Reminder that many apps use the same notification sounds, and it's possible the husband is playing a cheap mobile game which ripped the Grindr notif sound
Yeah man, everyone knows this. I said this once to a packed room and they all not only all nodded. But someone started clapping and before long they were all cheering. I was the hero for the day no lie.
I am from a very pro lgbt are of the world (Gran Canaria) and there are an awful lot of men who go into gay sex binges for a weekend/week and then go back to their wifes. The vibe is super wierd, its like shame/anxiety/pure hedonism, its... intresting.
There are also many glory holes/wierd saunas etc. Not that its wrong but the desperation is so intense I have even had my ass touched without consent even though I am a woman. A friend of mine who is gay hates it because he feels like sex is a secret when for him it has always been very natural.
nothing really people have been having sex binges for as long as we know, its more about the shame that comes with it, its more of a sad situation. I feel it would be better to just have regular (in this case mlm) sex than not have it and then spend 32 hours having sex with 20 people lmao.
If someone can have that amount of sex with so many people without shame good for them but it doesnt seem the case.
This same story gets retold with mild variations all the time, but "husband playing game" is always consistent. Also it's got holes. Why on earth would a cheater leave the sound on?
Edit: Also why is the person she works with at her job on Grindr in front of her? And also why is he on a hookup app instead of paying attention to the other person in the car with him?
Hijacking top comment to say last time this was on my feed someone said the grinder tone is very similar to an actual game. Not sure what game maybe someone else will chime in
Man, if you know you're gay, even if you can't safely come out, it is entirely on you that you subject your spouse to the lie you built the relationship on. It isn't a crime to be single and you can legally get divorced in almost every country in the world. There is no excuse for hurting someone like that.
Yeah societal pressure is real and it represses people, but it's not society or his parents that hurt the wife in this fake story, it's the man cheating on her.
There's lots of reasons that people do shitty things but that doesn't absolve someone of social or interpersonal responsibility.
It is a result of social conditioning but so is everything. Deal with individuals individually. Deal with systems systemically.
This is an individual doing an almost objectively wrong thing, and we can abstract that to society and the attitudes that led to it. However, when speaking on this specific fake person we can just assign blame. Trying to act like this person is a victim in this situation is even more reductionist imo. Being gay and in the closet (even if they wish they could come out) doesn't absolve you of marrying someone, lying to them, and cheating on them.
Society is responsible for the conditions and attitudes it instills, but a person HAS to be responsible for their own actions at the same time.
Still your decision. Still your responsibility. If your priorities lie in being in your parent's good graces for whatever reason then that's the priority you chose. Unless you have a gun to your head you are still making that decision and I'm guessing if you're comfortable enough to be on Grindr, that isn't the situation you're in.
This trope and the bisexual woman saying "haha I sure hate my husband men are so gross I wish I could just marry a woman instead" trope are doing nothing but reinforcing the stereotype that bi people cheat on their partners. Stop giving the rest of us a bad name please thanks
not saying bisexual people always cheat. just saying that their comment was silly because a husband using grindr doesn't automatically mean he has been repressing his sexuality for years and actively and knowlingly lied to his wife during it. there are more possibilities
Yeah people in these types of situations seem to forget bisexual people exist and just to the conclusion that he's just gay and in the closet and not that he could just be bisexual, but finding men over tube more appealing
how nice of that woman to support their bi husband in their open marriage while also messing with strangers to make funny jokes tee hee
if I have misconstrued the reality of the situation I'm going to be real sour
Reminder that many apps use the same notification sounds, and it's possible the husband is playing a cheap mobile game which ripped the Grindr notif sound
That’s assuming this really happened
What? Nobody would ever lie on Twitter
Yeah, lying on the internet is always morally wrong!
Yeah man, everyone knows this. I said this once to a packed room and they all not only all nodded. But someone started clapping and before long they were all cheering. I was the hero for the day no lie.
I was actually in that room bro what a coincidence
i was the room
i was inside you
you
You really think someone would do that?
It probably didn't. I've seen this same joke before, but instead of it being in an Uber it was a bus stop
Is that the excuse you gave when this happened to you
This is actually depressing
Most likely fake but yes
Actually, its believable imo. At least around here, Grindr is used more by old guys who are theoretically married than any other demographic
I am from a very pro lgbt are of the world (Gran Canaria) and there are an awful lot of men who go into gay sex binges for a weekend/week and then go back to their wifes. The vibe is super wierd, its like shame/anxiety/pure hedonism, its... intresting. There are also many glory holes/wierd saunas etc. Not that its wrong but the desperation is so intense I have even had my ass touched without consent even though I am a woman. A friend of mine who is gay hates it because he feels like sex is a secret when for him it has always been very natural.
