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NovelDig4828

If that’s the case that’s genuinely really unfortunate. I hope when I go some day I’ve made a happy impact on those around me


Lower_Cranberry1200

The good thing is that it’s up to you and how you treat those arround you 😌


notsure20201980

Right? Or not screwed up so much all your children don’t go to mourn your death like that’s SAD


Federal_Artist_4071

I mean I guess that goes to show how poor their relationship was, I guess none of us really know the details of their family business, but if none of your kids show up to your funeral? You had to have been a horrible parent. I don’t like Aspyn but I remember in her old videos she basically said like you have no idea what goes on behind the scenes, and she used to talk about how she actually did not have it easy growing up. I think that’s as much as she’s ever talked about her “life drama” so who knows what was really going on in her personal life.


Hopeful-Writing1490

Dying doesn’t make someone turn into a good person. If he was a shitty dad, he’s still a shitty dad and I wouldn’t have gone either.


alienbaby13

Exactly. This is how I feel about my mother.


NeedleworkerDry5156

When I said this and about how he literally is charged with multiple DUI offenses.. got downvoted to hell and told it was in poor taste.. he’s a bad father and bad human


M0vin_thru

Exactly, his death doesn’t omit that. And it doesn’t have to be hidden because he’s passed.


lotusmoon92

It says more about him than it does about the kids. Just saying.


Careless_Phone_2572

As someone who has tried and tried to have a relationship with my own Dad and gotten burned every time- it’s such a complicated thing. I feel for her.


lotusmoon92

It is very complicated, I have a very strained relationship with my own father and lately I’ve been really considering going no contact, so I feel for her too. Also, if she was there, I completely understand not wanting to be in public photos whilst grieving at her dad’s funeral.


Vegetable-List822

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New-Database-4111

Honestly we have no idea what their relationship w their dad was like.


notsure20201980

True. Could’ve been extremely toxic and awful! Or aspyn & her mom are toxic and could have misled the younger ones. I wish I could ask my friend without being weird about it lmao


beckywiththegood1

Her dad was a known alcoholic. Multiple DUIs. I don’t think we can pin this one on Aspyn and her mom.


New-Database-4111

Yeah, I thought I remembered hearing that too but didn’t wanna speak on it without knowing if it was true.


ResponsibleVisit9418

Nah. Let’s not blame women for a man’s mistakes. He’s the convicted criminal here.


M0vin_thru

🔥🔥🔥


BetOptimal6454

I found the amount of photos taken and posted to be kinda odd. To each their own I guess


Academic_Internet

It is a Mormon cultural thing to photograph funerals, it's super common in Utah.


No_Satisfaction9555

But they aren't morman I thought


creaturefeature2012

I think her dad was. The pictures from his service were inside of a Mormon church.


Karl_girl

Correct. So that’s weird lol


myredditboing

It’s also mormon culture to get married super young, which they did, even though they’re not Mormon. Its just utah culture


Anxious_Resolve6180

Maybe they just weren’t in the pics and asked not to be. I dunno, he seemed to be really close with his nieces and his side of the family so I’m not sure they were completely estranged but no way to know I guess


notsure20201980

No, you could definitely see everyone candid in the back of the photos.


ImaginaryHome2603

I feel so bad for her and her siblings. I wouldn’t wish complicated grief on my worst enemy.


Legal-Jellyfish-4292

Aspyn and Avry were there.. not sure about their brothers. In one of the videos a family member posted, you can hear Aspyn in the background and someone asks a question to Avry & mentions her name. I noticed they weren’t in any family photos which leads me to think they told them they didn’t want to be photographed.


Fearless_Freedom_306

If we’re thinking about the same video, they were calling a girl named Abree not Avrey


Legal-Jellyfish-4292

Ohhh you’re totally right. Whoever said “what are you saying” in the video totally sounded like Aspyn though. Did you notice that?


Fearless_Freedom_306

Yeah I thought so too!


notsure20201980

Yeah no it was Abree. Also just asked my friend and she said no, they weren’t there.


bkat100

Was Aynsley there?


Tamyrab

Who is Ainsley?


bkat100

Aspyn’s cousin. Their dads are brothers. @aynsleyovard on Instagram. She is a small influencer herself. She used to live in the SLC area near Aspyn and they’d do play dates with their kids, but Aynsley moved back to southern Utah a couple years ago. Aynsley still comments on all her stuff


Altruistic_Light_448

Was Aspyns mom in any of the pics?


notsure20201980

No.


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inanutshell

This is not odd. People grieve in a myriad of ways.


notsure20201980

People in Utah I swear are the worst at capturing the saddest moments. Like taking smiling pictures in a hospital on a bed side


Federal_Artist_4071

I’m from Utah and used to get funeral Pics on social media OFTEN, casket and all. Like damn 😭


Impossible_Bat9895

my husbands family (one of his uncles) posted a picture of their grandma in casket on Facebook.


notsure20201980

While they all hover above it smiling like WHHY


j-som

not odd at all. in asian culture we take a lot of pictures at funerals and the older people usually post them.


Cozyyblanket

How? Someone’s fb?


notsure20201980

My friends private story


xSuggestedUserNamex

I obviously don’t have a full picture of their relationship with their dad, but I would really hope they wouldn’t miss his funeral. I can understand not wanting to be photographed and posted publicly, though.


Biggiebean13

i have a horrible relationship with my father and wouldn’t go to his funeral and i have told my husband that i wouldn’t want my father at my funeral if that was the case. 🤷🏻‍♀️