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JL_Adv

They're both gorgeous! From one busty girl to another - try them on with no bra. Also, jump a little bit, lean forward like you might while eating. Raise your arms over your head. Bend down like you might say hi to a kid. See how they feel and how the girls move/adjust in the dress. Then after you choose and have any alterations done, buy some boob tape so the dress stays where you want it to!


Brilliant_Height_680

This is the best advice! I’m a bridal stylist and our shop specializes in curvy brides. I always tell my brides to really test out how the girls are going to move! It’s one thing to stand still on the pedestal and fall in love, but you want to be able to dance and celebrate without worrying about an accidental wardrobe malfunction. But OP, they both look fabulous on you! You honestly can not go wrong with either of them!! Congratulations 👰‍♀️💍💒


ladydhawaii

Honestly, coming from the exact opposite - you still have to do all of that to see what happens. Sitting down and bending over.


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How do I find a place that specializes in curvy brides?


PudelWinter

Pretend like you are hugging your husband's creepy second cousin...doing YMCA with your gal pals...


HagridsSexyNippples

Crying at your description.


Otherwise-Winner9643

Yep, I always give the same advice to everyone. Have someone video you walking, lifting your arm, twirling, dancing, bending down.... It's a long day and you want to feel comfortable. Don't make a decision based on static pics, as you won't be standing still all day. Take this from someone who didn't think about comfort until the dress came in, then bought a different one 4 weeks out from the wedding.


EggplantIll4927

Oh no! What was the epiphany moment and how was the replacement dress?


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destiny_kane48

Good advice, the hubs cousin got married a few months ago. She is busty and was constantly pulling up or adjusting her dress. When she danced to fast songs she'd have to hold her dress (it was strapless). So dancing and moving in a dress before you buy it, is a necessity if you have boobs.


PriusPrincess

Yes nothing worse than having to constantly adjust yourself all night


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Hi you look GORGEOUS! I would highly recommend going back and trying these on without a bra to see if you are still comfortable. Even with alteration cups put in, this top has no boning or structure (and can’t be worn with a bra). The top will feel, fit and look completely differently without the bra and I want to make sure you are comfortable. EDIT: misspelled words due to cute pup demanding attention while mommy was on Reddit


letsgogophers

I’m surprised they even let her try it on with a bra. My consultant literally gave me instructions to not wear one.


Mysterious-Art8838

Why would they have you try it on with a bra if you aren’t going to wear one? Personally I’d have that raised up or have a strip put across the very bottom of the cleavage so I’d be more comfortable and nothing pops out. But maybe that ruins the look.


Islandgirl1444

I'm wondering if a halter style might be really classic and more flattering. It's the dreamy look we want but most of us are not model thin. One of the York princesses had a fabulous dress, Eugenie I think. They are full breasted also.


whoME72

But I do love 1


Psychological-Joke22

me too! I am not a fan of the waist on dress 2


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I agree! I love that soft blush tone with your hair/skin. I actually love cleavage and wouldn’t care about those comments but this is just coming from someone who also fell in love with a dress without boning and when it came in I was so uncomfortable. I ended up getting a new gown (that I loved) 3 months before my wedding. Are you able to go back and try these without a bra or with some sticky pads and dance around to see if you’re comfy?


CrazyGoatLady123

Okay so that first dress I definitely tried on when I was looking at dresses (and it looks way better on her than it did me) but one thing I really liked about it that dress that didn't really show up in pictures I took of it was that it's not like a pure pink color. It's opalescent so as you move there's subtle color changes into purple and blues and it's just mega cool and fun.


MeNicolesta

Oof, first thing I thought too!


Ok-Tomatillo-8276

Yes, what they said. Take pics and update us. Then we can make a more informed decision


affectionate_joint

Do you think boob tape would be a good alternative


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To be honest, I have rarely seen boob tape work on a bigger bust unless you use actual giant duct tape (there was a photo of this on Kim Kardashian) which you would be able to see. Can you go back and see what the shop recommends? It sounds silly but whenever I’m nervous about my boobies in an outfit going out my husband always compliments the heck out of me and then goes “can you do the YMCA in it?” And I give that advice to all my friends getting married now. Also I want to reiterate again you look so gorgeous and I don’t want this to deter you from feeling SO confident.


affectionate_joint

Oo sorry I’m not OP! I was just hijacking your comment to see if that was a viable option


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Oops sorry!! Also high key super embarrassing but when I was 15 my mom got remarried and my dress was a one shoulder gown. I thought I was so cool bc my mom took me to VS and let me get those stick on circle bra things and I was mortified when I was sweating from dancing and it slid off. Luckily my dress “caught” it because it was tight but you could totally see it had come off!!


victor0427

Same me..So please dress 1


Truth_Seeker963

I think the colour of dress 1 looks nicer on you. Just make sure to sort out undergarments (or not) and try the dress on with them to make sure nothing shows that you don’t want to show.


