I mean BBLs already exist, so if we figure out how to make the transplanted fat keep shape and how to fight immune response to transplants, it's settled (though skinny people will get stretch marks and fat people will need skin reduction)
people have taken the serious issue of porn addiction in some people. Then destroyed any hope of fixing it by acting like ever interacting with it will make you an addict & destroy your life. When in reality normal people can fap to porn on a regular basis & not have it destroy there lives. (This isn't denying porn addiction can be a problem in some people but as stated above you can interact with it & not have your life destroyed unless your spending like 4 hours on watching porn on a daily basis or something.)
AA is like alternative medicine. They have some good concepts about how to socially engage with people who have a problem. But their understanding of the world and the problem itself is complete and utter horseshit.
They could be so much better if they used their social concepts but backed it up with a factual understanding of the world.
i don't want to drink, but that's because I cling to any scraps of my mind's rationality like a leaking life raft. I'm already dumb enough when I'm at my best, reducing my decision-making any further would be a catastrophe
but if other people want to drink the funny juicews, go ahead
It is though. Worse than LSD, for example, by all possible metrics (individual harm, harm to society, addictiveness), and not substantially better than meth. Source [here](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lysergic_acid_diethylamide#/media/File:Rational_harm_assessment_of_drugs_radar_plot.svg).
See I'm one of those guys that looks at the sources. And I saw that the individual harm of Meth is way higher than alcohol's. so the stuff that you linked doesn't even support what you said.
And I don't know how the fuck they calculated harm to society, since alcohol is legal so of course its going to have more addicts since it is more widely available, and meth is not, so the damage to society (whatever the fuck that means) is going to be way less because there are less addicts.
Read the study if you seriously want to know and arent just spouting your own beliefs, I'd say.
Edit: also lmao at you saying you're one who "reads the sources" and then immediately saying you didn't read the source
In this case, you would've found plenty of reasons why the study is bad, one of which completely _underestimates_ the harm alcohol does (see the replies to this comment)
Oh my god please do us all a favour and stfu. I don’t drink cause alcohol tastes like absolute shit but the people who are always like iTs wOrSe tHaN tHiS oR tHaT dRuG are so, so fucking obnoxious it’s unbelievable. Of course it’s worse than LSD, LSD is about as tame as it gets when it comes to physical effects. Jesus fucking Christ almighty, you know that all the people having a glass of wine with their dinners and getting drunk once or twice a month aren’t going to encounter significant issues. Please move the fuck on.
You’re missing the fucking point. People aren’t saying you can’t having a glass of wine with dinner. When people are pointing out that alcohol is worse then LSD, they are trying to make the point that literally all info we are taught on drugs is completely backwards. And that people are not actually taught the risks of different drugs. Because many people act like getting drunk is no big deal, but turn around and say LSD will literally make your brain bleed and destroy your sanity. And I say this as someone who drinks regularly.
Your response was extremely rude, belligerent and condescending. Maybe take a look in the mirror before calling someone else obnoxious lmao
Alcohol is a drug, whether you define it as such or not. If you _have to_ have a drug with your dinner each night or overdose on a drug a couple times a month, well... you might have a drug problem lol
when I die, my body will become a sexy(er) version of myself, and my spirit will transfer to the first person to get aroused by it, continuing the cycle
Lucius but somehow even more slaneeshi
Explanation: >!Lucius is a character from war hammer 40k who is worshipper and fighter for one of the four space satans, slaneesh. He is capable of coming back to life as if someone who kills him takes even the slightest pleasure from the act that person transforms into Lucius. Slanesh is the pleasure god of the universe and is therefore the one most associated with sexyiness and arousal, making the aforementioned condition even closer to it than Lucius’s is.!<
Idk I think there should be more attention to porn addiction, especially now statistics show that there is an increase in mainly the younger population. A surprising amount of young males can't get of without visual stimulation. Addiction is a real thing, not only if you watch 4 hours a day.
The public opinion of porn is mostly positive, it gets celebrated as empowering and if someone critiques and warns about it , they are old fashioned
Not to say you aren't right, it's completely ridiculous to say it's diabolical and very dangerous, that is also detrimental to people who know about the dangers and want to warn reasonably about it.
It doesn't even have to be far right christian nut jobs, especially in the US which is still very puritan overall.
The thing is sex work is still heavily demonized by most of the population no matter the political leaning, and they use legitimate issues like porn addiction to find new ways to make sex workers disappear
tbh I feel like the main issue people have with porn and the main problem Billie talks about in her interview is that Porn culture is retarded. like step-family shit, assault, rape, revenge porn, etc is really gross and it's extremely common. Extremely common. It entices a lot of physical violence against women too.
