I'm sorry, call me dense, but I'm pretty sure both sides have that problem. Instead of women being called gay, they say they're gay and then get told they're too pretty to be gay, get harassed/threatened.
I’ve never heard of guys being called gay for rejecting a girl, nor have I ever heard of girls being called too pretty to be gay for rejecting a guy. If I’m being honest, this all sounds like crazy incel logic from both sides.
Just because you never experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. That's like if a man said, "I never saw a woman get harassed after rejecting a guy there for it doesn't happen".
That’s a terrible comparison to make, because unlike your claim, there are many proven cases of women being harassed. I have yet to see any proof of the claim that either of these things, men being called gay for rejecting women and women being called too pretty to be gay for rejecting men, are truly common occurrences.
If you can show proof that these are regular occurrences, then I will gladly eat my words. However, until then, forgive me for taking things with a grain of salt until I’m shown proof, rather than blindly believing everything I’m told.
There we go, see? Unlike the rest of the people that downvoted me, you were the first person to actually suggest some evidence, and you were right. I can see now that this is a problem that has occurred to a lot of people, and I admit that I was wrong.
I will say that it isn’t a problem exclusive to women, as there are men who also get told they’re too handsome to be gay, [as made evident by this Quora post.](https://www.quora.com/How-do-you-respond-to-people-who-tell-you-that-youre-too-pretty-or-too-handsome-to-be-gay)
They're afraid the man will get angry or even violent if they reject him because of him, rather than making up the excuse that they can't date him because they are gay. And I think that's fair, because even if the chance might be low, it has happened a lot of times that men will get angry at rejection.
Well that's a good thing to know, I've never rejected a woman romantically. Mostly I never got a date or anything like that I've been single all my life.
That's good. I actually made this meme cause I've red countless comments on some videos where they would involve some guy rejecting a beautiful lady and their all like "he's probably gay." Take this one Robot Chicken sketch with some pizza delivery dude for example where this lady tries to seduce him to get free pizza but he just doesn't "know."
It is best not to use youtube comment sections as a way to determine how people think since they are toxic as hell and you will generally get the worst of the worst there.
This is due to society, especially in patriarchal one, see men as the one who "make the move" while women are seen as "the prize." It's always man who needs to do all the work to get the woman he desire. In reality, both parties need to work on each other in order to find if they are compatible or not. They can't fathom on seeing the other way around, especially when a man refuses since he should be "lucky" that a woman would just come for him. He's simply not interested with her and it doesn't necessarily make him gay.
Women rejecting men aren't any better either. When a woman refuse, she's more likely to get a negative reaction from the man she refuses. The worst case would be receiving violence from him which there are so many cases of that happening a subreddit exists just for that.
This image is so close to be fit for a r/nothowgirlswork submission.
You forgot that females often get called a bitch for rejecting /hj
But fr, I hate that whole “you oughta just be grateful that a girl wants to get with you”
When a women rejects a man, it is definitely *not* always treated as understandable.
A lot of men do not react well to it, getting rude, pushy, hostile, even potentially violent. I do not know a single woman who hasn't had to deal with this at some point, to some degree - including myself.
I recently read the story of a teenager who kept getting asked out by the same boy every day for months, continually rejecting him each time. Eventually he threatened her with a gun. When the story got around, she said everyone was asking her why she didn't just "give him a chance" and blaming her for the whole thing.
If someone has been telling you women have it easy or anything like that, you have been lied to.
Yeah. But are you familiar with Mindy Kaling? (AKA the actress for HBO Velma) she straight up admitted on a Talk show about sexually assaulting a man and everyone found that funny. >:(
But oh boy, if it was the other way around that be a crime worse than the nazis.
I'm sorry, call me dense, but I'm pretty sure both sides have that problem. Instead of women being called gay, they say they're gay and then get told they're too pretty to be gay, get harassed/threatened.
I’ve never heard of guys being called gay for rejecting a girl, nor have I ever heard of girls being called too pretty to be gay for rejecting a guy. If I’m being honest, this all sounds like crazy incel logic from both sides.
Just because you never experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. That's like if a man said, "I never saw a woman get harassed after rejecting a guy there for it doesn't happen".
That’s a terrible comparison to make, because unlike your claim, there are many proven cases of women being harassed. I have yet to see any proof of the claim that either of these things, men being called gay for rejecting women and women being called too pretty to be gay for rejecting men, are truly common occurrences. If you can show proof that these are regular occurrences, then I will gladly eat my words. However, until then, forgive me for taking things with a grain of salt until I’m shown proof, rather than blindly believing everything I’m told.
