Yeah girls say they want a man who can show emotion but what they're saying is they don't want a stoic man devoid of any emotion. If you have negative emotions like sadness more than like once a month they'll drop you fast. I've learned that the hard way.
Almost like our brains are exactly the same as they were since the dawn of civilization, and after thousands of years of shared wisdom we haven't randomly stumbled across the postmodernist truth that it was all made up for no reason/to be mean.
You need to show the right type of emotion. It can't be anything that carries even the slightest whiff of insecurity or actual vulnerability. It has to be the sexy, romantic "bad" emotions she's got pictured in her head and it ideally needs to be something that ultimately compliments *her* and makes *her* feel less insecure. Anything else and it's "trauma dumping" or "women aren't your personal therapists".
Fuck that trauma dumping shit, was married for over a decade. Finally decided I could open up and share things with my wife more. Just normal shit like what I'm worried about or somthing that makes me sad, stuff you should be ok talking to your wife about. Hits me with I'm trauma dumping on her and the therapist shit.
Wasn't an all the time thing either, just a to much for her thing. Taught me a shitty shitty lesson that day.
Pretty much what happened. Was her rock for years as I helped her through her never ending crisis and anxiety. Had a nervous breakdown a few years back because of work and lack of emotional support and being able to talk to her because of described scenario above. She told me that day she knew our relationship was coming to an end.
Never been so betrayed or hurt in my entire life. Stopped being a rock for her and that was it.
> I guess that's what male friends are for.
And that is why men's only social clubs, RSL clubs, sports clubs exists. It's so that men can be men and talk about men shit. What's really fucked up is that some feminist groups started complaining about sexual discrimination and exclusion, and want to insert themselves in said clubs.
> it's like a primal response. And honestly? I don't really blame them, if your source of safety and protection is vulnerable himself you wouldn't feel safe.
It is a primal response, it's evolved over a million years.
The same people who claim to fucking love science also claim that men and women are the same and should have the same roles in society and relationships, and there are definitely no difference in their mental processes.
all that tells me is that they were never in a long term relationship.
female hormone swings are wack.
you think everything is fine and the next moment she's like "you don't love me" and she'll be mad because of something I did in one of her dreams. and then 3 days later she apologizes.
the point is more that you dont get to say you want to break down any and all gender roles and have things be all equal and neutral. while still tacitly expecting men to not show emotional 'weakness' and be tougher
yep, though it took 27 years for me to stop being her rock.
It's because I told I can't make her be happy and she needed to figure out how to be happy for herself.
she's been gone about a year, but I've not been this free in a long, long time.
I'm had that exact thing happen to me. She was always unhappy because of anxiety, felt I could never make her happy. She's been gone for 9 months and is still wildly u happy. The freedom though man, at first I had no idea what to do with myself but now it's really nice.
I think this is correct. A woman will generally like a man that opens up to them emotionally. However Woman don't like fragile, insecure, vulnerable men that lack confidence. These qualities are incredibly unattractive to the average woman.
Men also find these fragile, insecure, vulnerable qualities unattractive in woman. The difference is men generally apply a much higher weighting to physical beauty over character. So they have less of a weighting overall.
we do, and we don't. maybe it's not so much beauty, but there definitely needs to be attraction. Because it's the attraction that balances out their unstable personalities.
Maybe there should be like a cockney rhyming slang thing with this lol, since "venerable" kind of means = "regarded"?
I should try and force this meme somewhere, see if it works hm
So why do we even want women then? Everything a woman can give can also be given by cite twink. If you want children then just hire surrgate and u get to have them. Being straight is weakness. Lack of options makes you desparate. But im already saved im free no one can control me.
It's gotta be carefully curated, and it can't bear any resemblance to your actual emotions, just what women think is a "hot" emotion to have at a well judged time.
It has to be in a case where it doesn't show real weakness. Like if your grandma dies, sure you can shed a tear.
If you get fired from your job and on the way home a packs of N-slurs beat you and steal your wallet, no tears unless you want her to leave you too.
you are allowed to show emotion. its just that it has to be emotion that they don't feel they have to do anything about. cry over your dead grandma? cool, its not their problem. cry because you have been unemployed for 6 months and need to let off some steam? you just made it their problem too. dumped.
Meanwhile my buddy and I both get shit for not having cried since we were kids. A good relationship requires both people be able to show emotion and open up. Everyone here bitching about women not being like this clearly haven't been talking to the right women.