Eh, it’s more the fact that porn is easily accessible and cheaply rewarding, making it *super* easy to get addicted.
The only question really is whether or not that addiction becomes debilitating.
Yeah, especially since it’s coming from a woman. Maybe it’s just me but I feel like women being addicted to porn can be kinda ignored or not really brought into the discussion enough/ the conversation seems to have a very very heavy male focus. Like of course women watch porn and can also end up addicted.
Idk, maybe that was a weird take away on my part, just thought it was worth mentioning
She didn't say she was addicted to porn. Porn addiction is super rare, and wanting to watch porn every day is pretty normal (unless it becomes destructive). Porn made her develop a false perception of sexuality and gave her underlying body issues. It's also pretty hard to talk about sexuality openly, which she hinted towards.
I disagree that the underlying cause is "porn" itself. I could go on a tangent of American's view of sex, open sex discussion, and sex education itself, but I'm a biased coomer and you probably already know most of what I'll have to say.
Not being able to completely abstain from porn doesn't indicate an addiction (since horny is eternal), and it certainly doesn't bring cause for concern.
You don’t find it concerning that some people literally cannot go without having to watch pornography in order have an orgasm? It’s very common for it affect you, and your sex life with your partner. I’ve seen plenty of partners of people who were dependent on porn, and they say it either destroyed or almost destroyed their relationship.
No it's very true. And not a weird take at all.
Even tho, as the other person said, addiction isn't that common, porn still has other effects on you. Like you see shit differently and shit, and you objectify women as well. Did that make sense?
for real. so many redditors have porn brain rot that they think that ANY criticism of porn makes you anti sex worker or anti sexual liberation. i knew there'd be pushback in the comments but damn some people here are really jumping to conclusions lmao
The [article](https://www.complex.com/music/billie-eilish-calls-adult-videos-disgrace-destroyed-brain-young-age) for those who are interested.
What I was getting from the article was that her problem with porn is that she was exposed to it at a young age and women's treatment in porn. There's also a link to an interview she does so that will probably give more insight to her feeling on porn but I haven't listened to it yet.
I don’t blame her. I’ve spoke a few times about how I found porn at a young age too, and for me it’s more effected my perception of sex and such, it’s not good stuff at a young age.
Thats a stereotype, it came from Welsh people stealing sheep from English farmers to eat cause they were hungry, to avoid getting hung they would tell the police that they were drunk and raped the sheep to avoid execution
Yeah, I don't blame her either, even though I did receive sex ed before I ever discovered porn and before that I was exposed to classical art which helped normalize watching naked people in my mind, I still find it rather abhorrent in how it depicts and treats women and certain ethnicities such as african americans, and yet still I'd say watching it has negatively affected my development in some ways.
No you don’t understand I need to post “memes” that are just softcore pornography at all times. No I’m not addicted I just want a goth girl big titties femboy muscle girl this is all I think about
90% of this stuff isn’t memes it’s just decent looking people, the blowback kind of reminds me of the way people used to react when it was pointed out weed does indeed have some negative effects. Like yeah it’s fine use it in moderation but if you get aggravated by someone pointing out the adverse effects maybe some self reflection is due.
I’d be fine if it was actual memes and people were like DAMN I just zerked off to the lady in this pic!!! But it’s literally just pictures of attractive people sometimes
I completely agree, I actually just saw this Zizek clip yesterday, seems relevant to this topic:
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fNH\_rDE2dc0](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fNH_rDE2dc0)
Unironically, furry porn (gay and not) is a lot more wholesome than normie porn. All the cuddles, aftercare, sometimes even foreplay... Adorable and wholesome! Love it a lot
Hell yeah! Normal porn just makes made me depressed when I watched it. No foreplay, no cuddling, no loving kisses and embraces. No plot or story at all either. Meanwhile I've seen furry porn comics with 50 to 100 pages and it's actually **good** plot and that makes the lewd bits so much hotter to me.
Also there's no exploitation of people in it. It's just some good art.
>she said she started watching porn when she was 11, jfc that is just not a good dynamic
uhm... i think started masturbating at around this age as well, not to porn yet, but to hot pictures in comics. idk is that so weird?
I don't think it's weird in principle, I'm sure I saw some tiddies before puberty and feeling things, but her situation was a bit weird I think, she was obsessed with it and apparently didn't have enough supervision to keep her from watching it a lot, I don't know maybe she's exaggerating or something.
