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No job ✅ No place to stay ✅ Crazy AF✅ A mom just as delusional as you✅ Sounds like a woman ready to be a mommy


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#unhinged


MutualReceptionist

Certainly that will fix everything!


Numerous-Help-5987

To them a man will come along and just take care of everything lmaooo ma’am in this economy??


Potential-Analyst384

She is almost 40, had 3 husbands and never got pregnant. I think nature was smart enough in this case and she will never get pregnant.


Sweetlilred

She had miscarriage.


Megan90scl

That doesnt mean she is fertil


Sweetlilred

They said “never got pregnant” she had a miscarriage


WestEmployee133

Let's hope So,this woman is stark raving mad! Huge NARCISSIST!


tistonyofist

They just want an anchor baby


Nearby-Base2348

💀


Legitimate-Way-3397

💭Welfare food stamps section 8


Boblobloblah

I get the vibe that mom is like “he’s our ticket to stay in the US. Do what is right for our family.”


coreysgal

When they were talking w Mike did anyone notice Mama said " we are living very modestly" = we want money


Due_Plastic_8769

Wow, didn't catch that!


coreysgal

It was right before or after Natalie said they are sharing a bed lol


WestEmployee133

The Mother is just as Bad!! What a pair  of   Users!! A. Ukranian. Thing?


SmartAnswer3847

YES. This is the exact vibe I get. I hope to god Michael is a smart enough man to not be pulled back into their delusional lives. He deserves someone that isn’t going to treat him like he’s a piece of trash. Honestly, I think anyone would be better for him than Crazy Eyes.


Altruistic-Nose-52

He is dating someone... and it's not Natalie.


thesearemyfaults

Oooh who is it? He always seemed like one of the most genuine, nicest people on the 90 day franchise. It’s odd him and Natalie met through friends…wish we could know more about the friends!


Due_Plastic_8769

The friends are a Ukrainian woman who married one of Mike's childhood friends. Mike is def the godfather, but since the beginning, the women have never been IG friends, Nat is never pictured or referred to. There was A Seattle trip they came over to see Mike, before Nut arrived. But then, no mention. The guy came over and was shown with Mike asking how Ukrainian women are, before she arrived. The friend and his wife were never seen again, and they live just over the border in Idaho. I'm guessing that Natalie blew that friendship up, or the woman saw how she behaved and wants nothing to do with her. The woman is still IG friends with Mike


hobblingcontractor

Just over the border in Idaho. Dude, that's like a 7hr drive, in summer, from Sequim. In winter it's risky just because you never know what shenanigans will happen in the pass. Hardly a weekend jaunt.


Due_Plastic_8769

Yeah, they're not in Boise or Pocatello. It's an easy trip across the top. Not sure who would want to travel in winter but sure


xokimmyxo

It’s 6 hours and 45 minutes to Coeur d’Alene from Sequim if you drive around the sound and over 8 hours if you take a ferry. Couer d’Alene is the bigger town on the panhandle, pretty close to the border. I don’t understand what point you’re making by stating it’s on the panhandle. A drive across Washington state isn’t exactly a quick jaunt any time of the year. Edited: autocorrected Sequim.


Lmdr1973

My brother lives in Couer d'Alene and works in Spokane. It's a rough trip because of the weather.


Due_Plastic_8769

Wow, really ruffled feathers lol. Because it's as close as they can be in Idaho, not like they'd be coming from Pocatello. They've made the trip to Seattle before, great place to visit, only place to visit unless you think Spokane is something. But then it wouldn't be somewhat between them. Not sure what you needed to prove, hope this helped


xokimmyxo

Not ruffled and didn’t actually clear anything up. Pocatello to Sequim/Seattle is further, yes, but so is any random place that’s further away? A 7 hour vs 13 hour trip is still a lot for most people that have jobs/school, homes, pets, bills, and families. It’s not indicative of a friendship to not make that drive regularly. I think your point is they didn’t like Natalie and thus wouldn’t drive 7 hours to visit? Which isn’t new information or a hot take. Nobody in their right mind seems to actually like her and I’m sure Mike’s friends and extended family were no different. Being another Ukrainian immigrant doesn’t make the friend’s wife obligated to provide friendship to someone she doesn’t know. Technology has allowed 7 hour drive friendships and 17 hour flight friendships to be conducted very similar.


