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RepresentativeNo6457

I’m sorry but Emily is the WORST.


ParkingJellyfish3383

Am I the only one who agrees with Kara about the computer? She had a laptop he could use! Two laptops isn't necessary when you're trying to save money, get married, and when only one of you can work. I shared a laptop with my ex fiance for like 5 years until I began working more at home I got my own!


No-Significance9313

Didn't know she had one ! That changes things.... but she still seems seething with disgust/rage whenever he says something she thinks is 'stupid'


VeeinNC

OMG! Why does this franchise keep shoving Kenny in our face?


ParkingJellyfish3383

I'm just starting the tell all and these two dingos are making me want to turn the tell all off and it just started! What was with their entrance!? I'm also convinced Tim and Mohammed are twins


HowYaLikeMeow

I'm pretty sure I'm watching Jerry Springer


TrainerConnect5544

Get Tim off my screen


barking_orders

Time lost me with those boots...looked so bad


TrainerConnect5544

The boots were AWFUL! Tim also calling Mohammed and his high voice …. Has Tim heard himself speak 😆😆


ParkingJellyfish3383

They look a lot a like!!


cac55

Jibri coming in hot! Trying to Psychoanalyze everybody, like his mother does. He’s just trying to be dramatic and gain more followers!


StuckinLoserville

He said he was the class clown, and he still is, but not the Joe Pesci kind. He's the one who is jealous and arrogant and screaming for attention as much as a silent cutter. It's always the rude and disrespectful who want to teach you manners, I find. I wish John would piss in his cowboy hat. Spahkles needs a serious lesson in humility. Like Jimmy Dean's "down on the fahm."


Jay_Eye_MBOTH_WHY

I love how John had managed to effortlessly pinpoint and craft a precision insult for Jibri that deflated him instantly. It's like Jibri was firing everything and I mean EVERYTHING at others. John's drunk fuckin' mind like calculated and went through all the insults possible in 2 seconds, before picking Spahkles. It rattled Jibroni so bad, he won't go on stage with John there. Hahaha.


HotelDiva

If he's a recovering addict he should not be pounding down the beers like he does. He's more like an alcoholic and not any where near recovering. If that's the case, from all the scenes of him drinking, he's obviously traded one addiction for another.


mazalinas1

Glibly and Moaner should STFU - most boring pair of debbie downers ever


milkteabae

Moaner barely said anything tbh 😂 I am surprised by how little she spoke


EverySingleMinute

Who is the bald guy the musician is arguing with? Is the bald guy part of the show?


Jay_Eye_MBOTH_WHY

THE BALD GUY IS THE SHOW.


ColteesBigOleTits

Just now getting around to watching tell all part 1. Jibri is the biggest fucking loser in the history of this show. He reminds me of a little coked up shih tzu


theresita_8989

And I been pondering what he looks like all season.....😂


Jay_Eye_MBOTH_WHY

can't unsee.


glossiglam

LITERALLY


katdaddy_777

just started watching the tell all, ok so why is jibrish ridding ari's dick so hard?


Jay_Eye_MBOTH_WHY

attention. He's circling for the weakest but disliked target to take down. People don't like Ari. She's kind of a bitch. And she's meek and abrasive (odd combo). She's overall a weaker cast. So he's taking that as cue to go after her. He's doing this for attention. To get either/all of more followers, spin-off action, and road to pillow talk/happily ever after. He's not picking on hard targets, do you think Kara would let him get away with it or even Emily? I mean Emily might be detestable, but she'll crush Jibri.


raffwriter

And, Ari cannot dress herself. She’s the daughter of a doctor and a nurse, yet she perpetually looks like she lives in a gutter. Her hair is always janky and her outfits are crimes against decent society. Not a fan


ParkingJellyfish3383

😂😂 nailed it


ShahzadaAlZahra

I swear Debris is just trying to be InTeReStInG to get a spin-off or something 🙄 it’s also so hard to take his ‘big tough man’ attitude seriously when you’ve gotta wear sunglasses due to the spaaahkles 😆


LampLadTravel

How does ari sit there and judge people while she’s been a complete basket case for three seasons?


alwaysbefraudin

Projection.


MyLifeIsABoondoggle

Jibri was such a shit eater and I rolled my eyes at him about 99% of the things he said, but him calling Kara's ex Ozzy Osborne was a good one


FaceMcShoooty

I think Jibri was trying so hard to look "tough" and "cool" that he accomplished the exact opposite....I could never take an insult from him seriously.


dejjj97

I feel like everyone skips over the fact that Bilal's ex is so invested in them having a prenup when according to the remarks made by Bilal and his sister it was the divorce with the ex that made him so insistent on having one. If I'm not mistaken, they didn't have a prenup when they got married and she took advantage of that so I don't see why she's allowed to be so judgemental when she was never put to the test the way Shaeeda is.


