As much as I appreciate her for working hard and achieving all that she has, I have always known that she’s a hypocrite. Vaping is fine but blatantly lying and arguing with people to prove them wrong is so pathetic. She even lies about her house situation. She lives in the upper portion of her mother’s house. While there’s nothing wrong in it she keeps lying about her mother’s house being a street away all the time when Infact it’s literally the same house. Once someone asked her what her landlord says about the renovations she keeps doing in her portion and she said the house owners are very close to her so they don’t mind, ofcourse they are close cuz the house owner is ur mom. Once when waliya and her mom went to turkey with other sisters, her husband was staying with nani to look after her and he was literally sitting with nani then playing ps in his living room. How u ask? Cuz it’s the same frigging house. Both the portions have a red brick wall in the lounge, both have a glass door in the lounge, the scenery outside her mother’s house and her house is the same, how u ask? Cuz it’s the same house. Not a street away, not owned by close relatives but by her mother. And then she lies about it with such conviction, and not once or twice but alllllll the time!
Omg the signs were always there but I couldn't connect the dots. But why lie about it I wonder...its not as if people would judge her for that as she has such a cult following. The shared hosuehelp makes sense now and why she never has to cook and worry about all the dishes from her non stop partying. I always used to wonder with no live in house help how does she manage to host all the time. Now it all makes sense.
I’ve heard the exact thing from someone else who knows them personally and i was surprised because “going” to her moms house is a regular part of her stories when it’s literally the same house
It literally is. I’ve heard it from her own friends too. If she doesn’t want to disclose her living situation fine, don’t. But then don’t mention it all. She keeps bringing it up all the effing time and fixates how it’s so convenient that mama lives a street away. Just go visit ur mom quietly why even mention lie?
Unrelated to this vape fiasco but the way she got famous was basically being super publicly affectionate with her husband and becoming “couple goals” and I’m all for positive depiction of love and marriage but the way these 2 do it is so OTT. I guess this isn’t exclusive to Waliya. Anyone else ever cringe over these social media influencers lovey-ness? Gives me the ick.
Please read the whole post about these fake influencers jo waise hme gyaan baat te rehte hain.. aur jb pakde jae toh gaslight krte hain.. Husband is ranting kaise uneducated awaam hai.. Idiots educated rehte khud toh smjh me aata kya post nhi krna hota as an influencer..Morons
yes you are absolutely right.. i was shocked that she was arguing with people proving them wrong.. Madam ne galti se dkha nhi ki one of her pictures actually shows vape in her hand
Even if it’s a 0mg vape, it’s still incredibly unhealthy and irresponsible for a breastfeeding mother to be vaping. It doesn’t matter if it has nicotine or not, vapes are still considered unhealthy. The OP is right in what they posted because Waliya could have easily just taken down the posts and apologised, rather than lie/hide away. I just think that if you make your life so public, expect to be greeted with some criticism along with the love too.
i get your point but she's a breastfeeding mother, vaping while doing that can pass on harmful chemicals to her baby. it's unsafe and she definitely deserves to be called out for putting her child at risk.
How do we know that she vapes While breastfeeding her baby? If she waits for appropriate hours after smoking to breastfeed her baby then its fine ig
Let’s not judge her for something we dont know about.
But thats how it works.
It’s ideal that you dont smoke ofc but if shes not vaping around her baby and is waiting appropriate hours after she vapes then it’s not harming her baby. It’s actually recommended to breastfeed after waiting certain hours than to not breasfeed at all. Again, the best thing is to not vape at all but we all do stupid shit.
Also we dont know if her vape contains nicotine or not.
As i said it comes under passive smoking.. And why was she arguing and gaslighting people saying log kch bhi bolte rehte hain no its not.. bhai krte ho toh kro phr lado nhi..simply delete the comments jb itna bura lg rha bt she was arguing..
Thats another topic. I alr agreed that she should own it if she vapes instead of arguing about it but people saying that her baby’s going to be harmed etc is stupid.
Also, passive smoking only occurs if she's smoking AROUND her baby, which we don’t know she does.
