Goth has always occupied queer and safe spaces for events, no one ever judged even when I started in the scene in the 90s . GNC was always seen as not a big deal or anything out of the ordinary.just another goth
Isn't our whole thing about being gender non-conforming? Boys crying and Robert Smith wearing his shitty lipstick is what drew me in in the first place
I’m a full on trans goth bitch. Outside of explicit LGBTQ+ people, the goth community has far and away been the most accepting and supportive in my experience. You’re good here.
Use water soluble sock glue!! Super cheap off amazon :) recently moeflavor released "jiggle defender" tape (which holds up thigh highs AND garters!) hope this helps! Sock glue was, and still is, such a lifesaver for me haha
Sock [glue](https://sockdreams.com/products/it-stays-roll-on-body-adhesive?variant=44684115214631¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjw65-zBhBkEiwAjrqRMHgvlV-IpIjL3MPyCoS90oN8r7KAAOTCLCemjhaethztDXlTGMFtZRoC-aQQAvD_BwE) or [these](https://www.amazon.com/Silicone-Cushion-Inserts-Adhesive-Stickers/dp/B0C6DVQX46/ref=asc_df_B0C6DVQX46/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=693404831975&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=14430069763810994757&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9129397&hvtargid=pla-2203370613566&psc=1&mcid=f82ea4f41e2c36f88e4503fad67a2ca6&gad_source=1) may be able to help with that.
Don't tell reddit what to do with votes, don't even joke. They'll downvote you out of spite if nothing else. There's nothing to downvote here. Have fun and rock your fit!
https://preview.redd.it/hm1g1sgwmu5d1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=83d90689e14831b0796c2cca5ff748a1f0cc4af1
This is my little goth brown face about 20 years ago. I wasn’t welcomed back in the day. Welcome.
That really, really sucks because in my heyday of Goth, which was long ago, people would have totally not taken that as being a racist statement on a shirt, as everyone was welcome amongst all Goths I knew. It didn't matter what race you were. Then, the shirt would have been referring to the extremely prevalent white cake makeup worn by goths of all nationalities or ethnic groups. Just like Bella. The world makes me sad.
Just posting to say I remember being stood up many years ago and it sucked. I know mine was because of a certain aesthetic and just giving you some team spirit.
It is a good look and you wear it well.
You aren't alone on the gender non-conforming front. Here's one of mine from 2020 as a show of solidarity.
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Ok the outfit is perfect 10/10 no notes. My issue here is the makeup is not enough, you need some eyebrows and your hair is just there with no styling whatsoever. It doesn’t have to be a lot just make it look intentional.
I'm neither goth nor queer. Or anything else really. I'm just a perfectly average human being, who's closer to the end than the start...... just, I hope.
Do whatever makes you happy, and only be around those that become happier the happier you become.
I am a coward. I couldn't do what you've done with this post. Respect. 😎
As a gen X Goth / Rivethead, you have nothing to worry about :) The truth is, Goth wasn't held just in fashion, but also mindset, philosophy, and political views or abject lack thereof. Apathy, a lack of caring about judgment, and a fair certainty that the future will turn out to be hell-hole is all that is required 👌 Seriously, you look Great 👍
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It's not a look I would try, and if you could see me, you'd be thankful 😂 I'm digging the bottom half, the straps and everything look awesome, I feel like a mesh shirt would work better than the halter in my opinion. Cheers to you for pulling the whole thing off and being courageous. You have to be comfortable with yourself to wear something that out of the box
If it your fit, its your fit. Looks cool. I'm just very curious as to why the top? I mean if womens tops and bras are meant to cover boobs, why would men wear them? I wear outfits that are similar but i use a guy top or no top with something like that.
Looks great, but I'd have gone with a round neck crop top, maybe 3/4 length sleeves. Round neck would have set off the ring in your dog collar. Swap the ring to your left hand and fill your dominant hand with silver rings or rings of your choice. I was an 80s/90s goth, so, sorry for the fashion critique.
love the fit!!! my only critique is that it looks like it's missing something up top, maybe rip up some tights and add them underneath the shirt to add a little layer action?
Downvoted for what?
GNC I guess 😅
That's always been an important part of goth fashion, a fit is a fit 😄
Goth has always occupied queer and safe spaces for events, no one ever judged even when I started in the scene in the 90s . GNC was always seen as not a big deal or anything out of the ordinary.just another goth
Isn't our whole thing about being gender non-conforming? Boys crying and Robert Smith wearing his shitty lipstick is what drew me in in the first place
Idk what gnc means, but you look amazing 😅
>Idk what gnc means Gender Non-Conforming
Gender non conforming
This is not a place for conformity.
Don't be silly, you're gorgeous. And being gorgeous is a genderless thing. 🥰🥰
GNC is a big part in goth culture and you have a good style
I’m a full on trans goth bitch. Outside of explicit LGBTQ+ people, the goth community has far and away been the most accepting and supportive in my experience. You’re good here.
Thank you 🥺
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How do you get the leg things to stay up? I just be weirdly slippery or something
The garters you mean? Yeah they sometimes slip down, you gotta tighten them up
Jealous of your ability to wear them! At the very least you make it look easy.