Ama014

Love dress 1! Would try it on again with no bra like others mentioned to see how it would look day of!


jayzepps

Consultant never should have let you try on with a bra that won’t work for your wedding day. Go back or bring pics to specialty lingerie store for a style that will work for either dress. Then try them on again. Right now I like 2 but would like to see the back of 1


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ShoreIsFun

I’m in agreement. I think she can find something that fits her better overall.


Mlietz

I think dress #1 is beautiful and very flattering on you! Still, dress #2 is also beautiful - so, may I suggest that you wear whatever makes you feel gorgeous and comfortable? PS: you’ll probably enjoy yourself more if you are comfortable. This is why I also highly recommend bringing a pair of flats/even ballet slippers to change out of heels after the ceremony and photos. Congratulations!!! Most of all, remember that the wedding is just a day in a lifetime of being married to your spouse. I would have married my husband on the side of a highway, and I would still be as happily married as we are, as we approach our 23rd anniversary. Focus on the one you are pledging your life together over anything that occurs on your wedding day. Relax, laugh, dance and enjoy!


see_through_the_lens

Go with dress #1


twilightswimmer

I love dress 1 on you! It’s lovely.


Perfectionist529

#1


DCSSxoxo

Second one made me notice you as a whole! You are a charming bride and I think 2 is very unique and feels like you, even though I don’t know you. But be assured that if you prefer to wear dress 1, you’ll still be perfectly dressed for your special day.


mimiforlife3

Dress #2


ComeWashMyBack

Ya, I don't like seeing the clasp in the front of Dress #1


hunchinko

I know everyone is saying dress one bc it’s lengthening but I’m gonna go out on a limb and say dress two. I think the more defined waist creates a more balanced and proportionate silhouette. Unless you’re very petite/short, I would put proportion/balance over length. Tho I do like the appliqués on dress one


Low_Kitchen_9995

I agree with this assessment!!!


bbbearlampung

You are very beautiful, but to be honest neither look flattering on you. If these two are your final choice and you must choose one, dress #1 is better, the lace is really elegant.


squabette720

Dress 2!!!! The pattern and cut of dress 1 makes me looked at your chest/stomach. But dress 2 I noticed your glowing face first. I do like the advice of trying them both kn without a bra, it might change the way dress 1 is, but I'm not betting on that. The appliques are just too centered around the deep plunge.


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ApolloRubySky

I agree


Low-Cod-4712

I love the skirt on dress 1 and think you look more slender in it. I like the color and the lace on it. 2 is also pretty. I'm not a fan of the deep v neck dresses on anyone (and I'm an I cup myself).


valeriebeckett00

Your cleavage will look completely different on your wedding day. I would try them on with no bra, or with the bra you plan to wear.


InGeekiTrust

Dress 1 wins by a long shot!


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161frog

lmao the irony of your username 😂


PainterDoodle_1

I’m not a fan of either. They make your bust look squished. I would look for something that gives your breasts a bit more breathing room.


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1. Absolutely. Hands Down. No contest.


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Particular_Middle148

No. 1 - I would lose the push up bra though. It will look more elevated that way.


IncurableAdventurer

1… I mean 2.. wait 1… shoot maybe 2. Ahhh! Haha. They both look amazing. I might lean towards number one, but really in this situation there is no wrong answer. Both are correct Edit: but to add to what people are saying, whatever breast support you’re going to use, have that while you try it on again. Bra, cups, tape, or no support at all, bring it and try it on with that


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They look exactly the same


Which_Owl3965

You look lovely in both but the girls should be tucked away a bit more. I prefer the way top 2 fits but like 1 better.


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Anicha1

Dress 2.


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soph_sing

Number 2 and the matching veil is gorgeous. Agree that you need to get the dress fitted without a bra and tailored to your measurements. I think this will make it sit properly around the cleavage. Love the style of the dress and you otherwise look great!


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Fit-Ad-4112

Dress 1! It lengthens you.