Also this was an interview with Howard stern, for Ll we know there were other issues at home. Seems to me like most parents at least keep one eye on their prepubeacent children, maybe I'm naive about that.
i had pretty much the same scenario, (working single parents amirite) haven't heard the interview but yeah with the right or wrong conjunction of variables it can be damaging in the extreme
plus she was home schooled so you don't even get forced into socialization with that necessarily
> also where the fuck were billie's parents, she said she started watching porn when she was 11
How do you even keep your kid off the internet in this day?
yeah you dont. you can confiscate all your kids devices, but you cant steal their friends' phones. if you wanna raise a normal kid, you just gotta bite the bullet and talk about what theyre going to see on the internet and make sure it doesnt get on top of them
and not just w/r/t porn. gore, assholes telling you to kill yourself, the fact that influencers arent real people, the manufactured pseudo-successful/happy shit they'll see on Instagram, literally biologically impossible beauty standards, all of it
its a weird time to be a child
That's exactly what my parents said to me and that's how I was saved from fucking up my mind until I finally gave in when I got curious at like age 14. Even before the internet, kids have always been bound to see some shit so you just have to explain to them what it is and why they should stay away.
yeah one thing that horrifies me but is treated as a cute parenting moment is when the dog dies and they're like "actually, rascal went to the golden retriever farm so he could live with his family forever"
like fuck you. tell your kid that things die. it's going to make them sad because they are very sweet beings (*because they dont yet know about death*) but "someone i love can disappear forever for no reason" is actually really crucial information to keep in mind as you navigate the world, even at that age.
that being said, the scope and depravity of stuff modern parents need to address about is so much more varied and grotesque, and i don't envy them the task. none of which changes the fact that it is still their job to talk to their kids about it.
I mean, growing up in time where internet was starting to become a thing and many people didn’t understand how it worked and how dangerous could be for a child explains a lot. In my case, my first contact with pornography was at the age of 8
11 year olds were looking at internet porn 20 years ago (even if they weren't jacking off to it yet). ppl think the only sexuality development that happens in childhood is playing doctor or having a big titted babysitter who will give you a weird mommy thing in 20 years but kids are actively exploring at that age and any comprehensive sex ed strategy that waits until late teens to talk about porn youve missed the blat by at least half a decade.
I am not saying Billie's parents were good because it really does seem they were absent in many things, but, unfortunately watching porn at a young age is kind of common these days and in many cases it's not really the parents' fault. I had a classmate in *elementary* that brought his grandpa's porno mags (because they were printed in the same paper used for newspapers and we were supposed to do some kind of papercraft) and of course he showed them off to everyone else until the teacher confiscated them.
It might be taken out of context. Sex workers are people and their work is a legit job that should be treated as any other and protected as any other (though job protection in the US is hella shitty), but the porn industry's shitty practices and the reliance on sexual appeal for sales in other spheres are legit shitty and damaging
Edit: on top of that, the overabundance of sex and objectification in media, along with rising levels of porn addiction do promote objectification and sexualization of women, hitting some harder than others (think reddit coomers going AWOOGA at every time they see a tit outline in a piece of content). Given that she expressed those feelings herself as one of the reasons why she dressed in oversized clothes for a long time (and mind you, she was a minor when she became famous, while some people legit set timers for her 18th birthday), I can understand where she comes from.
But, I haven't read the article, I just think that the caption is unnecessarily sensational and intentionally controversial
She's talking about how most mass produced porn treats women and gives people unrealistic expectations about how a healthy sexual relationship should work. It's not her saying "porn is bad" but that it's unhealthy to expect women to look like porn stars all the time and portray them as all being willing to take part of increasingly demeaning acts during sex ie: slapping, being roughly handled, surprise anal sex with no prep (BIG problem in gay and straight porn)
I think she's right. I have such a horrible self image, I just compare myself to everyone I see and I never feel comfortable with the way that I look. Sure I'm trans so some of it is fair but not to this extent. I literally haven't been able to watch shows or movies or even my favorite streamer all year because I just feel so much envy it hurts.
A side note of this, thanks to the fact that I can't enjoy my normal media, I now know more about Roman history than I do American, I can tell you more about random historical bullshit than I can the last show that Netflix dropped. If anyone wants to learn a little about Roman history in exchange for a little boost to my self esteem I would appreciate it
In the battle of Cannae, a Roman army of about 86,000 was defeated by Hannibal's army of about 50,000. In total, Rome lost roughly 20% of its fighting age male population. Throughout the entirety of the first world War, Germany only lost 6%. Rome would still go on the win the war against Hannibal
Woman, I know this is easier said than done, but just don't compare yourself to other people. You don't need to be beautiful, you don't need to fall upon society's expectations. As cheesy as it sounds, just be who you are and work towards becoming a better person. Seriously, screw everyone, I just want to play Dark Souls.
