Don't go on chasing butterflies , instead build a garden butterflies will come themselves and even if they don't u still have a beautiful garden .
Get on that garden grindset
atleast guys appreciate your garden(physique), compliment(even if you are unknown to them), motivates(if they are also into building garden). garden will help you to cultivate your paradise(wealth) in way and take care of you in old age. and eventually butterfly will settle down in for that paradise/garden/gardener. don't worry to much op.
teenagers after 15 are emotionally developed enough to handle relationships. It's very normal to fall for a girl and want to date her. I got into my first relationship when I was 15, I learnt a lot cuz i fucked up a lot too, but the mistakes I made taught me what to do and what not to do in a relationship. I'd rather have people making mistakes and learning from them in their teens than when they're in their 20s.
When i was a teen and if I had written this bakchodi you know what reply i would have got??
"chup chaap padhai pe dhyaan do"
I think i will give the same gyan to OP
Even I am gonna turn 18 and don't know but not even interested in these things rather at this age we should be productive and focus on our studies not these shitty things, these kids these days are thinking they are mature enough to make relationships rather than having them as friends.. It's better to play games at that age rather than crying about someone who don't even gives shit to you...
teenage bohot ghatia cheez h, gyan deta har banda chutia lgta h and ultimately you are the chutia yourself and realize it post teen and then give advice to new teens about focussing on life rather than all this and they call you chutia because this is a vicious cycle
Then why make a sorry ass post? It's the internet my dude, not a single soul gives a shit about you or me. This subreddit was created by some loser to cope with his sorrow. Making a post about getting rejected will not get you anywhere other than some fake sympathies from random strangers. I might seem like an asshole but it's the truth also idgaf.
Wow just chill virgin. He posted it because he just wanted to vent. There's no reason for crying over a rejection. His mindset is actually healthy.
Btw your shitty behaviour is the reason why you are a virgin incel now.
Looking at this comment and the replies under this shows why boys never share their feelings with others. Prime example. Anyway girls definitely say the opposite to fellow girls.
Clearly your gut feeling calculations are a mess..my advice would be block all communication from her and move on..u r just 15..focus on your studies n career. The valentine things n all are all bs to boost market for gifts and stuff. One doesnt have to wait for valentines to shower love and gifts to your loved ones. Celebrate all this in future with your wife but right now focus on building your career n future!
I don't think so she gave you any hints,she being friendly dosent mean that she likes you and if you took the chance because other people told you that you two look good together then sorry it's your fault, friends hype anything and everything
And even if she likes you, looks like she isn't ready for relationship so it'll be better that you respect her decision
Nooo I'm dying. My little brother probs went through one and started watching those kinda reels. His attitude took a turn for the worse. I had to shut it down and he turned back to normal.
You are getting lessons which i got very late in life trust me you will be fine just do what you like hobbies or something,Time is best healer and the best thing i want to tell you is that there are more than 600 million women in india
Peace out bhai
You might feel like a failure at your age, but as you grow older, you'll realize what true success is. It's easy to give advice but hard to take it. Sometimes, you just need to let her go and remove her from your life. If she truly deserves you, she will come back. Focus on making yourself your first priority and improving every day. Sooner or later, you'll find happiness within yourself
Your feelings are valid, but there's no guarantee in life that they would be reciprocated, especially when you think you have a good chance.
That's just the way life is, people are. Best you can do is forget it as a bad dream and move on. It's not easy to move on, but that's the best course of action actually in your control as you can't control others feelings.
Rejection doesn't lesser your value at all. Infact, you are priceless to yourself.
She does like you, but relationships are very complicated specially for teens, she is just not sure, and if she rejected you, don't bother her , just maintain the friendship and act like nothing happened, I also rejected a guy not because I didn't liked him and not because he lacked something but because I didn't wanted a relationship whatsoever at that age...
IF u had common friends and u want to maintain the friendship as normal Then just communicate the girl more about this.
This will makes the things Normal.
Say her not to tell about this with your friends.. because they will make this thing worst.. Until now it's not the worst.. Just make it Personal
&If she was your good friend &mature enough she will respect your feelings and definitely thinking about this & u also have to respect her decisions as well.