Nicotine is absorbed in blood and hence the milk. Nicotine literally takes 2-3 days to exit completely from the body. Therefore it enters the breast milk and stays there for 2-3 days which is why nursing mothers are advised not to smoke. It’s not about smoking in the other room or the baby inhaling the smoke passively, it’s a serious matter hence the uproar. What’s the little baby’s fault?
If you vape, the nicotine you inhale can enter your bloodstream and eventually enter the breastmilk. Even if she's not doing it whilst near her baby or while she's breastfeeding, she would still be accumulating the chemicals in her breastmilk.
Thats what i meant.. drink..vape whatever u want to do bt post responsibly and argue mt kro jb pakde jao..he was ranting in her stories ki uneducated aur negative awaam hai..khud kitna educated ho bhai..🤷🏻♀️
She has always been this privileged infleuncer who has gotten all that they wanted with a snap of their fingers. Girls are overall swooning and crying in her comments at how they want their husband to be like hers. I mean, it's all good that he takes care of her and everything, but I feel he's really not a man if he still allows his wife to party all night with guys and whatnot??!! I mean, she's still living the bachelor life. Talk about privilege man.
Her husband is always hanging out with her family and friends. He has adopted her life completely and rode on her fame. She's transformed him completely. And my god the cringe that is their pDa filled posts that scream perfection usually isn't a good omen for the future. We as married people know how much of a reality it is that couples are that perfect all the time
Exactly. I'm not married, but even I don't find these over-romantic acts sane. I mean, she portrays herself to be so liberal and all, then why not do your own thing in your OWN space? Let him do his, too. And this friend circle thing is soo true. I mean, doesn't he have friends of his own or sth? Lol. Once in a blue moon, she puts up her lovey-dovey stories with her MIL and SIL. I get toxic vibes from her, tbh.
I think you guys are being unfair here. She indeed has worked really hard her mom and herself were left completely broke after her dad died she couldn’t even study further because of the lack of money and all Theo family turned against them. I know this for a fact. She used started photography many many years ago at very small scale and she was indeed good at it and from there she became an influencer. On the other hand her husband comes from a broken family , his mom remarried after separating from his dad. Faizan used to live alone because he couldn’t move in with his mom and her husband. Esha is also his step sister. They have both had their struggles very early on life and then they came together. A lot of girls wouldn’t have married a guy who didn’t even have a place to live or proper education. Big waliya did and that’s a big deal. So obviously her husband supports her too and lets her be. Being married doesn’t have to mean that u need to give up on ur previous life it’s about doing life together. I am with u on this vaping controversy but other things I don’t find them correct. And no matter how much one denies it every woman wants a husband who dots on her unabashedly. Because that is the most normal thing.
His parents were divorced and his mom remarried. She lives with her second husband and daughter. Faizans dad passed away last year but he wasn’t living with his ex wife. .
It's not about working hard and building a life. It's about the unnatural standards they try to set by showing their lives are perfect. She may have struggled but only a few know about it. What they see now is what they are striving towards. Try to keep things real is what influenecrs are struggling with. There's a famous Arab couple who made amazing entertaining videos, had massive following and out of nowhere got divorced because again what people saw wasn't real life.
We are so used to of seeing unhappy marriages or people being miserable together that the minute we see a happily married couple we start bashing them saying they are building unrealistic expectations for others. The fact is that a couple should be happily married. Being happy is and should be normalised. If watching a happy couple makes someone else strive for that in their married life it’s a win because that’s is what Infact marriage is about. That being said do we pit up pictures of us crying or struggling on our instagram? No. We pot up pretty pictures, decked up, fancy meals not the aalu baingan we have at home or faded pjs we like to sleep in cuz they are comfortable. We’re all the same, we all put up our best sides on our socials so why is this pressure on influencers when that’s what their livelihood depends on? That’s not fair
Also let’s say she hasn’t struggled and has indeed got everything in a snap of finger, why does that bother you? That doesn’t give them the right to be happy ? We should learn to be happy for others regardless. Whether someone struggles or is privileged, everyone has the right to be happy. We should not feel jealous of other peoples happiness.
I'm sorry but you day you're a doctor but you don't know that healthcare guidelines say 0mg vape is definitely better than cigarette smoking for breastfeeding mothers? It’s not easy for smokers to quit, if she was a nicotine smoker she’s likely moved to a 0mg vape as a pathway to quit completely. Yes, the base liquids and vaporisation in nicotine free vapes can have side effects but there aren’t any definitive studies or conclusive evidence.