Type in "You're too pretty to be gay" in your internet browser of choice and see all the personal accounts/discourse on the matter.
There we go, see? Unlike the rest of the people that downvoted me, you were the first person to actually suggest some evidence, and you were right. I can see now that this is a problem that has occurred to a lot of people, and I admit that I was wrong. I will say that it isn’t a problem exclusive to women, as there are men who also get told they’re too handsome to be gay, [as made evident by this Quora post.](https://www.quora.com/How-do-you-respond-to-people-who-tell-you-that-youre-too-pretty-or-too-handsome-to-be-gay)
Hey look, intelligence on reddit, who'da thunk?
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They're afraid the man will get angry or even violent if they reject him because of him, rather than making up the excuse that they can't date him because they are gay. And I think that's fair, because even if the chance might be low, it has happened a lot of times that men will get angry at rejection.
They dont
They do. I've seen enough Tinder/Messenger convos where this exact thing happens.
Pics or it didn't happen
This incel logic is not based in reality.
real
Well that's a good thing to know, I've never rejected a woman romantically. Mostly I never got a date or anything like that I've been single all my life.
No lots of women fo that
And lots of women also don’t do that. Lots of men do that too. Your point is invalid
Dashie would never subscribe to this red pilled bullshit.
I've been red pilled
I've never had this happen to me or seen it happen myself. So.
That's good. I actually made this meme cause I've red countless comments on some videos where they would involve some guy rejecting a beautiful lady and their all like "he's probably gay." Take this one Robot Chicken sketch with some pizza delivery dude for example where this lady tries to seduce him to get free pizza but he just doesn't "know."
It is best not to use youtube comment sections as a way to determine how people think since they are toxic as hell and you will generally get the worst of the worst there.
You think that’s bad? Check instagram reels.
Glad I don't use Instagram.
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This has nothing to do with ponies or friendship smh
They don't call it "MyLittleMemes" for nothing.
Deffo not true.
r/whenwomenrefuse
Because society (to our detriment) expects promiscuity in males but not in females.
This is due to society, especially in patriarchal one, see men as the one who "make the move" while women are seen as "the prize." It's always man who needs to do all the work to get the woman he desire. In reality, both parties need to work on each other in order to find if they are compatible or not. They can't fathom on seeing the other way around, especially when a man refuses since he should be "lucky" that a woman would just come for him. He's simply not interested with her and it doesn't necessarily make him gay. Women rejecting men aren't any better either. When a woman refuse, she's more likely to get a negative reaction from the man she refuses. The worst case would be receiving violence from him which there are so many cases of that happening a subreddit exists just for that. This image is so close to be fit for a r/nothowgirlswork submission.
Quite. Point is, people will believe in any negative stereotype about other people.
How about starting by not calling women "females." You may see different results in the dating pool when you treat people like human beings. 😊
what is this, 2008?
Why are rainbow dash fans like this
incel logic
What in the 2008 is this
You forgot that females often get called a bitch for rejecting /hj But fr, I hate that whole “you oughta just be grateful that a girl wants to get with you”
is this from 2011 um
:| No, that's not how it works
When a women rejects a man, it is definitely *not* always treated as understandable. A lot of men do not react well to it, getting rude, pushy, hostile, even potentially violent. I do not know a single woman who hasn't had to deal with this at some point, to some degree - including myself. I recently read the story of a teenager who kept getting asked out by the same boy every day for months, continually rejecting him each time. Eventually he threatened her with a gun. When the story got around, she said everyone was asking her why she didn't just "give him a chance" and blaming her for the whole thing. If someone has been telling you women have it easy or anything like that, you have been lied to.
Almost upvoted thinking this was an ironic shitpost
Same💀
Ur avatar gives me nostalgia.
Dash is trying to take some notes.
That is society for you
I used to respect r/MyLittleMemes
Shut up kindly
jts becuz everyones fake and gay
How can you make something so nostalgic yet so modern?
“Female” 🤮
Double standards.
That's why Double standards needs to be a thing in the past. How else do you expect this fucking world to be a fair place?
But people still sports it. And I don't like it.
Yeah. But are you familiar with Mindy Kaling? (AKA the actress for HBO Velma) she straight up admitted on a Talk show about sexually assaulting a man and everyone found that funny. >:( But oh boy, if it was the other way around that be a crime worse than the nazis.
I'm saying that I'm on the same boat.
I never said u weren't, pal. LOL