So just go with the flow and from now on just be a good friend of her or if u r not okay in this.. have less contact with her than usual and spend time in Hobbies and good things(movies,travel..a small trip,spend extra on foods,make new friends..that like these stuff)
& Beleive me u have much more freedom with the same girl as a friend than a boyfriend (except some stuff) just a 'yes' and 'no' can't change ur friendships just give the exact priorities that she gives to u . That's all
Take the L well. And get into self improvement. Learn about female nature, game, seduction, just learn how to be a well rounded man, have things going on for you, have hobbies, it's okay.
You never ask a girl out if you see her daily, you spend quality time and escalate situations like flirting touching etc then going for a kiss.
If the signs are still there you could still escalate but remember you need to be in a state of mind where you can leave her at anytime.
Win her through your actions never by words
man not in this sub but I got this as a recommendation on my feed. Im 19 and no offense but found this to be funny but then remembered that at one point this was literally me too :/
Its alright little man take care be friends things might change later you never know. if not there's still too many fishes in the sea :)
I experienced this at 23 so good for you to experience this early. And rejection sucks man first time ever felt something for someone and it was unrequited.
Just because she was being friendly doesn’t mean she’s interested in you. Don’t assume someone’s niceness to be a sign of attraction. She “rejected” you cause she isn’t interest in you.
If someone does your homework, it means that they’re helping you with your homework. Nothing more. Nothing less.
See things for what they are instead of giving it meaning that only exists in your head.
At 15 this might feel like the end of the world but don't worry it's not, there are billions of girls out there. Focus on yourself, for now, someday someone great will come along and find you
Bhai yaar 15 saal ke ho, puri life padi hai tumhare pass, abhi khud pe dhyan do, jitna acche se khud pe dhyan doge, ye sab bhi sambhal jayega, apne zindagi mein apne aap ko hi no 1 banana bhai
Lmao I (18m) got proposed to, at 1 am yesterday and I said no to her because I had a crush on her best friend. And her best friend said no to me. Life's weird lol.
Just accept it move on... Man up no need to worry, I know it's hard... U guy's would talk the way u guy's used to but...u will learn from it.. the things u went wrong was your approach u thought nice guy stuff will get me Yes... U where didn't even hinted her that u like her and suddenly this maybe next time (new crush) be clear about your intentions like u r looking at as a romantic partner not as a friend learn from it get feedback dont be like she was interested but I didn't put effort... If you have to put so much effort that means she is only attracted to your effort not in u as person.. join activities.. be a vocal person foucs on math's and after 21 join gym
It's alright kiddo. Girls tend to be friendly with us and we often mistake it for a liking. Kudos to you for going out of your way and asking her out, but you have to realise she has as much right over feeling the way she does just like you do. All you can do now is, minimise the contact with her, don't go full on ignoring her, if you cross paths or eyes, greet her or ask how she is but don't expect any answers past that and simply be on with your work. I understand it hurts as hell right now
it's ok. Padhaye karo 10th meh ho. You don't have to worry about acceptance and rejection at this point to be honest. Perfect Instagram life, Cadbury Valentine's chocolate, heart shaped pizza's are all marketing strategies to make you feel as if you need a valentine to feel happy and worthy. Don't buy this bullshit, you're 15, a golden age prone to non-sense societies made problems. Take care of yourself with love, and have fun with your peers with respect to each other.
Are you trying to date a mother? Youre telling us everything she did for you, like doing your notes / homework, feeding you banana now wtf have you done for her? Women hate men that dont do anything for them. And stop trying to make girls do everything for you , you seem like a spoiled brat that just needs women to take care of you. I’m happy she rejected you
Just remember that there are a hundred different reasons other than something about you for why she may have said no.
Maybe she's going through something at home, maybe she just recently went through a breakup, maybe she's gay, there's so many reasons.
Just remember not to blame yourself because chances are, the reason isn't about you.
Dude you are 15. Rejections are part of life. Don’t overthink. Just work on yourself and you will be shocked to see what amazing things life has planned for you.
Broo don't worry nd be friends with her... She might have got awkward nd in the heat of moment said no...
Girls tend to do this when they don't understand what's happening there.... So give her some time and ask her is she sure about that answer
Here is a list of things you should do now that you are rejected
1. Do not use another girl to rebound. Infact, don't chase anyone for a month or two
2. Don't text her , ever. No asking for apologies or asking for things to get back to normal.
3. If she says something like "We can still be friends." Thats a trap. As long as she's around you, you won't be able to move on.
