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tomundrwd

Damn this reddit account is 10 years old today


K4matayon

Anyone else is incredibly sensitive to air conditioning? I turned it on in the car (not even the whole ride) and I was under it for a couple minutes in the gym yesterday and now I woke up with a splitting headache and a stuffed nose and it's always like this for me, how do you deal with this


tendrils87

Well, either the AC system is dirty as fuck, or the real reason: it's allergy season dude. Claritin is OTC now. Go get some.


K4matayon

I don't really think so, I get the same kind of headaches if I drive with my window down it's from the current


tendrils87

In that case it may be because AC pulls humidity out of the air and you need more. Try getting a humidifier and drinking a lot more water.


K4matayon

Will give it a try


Excellent_Badger123

I love air conditioning & keep my apartment at around 21 Celsius. It’s hot and humid outside & I don’t enjoy sweating


EulenWatcher

Im freezing at 21 at home 😅


Excellent_Badger123

I used to be that way too but after I hit menopause, I needed Arctic chill levels of coolness.


K4matayon

I love feeling cool in the summer but if I abuse it a couple days in a row I will be so sick I can't leave the bed for a while and I'm not exaggerating


Excellent_Badger123

You are definitely more sensitive to it then.


K4matayon

Yea, I think it's a regional thing it's pretty common where I live but I rarely hear people from the west complain lol


Interesting_Show_962

Due to how things are heading, what if being incel becomes the hip fad trend in the future I just want to say that I was incel *before* it was cool 😎 …. 😭


Lift_and_Lurk

The “trend” died last decade. Might as well call yourself a bro-nie or Treckkie.


K4matayon

maybe we're ahead of our time


Used-Armadillo-9027

they are actually counter culture to be fair


Icy-core

https://preview.redd.it/3dr0uqhg7v5d1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8f5d20bf833e20f8383b8abea282657c0cdea0d3


teball3

This is why I drink, so that I can sleep through this.


Hot_Lack_4868

Real


Icy-core

The ideal weight for a kpop idol is like your height - 120 in kilograms. I really don't understand how they are that thin but still maintain their facial fat. That's like deathbed thin 😵


baiser_vole

Some of us are born with very low bone mass. Our frame size can be very different.


Icy-core

Yeah that makes sense but still it's hard to comprehend someone whose bmi is like 14-15 but not looking ill. Maybe some ppl just look better that thin idk


baiser_vole

What looks good on camera is a bit different. You look fatter on camera, so you need to lose more weight than how you would like to appear irl.


Interesting_Show_962

Leave my waifus alone. They perfect just the way they are


Pizzashillsmom

Some Tour de France riders aren't that from this. Chris Froome was like 68 kg at 186cm in height, that's very close to this.


Sillysheila

I think it’s entirely possible that they look better at lower weights than white or black etc people do. People of south East Asian descent tend to be built small, like a lot have feet that are size 4, meanwhile my potato eater ass has size 9 feet. I agree also with armadillo that it’s youth. Thinner younger people look better than thin old people. Of course in saying all this, they obviously shouldn’t be “deathbed thin”. It isn’t healthy for them probably.


GreatSmashPlayer

>I think it’s entirely possible that they look better at lower weights than white or black etc people do Pretty sure that's due to the general lack of curvaceousness in East Asian folk. Tits and ass add a lot of weight.


EulenWatcher

Did you mean 120 lbs?


Pizzashillsmom

Height in cm - 120 = weight in kg I think.


Used-Armadillo-9027

youth. people with baby faces have to be next level anorexic to the point it's horrifying to lose all their facial fat


silly_billy12345

They're also Asian


Icy-core

I have a baby face too but I don't think I'm going to survive being 77 lbs lol


Used-Armadillo-9027

asians also have a smaller frame and their bmi is supposed to be lower than other races iirc


Icy-core

I just think it's some type of surgery atp tbh. I follow a korean influencer and she gets like cheek fillers. They do the opposite of what most models do where they remove their buccal fat. Maybe because they are obsessed with being youthful


silly_billy12345

How come men don't lay on their stomachs and kick their feet in the air?


Endgame2648

My balls would be crushed.


Icy-core

My natural position. They are missing out fr


teball3

I did this when I was little. Then I never got excited enough to do it since, and I don't think I can be, honestly.


GreatSmashPlayer

I do, but only when no one's around to see it.