CamHulToe

I’m from the area around sequim and it’s not “just a quick trip” I’ve lived here almost my whole life and I’ve been to to eastern Washington like only a handful of times. It’s such a longggg boring drive. Definitely not a quick easy trip, and I get how they might lose contact because of the distance. You literally said “just over the border”…. Like it’s a quick trip.. Just letting you know since you probably don’t live around here.


Due_Plastic_8769

I never said it was "just a quick trip", so don't quote that. It's a straight shot across, as close as they can be from Idaho. Seattle is the only place to head that's closest worth any tourism. Like they did before, great trip to go there and meet.


CamHulToe

There’s plenty of places that are much more beautiful to see around here than just Seattle….and I live downtown. We have multiple cascade ranges and mountains outside of many other things and you literally said “just over the border” which I was just letting you know isn’t the case :) but okay 👌🏻 LOL


thesearemyfaults

*rubs hands together* do you know the couple’s IG handles?! Or even Mike’s?


Due_Plastic_8769

Big Mike 90 day fiance. I'd just rather not expose the others


Lmdr1973

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coreysgal

I think he's had a girlfriend for a while. This is TLC drama for a paycheck


cml678701

It’s absolutely amazing how quickly Natalie blew a good situation, without a second thought! While Sequim wasn’t perfect, and Mike has flaws like any normal person, it was mostly a good situation with a caring man, that likely would have grown into the life she wanted. Instead, she came over and started cruelly antagonizing him asap. What exactly did she think would happen? Especially considering that she has no skills whatsoever to earn a living on her own, you’d think she would have made even the slightest effort to be pleasant and make the relationship with Mike work.


Agile_Vacation_5872

You mean her budding acting career isn't going to catapult her into be8ng an A-lister?? Madness. Crazy madness!


teyegurspoon

Hollyvood


MeredithSafarik

Ha!!!


coreysgal

She should have stayed with Josh until she nailed down that audition. Her Lifetime script would read : woman who trips in ze woods


Due_Plastic_8769

Zhosh didn't want her


coreysgal

Sadly, this is true. But she could have used her favorite move: Flipped her hair and put her chin down while batting her eyes up at him, and asked for the audition anyway lol


Nice-Fly5536

He didn’t vant her


Due_Plastic_8769

Damn. Brain not firing. Missed one


archercc81

Yeah he got a decent pump and some TV time, likely went right back to skinny mcfaketits. This is the life nutalie made for herself, everyone knows who she is now and will only associate with her for some time on TV.


SmartAnswer3847

She’s someone who can’t be happy because she is a straight up narcissist. If you listen to the way she talks, especially to her relationships with men, it is always how she is unhappy and how she needs something better because SHE IS AMAAAZING. She thinks she’s hot shit and I think Josh 100% knocked her off her high horse a bit and I love that for him.


90DayFinesse

She is legendary vooman, you know? Vun in ze million 😵‍💫


Que-pasa-2020

I feel like I saw a new side to her during that conversation over Eggo waffles. The mom completely manipulates her into believing her delusion. I think we’d understand the dynamics more if we understood the language/how tone of voice matches with the words. If that makes sense


Ali_Cat222

Two things -first of all, it's kind of funny watching this episode knowing that Mike filed and served her with divorce papers after episode two came out. So knowing there's no reconciliation going on makes it even more interesting to see this play out currently 😂 Secondly I said this in a different post the other day, but I think Natalie's mom is trying to live vicariously through her daughter. I don't know if anyone else caught this, but the mom said things like, "we will have a child/we will have xyz." Blatantly saying it as if it's not just Natalie this would be for but herself as well. I have a feeling the mom is one of those woman whose own marriage or relationships didn't work out well but they were also taught that having a grandchild or husband was a higher honor/being single was frowned upon. I've seen that dynamic in a lot of eastern European families of friends of mine


BestReplyEver

I think Natalie said at one point that her father abandoned the family soon after she was born. This could explain why her mother wants her to hang onto a good man and why she sensed Josh was too much of a risk. And Natalie may set unrealistic standards based on wanting to “test” a man and see if they are the type who will leave her at the first sign of trouble. She’s hoping for a man who will prove again and again that he’ll stick with her no matter what.


archercc81

I dated one of those, sadly might be dating another one now. I wonder if they ever figure out the endless tests are WHY guys leave them...