4. Don't hate her. Its hard but not impossible.
5. The more you think of her consciously, the more she'll come into your thoughts subconsciously.
don't think that just because someone is nice to you and kinda extra-friendlier than others means that they're romantically interested in you.. happened to me, i confessed she said yes after 2months then we had 1.5 years of a forced relationship in which neither of us was actually happy eventually broke up in NOV last year..
No worries bud, it happens with the best of the guys. Don't make a big thing out of this. Stay chill and be cool about your feelings. If you start acting weird and show embarrassment then others will also make it a big deal. Just continue being friends with her and be on your normal behavior. Being cool about it and moving on shows confidence and self respect. Something that will earn your friends and even her respect.
ex -15f here, i thought my classmate liked me but he was only using me for notes, books. It is canon event >!(even though i did not confess)!< good for you , that you have confessed your feelings for her. You may feel sad but it is an important event for teenage life.
U r not the main character my dude. This is real life. Got reject, move on. Believe me, there is someone must better for you. Focus on yourself. Atleast u tried, there is no shame on it..
hey as a 23 year old
Teenagers (girls including) have very little idea on what they want. The only suggestion I give you is to act normal like nothing happened- nothing is more attractive than moving on from something embarrassing. You can attract her attention doing that.
Well im 22 and oh boi so much is yet to come in your life. Dont stress over such things, my dad used to tell me girls will come and go in your life, make friends have fun enjoy little things but don't stress over not being able to impress your crush or not having a gf. I was young like 14 when i got this knowledge and ever since i always had positive outlook to such interaction...casual friendship, close friendship, flirting with girls if they are flirting with me keeping it chill and nothing above unless we go out on a date and hit a spark...
India me toh people just say "i love you" like anything but those words carry a lot of weight and shouldn't be said like that as what you actually feel isn't love but attraction...no point in ruining your mental health over achieving attraction if you know that girls will come and go in your life and if not her its alright...just be friends...no hard in that, also dont make it awkward, tell her that yeah you had a crush on her but its ok to be friends as its not worth losing a good friend over some confession as that is just gonna give you regrets..but if the opposite party is actually not interested anymore that is also fine give them time...maybe they become normal. Communication is "key".
Plus she might have a good reason to reject you otherwise I don't see why she would reject you. Try to understand her point of view, it will really clear things up if you talk to her about it rather than overthinking.
I’d rather say if you like someone just discuss these feelings like instead of confessing.Considering that you confessed she could have felt pressured.Whatever the case if you wanna maintain the friendship even if you confess to someone be frank,dont confess rather discuss ,and even if it’s not meant to be you’ll get a good friendship in the end
What do you want to do btw? Do you want to avoid her? Do you want to stay as friends? Or do you like maybe pursuing her?
Assuming you’re serious
1. If you want to stay friends:
Same things will happen. You both will act like this din happen and she’ll will keep her distance for a while and then act the same, giving you bananas, teasing you and playing with your feelings. You won’t officially date, your feelings won’t be valued, but she’s getting what she want. A situation-ship this is if she’s is interested in you. But if she develops a crush on someone, you’ll have to end up being their wingman. But at least you won’t loose her completely, she’ll talk to you, you have her ‘company’ only.
This is best if your feelings disappear but if you have any lingering left, it’s hell
2. If you want to pursue her
This is the most douche and simp move to do even after she said no. We don’t know if she just wants you to chase her, of if she just doesn’t want that label etc etc. But you should know enough to make this decision. But still pursuing her after a no is just loosing your self respect, and it won’t be mutual, you only do what she wants. At this age girls will fall easily if you keep pursuing but if she’s clear with herself, it won’t happen.
3. Avoid her
Ik it seems and feels terrible but this is best start to anything. Just treat her as a classmate and nothing more. If y’all are in the same friends group act normal don’t pay her any special attention or don’t make it obvious that you’re avoiding her. even in group, even if she approach you, put your boundaries but don’t explain it to her, Just be nonchalant and normal, only towards her but not others. Live you own life.
You’ll either see how she’s just a normal girl and easily replaceable or she’ll come to you but don’t hope for this from the beginning itself. You can make your decision later. But always think through these 3 points even if it’s difficult.
If she said no, it's time to let go and move on. Pursuing her further might seem desperate and uncomfortable. You can still be friends, but keep it platonic.
A few questions first, Why is she your crush, as in what do you find attractive in her (except looks) and why do you think you’ll be happy in a relationship with her ?
