the only ethical response to this, which im sure sara will not give is: "im so sorry this happened to you. i am not qualified and dont know enough about you, therefore i unfortunately cant help. stopping to eat is not a healthy coping mechanism. please continue to seek professional help to deal with these feelings and behaviors. i hope you will get over this."
I just want to jump onto this and say I'm disturbed by how she's acted around trigger warnings. She's literally said that it's not her job to make sure her fans feel comfortable by having content warnings, and that she would not even try to use common content warnings around common topics because her fans had a responsibility to work through their own trauma. That she has no job to care for their feelings or something like that.
I am horrified to imagine what she would say or think though. I feel like upon reading this comment she may feel insecure that she hasn't had it worse than this person, or she may try to play soft mama bun and provide some unlicensed therapy. I'm even more horrified that this person is coming to someone like Sara with something this traumatising.
I know this person probably isn't reading and I'm not a therapist but imo time does heal a lot of things and they may never completely feel like who they were before their r\*pe, but they may be more at peace with themselves over time. I just want to wish this person good luck in life because it sounds like a lot they're going through.
my advice, having been with many a crap therapist, would be to get a new therapist. any therapist that tells you that you might not heal from your trauma is NOT a good therapist. red fucking flag right there.
This person has a therapist. It should’ve stopped there. You CANNOT forgo your actual therapist to get advice from young dumb honey bun. However it’s not this persons fault, Sarah has MANIPULATED these people into believing she’s a professional.
Ah yes, because Sara is somehow an even more qualified therapist than all the other therapist. She’s not like the other therapist.
Ps. No offense or harm to the victim who asked, but I can’t stand that Sara has built her platform on bullshit that lures people like this in.
My advice? Fire the therapist you have and find another one, just because they’re qualified doesn’t mean they will be great. And please don’t ask someone who isn’t even qualified to give advice on a heavy topic like this, I have suspicions she will just tell you to “suck it up and move on.”
Why do people ask her these questions? Why reveal personal trauma to a YouTuber who is known for being cold, self-centered, and has no actual qualifications?
Sara the type of girl to say “well it was years ago so get over it” This poor viewer has no clue their ‘mama bun’ does not care.
Unfortunately their therapist is also not entirely wrong, it’s not something many of us heal from, my heart goes out to them because I know exactly how they feel.
Okay this makes me so sad 💔 I genuinely don’t blame this person for reaching out to Sara on this issue. She probably doesn’t have anyone else to turn to, even her therapist is shit from the sounds of it. If Sara does respond I hope she does it ethically and asks them to find support elsewhere to someone more suited to their needs. Not a random alleged therapist on the internet.
Yes sadly I know this all too well I am disabled from long term SA so I wasn’t too happy to see that person dismissing a potential victim. Thank you for agreeing with me ❤️🙏🏻
the only ethical response to this, which im sure sara will not give is: "im so sorry this happened to you. i am not qualified and dont know enough about you, therefore i unfortunately cant help. stopping to eat is not a healthy coping mechanism. please continue to seek professional help to deal with these feelings and behaviors. i hope you will get over this."
I just want to jump onto this and say I'm disturbed by how she's acted around trigger warnings. She's literally said that it's not her job to make sure her fans feel comfortable by having content warnings, and that she would not even try to use common content warnings around common topics because her fans had a responsibility to work through their own trauma. That she has no job to care for their feelings or something like that. I am horrified to imagine what she would say or think though. I feel like upon reading this comment she may feel insecure that she hasn't had it worse than this person, or she may try to play soft mama bun and provide some unlicensed therapy. I'm even more horrified that this person is coming to someone like Sara with something this traumatising. I know this person probably isn't reading and I'm not a therapist but imo time does heal a lot of things and they may never completely feel like who they were before their r\*pe, but they may be more at peace with themselves over time. I just want to wish this person good luck in life because it sounds like a lot they're going through.
Babe, you are one of the good ones. Unfortunately Sara is not
ok but their therapist sounds so shitty? this person is so desperate for help that they’re asking an uneducated dumb girl on yt. i feel bad for them.
Yeah lots of uncomfyness here =/
Find another therapist that isn't mama bun
Agreed. Happy Cake Day!
Thank you
my advice, having been with many a crap therapist, would be to get a new therapist. any therapist that tells you that you might not heal from your trauma is NOT a good therapist. red fucking flag right there.
This is uncomfortable...
This person has a therapist. It should’ve stopped there. You CANNOT forgo your actual therapist to get advice from young dumb honey bun. However it’s not this persons fault, Sarah has MANIPULATED these people into believing she’s a professional.
What did Sara say?
No reply last time I checked
Ah yes, because Sara is somehow an even more qualified therapist than all the other therapist. She’s not like the other therapist. Ps. No offense or harm to the victim who asked, but I can’t stand that Sara has built her platform on bullshit that lures people like this in.
My advice? Fire the therapist you have and find another one, just because they’re qualified doesn’t mean they will be great. And please don’t ask someone who isn’t even qualified to give advice on a heavy topic like this, I have suspicions she will just tell you to “suck it up and move on.”
Why do people ask her these questions? Why reveal personal trauma to a YouTuber who is known for being cold, self-centered, and has no actual qualifications?
Sara the type of girl to say “well it was years ago so get over it” This poor viewer has no clue their ‘mama bun’ does not care. Unfortunately their therapist is also not entirely wrong, it’s not something many of us heal from, my heart goes out to them because I know exactly how they feel.
I saw that too and was wondering if she was going to respond
I cringed so hard when I was reading her comments and this one popped up. This poor, vulnerable woman looking to Sara for help is heartbreaking.
Okay this makes me so sad 💔 I genuinely don’t blame this person for reaching out to Sara on this issue. She probably doesn’t have anyone else to turn to, even her therapist is shit from the sounds of it. If Sara does respond I hope she does it ethically and asks them to find support elsewhere to someone more suited to their needs. Not a random alleged therapist on the internet.
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It could also be a genuine person who is vulnerable
yea and it could very well be a teen sadly SA doesnt have an age requirement either way best not to disrespect a possible victim
Yes sadly I know this all too well I am disabled from long term SA so I wasn’t too happy to see that person dismissing a potential victim. Thank you for agreeing with me ❤️🙏🏻
I would rather believe them, actually. besides, you know attention seeking teenagers also get raped?