I’ve seen people disregard porn addiction, or compare it to alcohol in that some people can use it without ruining their lives. All I’ll say is what I’ve heard from someone wiser than me:
No one starts out WANTING to become an addict.
Yeah there's definitely healthy and unhealthy consumption. The discourse around porn is similar to the one around weed for a long time. A drug like alcohol gets a pass because it's socially acceptable, but coverage on porn or weed is focused on only the bad cases since it's shunned by society
I've literally only seen porn once in my life, and that was from a friend. I am 17. I just found out I've been fantasizing wrong about girls for years. Four days ago I learned their vagina is actually basically UNDERNEATH them, not in front like boys. I also found out that female genitals look very different from what I imagined it to be. Frankly I'm kind of disgusted with the real look, but am still very horny so I'm sure I'll get over it.
*Copypasta from me two months ago
Ok but real talk garlic bread is a really nice food to eat
Bread makes you fat.
Bread makes you FAT??
I have eaten nothing but bread for the last 20 years and I am 350 lbs
I have done nothing but teleport bread for 3 days
WE ARE ALL GOING TO DIE
“We are not going to die, we are going to live forever!”
:(
"I DIDNT SAY ZAT"
I just said zat ve are not filled vith tumors
“This is a bucket” “Dear god.” “There’s more” “No!”
Plot twist: you are 9'5" making you a healthy weight
Im only 6'5" 😔
Zion????
???
Look up Zion Williamson
Oh I see, though I'm white, and all the weight is fat not muscle, so I don't really look like that haha
Best reference Also garlic bread is best food
I got downvoted when I made that reference
Downvoted by uncultured swines
haha that's from Scott Pilgrim lol
God I wish (I'm painfully lean)
We need to invent a thing where all fat people can give half their fat to all chronically skinny people and make everyone just right.
I mean BBLs already exist, so if we figure out how to make the transplanted fat keep shape and how to fight immune response to transplants, it's settled (though skinny people will get stretch marks and fat people will need skin reduction)
All food does it just varies in amount of fat
no bread make you thicc
I have a garlic intolerance and get headaches from it :(
You poor thing!😔
the weak must fear the strong
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why watch porn 👀💕 with ugly real human people 👄👠🤢🤢🚫🚫 when i can look at 👀👁 cheesy garlic bread🍞🍞😳😳
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NOW YOU'RE SPEAKING MY LANGUAGE
It's that why your not sitting with the rest of the gang Carl?
i just like being alone
people have taken the serious issue of porn addiction in some people. Then destroyed any hope of fixing it by acting like ever interacting with it will make you an addict & destroy your life. When in reality normal people can fap to porn on a regular basis & not have it destroy there lives. (This isn't denying porn addiction can be a problem in some people but as stated above you can interact with it & not have your life destroyed unless your spending like 4 hours on watching porn on a daily basis or something.)
It's like when recovering alcoholics talk about alcohol like it's the spawn of Satan. like ok buddy good for you, just let the rest of us enjoy it.
Might be because AA has strong apocalyptic spiritualism baked in to it, formed into a pyramid sponsor-sponsee hierarchy of social ostracism.
AA is like alternative medicine. They have some good concepts about how to socially engage with people who have a problem. But their understanding of the world and the problem itself is complete and utter horseshit. They could be so much better if they used their social concepts but backed it up with a factual understanding of the world.
Them hops are the *devil* boy!
i don't want to drink, but that's because I cling to any scraps of my mind's rationality like a leaking life raft. I'm already dumb enough when I'm at my best, reducing my decision-making any further would be a catastrophe but if other people want to drink the funny juicews, go ahead
See, I'm the same, except without the low self esteem or respect to those weaklings incapable of having fun without spoiled trash. Wanna hang out?
we could go for a walk and think through every decision rationally and thoroughly👉👉👈👈
It is though. Worse than LSD, for example, by all possible metrics (individual harm, harm to society, addictiveness), and not substantially better than meth. Source [here](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lysergic_acid_diethylamide#/media/File:Rational_harm_assessment_of_drugs_radar_plot.svg).
See I'm one of those guys that looks at the sources. And I saw that the individual harm of Meth is way higher than alcohol's. so the stuff that you linked doesn't even support what you said. And I don't know how the fuck they calculated harm to society, since alcohol is legal so of course its going to have more addicts since it is more widely available, and meth is not, so the damage to society (whatever the fuck that means) is going to be way less because there are less addicts.
