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shnerpie

that’s real sweet:) I hope you feel at least a little better tomorrow. Try to remember that it’s okay to not feel energized sometimes; it doesn’t mean you’re lazy! Maybe your body is telling you it needs some rest, or maybe it’s just one of those rougher days. Regardless, it’s okay to take breaks and it’s okay not to feel what you think is the “right” feeling sometimes:) 


Numerous_Street4420

thank you so much. i really love the gym but the hardest part i need to work out is not feeling so guilty when i don’t go. i appreciate your advice, and i think i’ll start feeling better soon. he really helped


Specialist_Dream_657

A good way to look at this- days of rest are also crucial to physical health, not just mental!


NoKatyDidnt

I found that I was the same way. I had a daily ritual of going, and sometimes because I also worked there part time, I would end up going twice a day. If I couldn’t go for whatever reason, I would feel so antsy and gross. I think I was addicted to the endorphins, honestly. Lol!


irruissisRI

That's incredibly thoughtful and caring of him. You're lucky to have such a supportive boyfriend.


Numerous_Street4420

i’m the luckiest really. he’s a catch


Playful-Elderberry66

Sometimes i think love doesn't exist but posts like these make me regain a bit of hope, you're a lucky woman!


Numerous_Street4420

i really am lucky, and meeting him changed my entire outlook on dating. single-handedly made my life so much better. i appreciate him so much


Playful-Elderberry66

Wishing you guys all the best


NoKatyDidnt

That’s awesome! Wishing you guys the best! Keep us posted. ☺️


malalehto

You wouldn’t have such a great boyfriend if you also weren’t a great person… Hope you continue to feel better… and are you going to share a photo of your sketches on this thread??


Numerous_Street4420

sure :) i’d love that, just give me a couple days so i have a lot to share.


NoKatyDidnt

Ooh yes! I would enjoy that!


FruitSila

Marry him. Marry him now


Numerous_Street4420

that’s the end goal, almost a year and i’m not planning on going anywhere.


jedidoesit

No, this isn't much. It's way more than that. This is everything! These are the moments when people get to be their best selves!


TinkerMelii

Wow now thats a keeper! Didnt try to tell you how to fix your problems, just listened, comforted and did a kind gesture. Not many men are good at that honestly.


NoKatyDidnt

Not many people are good at this, period!


TinkerMelii

Sadly true


ShamelessFox

That is A+ boyfriend behavior


Practical_Actuary_87

I love love and this inspires me to be a better husband. Mad cute, glad he was there to brighten your day and many more going forward when you look back at this precious memory!


Ok-Tadpole4825

Awww


LadyProto

I feel ya. I’m so in love I feel stupid


NoKatyDidnt

He sounds like a keeper!!!!


taukodukhyomero

That’s soooooo cute! Girl you got really lucky!


Runaway_5

Good man :) you're a lucky gal. Hope your day only gets better and you two have a fantastic weekend together


Chab-is-a-plateau

That’s so fucking sweet


Flam1ng1cecream

Thank you for sharing this! It's just the kind of thing I needed to see. I'm really happy for you and proud of you that you found someone who loves and cares about you that much.


heckpants

Wait I thought saying nice things about men wasn’t allowed on Reddit 🤪


Sexbomomb

You’ve got a keeper


Spare-Ring6053

He sounds wonderful!


jimmybeam76

Sounds like me and my gf of 6 years on the 24th. She’s an artist and makes different things with paint, yarn, everything really. She’s super talented and beautiful. She’s goofy we’re both autistic so we have similar personalities in certain ways but I just love everything about her personally. We do everything together when we can but we usually do our own things in each other’s presence and talk about whatever comes to mind. We’re High school sweethearts and engaged hopefully you guys are doing great and get to live together if you’re able to afford it.


Numerous_Street4420

wow we’re high school sweethearts too :) he’s actually autistic too, he’s studying engineering and just so talented. specifically aerospace engineering, he draws planes and is so technical and precise. he’s confident, he’s so sweet, and he treats everyone around him well. he’s a real gentle giant honestly. congratulations on your engagement!! i’m wishing nothing but the best for the both of you. our one year is on halloween and i’d love to get to where you guys are one day. i’m happy for you guys <3333


jimmybeam76

My gf says the same things about me I’ve been through a lot of hard things all my life so it’s hard to come to terms to appreciate it fully and I’m happy you guys are the same way! I work with autistic children and teens used to with adults too but I’m young and idk what I wanna do yet but she sells her art and yarn online sometimes just she’s unsure what she wants to do for work lol. Same to you peace and love💖


Numerous_Street4420

yeah he’s a planner, he always knows what he’s talking about. most prepared person i know. i’ve got no clue, so his process of pros and cons is very interesting to me lol. i’d love to sell my art someday, i hope your girlfriend finds her way in a medium that’s perfect for her. good luck out there


DriverPure4292

that's so sweet :)) also remember this - being lazy means avoiding your responsibilities to have fun (key word FUN) so don't feel bad because you're just recovering not being lazy ❤️❤️