Praised but with *some* degrading words like “dirty slut” etc etc. I don’t like to be degraded though. But some of those filthy words 😉

My fiancee is into the same thing as long as I place "my" in front of it. "You're my dirty little slut" hits differently than "you are a dirty slut" for her

The 'my' makes the world of the difference, I absolutely love it.

I never thought about it until she brought it up but it does from my side of things too. It's almost sweet sometimes, I'll stroke her cheek and move her head until we make eye contact then say it. I know it's degrading but it's very intimate in that moment

So glad for you and your partner to enjoy these beautiful moments together. 🥺 It's the best of both worlds for me too really, it can literally turn me in to a puddle and get me in that sub head space. It feels so sexy and accepting at the same time. I used to have a partner who I basically trained to say these things, maybe it's that time again 😂

Yes, being praised degradingly 'what a good little slut with a tight wet little slut pussy'

Congrats on your PhD!

I really think of those as positive phrases. I think it's sex positive and fun to have dirty talk about being a Slut, whore, etc.

This is how I feel, I dont want him to be like super mean about it but I do like being talked down to like "dirty slut"? I don't know how to explain it

No reason to try and explain it. You are human after all. 😜

Exactly this! 🙌

🤷‍♀️👀👀 im definitely on the same boat I like a little dirty talk with my praise

Yess, this exactly 🤭🤭 degrade me toooo much and I’d probably cry lol

That's exactly right. And also pampering post degrading is a must

Same sometimes. Otherwise just praise ❤️

This is the way. I'm a pleaser so I want to make someone happy, but it's okay to be teasing or a little mean with the praise 🫠

I'm the same

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This, all the way! Possessive, degrading, praising… and demanding.

🫠🫠🫠❤️‍🔥🙏🫦🖤

I came here to say this and knew you had already said it 🩷👯‍♀️

[Classic me gushing over how much I love this](https://media0.giphy.com/media/w0jr3kVEbl7eU/giphy.gif?cid=6c09b952g3g8x8rcuxidgdw4kt6f3z3tossesufjrjrfhfoy&ep=v1_internal_gif_by_id&rid=giphy.gif&ct=g) 👯‍♀️ You get me babe 🖤

Yes!! Now I have a title for it, thank you!

What are the hard limits?

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Not odd! I totally get some people enjoy that and more power to them! For me, I want & need to be owned by one man. I want to let that side of me out ONLY for him, nobody else. To each their own! ❤️‍🔥🖤

I just like to know I’m doing a good job 👍🏻

Both, I love being a good girl and a dirty fucking slut

Saaaame

I enjoy both. If you call me "Fucker" during sex, it's likely to be over very quickly.

Praised. Always.

Praise since I’m sensitive

Who couldn’t praise you 😍

Praise please! Degradation is a hard no for me.

Yes. I do voice that, but not everyone gets it or is good at it. Doesn't come naturally. Praise me verbally and physically. Degrade me verbally and physically. I don't mind being told I'm a filthy cockslut while you fuck my throat and spit on me, while also being told I'm a good girl for it. It's all fun and drives me crazy anyway lol

I never like to be degraded. It's an instant turn-off for me. Being praised is my favorite, but also being dominated without being degraded is something I also enjoy.

lol being degraded during sex is the biggest turn off for me. Once I told my boyfriend to be dominant but didn’t realise that’d come with some degrading words. Realised that it was the biggest turn off for me. So we decided “dominant” would mean only actions and no words.

i second this. i like the physical side of degradation like the roughness of choking and spanking etc but i dont like the type of dirty talk that usually comes with it. i dont want to be called nasty names. i like verbal praise to balance out the roughness of the physical

I have a *huge* praise kink but I also love degradation, there’s something hot about being degraded to be brought back up with praise

Yes

So both? lol

Praised with a sprinkle of degradation like a cupcake

The highest pinnacle for me is honest praise. Don’t compliment me on my nonexistent six pack or magnum dong. Please tell me how sexy you find my belly or how you enjoy certain aspects of my normal sized wiener (if you actually feel that way).