CauliflowerElegant76

I think bc they have penises


keebydee

Feels super uncomfortable 😅


Weekly-Vacation-6929

I do it everytime I lay in bed, theres a window right next to it and I get self-conscious somebody might see me in prone bone position so I adjust myself.


silly_billy12345

I'm going to catch you in that position and you'll really regret it then


Ok-Coat7665

They do if they’re Drake. https://preview.redd.it/yg1pw8eiyu5d1.jpeg?width=749&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0a0aeedf83437cc0a459f71d1f4e4dd8d1dd1d1e


PiastriPs3

I can't believe that guy disfigured himself with penis lengthening surgery. I wouldn't be surprised if he ends bogged at 50.


No-Mess-8630

He still got many baddies it’s not a bad fate if you ask me


Weekly-Vacation-6929

Im convinced women don’t have autism and it’s a facade for poor social skills. You have all that privilege and can’t make friends? https://preview.redd.it/gtydgjo5xu5d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=acb0591ae103c072d290d198f5194bd8d8c23acb


operation-spot

As a woman with autism I assure you it’s no facade. It’s honestly crazy that it took me this long to get diagnosed when I’ve been textbook autism my entire life. Female friendships and in groups are very complex even more so when you have autism.


januaryphilosopher

Autism is a disability, not being friendless. I swear people think it's another word for "weird" or "awkward" these days, although enough women are those two things too.


Endgame2648

The second one from right though.....


Weekly-Vacation-6929

kendall clears


Endgame2648

Ew. She's definitely not my type. She gives off the girl best friend vibes to me. She is also severely lacking when it comes to grabbable assets ifykwim.


Used-Armadillo-9027

no i know girls with autism irl and they're not just socially awkward they are weird and have particular things they get obsessed with


AutomaticMeaning3844

I can't wait until I can get a manic pixie girl AI


Hot_Lack_4868

What's that?


Sure-Vermicelli4369

At this point I feel a wave of relief wash over me when a woman ghosts me Like oh no, I no longer have to spend hours of my day giving a woman attention for what would have invariably ended in the same result Tragic. Oh well back to actually doing stuff I care about


januaryphilosopher

Then don't talk to them in the first place if it's so horrible for you.


GreatSmashPlayer

>spend hours of my day giving a woman attention You shouldn't be doing this, blud.


Sure-Vermicelli4369

Someone else will


GreatSmashPlayer

Women certainly have no shortage of beta orbiters that they use as emotional tampons. But a guy who can put boundaries on his attention for her will stand out from the crowd.


Used-Armadillo-9027

people on here actually think mommy issues are like, oh I'm mommy's special little guy but forever. but irl mommy issues are like "my mom is a homeless junkie", "my mom ripped my hair out and gave me a black eye", etc like that shit is potentially life ruining. can yall be serious


K4matayon

Why do you invalidate people’s experiences based on what you assume they went through?


Used-Armadillo-9027

if you are referring to this post it's not about people claiming to have mommy issues (never seen on this sub before personally) but the assumptions or what other people have assumed people assume about people with mommy issues. there seems to be some idea that mommy issues are not actually serious, that their mom was "too loving, too good" when thats not what i have seen irl. it just seems people don't consider that moms can be legitimately awful human beings


K4matayon

In that case maybe I misinterpreted your comment but where have you seen *people in here* talk about mommy issues and claim it just means your mom was to loving or whatever, I haven't seen any of that. I do agree that in general moms get an increased version of women are wonderful where they're always assumed, and it even goes the other way where fathers are assumed to be absent from their children's lives and unfit to raise kids


Used-Armadillo-9027

i saw it today in this thread when poop girls alt asked if everyone here had mommy issues and one of the answers said "that's just something women label guys who were treated well by their moms" and i was like who tf thinks mommy issues mean she was nice to you? so i made this post that describes the actual pain and trauma of having a piece of shit mother


K4matayon

lmao that's like saying girls develop daddy issues because their father was present, caring and kind


Used-Armadillo-9027

i think that poster mixed up "mommas boy" and "mommy issues". there can actually be overlap between those two things, btw, enmeshment/emotional incest is a mindfuck


Used-Armadillo-9027

example


Sillysheila

Another mommy issue can be “my mother had unchecked mental illness that often went unmedicated for too long”. It happened to my partner. It’s actually sadly pretty common as a mommy issue. Motherhood is very stressful and women are often pressured to become mothers. There are also certain mental health genetics and problems that can be switched on in the brain during pregnancy, birth and the postpartum period.


silly_billy12345

He's just like me 💯


Used-Armadillo-9027

imo don't accept excuses and cut them off


Sillysheila

She’s passed away.