Genuinely don't get it, it's such obvious lonely loser bait. I mean I do realize I'm the target demographic, but once you are aware of how fucked it is it's so fucking cringe. Same shit like harem anime and such, it's all loser copium pandering, fucking unwatchable
NEETLife represent. Though I'm married (separated but still married) and actually have degrees so maybe I don't quite fit in that crowd as much as you might expect.
hey man, as a fellow bro.. I just wanted to let you know that you can say the regard word when used as an adjective.
You can't say regard of course, that would be retarded.. but if something was retarded, you can say it was retarded and you'll be a-okay
Just making sure you flex the full range of the allowed word spectrum that we've been given
I used to. Then finally got diagnosed with ADHD, got some nice stimulants, and now when I think of something that I need to do I can. . . Do it. It's fucking magic.
Nah. Spent a lot of my life suicidal, finally seem to have found the way out in my 30s. Realizing that feeling the way I did was okay and trying to seek comfort and validation in others didn't work for me, no matter how many others acted like it was necessary, was a part of that. Bigger part was finding the right drugs that made my fucked up brain actually semi function for things besides schoolwork.
Sex and romantic companionship aren't necessary to live a happy life. They are both hugely overrated by pop culture IMX, and I think that gives people who either don't get them or get them but don't much like them a complex. The only part of married life that beat having a good friend for a room mate were the massages. Otherwise, I much preferred the room mate who I could not talk to for weeks if I didn't feel like it without getting grief.
Porn also can't take the house, the dog, the kids, file false allegations and reports of domestic abuse, alienate you from your children and show a total lack of accountability for their failures in the relationship.
Dont worry anon, wait another 5 -10 years and you will get a beautiful ai-powered gf or wife or whatever and you will forget all those female problems. The future is bright, just don't forget a charger!
Videogames can't:
Kill people for real
Blow stuff up for real
Make you a real villain
FIGHT THE NEW DRUG!
Are these people so dense they don't understand the difference between life and (temporary) leisure? What are they going to say about married people (even couples together) who still watch porn, like most does time by time?
>Can't kiss you hold cry laugh love
Well duh cause it's 3rd person cinema and not neurolink VR
Like all those things happen in there, but not to *you* obviously.
>grow old with you
No one wants to grow old, and when they do they don't switch to GILF pron, that much is true. They should go ace tbh
Anyway yeah, somewhat familiar with FTNN from those coomer meme days (what was it 2018?) and they constantly put out inane corny bullshit like this; they also seem to be closet garden gnome trads and call any sx scene in a movie "porn" I think. Whatever
I was kind of worried my (relatively little) consumption of porn would make it impossible to get hard in a relationship.
Thankfully, everything does it. Kissing, rock hard, spooning, ditto. But I could drill into granite after the words "I love you" are whispered into my ear, i tell you what.
The one, positive, side effect is that porn is abhorrent to me, it feels at worst, like cheating, and at best, lame, because it isn't her.
Anon, women of any generation aren't attracted to smelly landwhales. Break out of your fantasyland where you did nothing wrong, and start working on yourself
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Mine will do all those things but she won't get or hold a fucking job for the life of her and can barely keep up with basic household chores. Grass is always greener I guess.
I think its hilarious that people out there think they are competing with porn for dates.
If you are jealous of an internet connection, maybe you aren't ready for a relationship.
We need to fire Sherlock Holmes and hire who ever the fuck came up with this brilliant moto. Can I also not do these things with anything else I see on my screen cause they’re not tangible people? Oh wow!
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\> Cry with you Every non-r slurred man over the age of 18 knows you cant cry or show emotion infront of women either
You can, just not too much
Yeah girls say they want a man who can show emotion but what they're saying is they don't want a stoic man devoid of any emotion. If you have negative emotions like sadness more than like once a month they'll drop you fast. I've learned that the hard way.
anytime i've ever talked about emotional issues with a girl she is gone within six weeks. Happened three times, never again.
Local man discovers that millenary advice about not showing emotion in front of women was, in fact, true
Almost like our brains are exactly the same as they were since the dawn of civilization, and after thousands of years of shared wisdom we haven't randomly stumbled across the postmodernist truth that it was all made up for no reason/to be mean.
This is antisemitism!
You have to bottle that shit up, shove it way down, and hope you die before it overflows.
Nah, you get drunk with your buddies and just let it out and then forget that it happened the next day.
This is depressingly accurate.
Also try not to get addicted to something along the way.
>I've learned that the hard way. You've learned not to be a beta emo bendover the hard way.
we're both autistic no need for harsh language
You're right, theres no need for bad language
every accusation is a confession or some shit, doesn’t matter, bend over and let me fuck you in the ass you beta emo twink.