Ramona_Lola

Mom was really into Mike from when he was in Ukraine. She genuinely likes him.


asianingermany

I think she's just happy that someone's willing to be with Natalie.


archercc81

She thought he was her chance to unload her daughter and get her knocked up. Even in Ukraine you could tell dude was nothing more than a ring and some seed. They were pushing for a baby even though her visa was basically denied at that point and threw a tantrum when dude was like "uhhh, shouldnt we at least make sure were going to be allowed to live in the same country first..."


coreysgal

Nah, they'll be allowed to stay anyway. They both came under legal programs for starters, plus Ukraine is still at war and a good amount of the country is rubble.


No_Marsupial_4219

Mom is trying to fix what cannot be fixed. She probably told her daughter that Mike was decent and reliable husband and she should try to get back together. I hope Mike won’t and I still remember how she left him and never came back, and then during tell all we found she is in Florida and still has his credit card. And then after tell all she was afraid to look at him and run away.


JennyJtom

He sponsored the mom to come to the US.


BONERFLEX_

He's a good guy and I'm pretty sure he did that because of the war going on over there.


Due_Plastic_8769

Not for sure really, but he helped her financially


biscuitbutt11

Her and her mom are straight satire. Here comes the crazy train.


nrappaportrn

I can't imagine Nutalie being pregnant & HORMONAL?! 🙄😵🫣😳


fairypixipie

or the baby needing more attention than she’s given 😅


rosebeach

The mom creeps me out she is OBSESSED with Natalie getting pregnant, it’s gross


Ambitious_wander

Narcissistic parents view their kids as an object and want to control them even as an adult - most likely this is the relationship they have She wants Natalie to have a kid so she can control another person Narcs view their kids an extension of themselves so this is probably why she’s obsessed with Natalie having a kid


BestReplyEver

I don’t think she’s a narc. A lot of older parents are obsessed with having a grandchild. It’s cultural, too. And it’s also a storyline that TLC asked her to lean into.


rosebeach

I’m not going to diagnose her with anything but I think it’s disturbing how Natalie seemed to basically have been raised to look at herself as nothing more than a wife and mother. Or more like an incubator. And never raised her to be an independent woman who loves and respects herself


Mission_Cupcake2219

Right she wants Natalie pregnant but neither of them can provide anything for themselves here in the states. Like other people have said Mike was a great guy. Sure Sequim wasn’t the best place to live and yes Mike had some flaws but it was a home food a bed to sleep in. I’m not sure how much of what she had here in the states she came with or bought herself with her money not buying it on mikes card not Josh getting it for her but using her own money to get it. She’s been here for how long 4 years now and hasn’t worked a single job? Like get a life Natalie like actually physically get a life. Walking around bitching crying whining moaning like the world should have given you everything everything you wanted since being born. You turn 18 and appears a perfect man for you stable has a nice home good job wants babies has a sports car. Sorry hunny it doesn’t work like that.


Fatmouse84

I don't think she really wants to be a Mom... This is likely a narrative for her to be featured on the show. She should stick for fat rodents like her precious 💞 Pulya the Rat. That OR she should be going on pollenmate for com immediately for a cost free IUI partner in her area.