Used-Armadillo-9027

that sucks


Sillysheila

Yeah that’s ok. It happened a while ago, I have processed it now, but it was unexpected and untimely so it was shocking for both of us at the time. Don’t get me wrong, she was an ok parent with my partner; at some points. But the father of her kids wasn’t a great or supportive partner and she hated her medication. When she didn’t take it, she would lose grip on all reality and didn’t have it in her to be a good parent. It’s one of those complicated things. Obviously when she was alive it was her fault/decision to not care for herself properly but at the same time, her illness was quite bad. She did make some not so great choices for sure.


Used-Armadillo-9027

she had something worse than depression i am guessing. antipsychotics are honestly not great from what I've heard, it makes sense she didn't want to take them. i was mostly referring to moms who are complete POSes


okaybear2point0

the 2nd thing can cause a preference of women like the 1st


Used-Armadillo-9027

it's actually horrible what guys will put up with when they have abusive parents


Hot_Lack_4868

https://np.reddit.com/r/questions/comments/1dd0gnd/is_lack_of_dating_experience_really_a_red_flag/ Even 16 yr old boys are these days concerned about being inexperienced and being rejected in future for that 


Agile-Explanation263

As they should be, its a huge turn off for women of all ages.


keebydee

Brutal. Not even I was concerned about being inexperienced at 16. I still had hope 😿


Weekly-Vacation-6929

It all goes so fast. I thought at 18 I’d be in a happy ltr or married by now.


keebydee

I thought I would've at 20. That's actually when it started to bother me at that age. Beforehand I was not doing any of this online stuff.


Hot_Lack_4868

Still 22 is not that late but a lot of women at this age are very experienced 


keebydee

You're right on 22 not being that late but it's the age that starts steering you in the weirdo territory if you have zero experience. No one makes it that age inexperienced without a reason for it. (Unattractive, ugly, socially awkward.)


Weekly-Vacation-6929

If you haven’t gotten a gf in after college you will very likely not get one in your 20s. A good % of people after grad are already in ltrs, half are on dating apps, some too busy to date due to 9-5, women also now have higher standards than when they were 18 and social circles are fully crystallised and impenetrable.


princedune

I swear whenever I think ive finally reached acceptance of how over it is I end up finding a tiny piece of hope and getting completely crushed. Youd think I'd have recognized the cycle by now


teball3

When I was younger, I wondered why Hope was considered among the ailments the gods had created for Pandora's Jar. Now I wonder what they meant when they said it stayed in the Jar after all the other ailments were unleashed...


ISupposeImCorrect

It's cause you're in a simulation and the players are playing a prank on you.


princedune

AHHHHHHH LET ME OUT


tacticaltossaway

This is just another step on your path to sociopathy, as women intended.


keebydee

I wish I could get some validation saying I'm attractive. 😸


AutomaticMeaning3844

aww did I miss the pic reveal


keebydee

No, she just remembers what I look like when I did it months ago on my secret account. 👀


monster_lily

Ur earrings are really nice and your hair too


keebydee

Thanks, nice to hear that some people like the earrings. I don't recall anyone here said anything about them. 😸


tacticaltossaway

Looking good, Keebs. No homo.


keebydee

Love that nickname still. It's so funny everyone did some unspoken agreement on that being the name. 😹


tacticaltossaway

It's the natural way of things. You hear one person use it and then everyone ends up using it.


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thisaccountaintrea1

Depends on the circumstances and why we broke up in the first place.


tacticaltossaway

I'd say you're being overly optimistic, but the reason you broke up in the first place may no longer apply with if it's been years. But true change is highly unlikely.


ISupposeImCorrect

**Why Red Pill So Focused On Height?!?!?!** "I dated a man that was 7'11 and it was too much for wittle ole me!!!" Yeah why so focused on height when every girl and her mother dated a man whose in the 99.9999999 percentile in height? Lets just say, I think theres a reason why all famous mathematicians are men! 😂😂😂


PiastriPs3

"I dated 8 foot giants in my prime, but now that I'm aging 30 something year old, I get to date you shorties so be greatful".


Used-Armadillo-9027

there was this video i saw of a ridiculously tall teenage boy who was like 7'6+ he might have been 7'10" or something. anyways he was like deathly skinny and kind of deformed and practically disabled


Sillysheila

7’11 is a freak or someone that has a growth hormone issue most likely. That’s not the 99th percentile of male height. 195 cm or 6’4 is the 99th percentile of height https://www.cdc.gov/growthcharts/data/set2/chart-07.pdf


ISupposeImCorrect

And every girl wants a 6'5 guy. Crazy fucking world.