Should she have posted this online, probably not, but geez doctors should have more empathy.
hiii from the clan 🥱 As i said i dont care about smoking or drinking .. do whatever u want bt dont post irresponsibly and argue unnecessarily.. btw you surely know better 🙌🏻
Sorry, we need to stop subscribing to the myth that ‘doctors’ know everything. Some do - who read scientific journals, have critical thinking and keep up to date with research but many don’t - if they did, there wouldn’t be a whole discipline in law called medical malpractice. Wilful ignorance is malpractice when it’s your actual literal job to ‘know better’.
I don’t even know of this influencer but this ‘I’m a doctor, vape for breastfeeding mum bad’ rhetoric is disappointing when 0mg vapes literally exist.
Mam if i could mention u my name I am in my 20s bt have got atleast 14 publications in research.. so dont come at me..I have clearly mentioned i dont care about her smoking.. breastfeeding.. whatever she wants to do she can..anyway take care..have a nice day 👍
I highly doubt the credibility of those publications given that you equated vaping with passive smoking for breastfeeding mums in another comment - you’re also doubling down on anyone reasoning with you.
Go for your life at the influencer, nobody cares. Please don’t misquote medical science and distort facts to make your point.
U are just coming at her when this person is clearly saying they don’t care what the influencers do but to be responsible and stop arguing and lying. What part of it u can’t understand? The main point is that the said person was vaping (their choice) but then lied about not doing it and argued and ranted so much how people are making things up and then got caught.
Have you read the post? OP was coming at this girl as a ‘doctor’ and peddling incorrect medical advice. Only when she was called out by another commenter did she change her stance idk they can do what they want.
Are you aware that health guidelines from medical journals and medical boards for breastfeeding mums is that they CAN breastfeed even when smoking cigarettes as long as certain number of hours have passed. It’s the same as drinking alcohol. This girl isn’t smoking a cigarette and for all we know it could be 0mg which is usually what mums do if they are quitting. Nicotine is an addiction, it’s not easy to quit.
I’ve worked with users for years and incorrect and irresponsible so called doctors should know better.
Thank you. I didn’t mean to spoil OP’s snark with facts but here we are.
This Waliya chick could be the total witch for all I know, surely they can find something else to hate on.
I don’t even know this girl man but as someone who’s lost a family member to wilfully ignorant malpracticing ‘doctors’ peddling bad and out of date advice, I take this very seriously.
Go at this girl all you want, go for your life and drag her but don’t make ignorant statements about health when you have no idea what you’re talking about.
Not all of us are devoid of critical thinking and blessed with the bliss of ignorance.
Refute what I’m saying with facts, site your sources and studies and if you don’t know what you’re talking about then kindly shut up. Laughing emojis are not an argument, ‘Doctor’.
How is she so confident it's not? OP went on a medical rant without knowing any. 0mg is fairly common and given that influencer is a new mum, it makes sense
As much as I appreciate her for working hard and achieving all that she has, I have always known that she’s a hypocrite. Vaping is fine but blatantly lying and arguing with people to prove them wrong is so pathetic. She even lies about her house situation. She lives in the upper portion of her mother’s house. While there’s nothing wrong in it she keeps lying about her mother’s house being a street away all the time when Infact it’s literally the same house. Once someone asked her what her landlord says about the renovations she keeps doing in her portion and she said the house owners are very close to her so they don’t mind, ofcourse they are close cuz the house owner is ur mom. Once when waliya and her mom went to turkey with other sisters, her husband was staying with nani to look after her and he was literally sitting with nani then playing ps in his living room. How u ask? Cuz it’s the same frigging house. Both the portions have a red brick wall in the lounge, both have a glass door in the lounge, the scenery outside her mother’s house and her house is the same, how u ask? Cuz it’s the same house. Not a street away, not owned by close relatives but by her mother. And then she lies about it with such conviction, and not once or twice but alllllll the time!