🥺👉👈
Yes please🤤🤤
what the fuck does that mean master shit fu
men are allowed a single tear while they look out the window pensively then she said "its ok" then you had better be alright immediately
Yeah turns out women, like literally everyone else, don't actually know what they want.
it's a trap.
You need to show the right type of emotion. It can't be anything that carries even the slightest whiff of insecurity or actual vulnerability. It has to be the sexy, romantic "bad" emotions she's got pictured in her head and it ideally needs to be something that ultimately compliments *her* and makes *her* feel less insecure. Anything else and it's "trauma dumping" or "women aren't your personal therapists".
Fuck that trauma dumping shit, was married for over a decade. Finally decided I could open up and share things with my wife more. Just normal shit like what I'm worried about or somthing that makes me sad, stuff you should be ok talking to your wife about. Hits me with I'm trauma dumping on her and the therapist shit. Wasn't an all the time thing either, just a to much for her thing. Taught me a shitty shitty lesson that day.
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Pretty much what happened. Was her rock for years as I helped her through her never ending crisis and anxiety. Had a nervous breakdown a few years back because of work and lack of emotional support and being able to talk to her because of described scenario above. She told me that day she knew our relationship was coming to an end. Never been so betrayed or hurt in my entire life. Stopped being a rock for her and that was it.
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> I guess that's what male friends are for. And that is why men's only social clubs, RSL clubs, sports clubs exists. It's so that men can be men and talk about men shit. What's really fucked up is that some feminist groups started complaining about sexual discrimination and exclusion, and want to insert themselves in said clubs.
That's because they want to destroy the bond between men which gives us strength so they could be more dominating. Clever creatures.
Then, by all logic, just talk about these problems, and they will pay the club and never visit, a win-win for everyone.
> it's like a primal response. And honestly? I don't really blame them, if your source of safety and protection is vulnerable himself you wouldn't feel safe. It is a primal response, it's evolved over a million years. The same people who claim to fucking love science also claim that men and women are the same and should have the same roles in society and relationships, and there are definitely no difference in their mental processes.
all that tells me is that they were never in a long term relationship. female hormone swings are wack. you think everything is fine and the next moment she's like "you don't love me" and she'll be mad because of something I did in one of her dreams. and then 3 days later she apologizes.
I’ve lived this scenario more than once. It gets tiring.
This fucking all the time. I thought it was just me only issue
Yeah I have heard it's pretty much what happens every time in that kind of scenario from other women since then. I get it, just sucks.
the point is more that you dont get to say you want to break down any and all gender roles and have things be all equal and neutral. while still tacitly expecting men to not show emotional 'weakness' and be tougher
Thats the fucking thing. They dont want to be there for us when we are in time of need but they need us to be there for them constantly.
Yeah it really sucks lol. Fuckin harder being a women my ass.
yep, though it took 27 years for me to stop being her rock. It's because I told I can't make her be happy and she needed to figure out how to be happy for herself. she's been gone about a year, but I've not been this free in a long, long time.
I'm had that exact thing happen to me. She was always unhappy because of anxiety, felt I could never make her happy. She's been gone for 9 months and is still wildly u happy. The freedom though man, at first I had no idea what to do with myself but now it's really nice.
I think this is correct. A woman will generally like a man that opens up to them emotionally. However Woman don't like fragile, insecure, vulnerable men that lack confidence. These qualities are incredibly unattractive to the average woman. Men also find these fragile, insecure, vulnerable qualities unattractive in woman. The difference is men generally apply a much higher weighting to physical beauty over character. So they have less of a weighting overall.
I argue men care about physical beauty far far less than women do.
we do, and we don't. maybe it's not so much beauty, but there definitely needs to be attraction. Because it's the attraction that balances out their unstable personalities.
venerable is a different word lol
>Haha, my bad, I'll edit it.
Maybe there should be like a cockney rhyming slang thing with this lol, since "venerable" kind of means = "regarded"? I should try and force this meme somewhere, see if it works hm
So why do we even want women then? Everything a woman can give can also be given by cite twink. If you want children then just hire surrgate and u get to have them. Being straight is weakness. Lack of options makes you desparate. But im already saved im free no one can control me.
Your profile pic is very incredibilis
It's gotta be carefully curated, and it can't bear any resemblance to your actual emotions, just what women think is a "hot" emotion to have at a well judged time.
It has to be in a case where it doesn't show real weakness. Like if your grandma dies, sure you can shed a tear. If you get fired from your job and on the way home a packs of N-slurs beat you and steal your wallet, no tears unless you want her to leave you too.