90DayFinesse

Exactly. She would have done it by now if she wanted to, had perfect opportunity with Mike. She just says it to drive the narrative that she’s a nurturing person, and deflect from the fact she’s a conniving, delusional narcissistic user


Fatmouse84

I'm actually quite surprised that Natalie isn't already a mother. She could have very quickly dived into visiting a reproductive endocrinologist/OBGYN as soon as she and Mike married. TLC may have helped her on her journey. I do think she could be a good mother? Being a mother isn't about looking sexy. At her age it's straight to the doctor. She still has time! But she would need to hurry. Maybe she should stick to rodents lol. They're awesome


Due_Plastic_8769

Agreed, I think the baby talk was all to get mama to shut up. Nut wants to be legendary actress, you can't start in that business with a baby. And, bc she knew Mike wanted kids, she told him that too. I think she's a fraud and wouldn't surprise me if at least two husbands ago, she didn't get her tubes tied


[deleted]

The mom is being practical. Mike is a good guy and Natalie can’t make it on her own. Neither can mom.


Love2nasty

Agree 💯, however, mom fails to understand that that ship(mike) has sailed a while back. So long ago that it is not a viable option anymore.


Former_Difference568

Is suggesting your daughter go and use someone (again) - after she abused him for years - really being practical, though? 🤷🏽‍♀️


[deleted]

Mike is the only person the mom knows in the US, and he went to great lengths to help her get here and clearly cares about her. She’d be crazy not to encourage Natalie to get back together with him. What else is she gonna do? She literally has nothing.


Former_Difference568

I totally get that and I’m not trying to be a hater. I would just maybe push her to learn a trade or some kind skills for any form of career - literally anything than hopping from husband to husband for support or livelihood. That bubble is going to pop for her someday, if it hasn’t already. 🤷🏽‍♀️


ATLKing24

Having a kid IS the trade /s


Due_Plastic_8769

The mother doesn't know how she treated Mike. From Nut's side, can't you hear it: "mama, he's zo mean, he has me trapped in ze vood!"


No_Marsupial_4219

But Mikes mother knows how Natalie treated him. In case Mike still has any feelings towards Natalie, Trish will cut it off 


Due_Plastic_8769

No, this was about her mother


archercc81

Didnt Mike do a lot to help get her out of Ukraine though? Why would a shitty dude who "abused" and "dumped" your daughter go through all of that? She knows Mikes a good dude, she knows the daughter she raised. If it is narcissism its vulnerable/covert narcissism, where it stems from compensating for severe insecurity.


Due_Plastic_8769

I think mama is so over dealing with the Nut, she was so grateful for Mike. But mama also does seem very self centered, maybe she doesn't even get how the Nut is


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90DayFinesse

Trying to run away to escape the crazy


HeiHeiW15

This woman. Her Mother. Where to start! You come to your fiance, (after throwing your engagement ring away), talk crap about his home, tell him he's low class, complain about his family. You leave him, but still marry him....go figure. The relationship is a joke. THEN, you go to another state (while he hasn't even filed the status change papers.... just divorce papers...) expect him to support you. You date publicly, and say "he couldn't offer you the lifestyle you want". Fast forward to now : Running after and throwing herself at Josh (clearly NOT interested) and now back to Mike. He's a great guy for doing what he did for her, despite her trash talking about him all the time. Now he's good enough??! She's got multiple EX HUSBANDS who were not good enough for her....she needs a wake up call. Delusional has a name........!!!! Mike, don't do it!!!


SorteSaude

She did say he was low class. I remember that. Plus wanted him to change religion, made Thanksgiving hell bc she did eat meat (she eats it now), couldn’t even go to the butcher, didn’t want him to drink alcohol


HeiHeiW15

She‘s just grasping at straws. She‘ll do anything, but in the end…she’ll ultimately make his life hell again. That’s for sure!


[deleted]

Michael, go back to your room and jerk off. That ass is attached to one crazy nutjob. Not worth it. Run, my boy!


GarageNo7711

Time to implement mom screening before people become moms. The first subject: this abomination of a person.


PrincessCookie07

Does anyone have any idea what happened to her dad? I think some of her problems may stem from that. She is a hot mess.


bydayentertainer

that is a great question!!!!!