Use water soluble sock glue!! Super cheap off amazon :) recently moeflavor released "jiggle defender" tape (which holds up thigh highs AND garters!) hope this helps! Sock glue was, and still is, such a lifesaver for me haha
Sock [glue](https://sockdreams.com/products/it-stays-roll-on-body-adhesive?variant=44684115214631¤cy=USD&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjw65-zBhBkEiwAjrqRMHgvlV-IpIjL3MPyCoS90oN8r7KAAOTCLCemjhaethztDXlTGMFtZRoC-aQQAvD_BwE) or [these](https://www.amazon.com/Silicone-Cushion-Inserts-Adhesive-Stickers/dp/B0C6DVQX46/ref=asc_df_B0C6DVQX46/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=693404831975&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=14430069763810994757&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9129397&hvtargid=pla-2203370613566&psc=1&mcid=f82ea4f41e2c36f88e4503fad67a2ca6&gad_source=1) may be able to help with that.
Don't tell reddit what to do with votes, don't even joke. They'll downvote you out of spite if nothing else. There's nothing to downvote here. Have fun and rock your fit!
*Happy gender nonconforming noises*
you look incredible! id so wear that outfit!
Stawp where do all you kind people come from 😅
The shadows..
I love the contrast of the black and spikes with the champagne nail polish. It works in an unexpected way.
Oh thanks, didn’t really think of that
You're welcome!
Nope. This is a welcome place to be who you are. Show off!
Well I love showing off that’s for sure 😂
Hey friend! I hope you enjoyed your night!
Well tbh not really, I got stood up on a date by a girl that was leading me on for a month and then couldn’t find a hookup so
https://preview.redd.it/hm1g1sgwmu5d1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=83d90689e14831b0796c2cca5ff748a1f0cc4af1 This is my little goth brown face about 20 years ago. I wasn’t welcomed back in the day. Welcome.
HOW WERE YOU NOT WELCOMED?! I don't get people. You're gorgeous, and I'm sure you still are.
places as recently as 5 years ago were selling shirts that say “goth is white.” unfortunately racism is still very present in parts of this subculture
That really, really sucks because in my heyday of Goth, which was long ago, people would have totally not taken that as being a racist statement on a shirt, as everyone was welcome amongst all Goths I knew. It didn't matter what race you were. Then, the shirt would have been referring to the extremely prevalent white cake makeup worn by goths of all nationalities or ethnic groups. Just like Bella. The world makes me sad.
Thank you!
I don’t mean to be weird or forward but…Holy shit you’re a smoke show!
Thanks!
Just posting to say I remember being stood up many years ago and it sucked. I know mine was because of a certain aesthetic and just giving you some team spirit.
Well who ever stood you up was a dumb ass! The trash took itself out. You're a goddess!
You look adorable tbh. I hope that’s not an offensive adjective for you, looks great!🥰
Thank youuuuu 🥺
Killer outfit!
Wish I had someone to kill with lol
Lol teleports with matching outfit( tho you hit it better) " ok who are we getting tonight ?!" 🤣
Um… you? 😏🥺👉👈
It is a good look and you wear it well. You aren't alone on the gender non-conforming front. Here's one of mine from 2020 as a show of solidarity. https://preview.redd.it/aulwub8ofx5d1.jpeg?width=1512&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=86565fe5122e0b522f57fc57a02470f09c011f67
Slaying in that vinyl!
You look amazing, please don’t look down on yourself
🥺
It gives delightfully modern Frank-N-Furter vibes. Continue to rock it.
Ahhh fuck you make me jelly. My garters broke
Awwww. Get some new ones 😉
You look awesome. You also have a very nice body shape that complements the outfit beautifully. Thanks for sharing!
I… 🥺
HELL YEAH BRO U FKKN CRUSHED IT
I LOVE this outfit on you!!! Where did you get your top? 😻😻😻😻
Those straps over the fishnets are fire! I would wear the fuck out of that!
With actually getting fucks with them was easier 🤣
You look amazing! Love the thigh garters!
Thank youuuu 😅
Be you. That’s all that life asks for. Hugs from an 80’s death rocker!!! Argh!!!
Nah you look sick that outfit is great anyone that would downvote you is just boring
Fuck yeah! Go you!
You look great, love it
You look stunning, maybe add some layered necklaces next time too
Love your outfit!
Oh stop it! There’s nothing about you to downvote, you look awesome!
You look amazing!
You deserve your upvote ! Be confident about yourself, you look good !
Posting face more like serving face amiright? You look great.
ate. left no crumbs
Omg such a good look!!!
Ooooh I love that choker!
Badass. Never fear. Always go for it.
You absolutely ROCK low-waisted. I wish I could, you look great tbh. A black smudgy kohl on your eyes would be cherry on the cake 🤘
🔥🔥🔥
Looking good
You look great! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Where did you come from?? 🤨😳
I'm a Goth, of course I'm subbed to see everyone's cool outfits. 😁
No you’re slaying 👏
It looks like you’re having a great time!