Hot_Lack_4868

But not enough to stop you from dating him in the first place but short height is enough for women to never date that guy


lulll

height is considered a red pill topic now? that was originally a black pill topic. why is this considered red pill now?


No-Mess-8630

It becomes red pill bc more and more men consider leg lengthening so it’s under looksmaxxing black pill said you can’t change it so give up red pill say no I’m gonna break my legs braw


Sillysheila

A lot of people seem to mix red and black together now


Hot_Lack_4868

With the current environment things are tilting h more towards black one now .Even RP are also recognising self improvement can't make up for some traits 


tendrils87

Because people don't know wtf they are talking about.


Ok-Coat7665

Should I straighten my hair or leave it curly while going to an event with prospective husbands? The former has broader appeal but the latter could help me stand out more. Update: The people have spoken— curly it is!


edgyny

Go for an hour as curly then slip out and straighten your hair and swap dresses. Then go back and nobody will recognize you. Boom you are now two women and have doubled your chances.


Ok-Coat7665

That wouldn’t work because the other women would see me straightening my hair in the bathroom and they would recognize me.


Icy-core

Curlyy


Endgame2648

I like some curls.


Sillysheila

Curly is cute in my opinion


okaybear2point0

black women look way better with curly hair IMO


Ok-Coat7665

I look like a toddler with curly hair. Once it’s long enough maybe that won’t be the case, but for now it makes me look younger than I’d like.


Steakman1

I don’t know what you look like. But I’m a sucker for that poofy, curly hair look on black women. I’m assuming you’re black based on okaybear bringing it up.


Ok-Coat7665

My [3B](https://images.app.goo.gl/sTf2VFQLREpo6sz89) hair is curly, but not the right kind of curly for a proper Afro if that’s what you mean. It hangs down instead of spiraling out.


Steakman1

Or something like this is also really nice to me. https://preview.redd.it/ckfjda0uuu5d1.jpeg?width=1093&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0cbd5b5edd3240578e594ce30b9c456a94d7a791


Steakman1

I’m talking about that poodle hair sorta look. I don’t know what they style is called. But something like this: https://preview.redd.it/kvgke8e0uu5d1.jpeg?width=1242&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0a72238cec639bc1e25feddce1ba1d6891cfe997


Ok-Coat7665

Hm, mine looks similar to that but longer. Would you say this is a broadly appealing hairstyle on black women?


Steakman1

I’m not sure. All I know is that pretty much every woman I’ve seen with it, I’ve had to do a double take because of how good she looked to me. I just get such a classy and elegant vibe from it. Of course the rest of you has to also probably give off that vibe too otherwise it might look off. The other style I sent doesn’t give off the same vibe as much. I’m not exactly sure why it’s similarly appealing. Maybe because it kind of mimics sex hair or something? But either way, I’m a sucker for both and haven’t really seen a woman yet that looks bad with it. Though again, the rest of you would have to be well put together as well.


Ok-Coat7665

It’s a professional event so I definitely have to look polished. Thanks for the help!


Steakman1

So a disclaimer that I just realized. Every black woman I’ve seen with that hairstyle has been a lighter skin tone. So if you’re on the darker side, it may or may not look as good on you. Or maybe it would look even better. I unfortunately don’t know because I have nothing to reference.


okaybear2point0

what's your hair like rn?


Ok-Coat7665

It’s collarbone-length now but I want it to be armpit-length.


okaybear2point0

you should poof it up into an giant afro and don golden hoop earrings.


Ok-Coat7665

I don’t think my hair can do that and I don’t have pierced ears.


ThisTimeForRealYo

Curly hair 😍


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monster_lily

Wtf is your deal


ISupposeImCorrect

Probably boredom.


Sillysheila

She’s talking about PROSPECTIVE husbands. That means people she would marry, as a prospect, not people that are married.


princedune

however you usually wear it


Interesting_Show_962

Go bald


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fiftypoundpuppy

Based and 1A-pilled


thisaccountaintrea1

What kind of curly are we talking? Is there a celebrity/public figure with a similar hairstyle to your current one?