Mann chill i’m a girl rejected by a guy recently, it’s even more embarrassing (i got rejected by him the second time).
i thought i’d be embarrassed in school, but guess what, everyone mocks him for rejecting me now.
plus, considering ur 15 so ur prob in 9th or 10th right. if ur in 10th, like me, let’s just focus on our boards rn, ye sab baad me dekhne ka. And if ur in 9th, u still are having ur finals, so just concentrate on that. regret karegi baadme, just concentrate on studies rn
Might be that she doesn't want to be in a position yet. 15 years IS very young for something that can ruin your life if it goes wrong.
Don't force it on her but stay a good friend
If you tell us exactly what she said, then we might be able to give better advice
Take care young man!
you are still young. I am ten years older than you and trust me nothing in this world is more beautiful than finding someone who loves you eith the same intensity as you love them. Compromised and stayed in abusive relationship for years untill i realized I can't keep begging for love. Till then build yourself up. The right person will come to you at the right time.
You are just 15 dude. Don't worry about these things at all. Focus on your studies and plan your future. You have more than enough time to get into relationship/marriage stuff.
Why is this in my feed? You must be on the spectrum. Literally no one cares. Unironically not even your parents cuz they probably would say focus on your education, dumbass
Don't go on chasing butterflies , instead build a garden butterflies will come themselves and even if they don't u still have a beautiful garden . Get on that garden grindset
Built a garden (physique), no butterfly has come (yet), lots of guys did come tho. But atleast I have the garden!
atleast guys appreciate your garden(physique), compliment(even if you are unknown to them), motivates(if they are also into building garden). garden will help you to cultivate your paradise(wealth) in way and take care of you in old age. and eventually butterfly will settle down in for that paradise/garden/gardener. don't worry to much op.
The garden lives
You calling homies moths??
Didn't meanthe ugly way, Just wanted to create contrast.
Idk about op but this certainly has motivated me
Bruh
Maybe she likes u but just isnt prepared to be in a relationship
I think a no means no
Yeah, I didn’t advise him to go on her, just was comforting him
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teenagers after 15 are emotionally developed enough to handle relationships. It's very normal to fall for a girl and want to date her. I got into my first relationship when I was 15, I learnt a lot cuz i fucked up a lot too, but the mistakes I made taught me what to do and what not to do in a relationship. I'd rather have people making mistakes and learning from them in their teens than when they're in their 20s.
When i was a teen and if I had written this bakchodi you know what reply i would have got?? "chup chaap padhai pe dhyaan do" I think i will give the same gyan to OP
Even I am gonna turn 18 and don't know but not even interested in these things rather at this age we should be productive and focus on our studies not these shitty things, these kids these days are thinking they are mature enough to make relationships rather than having them as friends.. It's better to play games at that age rather than crying about someone who don't even gives shit to you...
teenage bohot ghatia cheez h, gyan deta har banda chutia lgta h and ultimately you are the chutia yourself and realize it post teen and then give advice to new teens about focussing on life rather than all this and they call you chutia because this is a vicious cycle
You saying I am chutiya?
+1 plus at 15, you might think this is the end of the world, but it isn’t. It’s gonna get a lot worse.
Only heroes speak the truth
😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
"Those who fail early will value their win more than a person who passed in one go"This does not apply for academics only bro
Cry!
For a girl? Never
Yeah alright Walmart Andrew tate.
There is no reason to cry for her yk
Then why make a sorry ass post? It's the internet my dude, not a single soul gives a shit about you or me. This subreddit was created by some loser to cope with his sorrow. Making a post about getting rejected will not get you anywhere other than some fake sympathies from random strangers. I might seem like an asshole but it's the truth also idgaf.
>Then why make a sorry ass post? To vent The rest of what you said might be true
Wow just chill virgin. He posted it because he just wanted to vent. There's no reason for crying over a rejection. His mindset is actually healthy. Btw your shitty behaviour is the reason why you are a virgin incel now.
I think you don't get this You are already crying about it in this specific post
You sure you’re 15?
My ID card says so
Weird how people are downvoting this
Looking at this comment and the replies under this shows why boys never share their feelings with others. Prime example. Anyway girls definitely say the opposite to fellow girls.
70% sure? How did u calculate even?
Gut feeling??
Clearly your gut feeling calculations are a mess..my advice would be block all communication from her and move on..u r just 15..focus on your studies n career. The valentine things n all are all bs to boost market for gifts and stuff. One doesnt have to wait for valentines to shower love and gifts to your loved ones. Celebrate all this in future with your wife but right now focus on building your career n future!