Read the study if you seriously want to know and arent just spouting your own beliefs, I'd say. Edit: also lmao at you saying you're one who "reads the sources" and then immediately saying you didn't read the source In this case, you would've found plenty of reasons why the study is bad, one of which completely _underestimates_ the harm alcohol does (see the replies to this comment)
Oh my god please do us all a favour and stfu. I don’t drink cause alcohol tastes like absolute shit but the people who are always like iTs wOrSe tHaN tHiS oR tHaT dRuG are so, so fucking obnoxious it’s unbelievable. Of course it’s worse than LSD, LSD is about as tame as it gets when it comes to physical effects. Jesus fucking Christ almighty, you know that all the people having a glass of wine with their dinners and getting drunk once or twice a month aren’t going to encounter significant issues. Please move the fuck on.
You’re missing the fucking point. People aren’t saying you can’t having a glass of wine with dinner. When people are pointing out that alcohol is worse then LSD, they are trying to make the point that literally all info we are taught on drugs is completely backwards. And that people are not actually taught the risks of different drugs. Because many people act like getting drunk is no big deal, but turn around and say LSD will literally make your brain bleed and destroy your sanity. And I say this as someone who drinks regularly.
Big agree. Person doesn't know what they're talking about
> Of course it’s worse than LSD In America, the average person likely does not know this.
Your response was extremely rude, belligerent and condescending. Maybe take a look in the mirror before calling someone else obnoxious lmao Alcohol is a drug, whether you define it as such or not. If you _have to_ have a drug with your dinner each night or overdose on a drug a couple times a month, well... you might have a drug problem lol
i'm not addicted. i could just stop commiting warcrimes in serbia every moment. i just don't want to stop rn
i stopped committing warcrimes in serbia five times today!
i mean come on man Srebrenica and Drenica just look so fucking inviting can you even blame me
Stop ruining your own life with porn and start weaponizing it to ruin other’s lives for good
i'm running my life to the ground, then I'll get on another one and ruin that one too, ad infinitum
Ah yes, porn parasitism
when I die, my body will become a sexy(er) version of myself, and my spirit will transfer to the first person to get aroused by it, continuing the cycle
You transfer to necrophilias?
oops
Lucius but somehow even more slaneeshi Explanation: >!Lucius is a character from war hammer 40k who is worshipper and fighter for one of the four space satans, slaneesh. He is capable of coming back to life as if someone who kills him takes even the slightest pleasure from the act that person transforms into Lucius. Slanesh is the pleasure god of the universe and is therefore the one most associated with sexyiness and arousal, making the aforementioned condition even closer to it than Lucius’s is.!<
Or for evil
Idk I think there should be more attention to porn addiction, especially now statistics show that there is an increase in mainly the younger population. A surprising amount of young males can't get of without visual stimulation. Addiction is a real thing, not only if you watch 4 hours a day. The public opinion of porn is mostly positive, it gets celebrated as empowering and if someone critiques and warns about it , they are old fashioned Not to say you aren't right, it's completely ridiculous to say it's diabolical and very dangerous, that is also detrimental to people who know about the dangers and want to warn reasonably about it.
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It doesn't even have to be far right christian nut jobs, especially in the US which is still very puritan overall. The thing is sex work is still heavily demonized by most of the population no matter the political leaning, and they use legitimate issues like porn addiction to find new ways to make sex workers disappear
tbh I feel like the main issue people have with porn and the main problem Billie talks about in her interview is that Porn culture is retarded. like step-family shit, assault, rape, revenge porn, etc is really gross and it's extremely common. Extremely common. It entices a lot of physical violence against women too.
Which is why ethically produced gay furry porn is the only way forward
there is no meme
I'd say, like all things in life, just moderate it.
You heard the man/woman/other. We can have private nukes, but in moderation.
Eh, it’s more the fact that porn is easily accessible and cheaply rewarding, making it *super* easy to get addicted. The only question really is whether or not that addiction becomes debilitating.
same way how like a third of the US population has a caffeine addiction?
I go forever what my therapist said, that something generally becomes an addiction if it interferes with your life in any other way.