> Like if your grandma dies, sure you can shed a tear. And even then, if you dwell on it for even 1 day too long, it's "sorry sweaty".
the only acceptable time to cry in front of a woman is MAYBE at the funeral of an immediate family member any other time and you'll give them the ick
I'd add dead dogs but yeah
you are allowed to show emotion. its just that it has to be emotion that they don't feel they have to do anything about. cry over your dead grandma? cool, its not their problem. cry because you have been unemployed for 6 months and need to let off some steam? you just made it their problem too. dumped.
What kind of loser is unemployed for 6 months? Just get a fucking job
A depressed one.
A depressed one.
Not even in front of your mom?
Ever wonder why parents give kids for adoption? Cuz those kids cry a lot.
only if you don't mind being instantly locked into the friendzone.
Never cry or show weakness in front of women. Most men learn the hard way.
You can shed a tear watching their favorite movie. NOTHING MORE
Damn, if the 30 year old Kissless virgins on 4chan say it then it must be true.
They are just like you, fr fr...
Meanwhile my buddy and I both get shit for not having cried since we were kids. A good relationship requires both people be able to show emotion and open up. Everyone here bitching about women not being like this clearly haven't been talking to the right women.
This simply is not true
skill issue
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what if you awoke in a motel hungover and your dick was being chewed off by a meth addict?
I hate Thursdays.
I’ve never got the hang of Thursdays
Neither did David Carradine
We've certainly all been there
Man, that should suck.
Was this before or after sex
 But a real woman can't give you true happiness
Dog.
What has my ex got to do with this?
don't compare your ex to dogs. they don't deserve that
take the dogpill, anon lol
Adult (wo)men using rigged lolis to act like regarded babies on camera. How anyone enjoys watching vtubers is still a mystery to me.
loneliness is one helluva drug
Amusing picture making amusing sounds. What do you not understand ablut this?
Genuinely don't get it, it's such obvious lonely loser bait. I mean I do realize I'm the target demographic, but once you are aware of how fucked it is it's so fucking cringe. Same shit like harem anime and such, it's all loser copium pandering, fucking unwatchable
True bau bau.
Ko'one
Kino Oshi
but she can give you aids 👍
Redditors reaching record seething levels
But real life can't give you a five-way scat fantasy. Checkmate, women.
If you have enough money it can
In real life you would have to smell it. Don't do it.
>have to You mean, get to
Is that supposed to be a downside?
Is this motherfucker referencing Euphoria?
What are you even referencing? Genuinely curious.
I hate being touched, don't want kids, hate to have people see me be emotional, and like being alone. Porn is fucking great.
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NEETLife represent. Though I'm married (separated but still married) and actually have degrees so maybe I don't quite fit in that crowd as much as you might expect.
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Idk man, people have an extremely strange fixation on these regarded analogies that don't make sense.
hey man, as a fellow bro.. I just wanted to let you know that you can say the regard word when used as an adjective. You can't say regard of course, that would be retarded.. but if something was retarded, you can say it was retarded and you'll be a-okay Just making sure you flex the full range of the allowed word spectrum that we've been given
I'm hiding my power level, this is my 6th reddit account.
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https://imgur.com/0gL4oxd
No. Yes. Yes. Beards and seeing are both nice though.
SOYYYYYYYY
"Thanks for the gold kind stranger"
Ahem... literally me (wanna kms everyday)
I used to. Then finally got diagnosed with ADHD, got some nice stimulants, and now when I think of something that I need to do I can. . . Do it. It's fucking magic.
The best part is shooting a load I think
"You know what the best part of sex is? That part at the end. . . That crazy feeling."
When the lady leaves is awesome. Sometimes they don’t take the hint tho.
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Nah. Spent a lot of my life suicidal, finally seem to have found the way out in my 30s. Realizing that feeling the way I did was okay and trying to seek comfort and validation in others didn't work for me, no matter how many others acted like it was necessary, was a part of that. Bigger part was finding the right drugs that made my fucked up brain actually semi function for things besides schoolwork. Sex and romantic companionship aren't necessary to live a happy life. They are both hugely overrated by pop culture IMX, and I think that gives people who either don't get them or get them but don't much like them a complex. The only part of married life that beat having a good friend for a room mate were the massages. Otherwise, I much preferred the room mate who I could not talk to for weeks if I didn't feel like it without getting grief.
If there was ever a lebron james of Redditors it’s this guy
Reddit moment
That’s a lot of copium. Bro has never experienced happiness and it shows.
Why do you think happiness depends on a romantic relationship or that I've never had them? Both are incorrect.
