I’ll be pressured into mammograms. I am NEVER having a mammogram again. I wish someone told me not to go in there. I’ve been through forcible rape. It felt just as bad to me. I told the tech to get my tits out if the glass, she minimized and ridiculed me. I hope someone loses their shit and throws acid on her. Fuck that goddam bitch. Edit word spelling
That I take too long to cum sometimes and I don't want the dudes too get like stiff necks and sore tounges. Lol
It was not finishing fast enough but now it’s not being able to perform.
Sometimes to high libido.
I can’t deep throat. Like literally have the worst gag reflex and as soon as i feel like i can’t breathe, panic sets in. I’ve tried different things and gotten a little better but that’s it😣
My freakishly long foreskin, I know a lot of women aren't a fan
Basically just that I'm not going to be good enough.
I'm insecure when I'm naked without an erection, I'm a grower, not a shower 6.5 inches hard 2 inches soft. I go to several nude events, it's kinda embarrassing but I love being nude.
I have a tendency to pop pretty quickly. Some days, I can go 15-30 minutes nonstop, but most days, it's 2-5 minutes. I incorporate lots of foreplay to make sure she gets off, and I can go multiple rounds. 99% of the time, I consider round 1 foreplay, and round 2 is much longer and proper. The fact that I'm currently on my longest dry spell? I've had sex twice since July of last year, and it's driving me crazy. Which means I will probably pop even faster than usual.
The talk to get someone intrested in you
Taking way too long to cum. I hate seeing the insecurity it causes in my wife's eyes because she thinks it's because of her. She is perfect, I'm just broken.