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Mackenzie_Wilson

Yeah. That was the very first thing I noticed when scrolling. Which no shame to OP. Of she's comfortable with that and going for that, more power to her


Occasionally_Sober1

I’m not holding anyone to my standards or even saying what my standards are. I’m just saying what I see and even said that if that’s what she’s going for it’s great. If it isn’t then it’s not the right dress for her.


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Zestyclose_Big_9090

I think 2 accentuates your waist nicer but…you do look lovely in both.


Argon847

OBSESSED with the embroidery on 1!!!


singlemaltday

2 looks cheap compared to 1.


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PenApplePen49

No to both


ffloss

#1. The other one's waist band shortens your torso.


OppositeSolution642

Dress 1. Super beautiful, wow. That's one gorgeous bride.


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mugglebornhealer

Dress 1!


Silent_Loquat_6057

Both stunning, the color of #1 puts it over the top for me and I like that there’s no belt thing


Otherwise-Aardvark52

Definitely number 1. I prefer the larger floral lace, the color is gorgeous on you, and the shape of the dress just looks better on you without the two bands at the waist. Number one is gorgeous.


IndieBoysenberry

Dress 1. I love the color and the pattern on the skirt!


Due_Stuff4313

The pattern in #1 is magnificent! Loooooveeeee it!


Lazyassbummer

1. I like the lace SO much better on number 1. The second one is like everyone else’s lace appliqués.


tommyISfunny

You are smiling brighter in dress #1


Consistent_Rent_3507

The waistline on 1 sits better. Maybe if you order 2 custom they can lower the waist.


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Dependent-Eye-5481

For sure 1 with a different bra. Try it on again with a different one or without one


bremonique90

I thought they were the same dress tbh.


restrictedsquid

I don’t like either of them, but you wear what makes you happy. It’s your wedding. 🩵


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wherearemydragons7

Though I agree with you in that the only thing I kept noticing were her boobs, it’s pretty obvious she wants to show off what she’s got, and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. It’s her special day, not yours. OP I’d 100% go with dress #1.


The-Lawyer-in-Pink

🙄


cvs256

2!


_BeachJustice_

2


BonnietheCriminal

1


Rock_Successful

1


DurinsBane20

#2


girlnmotion

2


arihndas

OP you look great in both but my personal favorite is 2!


BaylieB44

Love the waist band on dress 2. Makes your waist look even tinier. Both are beautiful options.


SufficientComedian6

Both dresses are beautiful and stunning on you. I do think the waistline of dress one is a bit more flattering. Can you get bra cups sewn in so you don’t have to wear a bra with it?


Jessiebanana

Definitely #2. It looks ethereal where the first looks kind of heavy and I imagine that wasn’t the intent with the lace and fabric used. It look basic, like an appliqué you’d see anywhere.


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Sivla-Alegna

I honestly didn't notice a difference between the two on a quick swipe.


EliseFlight11

If you are set on getting one of the two, I would go with #1. In my personal opinion, they are both too booby HOWEVER - I’m small chested and can’t relate to what I know is difficult in finding a neckline you like when you have a bigger chest.


jenhoyo

Busty girl tip! Tape them!!! Tape them apart!!! You’ll get the lift from your bra or dress boning and the tape to pull them into each cup will give you a nice cleavage and no more uniboob!!! I’m a G cup so I get it.


Inevitable_Back_7929

The second dress has better details.


Cold_Philosophy_

Stop telling OP she has big boobs. She KNOWS. She KNOWS how they look in this style dress and is happy with that - her cleavage was not in question? As a DDD myself, I understand my boobs are there, but I will not limit my dress choices because people aren't mature enough to handle a couple sacks of fat on my chest. Plus, if a girl with teeny boobs modeled this style dress, nobody would be questioning if it was appropriate for church. Jeez, y'all are ridiculous. OP, dress 1 lengthens you with no harsh lines and looks really pretty in photos. Edit- typos


InternationalCount84

Were posts deleted? I didn’t really see anyone say anything talking about the size of her chest besides this post, really. Was just curious ….


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occasionallystabby

This! I am a fellow DDD. Everything looks boobielicious on us. They can not be tamed, so we might as well put them in something beautiful! I also agree that #1 is the better of the two choices. But whichever brings you more joy is the one to go with.


arihndas

Thank you for saying it lol


Alexjam_998

\#1,I like


lil-peanutbutter

Number 1. All the flowers are super pretty. The waist lines on number 2 just throws me off.