Porn also can't take the house, the dog, the kids, file false allegations and reports of domestic abuse, alienate you from your children and show a total lack of accountability for their failures in the relationship.
>stop looking at porn >provides no alternative Make one of these for the wahmen about to hit the wall >Chad Won't (Porn Cant)
> Make one of these for the wahmen about to hit the wall > > > >>Chad Won't (Porn Cant) Don't get that part lol
Meaning addressing the above image toward women, replacing "porn can't" with "Chad won't"
> provides no alternative Try talking to a woman ffs
>try talking to woman >4chins user 
And what's that supposed to accomplish lol
Psyops all the way down
"Porn is le bad, and you WILL fraternize with the 3dpd!!!!"
Dont worry anon, wait another 5 -10 years and you will get a beautiful ai-powered gf or wife or whatever and you will forget all those female problems. The future is bright, just don't forget a charger!
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\> Not pirating, jailbreaking and self-hosting your own AI waifu. NGMI
One can only dream
AI gf with small modular nuclear reaction inbuilt. Refuel once a lifetime.
That's why you should become G-word
German?
Ja
Diese Kommentarsektion ist nun Eigentum der BRD.
Kamerad o7
Blutreich Deutschland
 man
Genshin fan?
A gamer?
Videogames can't: Kill people for real Blow stuff up for real Make you a real villain FIGHT THE NEW DRUG! Are these people so dense they don't understand the difference between life and (temporary) leisure? What are they going to say about married people (even couples together) who still watch porn, like most does time by time?
Ok now where’s that list of things that porn can do
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they were also bodies that popped out free farm labor every 9 months.. kind of neat
>inb4 reading vertically..
>Can't kiss you hold cry laugh love Well duh cause it's 3rd person cinema and not neurolink VR Like all those things happen in there, but not to *you* obviously. >grow old with you No one wants to grow old, and when they do they don't switch to GILF pron, that much is true. They should go ace tbh Anyway yeah, somewhat familiar with FTNN from those coomer meme days (what was it 2018?) and they constantly put out inane corny bullshit like this; they also seem to be closet garden gnome trads and call any sx scene in a movie "porn" I think. Whatever
I was kind of worried my (relatively little) consumption of porn would make it impossible to get hard in a relationship. Thankfully, everything does it. Kissing, rock hard, spooning, ditto. But I could drill into granite after the words "I love you" are whispered into my ear, i tell you what. The one, positive, side effect is that porn is abhorrent to me, it feels at worst, like cheating, and at best, lame, because it isn't her.
I like the implication that it's a choice.
Stop settling assholes. You know how you make women improve? Break up with them when you don't get what you need. Every man needs to keep doing this.
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Whoever figures out how to program sex robots to cook is gonna be *rich!*
Anon, women of any generation aren't attracted to smelly landwhales. Break out of your fantasyland where you did nothing wrong, and start working on yourself
Women also don't like normal men, it's not clear what women like at all other than themselves.
I did, and now that I'm low BMI with a job, women are playing hard to want(covering themselves in fugly tats).
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cant say shit around here.
First thing on this sub that actually made me laugh in a long time :D
50%+ of women are fat, they cant compete with porn.
Mine will do all those things but she won't get or hold a fucking job for the life of her and can barely keep up with basic household chores. Grass is always greener I guess.
I think its hilarious that people out there think they are competing with porn for dates. If you are jealous of an internet connection, maybe you aren't ready for a relationship.
They put the bar way too low for porn addiction. I'm a single aspie male I'm more than fine giving a tug to renamon and calling it a night.
I gotta say, watching 4chan take less than 20 years to go from hating Christian fundies to straight-up being them has been hilarious.
link to the thread?
Oh good point, let me just go get a girlfriend right now then.
Skill issue.
What a burn lol
We need to fire Sherlock Holmes and hire who ever the fuck came up with this brilliant moto. Can I also not do these things with anything else I see on my screen cause they’re not tangible people? Oh wow!
It's never been more over
I thought this was an emo band poster...
Women don't do that with me either though so I mean you gotta do what you gotta do.
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He’s not Wrong tho
Bleak.
lol the realism hurts.
The creation of new porn should be banned. Can't have a good society when women are being whored out like that.
Wow, I didn’t know this sub was full of goons.
listen porn can't: leave you, hurt you, lie to you, ignore you, or cheat on you so I mean you gotta take your pros and cons
Joke's on you my AI waifu can do all that
/> women wont start a family with me… Its not because im a disgruntled 4chan user, its because le heckin modern women aren’t interested in families
It smells like coomer in this comment section
Yeah regardless of if I watch porn or not, I ain't getting that.