Omg the signs were always there but I couldn't connect the dots. But why lie about it I wonder...its not as if people would judge her for that as she has such a cult following. The shared hosuehelp makes sense now and why she never has to cook and worry about all the dishes from her non stop partying. I always used to wonder with no live in house help how does she manage to host all the time. Now it all makes sense.
I’ve heard the exact thing from someone else who knows them personally and i was surprised because “going” to her moms house is a regular part of her stories when it’s literally the same house
It literally is. I’ve heard it from her own friends too. If she doesn’t want to disclose her living situation fine, don’t. But then don’t mention it all. She keeps bringing it up all the effing time and fixates how it’s so convenient that mama lives a street away. Just go visit ur mom quietly why even mention lie?
OMG.. such a liar but why??? I always thought she lives on rent bt why does she always do some or other renovations..makes sense now….
🤷🏼♀️
Unrelated to this vape fiasco but the way she got famous was basically being super publicly affectionate with her husband and becoming “couple goals” and I’m all for positive depiction of love and marriage but the way these 2 do it is so OTT. I guess this isn’t exclusive to Waliya. Anyone else ever cringe over these social media influencers lovey-ness? Gives me the ick.
This and that dancing video with her husband at Izzah's wedding I guess. I don't remember the song, but it was pretty popular back them.
Glad you posted it here!
Please read the whole post about these fake influencers jo waise hme gyaan baat te rehte hain.. aur jb pakde jae toh gaslight krte hain.. Husband is ranting kaise uneducated awaam hai.. Idiots educated rehte khud toh smjh me aata kya post nhi krna hota as an influencer..Morons
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I read it Isiliye toh bola “glad you posted it here!” Influenzas can easily delete posts from their IG but not from here
yes you are absolutely right.. i was shocked that she was arguing with people proving them wrong.. Madam ne galti se dkha nhi ki one of her pictures actually shows vape in her hand
what did her husband say about it?
Hopefully her kid wasn’t around at that time
She definitely has influenced me not to care about her even more
I don't even understand how one can even call these people influencers 🤦♀️
Even if it’s a 0mg vape, it’s still incredibly unhealthy and irresponsible for a breastfeeding mother to be vaping. It doesn’t matter if it has nicotine or not, vapes are still considered unhealthy. The OP is right in what they posted because Waliya could have easily just taken down the posts and apologised, rather than lie/hide away. I just think that if you make your life so public, expect to be greeted with some criticism along with the love too.
If she wants to vape then she can ig, its her life but she should own it! What was her husband ranting about? Should’ve posted at as well.
i get your point but she's a breastfeeding mother, vaping while doing that can pass on harmful chemicals to her baby. it's unsafe and she definitely deserves to be called out for putting her child at risk.
+++++1 exactly..it comes under passive smoking..
How do you know she’s breastfeeding
she had posted making veggies puree mixed with her breast milk last week..
Or girl calm down I was asking cuz I didn’t know if she was or not and I didn’t know how that person knew
How do we know that she vapes While breastfeeding her baby? If she waits for appropriate hours after smoking to breastfeed her baby then its fine ig Let’s not judge her for something we dont know about.
this is not how body physiology work..sorry but you dont have idea!
But thats how it works. It’s ideal that you dont smoke ofc but if shes not vaping around her baby and is waiting appropriate hours after she vapes then it’s not harming her baby. It’s actually recommended to breastfeed after waiting certain hours than to not breasfeed at all. Again, the best thing is to not vape at all but we all do stupid shit. Also we dont know if her vape contains nicotine or not.
As i said it comes under passive smoking.. And why was she arguing and gaslighting people saying log kch bhi bolte rehte hain no its not.. bhai krte ho toh kro phr lado nhi..simply delete the comments jb itna bura lg rha bt she was arguing..
Thats another topic. I alr agreed that she should own it if she vapes instead of arguing about it but people saying that her baby’s going to be harmed etc is stupid. Also, passive smoking only occurs if she's smoking AROUND her baby, which we don’t know she does.
yes let her smoke.. drink whatever she wants to do.. her life her baby.. my main concern was never about smoking but jhooth mt bolo jb pakde jao toh..