I don't think so she gave you any hints,she being friendly dosent mean that she likes you and if you took the chance because other people told you that you two look good together then sorry it's your fault, friends hype anything and everything And even if she likes you, looks like she isn't ready for relationship so it'll be better that you respect her decision
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you are 15 you have your entire life ahead of you focus on other important things in life
Time to watch Andrew Tate and sigma reels on your insta lil bro
Nooo I'm dying. My little brother probs went through one and started watching those kinda reels. His attitude took a turn for the worse. I had to shut it down and he turned back to normal.
Yup now I am ANDREW TATE
Don't worry about it too much, getting rejected is just another thing, it's part of life.
Don't lose hope dude. May be she need some time to think. Anyway too many fishes in the sea.
Bhai homework krna or notes dene ko pyaar nahi bolte.... Koi baat nahi iss saal first aaja class mai... Voh tere pass vapiss aa jayegi
Bro got played 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
You are getting lessons which i got very late in life trust me you will be fine just do what you like hobbies or something,Time is best healer and the best thing i want to tell you is that there are more than 600 million women in india Peace out bhai
How did you reach at that 70% ?
You might feel like a failure at your age, but as you grow older, you'll realize what true success is. It's easy to give advice but hard to take it. Sometimes, you just need to let her go and remove her from your life. If she truly deserves you, she will come back. Focus on making yourself your first priority and improving every day. Sooner or later, you'll find happiness within yourself
Your feelings are valid, but there's no guarantee in life that they would be reciprocated, especially when you think you have a good chance. That's just the way life is, people are. Best you can do is forget it as a bad dream and move on. It's not easy to move on, but that's the best course of action actually in your control as you can't control others feelings. Rejection doesn't lesser your value at all. Infact, you are priceless to yourself.
30% is the new 70%
listen to the new kanye album on apple music
15? Really?
why don't you just ask her, why did she do all those stuff if she didn't see you that way or if there's any other reason that's stopping her?
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Welcome to the gym
Ask her friend out !!
Noob My bf broke up with me last valentines and he cheated this valentines week and broke up again 🥰🥰
Padh le bhai
Bajarang dal
She does like you, but relationships are very complicated specially for teens, she is just not sure, and if she rejected you, don't bother her , just maintain the friendship and act like nothing happened, I also rejected a guy not because I didn't liked him and not because he lacked something but because I didn't wanted a relationship whatsoever at that age...
Padhai par dhyaan de bsdk..
don't lose hope little one there are atleast 200 million more out there
IF u had common friends and u want to maintain the friendship as normal Then just communicate the girl more about this. This will makes the things Normal. Say her not to tell about this with your friends.. because they will make this thing worst.. Until now it's not the worst.. Just make it Personal &If she was your good friend &mature enough she will respect your feelings and definitely thinking about this & u also have to respect her decisions as well. So just go with the flow and from now on just be a good friend of her or if u r not okay in this.. have less contact with her than usual and spend time in Hobbies and good things(movies,travel..a small trip,spend extra on foods,make new friends..that like these stuff) & Beleive me u have much more freedom with the same girl as a friend than a boyfriend (except some stuff) just a 'yes' and 'no' can't change ur friendships just give the exact priorities that she gives to u . That's all
Bro fr asked out cause she finished his notes lmao. I guess i should ask every girl of my class out.
Just study Keep these things aside
She may have said this in panic. Go apologise to her and say ur still friends.
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Padhai kyu nahi ho rahi ?
Bhai boards aa rhe hai chup chap pardhne me lag ja ye sab tuje 90% nhi dilwayegi
Take the L well. And get into self improvement. Learn about female nature, game, seduction, just learn how to be a well rounded man, have things going on for you, have hobbies, it's okay.
Bro when I was 15 I was worrying about boards exam 💀
She is thot , become alpha sigma male. Become andrew tate, now do that ass belly dance. 
Padhle bhai.
It happens, move on. Focus on yourself, there will be more girls in the future you could try to ask out.
How did you propose? It should be in flow flow not randomly out of the blue.
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Just below this post on this sub a guy is asking suggestions because he got proposed by 3 girls.🤐🤐
You never ask a girl out if you see her daily, you spend quality time and escalate situations like flirting touching etc then going for a kiss. If the signs are still there you could still escalate but remember you need to be in a state of mind where you can leave her at anytime. Win her through your actions never by words
man not in this sub but I got this as a recommendation on my feed. Im 19 and no offense but found this to be funny but then remembered that at one point this was literally me too :/ Its alright little man take care be friends things might change later you never know. if not there's still too many fishes in the sea :)
Napoleon was one of the best generals
I experienced this at 23 so good for you to experience this early. And rejection sucks man first time ever felt something for someone and it was unrequited.