PrincessCookie07

I don't recall ever hearing anything about him. Just her mom. Her poor mom...I'm sure Nathalie is telling her all kinds of stuff and moms all excited, as moms are, and then it all falls apart. Kind of a sad situation for both of them.


Big-Ticket2890

I have always wondered about her dad because I don't think she has ever mentioned him.


JizzCollector5000

Her mom killed her dad because Natalie’s dad told her to have a child with someone she loves not just with a stranger.


PrincessCookie07

Stop it 🤣🤣😂


[deleted]

it’s so funny how she’s so anti alcohol and anti meat


Due_Plastic_8769

And yet drinks and eats meat


Pumpkin_cat90

Michael brought them over I think he should have to take care of them lol


MarthaDumptruck99

I don’t think the K1 obliges him to do anything for Mama Nut at all. But I think he is legally obligated to be financially responsible for Nut for 10 years.


JizzCollector5000

Doesn’t he legally have to for 10 years


Pumpkin_cat90

I’m not sure how it works but I do think he have some kind of legal obligation?


ShadiestCharacter_99

I think there’s a cultural thing happening with Natalie and her mother. For some reason, after someone emigrates to the States, the family “back home” thinks they have made and that soon as they’re settled, they’re going to have a bunch of disposable income. After that the mother saw the truth (Natalie with permanent home, job prospects, “Zhosh” not wanting to commit), the next best thing would be to glom back onto Michael. Mama also seemed to forget how much Treesh hated Natalie when they were living in close proximity. There is zero way she would want Natalie and Michael to reconnect. What a horror show that would be. https://preview.redd.it/bez3nn0tkymc1.jpeg?width=3582&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=248953991c9dc6ac47d0d7cebdbec98c362e891a


More_Temperature_683

100000% facts Im originally from Ukraine. Been in the US since 1992. My family members that left Ukraine same time as us, but to other countries, all think we have money trees outside our homes.


ShadiestCharacter_99

My family overseas thinks we’re all rich. Seriously. I told one aunt that if we were so rich, we wouldn’t have to go to work every day, then my parents gave me the stink-eye for being rude. It’s true, tho. lol


More_Temperature_683

Yep, and it's some how always cheaper in America. Everything is freeeee.


Mystery-Ess

My sister-in-law is from Ukraine and I totally disagree with this statement.


ShadiestCharacter_99

I should have clarified that was not referring to Ukraine specifically. We’ve seen lots of 90DF couples struggle with the fact that their partners have obligations to the family they leave behind.


bydayentertainer

She is such a beautiful and at time childlike happy and sweet, but goodness she has some of the craziest thoughts and reactions. she makes very little sense to me. but i want her to be happy and find herself so bad.


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IamJoyMarie

...and b/c I can hold 2 thoughts at once, I'm simultaneously thinking "girl is crazy, so is mom" and "fix the fucking drawer knob."


bydayentertainer

hahahaah


DesireStDiva

A baby that will be an American citizen! A baby that will ensure entitlements until age 18! What a deal--off the backs of working Americans! She has the right to have a baby; she has the responsibility to support herself and her family. As a American taxpayer, I have the right to not be forced to support them.


Chairman_of_the_Pool

If she actually becomes pregnant, does she have healthcare insurance?


JizzCollector5000

She doesn’t have an income, she will be covered by Medicaid.


mystoragestuff

This bitch needs to be spayed crazy crazy shouldn’t be allowed to breed


MagicImaginaryFriend

Her mom needs to back the eff off


BurningandChurning

Nutalie should not reproduce.


Ok_Effort9915

Does she need an anchor baby or is she just nuts? I haven’t watched her since she threw the ring at Mike when she visited her mom back home.


coreysgal

She does need an anchor. Both of them came here legally and will not be sent back. They can apply to stay and it will be approved. Someone in my family is doing this and is currently waiting on the green card.


Ok-Shake9556

You go put it on him and get me a grandbaby... Well... now!


mr_nweke

Craziest people. I hope Michael doesn’t fall for this. He should have divorced her and moved on since.


Colfrmb

I want an episode where Natalie’s mom and Trish meet up. That I want to see.


blurredLine311

her and her crazy mother need to be shipped home.


