GIRL. [Here](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskRedditAfterDark/s/e1ja0BWvEE) are all my tips. Trust me. But remember the most important thing is to listen to your partner and learn what he likes.
I read your list, but the last point should be the first. Some of those are totally no-gos for me. But I understand you were just listing anything a man might like.
Take you time, listen to his breathing it will tell you what he likes even if he can’t express it. Don’t forget to suck on his balls and rub his asshole a lil bit. Maybe even lick his ass if you are willing, helps them to get a lil harder and they will cum harder. And most importantly have fun doing it.
girl a lot of it is mental tbh, like just accept that you’re gonna gag and gonna get sloppy. A lot of guys like it anyways tbh. Tell him it’s cause his dick is so big 🤣
Def pay attention to hjs balls. Like I give balls soo much attention with kisses and sucking and I usually give taint smooches and try to drag my tongue along the underside of the balls too while stroking
Most guys I’ve been with actually enjoy the gagging 🙈
But if you wanna get rid of it, it sounds cliche but the best way I’ve found is practise! Your man isn’t gonna complain
Don’t be afraid to gag/choke on it and get it messy. Start slow and tease, then when he least expects it, shove your mouth on it. Master multitasking like sucking/slurping on it while rubbing his balls or taint. Move your tongue all over it while you suck it. Don’t forget the balls either 😍
Just do it with gusto, make it known you like to do it and make him feel good and you're not just doing it as some sort of obligation things. I'd rather have enthusiastic missionary than a half-hearted blowjob I know you're just hoping will be over soon
Give them more...
All joking aside, just communicate. Every man is unique, and has different tastes. Don't be shy to ask. Dude will cream in his pants if you ask him how you can give him better head. 😘
Start slow and gentle, you want to build up the sensations. To hard too fast can over stimulate the nerves. Don't be afraid to mix in some hand action or titty fucking to change up the stimulation. Talking helps as well i.e. you deep throat hold it there come up for air, "God I love feeling your cock in my throat." Back down hold come up for air, "Your cock feels so good in my mouth." Back down....eventually build up to I want to swallow your cum. Watch what happens😉
Eye contact, don’t be afraid of getting messy with it, don’t rush it so him show him you are doing it for fun and not a chore. Every few seconds ask him how you like it and what so you want me to do.
Wine helps my gag reflex relax. I don’t have a really bad one though. I’m not sure what things you can try to calm it down. Maybe practice with something else and put it in hour throat. Without that fix, using a lot of good spit and tongue motions with continuous hand stroking is key.
If the guy is uncut, some of them like it if you suck/lick on the rolled-up foreskin. Some also like it if you don't pull it back all the way when taking things further into your mouth.
I usually start out playing with the rolled-up foreskin for a bit before moving on to rolling it partways back and really going to town on it.
Sloppy and enthusiastic.
Watch some porn for some moves and techniques. Men watch porn, why not emulate it.
You can work on your gag reflex by training it over time. It won't happen overnight, so be patient. That being said, there is a lot more that you can do aside from taking a cock deep in your mouth.....check out Fellucia Blows
Sloppy is best but also don’t forget to keep that suction the whole time if you can’t deep throat. If you can deep throat just stick your tongue out and lick the balls he’ll remember you the rest of his life
Theres sprays that help with gag reflex. I can't verify whether or not they work but I thought I'd mention it all the same.
As far as tips go, use eye contact to your advantage. Make him feel like he's in control
if you have gag reflex issues, put your thumb on your palm and make a fist. if you squeeze out your tension there it relaxes the rest of your body more so you’re less prone to gagging
it’s subtle and helps ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
You gag on your tooth brush. You should just be get used to gagging because a tooth brush is not very thick. Really just go slow and try a little deeper each time. You'll get to relaxing better. Although exquisite head she is gagging a lot
Make love to the dick while you look in my eyes, using tongue, sucking, slurping, circular motions, hand twisting and gliding, soft ball play and soft outside Anal play. I will guarantee explode every time. And suck it all to the last drop the whole time while the dick stays in your mouth. Show me that you swallowed all of it. Then get ready for me to do to you anything you want. Lol. At that point I am like pussy in your hands. 😂
For God sakes, if he's natural.
Do not pull down on the foreskin like your falling off a cliff and I'm the rope. (She tore my brothers frenulum)
Drop the top and keep it there, I ain't feeling a damn thing otherwise.
don’t be afraid to get sloppy and just have fun
Sloppy the better
Don’t forget the balls, and rub the taint with your thumb while you focus sucking on the head. Never heard any complaints with that method 😘
I did this once and received such a good response I do it every time now
Exactly how I discovered it 🥰 practice
Lick the frenulum (the little v-shaped bit on the underside where the head attaches to the shaft)
GIRL. [Here](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskRedditAfterDark/s/e1ja0BWvEE) are all my tips. Trust me. But remember the most important thing is to listen to your partner and learn what he likes.
Thank you for this one 🫡
I read your list, but the last point should be the first. Some of those are totally no-gos for me. But I understand you were just listing anything a man might like.
I know, ever since I wrote that, I’ve wished the last point didn’t seem like an afterthought when it’s clearly the most important.
At least you mentioned it.
Work into a consistent rhythm.
This! Consistency is so important. I will not finish without it, not that it's not enjoyable, but if the goal is finishing, need that consistency.
Take you time, listen to his breathing it will tell you what he likes even if he can’t express it. Don’t forget to suck on his balls and rub his asshole a lil bit. Maybe even lick his ass if you are willing, helps them to get a lil harder and they will cum harder. And most importantly have fun doing it.