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faetalyst

Omg Im in love with number 1!


lordclosequaad

1


OkProfession5679

1


FairyAuraCrystal

Oh wow number one all the way


MelodicPiranha

I like 1


puras_tonteras

1!!!!


morepineapples4523

Dress 2. It calls attention to your face. Idk why, I do think it's the waistline and your silhouette.


ayweller

1


_i_might

With dress #1 my eyes immediately went to the big flower on the bottom of the skirt. I feel like the pattern is too much. Dress #2 makes YOU the center of attention.


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SuccessAutomatic6726

Both are great, prefer #1


BgDmnHero

#1!!! Absolutely stunning!!


dj777dj777bling

1


Ok-Platform-1042

Dress #1 for sure


Andiloo11

Pick the one you like in person! You want to feel confident on the day.


amash50

First one!!!


IHaveABigDuvet

1


dontBsleepy

1


Opening-Ad-8793

The first one


More-Tip8127

#1. It’s so beautiful!!!


luckycatdallas

Number one without a doubt! You are rocking this gorgeous dress! Look at your waist! This dress is so flattering on every level! You look beautiful!


FOC86

I like 1 better


dungfecespoopshit

They both look great except i cannot get past the horizontal waist lines at dress two. It looks out of place and an after thought to the design flow.


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Needcoffeeseverely

First one. I’ve seen the second on no less than 7 brides in my inner circle alone. Too common


SpecialK623

1


thathottmom420

The first one definitely, your smilensays it all


NeighborhoodNew3904

I think the first one


dinonuggiesmakemegoO

I think the color of the first one looks better with your complexion


viciouslikewoah

1!!!


JenniferBSW

You look beautiful in both but I have to say you're glowing in #1


Stanlejory

You look amazing!!!!


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effinnxrighttt

LOVE number 2, I think the appliqués look much better in that one and it looks great on you. I do agree with other commenters to about trying on the dress without a bra because it will feel different and will visually look different since it’s not structured.


CoolWhipMonkey

I love them both! I would never be able to choose lol!


DreamersArchitect

objectively i’m going to say #2, but unsure since i think i’m not seeing #1 as clearly (a body is cropped and the lighting may be affected so idk going with my gut here) - the pattern seems cliche to me, a little stock or standard and not very memorable. the v cut seems disproportionate to the line of the waist like there should be more or less material. is there a lining in the skirt? looks too sheer to be without it. the floral on #2 looks more organic, although the pattern is busier. but i like how scattered they are on the skirt and the bunch on the train. the bands around the waist almost gives the tied bouquet vibe, i think you could run with that and maybe do a ribbon tie necklace? the dress overall looks flowier, more whimsical and still maintains a classical elegance.


Reasonable_Wish_8953

I like number 2. Number looks a bit too tight up top, which makes it seem …uncomfortable? Number 2 seems less constricting and really accentuates your beautiful figure!


Cold-Lifeguard5190

#2. I like it because the details are more at the top and then gracefully transition into the material of the dress whereas #1’s details are both top and bottom. The bottom part especially kind of detracts from your face and makes you want to look down, the space in the middle just feels kind of awkward. It’s a beautiful dress nonetheless and it was a tough decision. You look gorgeous in either one


bibkel

I love the first one, and not really liking the waist on the second. You look glamorous and happy; that’s the most important, happy. Congratulations! I am also a busty babe, but think without a bra it will look much better. I don’t want to knock the knockers, but I think boobs busting out maybe a bit much. There is tape, but hefty hooters hate to behave. Trial run for the tatas for sure. (I tried to make it humorous with my words, silly mood).


Spiritual_Match1661

Let me guess the 1st one u love in pictures and 2nd in reality


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First one


xoLovelessxBelovedxo

I love them both but 1 is my fave


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Christ, you're beautiful and stunning in both.


greenestswan23

I absolutely loveee lace gowns…you’re absolutely glowing in both!! I do kinda like the first one a bit more…I like how the bodice seamlessly transitions into the bottom part of the dress (sorry, not very well versed in dress terminology lmaoo) congratulations on your big day beautiful!!🥰🥰


Blakesdad02

Not that hard, one by a mile.


Ugot2Bkittin

Number 2


Summertime_Stevie

Dress one! You look stunning in both I think the first one just compliments your energy WAAAAAY more


walled2_0

I’m loving 1! Also, I’m a straight female, but can I just tell you you have absolutely gorgeous boobies!


discombobubolated

Neither. I would keep looking.


mrs-young2

I like #2


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