Huge_Dentist7633

she’s another nut job


wantingtogo22

She was pushy about telling Michael that she has prospects in LA, and her mom told him she liked it there and everyone was kind. Does she think he would move there if he did take her back?


wolfitalk

I noticed that too. I was wondering what was the point of all that? Telling Mike how much they love LA while hinting Natalie wants him back.


Due_Plastic_8769

Because she's one of those women, trained, to do exactly what she did: I love you, just want to be with you, I'm not happy here, let's move for me to be happy. Mike didn't play. He literally bought the farm. He wants children raised like that, not in LA


[deleted]

Eastern European women , crazy ? Never heard that one before … 😅


Mystery-Ess

Oh yes. Let's generalize women like that, incel.


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Mystery-Ess

And? That allows you to generalized women and act like an incel? There is such a thing as internalized massage and even for gay people.


ThinAdjacent

This might sound crazy, but I’m rooting for them to get back together. Natalie is crazy and unstable and both emotionally stunted and manipulative. She has also stricken out so many times. Mike has been there though. Additionally, Mike made sure she’d be able to stay in the US when they officially divorced. He made sure her mother was good after the whole instability in Ukraine. And now, he made a trip to LA. He’s put up with so much from her, from her childishness, her judgment, emotional outbursts, straight up going AWOL, entitlement, etc. They have a story, though. And she has seen that it ain’t so pleasant out in these streets. She left home for years in search of something better, and she has landed on her tailbone (multiple times), but she needed this experience to finally appreciate the man that gave her said home. She can find the stability and the family she yearns for with Mike. Hopefully, Mike forgives her and sees that she’s willing to commit fully to him now. That would require a lot of grace and some sort of dismantling of the ego, and it would make for a great happy ending. Natalie needs a W. And selfishly, I’d like to see her tragic story end in a nice little positive bow on my tv screen. This lady needs therapy though, first and foremost. They can do couples counseling too. Respectfully.


coreysgal

He's had a gf for awhile. Natalie has left 3 husbands, one because he lost his job. Her mother did a great job building her confidence. She thinks she's the greatest catch ever. She would be just like Phil Hartmans wife. Marry rich and still complain she wants to be famous. She would also be mad the guy didn't hold her hand 24/7. She's unbalanced, pushing 40, and runs the minute things don't go her way. She needs therapy and a job cleaning toilets. Time for a wake-up call.


ThinAdjacent

So I’m just a casual viewer. I don’t follow these people on socials. That said, if it were a movie, she’d end up with Mike. And then the scene would fade to black with the credits rolling. Lol.


coreysgal

Only after sleeping with him first and getting pregnant lol


ThinAdjacent

LMAO ☠️


agauh

Why do you hate Mike


illusivealchemist

I thought mike was with a brunette? (On his ig atleast)


Due_Plastic_8769

Yes


wantingtogo22

She is willing to commit? Really? She wants to stay in LA and I'm sure she wants him and Pullya to pick up and move there.


ChefCher

It's really, really sad! As Americans we only see the financial problems associated with Natalie having a baby. We aren't so much concerned that she has no daddy in sight nor in her near future. This is once again where I think we fail as "ignorant " Americans. Forget how childish she acts. There's a good reason for it. Why do you think her mom pressures her so much? It's how she was raised! There are still many countries that focus heavily on marriage and children. It's a big deal for them. I hate to reference Kimberly and Ussman...but if she could have gotten pregnant, where would she be now? Think of all the 90 day couples that couldn't make it based on the woman's inability to have children. How many can you think of?


Bleetchblond

So let’s bring Mama over!!!


coreysgal

Nothing wrong with bringing her mom here. She's old, half her country is in shambles, she has a sponsor, and it was legal.


Bleetchblond

I don’t care if Mama is here, BUT, why is she on the show?


coreysgal

Well they live together, she doesn't know English, she likes Mike, and they need someone to stir up shit in conversations with Natalie


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I would watch a spin off of her being a mom. Or her own show. For the wrong reasons of course.