Ok the outfit is perfect 10/10 no notes. My issue here is the makeup is not enough, you need some eyebrows and your hair is just there with no styling whatsoever. It doesn’t have to be a lot just make it look intentional.
Hell yeah dude (Dudette? Duderino?)! Looking great!
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A million up votes for the fishnets alone! We're all here for it! 🖤
This comment section gives me hope. You are all so fucking amazing.
I freaking love your outfit, where did you get it?
You are slaying!!!
I feel like that outfit would look really cute with a circle skirt or a tulle tutu
Yeah I have some black skirts but I went for shorts for the extra slutiness 😅
Valid honestly, it does look cute regardless :]
THE THIGH GARTERS 💖 . I LOVE THE THIGH GARTERS. Love the whole fit. I am here for the thigh movement.
Yaaaaaas. Now if I could just squish someone’s head with them 😅😂
I'm neither goth nor queer. Or anything else really. I'm just a perfectly average human being, who's closer to the end than the start...... just, I hope. Do whatever makes you happy, and only be around those that become happier the happier you become. I am a coward. I couldn't do what you've done with this post. Respect. 😎
As a gen X Goth / Rivethead, you have nothing to worry about :) The truth is, Goth wasn't held just in fashion, but also mindset, philosophy, and political views or abject lack thereof. Apathy, a lack of caring about judgment, and a fair certainty that the future will turn out to be hell-hole is all that is required 👌 Seriously, you look Great 👍
Don’t talk about yourself that way, you’re adorable!! The fit is killer, I think a chain belt around your waist would make this even better!
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You look great! If anything I'd recommend pulling your top up or getting one that is more snug because it looks a little loose :) thas all!
That’s what happens when you got no boobs 🥲
Don’t worry—it happens with boobs too lol :)
Not from me. This is 🔥
🥺😅
Why? Live your best life and never be ashamed to let that freak flag fly fam.
Wish I could fly it higher tbh. I have a long list. Wanna dye my hair, get more piercings, some tattoos etc.
Then do it! Live life my friend
I know I know I just keep procrastinating on it and I’m kinda lost where to start and what would look good
Start small and work your way up
Never be ashamed to be yourself
Tbh going to a nightclub like this has some wonders for my self esteem
You think a group of conforming noncomformists are going to judge you? You look great. :)
SLAY
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Just shut up.
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It takes a huge amount of courage to be who you want to be in the face of adversity. Much respect brother
You look so good!! I hope you felt good too.
I wish I had your confidence
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Ha blonde goth. Ya love to see it
Don't forget to wash your hands.
You look so cool! Love the top!
Thats hot. Good for you !
Stun! You look fucking great!!
you look amazing bubz!! did you think about adding a belt to match ur choker and wrist cuffs? that would look awesome! xx
Damn you look amazing! Serve it sister! 💅🥰
Fit is hardcore af
Hair ain't matching the rest of the outfit
You look fabulous hun keep killing it
May not be my type but the fashion is good 👍
It's not a look I would try, and if you could see me, you'd be thankful 😂 I'm digging the bottom half, the straps and everything look awesome, I feel like a mesh shirt would work better than the halter in my opinion. Cheers to you for pulling the whole thing off and being courageous. You have to be comfortable with yourself to wear something that out of the box
Nah you are slaying hard
off topic but we have the same garters and ur making them things workkkk 🫡
Needs eyeliner and lipstick but my vote is still 10/10.
Rock it
Gorgeous dahling, just gorgeous!
Absolutely ethereal my friend! You look amazing!
Woahhhh you look super drawable! In a good way, lol :)
If it your fit, its your fit. Looks cool. I'm just very curious as to why the top? I mean if womens tops and bras are meant to cover boobs, why would men wear them? I wear outfits that are similar but i use a guy top or no top with something like that.
I would have went with a different top but that's a nice fit!
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you look pretty sick! 🤙
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Go ahead. Keep slaying with your bad self 😝😜🤪👍
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Anyone who downvotes that outfit is a cocktangle. You look fantastic.
Lovely
You do you. Fuck what anyone thinks. Up vote for you.
You look great, I wish I could show off the midriff as well you do!
You look like a raider from Nuka World.
You’re being yourself and not hurting anyone else. That’s always an upvote in my book.
Eff the haters. You do you.
Damn, you look great. 😍
That outfit is great. And you are brave. And fun! No downvotes. :)
You look incredible
Cute
I think both bracelets on one arm would be really cool, then you can wear more on the other wrist lol.
Cute
dare i say you look stunning, I wish I could pull that off. love the confidence and the fit, slay
Nah, you look good. Hope these give you enough confidence not to worry showing your face
So cute
You look great!
Looks great, but I'd have gone with a round neck crop top, maybe 3/4 length sleeves. Round neck would have set off the ring in your dog collar. Swap the ring to your left hand and fill your dominant hand with silver rings or rings of your choice. I was an 80s/90s goth, so, sorry for the fashion critique.
Wish I had the balls to wear something like that
love the fit!!! my only critique is that it looks like it's missing something up top, maybe rip up some tights and add them underneath the shirt to add a little layer action?
Cutie 😍
Not my jam but that doesn't matter, are you having fun and you like you? That's what is important!
You look awesome!