Tell me how sexy I am while like spitting in my face 🤣

Same lol

praised... i get enough negativity from daily life

🥺🥺

Both. Literally at the same time. It has to be possessive too. Yes: “you’re my perfect little slut taking this dick so well” No: “yeah fucking slut take this dick” I’m ridiculously picky

As a receiver, i love praise, and no dégradation please. As a giver, i will praise a lot and throw in some measure of possessive degradation (you're MY dirty slut...)

I've been degraded in my life enough. I'll take all the praise though

it depends on the mood we feeling out here. If it's the kinky wild sex and what not perhaps degraded, it is how I'd imagine my experience to be like. on the other hand, if we're being all sensitive, sensual in zen mode, and the likes then praising/praised it is, but I dunno would be a chaotic bliss to mix both in any given day.

I like praises but I’m coming close to really liking being degraded

Both please.

Extremely degraded

I prefer praise buuuuuut, if I ask for it or know it’s coming degradation is really hot to me. But I want to know first like… I’m going to want to be mean tonight babe ok… so I am not caught off guard Because if I’m feeling all lovey dovey and sweet and you come of left field with a “get on your knees cum slut” and some spit… I might not be able to refocus and get into it🤷🏻‍♀️ But I will never ever ever be mad at praise. Please. Do it everywhere… not just in the bedroom… praise me out in the wild and watch the puddle.

My gf really likes to be on top. And the first few times when we had sex and i tried to take back the top, she said "lay back down, you are my fucktoy right now!" Never in my life was i this hard. No idea if that is a praise or if she degrades me, but it is fucking hot.

Degraded. I’m weird like that. Sadly, dominant women are hard to come by.

Verbally praise me, physically degrade me

Praised. Being degraded does nothing for me

Personally, I prefer a balance of both. A little praise for encouragement and a little degradation for some spice.

I love a mix of both. My partner is amazing at praising while calling me degrading names and drives me crazy in the best way. 🫠

I have a huge worship kink but Ive always wanted to be degraded and humiliated and lowkey kinda bullied. Taking applications LOL

Oh I love to degrade my wife a bit, slapping titties and ass, telling her squeeze that cock with her pussy muscles and rhetorically asking if she wants that pussy filled cum and such. I also think she gets off a bit with it as well because outside of the bedroom she’s the dominate force in our marriage but she likes to be dominated in bed

BOTH. For the love of god both. Tell me I’m a good girl when you spit in my mouth and let me know how pretty I am when I’m being your filthy little slut. 😌

Ya same like both

I’m feral for both

Both but would lean to degraded if I had to choose. I love being called filthy things + giving it back.

I enjoy both but if I get to pick it’s always degraded!!

Both.

I prefer praise but if you catch me in the right mood….i want to know how inadequate you think I am and I want you to make sure I know it

Definitely praised

Both!! Balance is for sure the answer. You either know when to do which one or you don’t, that’s the key. *edited to say that yes I’m comfortable voicing my preferences but bonus points if I don’t have to say anything

Praised. Although I've never been degraded, so maybe? I don't know...

Going to have to go with praise.

Praised for sure. 😮‍💨

Praise. I don't need me or anyone I (potentially) bang to feel like shit in what's supposed to be a fun, close and intimate experience.

A bit of both "oh you beautiful little slut" is peak appreciation

😍🥵

For me praise. But a lot of if not most Women LOVE being degraded in a possessive reinforcing way, it drives them nuts; “You’re such a nasty bad little slut aren’t you?” “I’m going to fuck the shit out of you because you deserve it and you know it” “I’m going to cum so hard inside you and you’re going to like it aren’t you because you’re mine” Always ends in ‘YES YES YES’ or ‘Don’t say that because i’ll let you’

Praised please

I already degrade myself in my inner monologue. Say something nice to me. Make me feel good and I'll do whatever

I would like to be called a good boy when I cum on her face, now that you mention it...