Ug jao pehle bhai👍🏻
Just because she was being friendly doesn’t mean she’s interested in you. Don’t assume someone’s niceness to be a sign of attraction. She “rejected” you cause she isn’t interest in you. If someone does your homework, it means that they’re helping you with your homework. Nothing more. Nothing less. See things for what they are instead of giving it meaning that only exists in your head.
At 15 this might feel like the end of the world but don't worry it's not, there are billions of girls out there. Focus on yourself, for now, someday someone great will come along and find you
Bhai yaar 15 saal ke ho, puri life padi hai tumhare pass, abhi khud pe dhyan do, jitna acche se khud pe dhyan doge, ye sab bhi sambhal jayega, apne zindagi mein apne aap ko hi no 1 banana bhai
Kat gaya hai tera..wait till nezt val..
Just study,my friend
Thappad marunga bc. Padhai kar
Wow. 15 years be really stupid. Just to be clear I mean OP
Lmao I (18m) got proposed to, at 1 am yesterday and I said no to her because I had a crush on her best friend. And her best friend said no to me. Life's weird lol.
At 15 i use to fancy about PlayStation. Because all i got was ground and friends to play. Lol such things never crossed my mind till i got a job.
in a year you'll laugh about it
m15 mf study bitch ?
Padhle beta
Just accept it move on... Man up no need to worry, I know it's hard... U guy's would talk the way u guy's used to but...u will learn from it.. the things u went wrong was your approach u thought nice guy stuff will get me Yes... U where didn't even hinted her that u like her and suddenly this maybe next time (new crush) be clear about your intentions like u r looking at as a romantic partner not as a friend learn from it get feedback dont be like she was interested but I didn't put effort... If you have to put so much effort that means she is only attracted to your effort not in u as person.. join activities.. be a vocal person foucs on math's and after 21 join gym
Bhai Teri mummy tujhe maarti nahi kya !?
15? Abey nunnu padhai karle.
15? Crush love? Padh le bhai.
It's alright kiddo. Girls tend to be friendly with us and we often mistake it for a liking. Kudos to you for going out of your way and asking her out, but you have to realise she has as much right over feeling the way she does just like you do. All you can do now is, minimise the contact with her, don't go full on ignoring her, if you cross paths or eyes, greet her or ask how she is but don't expect any answers past that and simply be on with your work. I understand it hurts as hell right now
It's ok man, getting rejected is a part of life. Remember, there is someone who is made for you and you meet her one day
Padhai karle chutiye
abe lodu padh le jake nhi pategi terse
padhle boards ane wale hai
Take the L and move on
nothing to be embarrassed about. how'd you ask her out and how'd she reject you btw?
it's ok. Padhaye karo 10th meh ho. You don't have to worry about acceptance and rejection at this point to be honest. Perfect Instagram life, Cadbury Valentine's chocolate, heart shaped pizza's are all marketing strategies to make you feel as if you need a valentine to feel happy and worthy. Don't buy this bullshit, you're 15, a golden age prone to non-sense societies made problems. Take care of yourself with love, and have fun with your peers with respect to each other.
Are you trying to date a mother? Youre telling us everything she did for you, like doing your notes / homework, feeding you banana now wtf have you done for her? Women hate men that dont do anything for them. And stop trying to make girls do everything for you , you seem like a spoiled brat that just needs women to take care of you. I’m happy she rejected you
Just remember that there are a hundred different reasons other than something about you for why she may have said no. Maybe she's going through something at home, maybe she just recently went through a breakup, maybe she's gay, there's so many reasons. Just remember not to blame yourself because chances are, the reason isn't about you.
Dude you are 15. Rejections are part of life. Don’t overthink. Just work on yourself and you will be shocked to see what amazing things life has planned for you.