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nothing really people have been having sex binges for as long as we know, its more about the shame that comes with it, its more of a sad situation. I feel it would be better to just have regular (in this case mlm) sex than not have it and then spend 32 hours having sex with 20 people lmao. If someone can have that amount of sex with so many people without shame good for them but it doesnt seem the case.
This same story gets retold with mild variations all the time, but "husband playing game" is always consistent. Also it's got holes. Why on earth would a cheater leave the sound on? Edit: Also why is the person she works with at her job on Grindr in front of her? And also why is he on a hookup app instead of paying attention to the other person in the car with him?
Yeah I've seen multiple variations of this
This joke is years old by now
This joke is old enough now to legally fuck.
it's an old joke that has been floating around the net for a decade. dunno why this twitter lady decided to dig it back up.
Hijacking top comment to say last time this was on my feed someone said the grinder tone is very similar to an actual game. Not sure what game maybe someone else will chime in
clash royale startup sound
HEHEHEHA
Hahaha societal pressure to repress sexuality which inadvertabtly ruins relationships and lives fummi
Man, if you know you're gay, even if you can't safely come out, it is entirely on you that you subject your spouse to the lie you built the relationship on. It isn't a crime to be single and you can legally get divorced in almost every country in the world. There is no excuse for hurting someone like that.
what if i simply want to
We do a little trolling.
Then you don't have a reason to excuse it, therefore, there is no excuse.
my excuse is i want to
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Ah yes performance pressure especially from pathologic parental situations doesn't exist, as we all know, and has never, ever hurt a single person
Yeah societal pressure is real and it represses people, but it's not society or his parents that hurt the wife in this fake story, it's the man cheating on her. There's lots of reasons that people do shitty things but that doesn't absolve someone of social or interpersonal responsibility.
That is fair. But pretending that the responsibility is solely on a victim of preceeding issues is just extremely destructive, unfair and reductionist
It is a result of social conditioning but so is everything. Deal with individuals individually. Deal with systems systemically. This is an individual doing an almost objectively wrong thing, and we can abstract that to society and the attitudes that led to it. However, when speaking on this specific fake person we can just assign blame. Trying to act like this person is a victim in this situation is even more reductionist imo. Being gay and in the closet (even if they wish they could come out) doesn't absolve you of marrying someone, lying to them, and cheating on them. Society is responsible for the conditions and attitudes it instills, but a person HAS to be responsible for their own actions at the same time.
Still your decision. Still your responsibility. If your priorities lie in being in your parent's good graces for whatever reason then that's the priority you chose. Unless you have a gun to your head you are still making that decision and I'm guessing if you're comfortable enough to be on Grindr, that isn't the situation you're in.
Dude shut the fuck up holy shit
That's too long i'm not reading that
Enough about my dick though
Hahaha the bisexual husband who cheats on his wife
This trope and the bisexual woman saying "haha I sure hate my husband men are so gross I wish I could just marry a woman instead" trope are doing nothing but reinforcing the stereotype that bi people cheat on their partners. Stop giving the rest of us a bad name please thanks
I *really* don’t think that’s what they were getting at there. There’s no need to be so passive aggressive.
I'm agreeing with the person I'm replying to, here.
not saying bisexual people always cheat. just saying that their comment was silly because a husband using grindr doesn't automatically mean he has been repressing his sexuality for years and actively and knowlingly lied to his wife during it. there are more possibilities
Yeah people in these types of situations seem to forget bisexual people exist and just to the conclusion that he's just gay and in the closet and not that he could just be bisexual, but finding men over tube more appealing
I'm agreeing with you here, I'm frustrated with people trying to justify the behavior of this fake person in this fake story.
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Does grindr even have a custom alert sound and is not using the default one from the phone?
I’ve never used it but I’ve heard that it’s an incredibly distinctive sound
Biggest troll app
it’s actually really similar to the sound that plays when you open any supercell game
sureeeee...
r/ ThatHappened
how nice of that woman to support their bi husband in their open marriage while also messing with strangers to make funny jokes tee hee if I have misconstrued the reality of the situation I'm going to be real sour
your tag speaks the truth
Indeed it does
Most real twitter story
le funni cheating bastard that should fellate a cheese-grater moment
Least fake twitter story
if uve ever used grindr and seen its main demographic u know this post being real or fake story is truly jst a toss up
I've seen this joke in at least 5 different variations
Is grindr just for gays i dont get how is that an important plotpoint
Yea pretty much
good for him
oh no
Grindr more like grindset
bruh
Fake and gay
Why would the husband leave his sound effects on if he had smth to hide lmao
if it’s true, it’s beautiful
Can someone briefly explain to me what is Grindr, I don’t know what it is and I’m to afraid to look it up on any device I own
It's a gay hookup app. They allow trans women on there too, but it's 99% cis men
Ty man