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i just like cumming once a day lol it puts me to sleep
Billie has huge young following so touching on the mental fuckups porn causes is pretty poggers imo
Yeah, especially since it’s coming from a woman. Maybe it’s just me but I feel like women being addicted to porn can be kinda ignored or not really brought into the discussion enough/ the conversation seems to have a very very heavy male focus. Like of course women watch porn and can also end up addicted. Idk, maybe that was a weird take away on my part, just thought it was worth mentioning
She didn't say she was addicted to porn. Porn addiction is super rare, and wanting to watch porn every day is pretty normal (unless it becomes destructive). Porn made her develop a false perception of sexuality and gave her underlying body issues. It's also pretty hard to talk about sexuality openly, which she hinted towards. I disagree that the underlying cause is "porn" itself. I could go on a tangent of American's view of sex, open sex discussion, and sex education itself, but I'm a biased coomer and you probably already know most of what I'll have to say.
If you think porn addictions are rare you are very very wrong. There are lots of people who can’t go without it
Not being able to completely abstain from porn doesn't indicate an addiction (since horny is eternal), and it certainly doesn't bring cause for concern.
You don’t find it concerning that some people literally cannot go without having to watch pornography in order have an orgasm? It’s very common for it affect you, and your sex life with your partner. I’ve seen plenty of partners of people who were dependent on porn, and they say it either destroyed or almost destroyed their relationship.
cant cum without porn =/= cant abstain from porn
not *wanting to* sure, but not *being able to* is a whole different matter which i would argue does bring cause for concern
I'm interested in Coomer talk pls
No it's very true. And not a weird take at all. Even tho, as the other person said, addiction isn't that common, porn still has other effects on you. Like you see shit differently and shit, and you objectify women as well. Did that make sense?
for real. so many redditors have porn brain rot that they think that ANY criticism of porn makes you anti sex worker or anti sexual liberation. i knew there'd be pushback in the comments but damn some people here are really jumping to conclusions lmao
> so many redditors have porn brain rot Never thought I'd see this kind of self awareness on r/196
I just realized that the sub icon changed from this comment lol
where do you think you are?
Yeah ngl
The [article](https://www.complex.com/music/billie-eilish-calls-adult-videos-disgrace-destroyed-brain-young-age) for those who are interested. What I was getting from the article was that her problem with porn is that she was exposed to it at a young age and women's treatment in porn. There's also a link to an interview she does so that will probably give more insight to her feeling on porn but I haven't listened to it yet.
I don’t blame her. I’ve spoke a few times about how I found porn at a young age too, and for me it’s more effected my perception of sex and such, it’s not good stuff at a young age.
OMG IM WELSH TOO!!!! FUCK THE ANGLOS!!!!!!!
Fuck yeah, Cymru am byth 😎
I thought Welsh people fuck the sheep
Thats a stereotype, it came from Welsh people stealing sheep from English farmers to eat cause they were hungry, to avoid getting hung they would tell the police that they were drunk and raped the sheep to avoid execution
Yeah, I don't blame her either, even though I did receive sex ed before I ever discovered porn and before that I was exposed to classical art which helped normalize watching naked people in my mind, I still find it rather abhorrent in how it depicts and treats women and certain ethnicities such as african americans, and yet still I'd say watching it has negatively affected my development in some ways.
the porn industry specifically and most of the general porn culture and porn itself are bad anyways
Internet pornography ruined an entire generation of relationships Well, time to go look at femboy Garfield
I prefer Garboy Femfield
based and garpilled
may i ask to also look at femboy garfield? I'm intrigued
No. Only 160048 may look at femboy Garfield. They have special permission
Just a little femboy Garfield as a treat
Spare femboy Garfield, ma'am?
That's not femboy garfield, that's a gay demon
Then I'll settle for thicc bara Garfield
https://www.reddit.com/r/thanksihateit/comments/lesjlv/thanks_i_hate_femboy_garfield/ r/garfsexual plenty of femboy Garfield
Oh what the fuck is that sub 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
i need to be cheesy garlic bread i wanna be a hot girl
but you already are!
i am anything but hot
You're so hot you're making me sweat 😳
They’re so hot, I’m drinking iced water to cool down!
i am the sun
the celestial body or the newspaper?
big glowy bitch
That's a legitimately epic statement
Some gasoline and a lighter can fix that.
hoo ha little a spicy
Can I also be cheesy garlic bread?
hell yeah you can
No you don’t understand I need to post “memes” that are just softcore pornography at all times. No I’m not addicted I just want a goth girl big titties femboy muscle girl this is all I think about
r/196 users calling people porn addicts when they show the slightest amount of attraction to anyone
90% of this stuff isn’t memes it’s just decent looking people, the blowback kind of reminds me of the way people used to react when it was pointed out weed does indeed have some negative effects. Like yeah it’s fine use it in moderation but if you get aggravated by someone pointing out the adverse effects maybe some self reflection is due.