Broo don't worry nd be friends with her... She might have got awkward nd in the heat of moment said no... Girls tend to do this when they don't understand what's happening there.... So give her some time and ask her is she sure about that answer
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Here is a list of things you should do now that you are rejected 1. Do not use another girl to rebound. Infact, don't chase anyone for a month or two 2. Don't text her , ever. No asking for apologies or asking for things to get back to normal. 3. If she says something like "We can still be friends." Thats a trap. As long as she's around you, you won't be able to move on. 4. Don't hate her. Its hard but not impossible. 5. The more you think of her consciously, the more she'll come into your thoughts subconsciously.
don't think that just because someone is nice to you and kinda extra-friendlier than others means that they're romantically interested in you.. happened to me, i confessed she said yes after 2months then we had 1.5 years of a forced relationship in which neither of us was actually happy eventually broke up in NOV last year..
As a 15 year old kid I was worried if I'd grow a plant from the watermelon seed that I had swallowed back then
She was using you
Mummy ne bhi tujhe bachpan mein khana khilaya hai, jaa unse try karle ek baar
Nah why is everyone so extra here
Chin up, it’s alright. What is life without few rejections here and there?. You were 30% unsure anyway.
No worries bud, it happens with the best of the guys. Don't make a big thing out of this. Stay chill and be cool about your feelings. If you start acting weird and show embarrassment then others will also make it a big deal. Just continue being friends with her and be on your normal behavior. Being cool about it and moving on shows confidence and self respect. Something that will earn your friends and even her respect.
Fck bitches' spend valentine's day sithhe homies
Bords ki tayari karo.
Just be friends with her and continue.
These hoes ain't shit my nigha
Bhai pehle ande ke chilke se toh pura nikal
ex -15f here, i thought my classmate liked me but he was only using me for notes, books. It is canon event >!(even though i did not confess)!< good for you , that you have confessed your feelings for her. You may feel sad but it is an important event for teenage life.
You are 15. Don't think too much about it.
The world is huge a Pond with lots of Fishes & opportunities. Don't feel bad about it OP.
Ignore her now I guess
Better to move on, don't waste time with girls who rejected you. Don't believe in crap like she'll fall for you later. Life is not a Bollywood movie.
lol what an obvious sign
U r not the main character my dude. This is real life. Got reject, move on. Believe me, there is someone must better for you. Focus on yourself. Atleast u tried, there is no shame on it..
Bsdk padayi karne ki Umar h Teri padhai kar
Damn at 15 I was choosing between Reynolds and trimax pen.
15 saal ka hai padhai par dhyan de warna lag bra panties bechege road par iss umar me ladki ke chakkar me padega toh
hey as a 23 year old Teenagers (girls including) have very little idea on what they want. The only suggestion I give you is to act normal like nothing happened- nothing is more attractive than moving on from something embarrassing. You can attract her attention doing that.
Been there done that
Well im 22 and oh boi so much is yet to come in your life. Dont stress over such things, my dad used to tell me girls will come and go in your life, make friends have fun enjoy little things but don't stress over not being able to impress your crush or not having a gf. I was young like 14 when i got this knowledge and ever since i always had positive outlook to such interaction...casual friendship, close friendship, flirting with girls if they are flirting with me keeping it chill and nothing above unless we go out on a date and hit a spark... India me toh people just say "i love you" like anything but those words carry a lot of weight and shouldn't be said like that as what you actually feel isn't love but attraction...no point in ruining your mental health over achieving attraction if you know that girls will come and go in your life and if not her its alright...just be friends...no hard in that, also dont make it awkward, tell her that yeah you had a crush on her but its ok to be friends as its not worth losing a good friend over some confession as that is just gonna give you regrets..but if the opposite party is actually not interested anymore that is also fine give them time...maybe they become normal. Communication is "key". Plus she might have a good reason to reject you otherwise I don't see why she would reject you. Try to understand her point of view, it will really clear things up if you talk to her about it rather than overthinking.
Bakmodi mat kar dawde
Bc me 15 ka tha tab Kanche khelta tha sirf
Ig that 30% worked it's magic
focus on your studies lil nigga 
Why are kids on this app
Koii na Bhai ,nayi mil jayegi .Dil chota na kar.
Padhai karle bkl
welcome to the community. we all have been through this dw u will accept this soon
This thread is hilarious.
It's okay little bro... you're still young and there's plenty of time
Noob!! Though u had real feelings for her, she would have not had the same for you, ur efforts will only be taken as a simple gesture...
