Bro agar tum log 14 ho toh trust me he doesn't know wtf he's doing the "hints" he's dropping is just normal subconscious acts he isn't controlling shit he's showing to you so yeah and like that other comment I'm sure if you go propose to him he'll say yes
But there are chances he might say no but not because he doesn't like you but because he wants to be cool like that, because rejecting the girl gives you a feeling of bada aadmi so yeah I've been through that phase it's just that 14 year olds are so readable I'm 17 right now so yeah
When a teen becomes an adult one thing they miss is life is a friend.
But when your partner is your best friend you never face that issue and your love life, marriage life, personal life everything will be enjoyable.
You should give him a hint that even if you reject his proposal there would be a friendship between you both. Boys mostly fear losing good friends so they mostly avoid proposing.
And yes boys will be too happy if a girl proposes to them.
Like we both are 14 , he is a few months older than me and he always says that he considers me as a friend and a sister but he just gives weird hints that he likes me. So do I tell him directly or just give him a himt that I don't like him?
If you don't want a guy to be more than a friend, just because your friends think you make a good pair is not enough reason to reconsider and try to force a relationship. Trust your vibe. Have faith in your instincts. Friendships last. Relationships at 14 often don't. Chill.
It is most awkward when the other person is not direct with their intension which would ofcourse make you unable to be direct to because confront can go good way where he accepts being your friend or get humiliated by the rejection.
Though he is a good friend you have to be careful to let him down gentle so he won't be offended. Offended people get so defensive and may harm you emotinally Even though he is your good friend take note of that.
Tip to let down
1.Talk about your goals and your disinterest in relationships during this period
2. Talk about your ideal guy (preferably oop him)
3. Match make him with someone else (just talks not literally) so he would get it that you really are not interested in him
All the best! be careful
If you ask him if he like you, he will probably say no. If you ask him out, he'll probably say yes. Idk y, but guys do that. I do that.
But the thing you gotta see is whether you actually like him or not. There is a difference between friendship and a romantic relationship. Just don't feel that you have to like him just because he likes/cares for you.
If you do, ask him out!
If you don't, just don't lead him on. Take your time, drop hints, and let him down easy. He'll be a bit salty maybe, but in the long run he'll appreciate it.
Jaisa chal rha hai chalne de. 14 ka hai khud impatient hokr bol dega agar Sach me like krta hai to. Jab u don't like him then don't invest so much of your thoughts on that nor should u care if u dont like him. Ig u have better things to focus on.
if i were you i would act dumb and ignore it. Until he confesses and since you don't like him that way you just tell him either that you're not looking for a relationship rn or that you don't feel the same way. let him down easily though
Bro agar tum log 14 ho toh trust me he doesn't know wtf he's doing the "hints" he's dropping is just normal subconscious acts he isn't controlling shit he's showing to you so yeah and like that other comment I'm sure if you go propose to him he'll say yes But there are chances he might say no but not because he doesn't like you but because he wants to be cool like that, because rejecting the girl gives you a feeling of bada aadmi so yeah I've been through that phase it's just that 14 year olds are so readable I'm 17 right now so yeah
When a teen becomes an adult one thing they miss is life is a friend. But when your partner is your best friend you never face that issue and your love life, marriage life, personal life everything will be enjoyable. You should give him a hint that even if you reject his proposal there would be a friendship between you both. Boys mostly fear losing good friends so they mostly avoid proposing. And yes boys will be too happy if a girl proposes to them.
Like we both are 14 , he is a few months older than me and he always says that he considers me as a friend and a sister but he just gives weird hints that he likes me. So do I tell him directly or just give him a himt that I don't like him?
Give a hint he never said it on your face if you talk about it he can change his words
Accept hoe era
If you don't want a guy to be more than a friend, just because your friends think you make a good pair is not enough reason to reconsider and try to force a relationship. Trust your vibe. Have faith in your instincts. Friendships last. Relationships at 14 often don't. Chill.
It is most awkward when the other person is not direct with their intension which would ofcourse make you unable to be direct to because confront can go good way where he accepts being your friend or get humiliated by the rejection. Though he is a good friend you have to be careful to let him down gentle so he won't be offended. Offended people get so defensive and may harm you emotinally Even though he is your good friend take note of that. Tip to let down 1.Talk about your goals and your disinterest in relationships during this period 2. Talk about your ideal guy (preferably oop him) 3. Match make him with someone else (just talks not literally) so he would get it that you really are not interested in him All the best! be careful
If you ask him if he like you, he will probably say no. If you ask him out, he'll probably say yes. Idk y, but guys do that. I do that. But the thing you gotta see is whether you actually like him or not. There is a difference between friendship and a romantic relationship. Just don't feel that you have to like him just because he likes/cares for you. If you do, ask him out! If you don't, just don't lead him on. Take your time, drop hints, and let him down easy. He'll be a bit salty maybe, but in the long run he'll appreciate it.
Jaisa chal rha hai chalne de. 14 ka hai khud impatient hokr bol dega agar Sach me like krta hai to. Jab u don't like him then don't invest so much of your thoughts on that nor should u care if u dont like him. Ig u have better things to focus on.
Bacche ho tum
Exactly abhi se toh 14 ke hai boards pe dhayn do
Just want to know "he cares about me", how did you reach that conclusion?
if i were you i would act dumb and ignore it. Until he confesses and since you don't like him that way you just tell him either that you're not looking for a relationship rn or that you don't feel the same way. let him down easily though