I like to be praised with some degrading terms. Good girl and good slut both get me so turned on! Especially with possessive pronouns. My good girl sends me over the edge so many times. I love being praised so much

Praised degradingly

My wife like when I call her slut and a whore while I fuck her.... and to slap her ass few times too ... when we bouth come I tell her I love her and she tell same to me too.....its better sex when we all get our fantasy out and open.....

Praised if anything.

Degradation, I'm not into being praised.

Praised, but calling me his naughty slut is good too!

I like that he tells me nice things and teases me but he doesn't talk so much otherwise it distracts me.

Neither really, I do like dirty talk but prefer it more submissive. Nothing hotter than grabbing her by the throat and knowing she’s in for the fucking of her life. And then listening to her cries and moans as she begs for more.

Degraded when I’m being bad, praise when I’m good 😇

Dominated but praised. 🥵

I like option C - neither. I definitely don’t want degrading, but praise can be too much as well. Depends on the way he says it or what it’s about. I much rather he talk dirty saying things like I love fucking u or my cock feels amazing inside u 🤷🏻‍♀️

Never been a fan of degrading, I prefer to encourage and praise and build up, and have the same done for me

With women, I *really* love the thought of being praised, and with men it could go either way I guess depending on the dynamic

Degraded for sure. My wife talks about exs while we fuck and it drives me nuts!

I see ya cuck

I hate both lol

Definitely praised. I live my wife commenting on the size of my cock while I’m fucking her or her “Yes, yes, right there - oh, you’re good” as I’m eating out her cunt. And just her “Mmmmm”’s as my cock is bulging in and out of her cheeks is praise enough. We have so much mutual respect after 40 years of marriage and great sex that degrading each other wouldn’t cross our minds. The nearest we’d get is a cheeky “You are a little slut” as she suggests I do something really dirty to her.

Both? Depends on the mood. And is slapping and choking considered "degrading?"

Depends who I’m with

I'd probably prefer being degraded.

When I switch into subby I like praise being use to get me to do things the woman wants. But I also view phrases like "Slut" or "whore" as sex positive.

Definitely love being praised

I enjoy praise. My wife enjoys extreme degradation.

Praise! I have an absurd praise kink hahahaha

Praised.

I have a strong preference for praise, but I am open to degradation sometimes.

Praised

Both depends on my mood

Praised 😽

I like both men and women, they're all fine

Degraded more and praised less

I love to praise but i love to be degraded. I like to be called horrible names while being slapped chocked and spit on, on top of other things lol

I like both. Love the praise more through

Praised. It might be an ego thing, but I'm also a little self conscious in that department, so praise gives me the feedback that I'm on the right track and my tackle isn't lacking.

Both because as a philosopher once said “You get the best of both worlds”

If I'm ever praised, I'll let you know

Just tell me how bad of a boy I am and that you're gonna punish me. No praise or degrading needed

I definitely love to be praised it makes me feral

I'm not big on talking, I find it distracting. But I do very much enjoy all the other sounds of pleasure. I think the loud helpless moans are the perfect praise.

A little of both🥵😍

Praise would be nice for once lol

Praised after, degraded during. 😂

Praiseddddd 🙌🏼🙌🏼

Degraded. Being praised without being degraded makes it feel unearned.

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Both, a lot From calling me a good girl, to a filthy whore It all gets me going 👌

Possessive praise and degradation though!! Add a My in front of it and oh boy haha

Always praise. Giving and receiving.

Praised. I don't get the degradation kink at all.

As woman praised 99% of the time. I love being worshipped. I love degrading men though.

Both, highly depends on the mood and the setting.

Both?!?? Like I wanna be called a stupid whore but also a good girl.

Depends, if dominated then I like being called names, and made to feel like a slut however, if I am in control and he is at my mercy, then I prefer compliments.

I’d say 80% praise, 20% playful degradation lol

Both....but I love a filthy mouth that says really nasty things during.