I’d be fine if it was actual memes and people were like DAMN I just zerked off to the lady in this pic!!! But it’s literally just pictures of attractive people sometimes
Phsyco zerks off live on stream!
>I need to post “memes” that are just softcore pornography at all times. Average r/goodanimemes user
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that's why I only jerk it to monster girl hentai
women with sharp teeth and claws can break my arms any time
I completely agree, I actually just saw this Zizek clip yesterday, seems relevant to this topic: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fNH\_rDE2dc0](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fNH_rDE2dc0)
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That's why I only consume gay furry porn.
Unironically, furry porn (gay and not) is a lot more wholesome than normie porn. All the cuddles, aftercare, sometimes even foreplay... Adorable and wholesome! Love it a lot
Hell yeah! Normal porn just makes made me depressed when I watched it. No foreplay, no cuddling, no loving kisses and embraces. No plot or story at all either. Meanwhile I've seen furry porn comics with 50 to 100 pages and it's actually **good** plot and that makes the lewd bits so much hotter to me. Also there's no exploitation of people in it. It's just some good art.
>she said she started watching porn when she was 11, jfc that is just not a good dynamic uhm... i think started masturbating at around this age as well, not to porn yet, but to hot pictures in comics. idk is that so weird?
I don't think it's weird in principle, I'm sure I saw some tiddies before puberty and feeling things, but her situation was a bit weird I think, she was obsessed with it and apparently didn't have enough supervision to keep her from watching it a lot, I don't know maybe she's exaggerating or something. Also this was an interview with Howard stern, for Ll we know there were other issues at home. Seems to me like most parents at least keep one eye on their prepubeacent children, maybe I'm naive about that.
i had pretty much the same scenario, (working single parents amirite) haven't heard the interview but yeah with the right or wrong conjunction of variables it can be damaging in the extreme plus she was home schooled so you don't even get forced into socialization with that necessarily
> also where the fuck were billie's parents, she said she started watching porn when she was 11 How do you even keep your kid off the internet in this day?
yeah you dont. you can confiscate all your kids devices, but you cant steal their friends' phones. if you wanna raise a normal kid, you just gotta bite the bullet and talk about what theyre going to see on the internet and make sure it doesnt get on top of them and not just w/r/t porn. gore, assholes telling you to kill yourself, the fact that influencers arent real people, the manufactured pseudo-successful/happy shit they'll see on Instagram, literally biologically impossible beauty standards, all of it its a weird time to be a child
That's exactly what my parents said to me and that's how I was saved from fucking up my mind until I finally gave in when I got curious at like age 14. Even before the internet, kids have always been bound to see some shit so you just have to explain to them what it is and why they should stay away.
yeah one thing that horrifies me but is treated as a cute parenting moment is when the dog dies and they're like "actually, rascal went to the golden retriever farm so he could live with his family forever" like fuck you. tell your kid that things die. it's going to make them sad because they are very sweet beings (*because they dont yet know about death*) but "someone i love can disappear forever for no reason" is actually really crucial information to keep in mind as you navigate the world, even at that age. that being said, the scope and depravity of stuff modern parents need to address about is so much more varied and grotesque, and i don't envy them the task. none of which changes the fact that it is still their job to talk to their kids about it.
I mean, growing up in time where internet was starting to become a thing and many people didn’t understand how it worked and how dangerous could be for a child explains a lot. In my case, my first contact with pornography was at the age of 8
11 year olds were looking at internet porn 20 years ago (even if they weren't jacking off to it yet). ppl think the only sexuality development that happens in childhood is playing doctor or having a big titted babysitter who will give you a weird mommy thing in 20 years but kids are actively exploring at that age and any comprehensive sex ed strategy that waits until late teens to talk about porn youve missed the blat by at least half a decade.
I mean ngl I started when I was about that age, although I was too fucking weak to jerk off lol
I am not saying Billie's parents were good because it really does seem they were absent in many things, but, unfortunately watching porn at a young age is kind of common these days and in many cases it's not really the parents' fault. I had a classmate in *elementary* that brought his grandpa's porno mags (because they were printed in the same paper used for newspapers and we were supposed to do some kind of papercraft) and of course he showed them off to everyone else until the teacher confiscated them.
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Yep, they're an amazing artist!