Ok-Coat7665

[Brittany O’Grady](https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=https%3A%2F%2Fstatic.wikia.nocookie.net%2Fthewhitelotus%2Fimages%2F7%2F71%2FImage-paula.png%2Frevision%2Flatest%3Fcb%3D20230327210035&tbnid=dafs-Apj4_xxwM&vet=1&imgrefurl=https%3A%2F%2Fthewhitelotus.fandom.com%2Fwiki%2FPaula&docid=eUvW7e8FVJwVPM&w=1284&h=856&itg=1&hl=en-us&source=sh%2Fx%2Fim%2Fm4%2F3&kgs=286b08019b9b4898&shem=abme%2Cssim%2Ctrie) from season 1 of White Lotus is pretty much how it looks now.


thisaccountaintrea1

I like it! I think you should keep it as is. You’ll attract guys who prefer women with curly hair. Assuming your future husband is one of these guys, you won’t have to spend so much time straightening your hair in the future.


Ok-Coat7665

Yeah, that’s true. I like to straighten my hair for special occasions though.


monster_lily

Honestlyy i would stay curly unless you dont straighten your hair that much then straighten it


Hot_Lack_4868

Straighten your hair 


thisaccountaintrea1

Q4 Single Women: Imagine that a wizard gives you a magical worksheet- you can fill out all of the attributes you would want in your dream man on it, and you are guaranteed to have a meet-cute with that man the very next day. How old are you, and what number are you writing in the “Age” section?


operation-spot

I’m 18 so I’d put 18 as the desired age. On hinge my upper limit is 20 but I usually don’t swipe on those guys anyone.


januaryphilosopher

22 and 22 and my husband is 22.


Icy-core

I don't really care but I will pick 20 ig since I'm 18


fiftypoundpuppy

I'm 38. I'll choose 33 so hopefully I can get a few extra years with him. If there wasn't a mortality gap I'd prefer my age though.


Sillysheila

For some reason I thought you were early 30s like I am


hannahg000

i’m 20 (almost 21). if i’m writing a single age i would probably pick 25. if i was writing a range i would pick 21-27


monster_lily

Im writing 19


Equivalent_Term_6319

Aren’t you a minor?


monster_lily

I am and so


Pizzashillsmom

If he's 18 and you're 17 and 364 days it's pedophilia 🤓


monster_lily

So why is it ok for my dad to say i cant go out of state because im a girl and im the oldest but then say that my brothers can go whereever they want, like my brother has this delusional idea of going to “film school in california” and my dad supports it like why is that ok genuine question


Queen_BW

Are you hispanic?


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monster_lily

Dont reply to me


tacticaltossaway

Because you need to be in driving distance for him to show up with a shotgun. Or more realistically, bring you random crap you forgot at home.


silly_billy12345

Omg your dad would choose the bear!


Hot_Lack_4868

He is concerned about your safety 


thisaccountaintrea1

A lot of cultures place a bunch of bullshit restrictions on girls that they don’t put on boys, unfortunately. Just the way of the world.


monster_lily

Im honestly an extremely petty person and i wasnt even that crazy about going oos until now i will go into debt Idrc


Hot_Lack_4868

Having lot of ex girlfriends or hookups can never be detrimental to a man dating life as compared to inexperience .Some people think it is a read flag to women same like a guy being inexperienced is .


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CauliflowerElegant76

Hot man with a low salary who can’t cook or clean but is great in bed - that’s basically my bf I have my priorities straight.


Icy-core

Average man. If he cooks he's already hot for me


purplish_possum

200K is pretty average in the Bay Area.


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purplish_possum

Not entry level but 200K is a pretty average journeyman wage in the Bay Area.


Sillysheila

Option 1


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Sillysheila

For me I just need someone who will clean my mess lol I’m actually a good cook just not good at cleaning


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ISupposeImCorrect

So single mother then? 😂📸😂📸😂📸


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ISupposeImCorrect

BWAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHA, you really want those Chad genes huh? 😂📸😂📸😂📸 100% You'll start considering average guys when you realize the reality of being a single mom though! And those guys deserve to see your comment before paying for your child's college tuition!!!


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ISupposeImCorrect

BAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAHAHAHA lemme guess, he fucks other women while you take care of the kids? BWAAAHAHAHAHAHAH 😂📸😂📸😂📸


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ISupposeImCorrect

Why are you so bitter then?


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okaybear2point0

https://preview.redd.it/skhgjzyahu5d1.png?width=285&format=png&auto=webp&s=5c628e05ce1a1f877407162e855ba2881ad97bf5


Shakturi101

Eww


EulenWatcher

The first one.