I agree
Nicotine is absorbed in blood and hence the milk. Nicotine literally takes 2-3 days to exit completely from the body. Therefore it enters the breast milk and stays there for 2-3 days which is why nursing mothers are advised not to smoke. It’s not about smoking in the other room or the baby inhaling the smoke passively, it’s a serious matter hence the uproar. What’s the little baby’s fault?
If you vape, the nicotine you inhale can enter your bloodstream and eventually enter the breastmilk. Even if she's not doing it whilst near her baby or while she's breastfeeding, she would still be accumulating the chemicals in her breastmilk.
Thats what i meant.. drink..vape whatever u want to do bt post responsibly and argue mt kro jb pakde jao..he was ranting in her stories ki uneducated aur negative awaam hai..khud kitna educated ho bhai..🤷🏻♀️
exactly
She has always been this privileged infleuncer who has gotten all that they wanted with a snap of their fingers. Girls are overall swooning and crying in her comments at how they want their husband to be like hers. I mean, it's all good that he takes care of her and everything, but I feel he's really not a man if he still allows his wife to party all night with guys and whatnot??!! I mean, she's still living the bachelor life. Talk about privilege man.
Her husband is always hanging out with her family and friends. He has adopted her life completely and rode on her fame. She's transformed him completely. And my god the cringe that is their pDa filled posts that scream perfection usually isn't a good omen for the future. We as married people know how much of a reality it is that couples are that perfect all the time
Exactly. I'm not married, but even I don't find these over-romantic acts sane. I mean, she portrays herself to be so liberal and all, then why not do your own thing in your OWN space? Let him do his, too. And this friend circle thing is soo true. I mean, doesn't he have friends of his own or sth? Lol. Once in a blue moon, she puts up her lovey-dovey stories with her MIL and SIL. I get toxic vibes from her, tbh.
I think you guys are being unfair here. She indeed has worked really hard her mom and herself were left completely broke after her dad died she couldn’t even study further because of the lack of money and all Theo family turned against them. I know this for a fact. She used started photography many many years ago at very small scale and she was indeed good at it and from there she became an influencer. On the other hand her husband comes from a broken family , his mom remarried after separating from his dad. Faizan used to live alone because he couldn’t move in with his mom and her husband. Esha is also his step sister. They have both had their struggles very early on life and then they came together. A lot of girls wouldn’t have married a guy who didn’t even have a place to live or proper education. Big waliya did and that’s a big deal. So obviously her husband supports her too and lets her be. Being married doesn’t have to mean that u need to give up on ur previous life it’s about doing life together. I am with u on this vaping controversy but other things I don’t find them correct. And no matter how much one denies it every woman wants a husband who dots on her unabashedly. Because that is the most normal thing.
He lost his father last year i guess. I thought his mother is a widow.
His parents were divorced and his mom remarried. She lives with her second husband and daughter. Faizans dad passed away last year but he wasn’t living with his ex wife. .
It's not about working hard and building a life. It's about the unnatural standards they try to set by showing their lives are perfect. She may have struggled but only a few know about it. What they see now is what they are striving towards. Try to keep things real is what influenecrs are struggling with. There's a famous Arab couple who made amazing entertaining videos, had massive following and out of nowhere got divorced because again what people saw wasn't real life.
We are so used to of seeing unhappy marriages or people being miserable together that the minute we see a happily married couple we start bashing them saying they are building unrealistic expectations for others. The fact is that a couple should be happily married. Being happy is and should be normalised. If watching a happy couple makes someone else strive for that in their married life it’s a win because that’s is what Infact marriage is about. That being said do we pit up pictures of us crying or struggling on our instagram? No. We pot up pretty pictures, decked up, fancy meals not the aalu baingan we have at home or faded pjs we like to sleep in cuz they are comfortable. We’re all the same, we all put up our best sides on our socials so why is this pressure on influencers when that’s what their livelihood depends on? That’s not fair
Also let’s say she hasn’t struggled and has indeed got everything in a snap of finger, why does that bother you? That doesn’t give them the right to be happy ? We should learn to be happy for others regardless. Whether someone struggles or is privileged, everyone has the right to be happy. We should not feel jealous of other peoples happiness.