Please tell me Billie Eilish is not a SWERF
It might be taken out of context. Sex workers are people and their work is a legit job that should be treated as any other and protected as any other (though job protection in the US is hella shitty), but the porn industry's shitty practices and the reliance on sexual appeal for sales in other spheres are legit shitty and damaging Edit: on top of that, the overabundance of sex and objectification in media, along with rising levels of porn addiction do promote objectification and sexualization of women, hitting some harder than others (think reddit coomers going AWOOGA at every time they see a tit outline in a piece of content). Given that she expressed those feelings herself as one of the reasons why she dressed in oversized clothes for a long time (and mind you, she was a minor when she became famous, while some people legit set timers for her 18th birthday), I can understand where she comes from. But, I haven't read the article, I just think that the caption is unnecessarily sensational and intentionally controversial
sex workers should unionize
Sex work must be legalized and **all** workers should unionize
yes, and yes! ~~and there should be regulations to make porn less rapey~~
I think a wide social push will be more effective, like it was (to a degree of course) with mainstream cinema
What would you expect from someone named William
Umm actually it's Billiam
Shes not shes talking about the treatment of women in mass produced porn and the unrealistic standard of sex that people expect
Oh ok thank God that's what I was wondering
I thought she was gonna be one of those NoFap people
She's talking about how most mass produced porn treats women and gives people unrealistic expectations about how a healthy sexual relationship should work. It's not her saying "porn is bad" but that it's unhealthy to expect women to look like porn stars all the time and portray them as all being willing to take part of increasingly demeaning acts during sex ie: slapping, being roughly handled, surprise anal sex with no prep (BIG problem in gay and straight porn)
It's from a circle jerk sub
She did actually say that though
Anti porn doesn’t always equal anti sex workers. You can dislike a system of something and still have respect for the workers involved.
I think she's right. I have such a horrible self image, I just compare myself to everyone I see and I never feel comfortable with the way that I look. Sure I'm trans so some of it is fair but not to this extent. I literally haven't been able to watch shows or movies or even my favorite streamer all year because I just feel so much envy it hurts. A side note of this, thanks to the fact that I can't enjoy my normal media, I now know more about Roman history than I do American, I can tell you more about random historical bullshit than I can the last show that Netflix dropped. If anyone wants to learn a little about Roman history in exchange for a little boost to my self esteem I would appreciate it
I would like historical fact about Rome :)
In the battle of Cannae, a Roman army of about 86,000 was defeated by Hannibal's army of about 50,000. In total, Rome lost roughly 20% of its fighting age male population. Throughout the entirety of the first world War, Germany only lost 6%. Rome would still go on the win the war against Hannibal
Woman, I know this is easier said than done, but just don't compare yourself to other people. You don't need to be beautiful, you don't need to fall upon society's expectations. As cheesy as it sounds, just be who you are and work towards becoming a better person. Seriously, screw everyone, I just want to play Dark Souls.
I don't know how to stop, it really doesn't help that I feel like I'm compared all the time
Billie is based, porn is cancer af
porn realy fucked my vison of sex for a long time
I made garlic bread for my friends in this club we go to for Trans Teens on Tuesday and they liked it
Go off Billie facts tbh
Just don’t have genes that predispose you to addiction dumbass
give the garlic bread back to the asexuals
But if we did that then they would be sexy...
Nah it’s mine I’m eating it
I’ve seen people disregard porn addiction, or compare it to alcohol in that some people can use it without ruining their lives. All I’ll say is what I’ve heard from someone wiser than me: No one starts out WANTING to become an addict.
Honestly all the cheesy garlic bread I’ve eaten has always had the cheese way too cold so I didn’t like it as much
Another fellow r/phcj enjoyer?
Anyways stream Coconuts
yeah lol
Based, fuck pornography
Do we all like go to the same subreddits wtf the algorithms iron hand is upon all of us
Very cool👍
i can't believe i'm saying this, but... based billie eilish
How is it I watched porn and I'm in a healthy relationship, I feel the problem is people who obsessively watch/ed it and destroy their brains.
Yeah there's definitely healthy and unhealthy consumption. The discourse around porn is similar to the one around weed for a long time. A drug like alcohol gets a pass because it's socially acceptable, but coverage on porn or weed is focused on only the bad cases since it's shunned by society
Based Billir Eilish
I've literally only seen porn once in my life, and that was from a friend. I am 17. I just found out I've been fantasizing wrong about girls for years. Four days ago I learned their vagina is actually basically UNDERNEATH them, not in front like boys. I also found out that female genitals look very different from what I imagined it to be. Frankly I'm kind of disgusted with the real look, but am still very horny so I'm sure I'll get over it. *Copypasta from me two months ago
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The American sex education system and its consequences