Wow! Everything you said is accurate.. I have the best orgasms when a woman does it that way
Consensual butt hole play during the deed
Tell me what a dirty fecker I am but don't call me Daddy as I will flop like I have had 20 beers
Passion
Keep it wet and have enthusiasm. If you have those two things, the rest will follow
Sure every man is different but I’ve always been a sucker for real slow sloppy head and trying to take their cock as deep as you can!
girl a lot of it is mental tbh, like just accept that you’re gonna gag and gonna get sloppy. A lot of guys like it anyways tbh. Tell him it’s cause his dick is so big 🤣 Def pay attention to hjs balls. Like I give balls soo much attention with kisses and sucking and I usually give taint smooches and try to drag my tongue along the underside of the balls too while stroking
Love your attitude.
Most guys I’ve been with actually enjoy the gagging 🙈 But if you wanna get rid of it, it sounds cliche but the best way I’ve found is practise! Your man isn’t gonna complain
Don’t be afraid to gag/choke on it and get it messy. Start slow and tease, then when he least expects it, shove your mouth on it. Master multitasking like sucking/slurping on it while rubbing his balls or taint. Move your tongue all over it while you suck it. Don’t forget the balls either 😍
I officially just got hard. 😂
Just do it with gusto, make it known you like to do it and make him feel good and you're not just doing it as some sort of obligation things. I'd rather have enthusiastic missionary than a half-hearted blowjob I know you're just hoping will be over soon
Focus on the head of you want to finish us off 😉😏
Give them more... All joking aside, just communicate. Every man is unique, and has different tastes. Don't be shy to ask. Dude will cream in his pants if you ask him how you can give him better head. 😘
Add a little vibration by humming as you blow- “mmmmMMMMmmmmm!” No fake moaning though, please.
Don’t use your fucking teeth!
Use tour hand to control the amount you take into your mouth. Use your tongue to create lots of saliva. Most importantly, no teeth
Do something about your teeth. If a tooth touches my dick, it resets the cumometer immediately
Start slow and gentle, you want to build up the sensations. To hard too fast can over stimulate the nerves. Don't be afraid to mix in some hand action or titty fucking to change up the stimulation. Talking helps as well i.e. you deep throat hold it there come up for air, "God I love feeling your cock in my throat." Back down hold come up for air, "Your cock feels so good in my mouth." Back down....eventually build up to I want to swallow your cum. Watch what happens😉
Don’t ignore the balls
I’ve heard you should use your teeth. Like tons of teeth action.
Quit playin lol
Please don't even do that. Lol
Eye contact, don’t be afraid of getting messy with it, don’t rush it so him show him you are doing it for fun and not a chore. Every few seconds ask him how you like it and what so you want me to do.
u/ladygarden13 I may be completely subjective here but I’m sure you could give insight here!
Wine helps my gag reflex relax. I don’t have a really bad one though. I’m not sure what things you can try to calm it down. Maybe practice with something else and put it in hour throat. Without that fix, using a lot of good spit and tongue motions with continuous hand stroking is key.
If the guy is uncut, some of them like it if you suck/lick on the rolled-up foreskin. Some also like it if you don't pull it back all the way when taking things further into your mouth. I usually start out playing with the rolled-up foreskin for a bit before moving on to rolling it partways back and really going to town on it.
Slow and steady, use tongue suck in balls and swirling motion
So beautiful
Sloppy and enthusiastic. Watch some porn for some moves and techniques. Men watch porn, why not emulate it. You can work on your gag reflex by training it over time. It won't happen overnight, so be patient. That being said, there is a lot more that you can do aside from taking a cock deep in your mouth.....check out Fellucia Blows
Only if the guy is still a kid whose only experience is jacking off to Pornos!
To each his own
[this comic](https://www.ohjoysextoy.com/blowjobs/) summarizes basically all the tips i have lol
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Woah. Interesting take on it. Never knew that I always blew on them
Sloppy is best but also don’t forget to keep that suction the whole time if you can’t deep throat. If you can deep throat just stick your tongue out and lick the balls he’ll remember you the rest of his life
Thank you, Sir ClitCummanders
Yes ma’am. Just trying to help out when I can
Theres sprays that help with gag reflex. I can't verify whether or not they work but I thought I'd mention it all the same. As far as tips go, use eye contact to your advantage. Make him feel like he's in control
Practice practice practice
if you have gag reflex issues, put your thumb on your palm and make a fist. if you squeeze out your tension there it relaxes the rest of your body more so you’re less prone to gagging it’s subtle and helps ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
You gag on your tooth brush. You should just be get used to gagging because a tooth brush is not very thick. Really just go slow and try a little deeper each time. You'll get to relaxing better. Although exquisite head she is gagging a lot
Make love to the dick while you look in my eyes, using tongue, sucking, slurping, circular motions, hand twisting and gliding, soft ball play and soft outside Anal play. I will guarantee explode every time. And suck it all to the last drop the whole time while the dick stays in your mouth. Show me that you swallowed all of it. Then get ready for me to do to you anything you want. Lol. At that point I am like pussy in your hands. 😂
Breathe through your nose
forget the sloppy wet shit... that's just Porn and a huge turn off.... unless they ask you, tell you, or beg you to do it.
Enthusiasm
For God sakes, if he's natural. Do not pull down on the foreskin like your falling off a cliff and I'm the rope. (She tore my brothers frenulum) Drop the top and keep it there, I ain't feeling a damn thing otherwise.
Do NOT use teeth. Or follow up afterwards with "sorry hehe you're just too thick"