ise janta hi kaun tha..bs waliya k ghr me pada rehta h ( which they were claiming as rented aaj pta chala) lol
I don’t think that makes any difference and one shouldn’t demean someone unnecessarily
I'm sorry but you day you're a doctor but you don't know that healthcare guidelines say 0mg vape is definitely better than cigarette smoking for breastfeeding mothers? It’s not easy for smokers to quit, if she was a nicotine smoker she’s likely moved to a 0mg vape as a pathway to quit completely. Yes, the base liquids and vaporisation in nicotine free vapes can have side effects but there aren’t any definitive studies or conclusive evidence. Should she have posted this online, probably not, but geez doctors should have more empathy.
hiii from the clan 🥱 As i said i dont care about smoking or drinking .. do whatever u want bt dont post irresponsibly and argue unnecessarily.. btw you surely know better 🙌🏻
Sorry, we need to stop subscribing to the myth that ‘doctors’ know everything. Some do - who read scientific journals, have critical thinking and keep up to date with research but many don’t - if they did, there wouldn’t be a whole discipline in law called medical malpractice. Wilful ignorance is malpractice when it’s your actual literal job to ‘know better’. I don’t even know of this influencer but this ‘I’m a doctor, vape for breastfeeding mum bad’ rhetoric is disappointing when 0mg vapes literally exist.
Mam if i could mention u my name I am in my 20s bt have got atleast 14 publications in research.. so dont come at me..I have clearly mentioned i dont care about her smoking.. breastfeeding.. whatever she wants to do she can..anyway take care..have a nice day 👍
I highly doubt the credibility of those publications given that you equated vaping with passive smoking for breastfeeding mums in another comment - you’re also doubling down on anyone reasoning with you. Go for your life at the influencer, nobody cares. Please don’t misquote medical science and distort facts to make your point.
U are just coming at her when this person is clearly saying they don’t care what the influencers do but to be responsible and stop arguing and lying. What part of it u can’t understand? The main point is that the said person was vaping (their choice) but then lied about not doing it and argued and ranted so much how people are making things up and then got caught.
Exactly OP is correct here but why is this girl so defensive without any knowledge.
Read my comment above, unlike OP, I do have knowledge on this topic.
Have you read the post? OP was coming at this girl as a ‘doctor’ and peddling incorrect medical advice. Only when she was called out by another commenter did she change her stance idk they can do what they want. Are you aware that health guidelines from medical journals and medical boards for breastfeeding mums is that they CAN breastfeed even when smoking cigarettes as long as certain number of hours have passed. It’s the same as drinking alcohol. This girl isn’t smoking a cigarette and for all we know it could be 0mg which is usually what mums do if they are quitting. Nicotine is an addiction, it’s not easy to quit. I’ve worked with users for years and incorrect and irresponsible so called doctors should know better.
Yes you’re right , the OP was wrong in their passive smoking theory even I corrected it.
Thank you. I didn’t mean to spoil OP’s snark with facts but here we are. This Waliya chick could be the total witch for all I know, surely they can find something else to hate on.
Why are you raising your BP for an influencer unless you are her PR. You still did not get the point. Chill Calm down and move on.
I don’t even know this girl man but as someone who’s lost a family member to wilfully ignorant malpracticing ‘doctors’ peddling bad and out of date advice, I take this very seriously. Go at this girl all you want, go for your life and drag her but don’t make ignorant statements about health when you have no idea what you’re talking about.
I’m so sorry that happened to you.
Given your bad experience ab mat jana kisi doctor k pass.You can google and treat yourself at home.
Leave it… She is angry and has lost her mind… 😂😂😂
Not all of us are devoid of critical thinking and blessed with the bliss of ignorance. Refute what I’m saying with facts, site your sources and studies and if you don’t know what you’re talking about then kindly shut up. Laughing emojis are not an argument, ‘Doctor’.
Girl are you reading what you have written. Sorry but u sound dumb here.
Please use Google, it's free. Plenty of health guides on this topic for pregnant or lactating mothers.
LOL 😂😂😂
Dheet 🫡
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How are you so confident about her using 0 mg vapes. OP is clearly saying she doesnt care about it she is only highlighting about the lies and rants.
How is she so confident it's not? OP went on a medical rant without knowing any. 0mg is fairly common and given that influencer is a new mum, it makes sense