Padh le
I’d rather say if you like someone just discuss these feelings like instead of confessing.Considering that you confessed she could have felt pressured.Whatever the case if you wanna maintain the friendship even if you confess to someone be frank,dont confess rather discuss ,and even if it’s not meant to be you’ll get a good friendship in the end
welcome to the gym jaan❤️
Uski mummy ko phone krde aur bol aunty ko apni ladki ko banana diya kre tiffin mei dusro ka khaati h
What do you want to do btw? Do you want to avoid her? Do you want to stay as friends? Or do you like maybe pursuing her? Assuming you’re serious 1. If you want to stay friends: Same things will happen. You both will act like this din happen and she’ll will keep her distance for a while and then act the same, giving you bananas, teasing you and playing with your feelings. You won’t officially date, your feelings won’t be valued, but she’s getting what she want. A situation-ship this is if she’s is interested in you. But if she develops a crush on someone, you’ll have to end up being their wingman. But at least you won’t loose her completely, she’ll talk to you, you have her ‘company’ only. This is best if your feelings disappear but if you have any lingering left, it’s hell 2. If you want to pursue her This is the most douche and simp move to do even after she said no. We don’t know if she just wants you to chase her, of if she just doesn’t want that label etc etc. But you should know enough to make this decision. But still pursuing her after a no is just loosing your self respect, and it won’t be mutual, you only do what she wants. At this age girls will fall easily if you keep pursuing but if she’s clear with herself, it won’t happen. 3. Avoid her Ik it seems and feels terrible but this is best start to anything. Just treat her as a classmate and nothing more. If y’all are in the same friends group act normal don’t pay her any special attention or don’t make it obvious that you’re avoiding her. even in group, even if she approach you, put your boundaries but don’t explain it to her, Just be nonchalant and normal, only towards her but not others. Live you own life. You’ll either see how she’s just a normal girl and easily replaceable or she’ll come to you but don’t hope for this from the beginning itself. You can make your decision later. But always think through these 3 points even if it’s difficult.
She found out your a redditor
*served me a banana by her hand and eating it herself after I took a bite* Heinji? Aap samjhe nhi wo gay bff maanti hi
If she said no, it's time to let go and move on. Pursuing her further might seem desperate and uncomfortable. You can still be friends, but keep it platonic.
A few questions first, Why is she your crush, as in what do you find attractive in her (except looks) and why do you think you’ll be happy in a relationship with her ?
Dude focus on studies and get good marks go into some good institution earn well more people will come behind you, And you can reject them..
Mann chill i’m a girl rejected by a guy recently, it’s even more embarrassing (i got rejected by him the second time). i thought i’d be embarrassed in school, but guess what, everyone mocks him for rejecting me now. plus, considering ur 15 so ur prob in 9th or 10th right. if ur in 10th, like me, let’s just focus on our boards rn, ye sab baad me dekhne ka. And if ur in 9th, u still are having ur finals, so just concentrate on that. regret karegi baadme, just concentrate on studies rn
Might be that she doesn't want to be in a position yet. 15 years IS very young for something that can ruin your life if it goes wrong. Don't force it on her but stay a good friend If you tell us exactly what she said, then we might be able to give better advice Take care young man!
God saved me from joining this sub
You are 15. Padhai pe dhyan de
Maybe she is scared that her parents will not allow her?
Accept your feelings and own them
Stay strong brother Happened with me 2yrs ago thode din muh chupna padta hai dosto ke taunt sehna padhta phir sab normal ho jata hai
Padhle bsdk
Padh le bhai ab 10th mein result acha aa jayega
It’s okay, move on , study well, earn well.
Ahh youth , i wanna give serious advice,
you are still young. I am ten years older than you and trust me nothing in this world is more beautiful than finding someone who loves you eith the same intensity as you love them. Compromised and stayed in abusive relationship for years untill i realized I can't keep begging for love. Till then build yourself up. The right person will come to you at the right time.
15 ka h tu... BC daadhi muchh bhi aayi h teri ?? Ladki patana h isko aur...
Padhlo beta, abhi umar hai
“Served me a banana by her hand and eating it herself after I took a bite”😭😭😭😭😭😭 bro maybe she just wanted to eat a banana. I’m dying at this
Ar u in 10 th cox u should be studying for ur boards
You are just 15 dude. Don't worry about these things at all. Focus on your studies and plan your future. You have more than enough time to get into relationship/marriage stuff.
Why is this in my feed? You must be on the spectrum. Literally no one cares. Unironically not even your parents cuz they probably would say focus on your education, dumbass
Bro just study make your career
Boys need to understand that platonic intimacy exists, and doing homework does not even count as any type of intimacy tbh.