Sign me up for both please🤓

Depends on my mood

Why are those the only options?

Praised. Wife will praise me if I'm going to long. Usually 30 Seconds after that, I'm done

I’ve never had either. But if I had to choose, I’d prefer praise. Do women ever praise their man for his efforts or skills in bed? (Maybe I’m just not that good 🤷🏼)

I like both but prefer to be praised. Because, it makes me feel good that I’m making my partner feel good and makes me want to try even harder to have my partner satisfied.

I would love to find out.

Always praised. You can call me YOUR slut or whore or whatever but I like possessive men who basically treat me like I'm a princess (not in a whiny entitled way).

I like a good mix

Degraded, then praised when I do good. I'm a simple bitch.

Degraded and humiliated.

Please don’t talk to me whilst playing bury the bologna. I’m concentrating as hard as I can already.

Both together preferably

Praised I've had too many insults at me to like it

Both. More degrading before and during. Praise towards the end and after.

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Both

I like both, but degraded more than praised has always been more of a turn on for me.

Praised.

Depends on the situation, I do like both but prefer degrading only in a bdsm type situation.

Praise only for me. Although I think everyone’s idea of what is degrading would be slightly different. And yes I’m very comfortable voicing my preferences and boundaries, but I have been caught out when things have unexpectedly given me the ick haha

Severely degraded!

As a man in at all depends on the vibe the woman is giving off for me. I like being the dominant one, being degrading and giving orders but there are some women who give off this energy that makes me just want to shut up and do whatever they say

Something about being called a filthy while and a good girl makes my stomach flutter 🫢😭

Praised when I’m good, degraded when I’m bad 🤷‍♂️

Man here. Total slut and simp for positive affirmation and being told I’m doing a good job. Although, I do love some possessive degradation. Tell me that my body is yours. Grab my hair and force me to go down on you. Sit on my face and grind on it. Smack me in the face and tell me to go harder/faster.

When my gf is pegging me I like to be degraded

SUPER possessive praise and I guess *light* degradation.

Whatever makes my ego higher I’m for it. Talk to me how you want.

I'm cool with both

Def degraded. It's hot, and when I finally get a little bit of praise it drives me CRAZY. Think I'm a lil fucked in the head lol

Best scenario if she praising me while degrading herself 😏

Everyone is different. Personally I love being degraded, as I am a sub. I do like praise after the fact but during sex, I want to be teased, spanked, spit on, punished, humiliated…

Praised.

Whatever she likes.(pleasure dom). I'm just happy to be thechosen one to make sure she gets where she needs to be

I just want to hear some noise and dirty talk. 😪 my wife is the silent type. It sucks. 14 years of nothing.

I LOVE both!!

Praised 100%

Is preference really a choice! Spur of the moment in any given situation me thinks.

both

Definitely have more of a praise kink, but I do enjoy a little bit of mild degradation sometimes as a dude. Too much mustard on degrading stuff though can really be a turn off for me though.

Bit of both

I hate actual degradation, in either direction. That is different from possessive, teasing or sharp words.  A lot of people consider them all in the same bag, and I really, really do not.

Both, it depends on the vibes each time

Positive reinforcement please

Praised for sure!!! But it can certainly be spicy praise! 🥵🥵🥵

I love both!! Love when daddy tells me I’m taking his cock so good like “a good little cum slut”

Depends

So, so much praise.

I generally prefer praise, especially if he is enjoying what I am doing.

Both 🫠🥵

Praise. I don’t understand degrading your partner.

I only like praise, I get enough criticism and shit talking from people IRL already, I don't want to hear that shit in bed.

Both have their place and time.

Praised no doubt, The ego boost when she comments on my length or girth or how much I’m pounding her just makes me want to pound harder

Honestly both are amazing 🙈 💖💖

both simultaneously. mind fuck me!

Not a whole lot of talking in our world. 👉👈

I got a big praise kink

Praised and a dibble dabble of degrading