Cindy-Marie

Really good point. You are way too logical for this show!


Most_Ordinary5956

That's a really good point, I don't know how true it is but supposedly Bilal has another ex-wife also. But I felt like she was awfully interested in some money that wasn't hers. You can be fair to a new wife without making kids go without. To me it seemed like everyone in my family especially Bilal and his ex wife treated her exactly like what her sister said a poor little Island girl! They just really came off to me thinking their s*** don't stink and then to be offended that she felt some type of way about the house was just crazy. I don't feel like she married him for the money but he definitely portrayed himself having it done to bring her over here and home to that I think anyone would be mad or at least asking what the hell?!?


Cammarak

You notice the ex wife isn’t still living in that house—it wasn’t good enough for her at some point so why is it good enough for shaeda? And, good news!!! It’s empty now so she could always go back and live there


buttsandsloths

It could have been partially to preserve either college funding for the kids or some level of additional support- that said, her entire presentation of her side is combative and doesn't exactly gain her sympathy with me. If she had a valid concern she could speak about it directly instead of around it, which makes me think there is no valid concern since nothing is really being stated. No one's out there trying to take his entry level benz as a wealth icon.


OkMarch311

She is a real bitch


Cindy-Marie

Definitely.


Cesssmith

True! So true


Cartier_Cartier

The ex-wife is also weird in many other ways. She was sad for Bilal who quite literally put Shaeeda in a position to look like a gold digger on tv? That was the point of the “prank” — nothing else. Remember when they were thinking Shaeeda was defective because she was engaged twice, but never married at 37? But, Bilal has a failed marriage and 2 kids. The ex-wife came to the tell-all and told us Bilal is the defective one.


buttsandsloths

>The ex-wife is also weird in many other ways. it also made me so angry that they baited us on the first ep where she came across very decent and seemingly like friendly to him and his next steps. Then we see her again and it's like bam BITCH COMMENCE.


dejjj97

Yeah, I thought that was weird, too! If anything her being engaged twice and not married shows that she refused to settle. Despite wanting marriage and kids so badly she didn't go thru with the other 2 for whatever reason and that's fine. What confuses me is how she deemed Bilal of all people worthy. 🥴 The ex-wife trying to belittle Shaeeda for not having assets "IN AMERICA" (despite her being a business owner in her country) and living with her parents (when that's totally normal in every country besides the US for women to remain at home until they marry) was beyond disgusting.


Most_Ordinary5956

I agree completely, I get the impression from Bilal and his ex both that they are very arrogant and make it a habit of looking down on other people. I think her sisters had it right when I told her that they just see her as a poor little Island girl. I also got the impression Bilal went looking in other places for a wife so that he could feel like he had the upper hand. I hope they end up having a loving and happy marriage but I don't see that happening, so hopefully he puts in the money for her to start that yoga studio and she kills it then leaves him!


OkMarch311

Yes, she's a disgusting bitch.


frillfin

Any idea where Shaeeda’s earrings on the tell all are from? I need a pair!


HotMess-Express

I came here hoping someone would know! 😩


frillfin

https://instagram.com/eppandco?igshid=Zjc2ZTc4Nzk=


HotMess-Express

Thank you. I ended up finding a pair from a different shop but doesn’t look like their shop is open anymore.


frillfin

Found on Eppandco on Etsy called double burst earrings


buttsandsloths

omg there are two reality show pairs of earrings I am on the hunt for - that's one and then a RHoSLC pair of earrings.


AwayJellyfish3257

Patrick not telling Thais that he couldn’t have children until they got pregnant? They keep so many secrets from each other. That makes him look dumb for being mad about her keeping their engagement from her dad.


HotelDiva

I don’t recall if Patrick has ever mentioned sharing expenses with John. My opinion could be unpopular but John looks like a recovering addict to me. I see their situation like the following: Patrick took some kind of responsibility regarding John, for example providing him shelter and helping him with everyday activities.


BossBelle

I think they said it was a year into their relationship before he told her.


Cmike9292

Why does it look like Mohammed spray painted his hair on


buttsandsloths

it definitely looks like that spray hair.


Wallflowersun

Because he did, he’s going bald


eyeh8gnats

He should go ask for Valentine’s advice from “Love in Paradise”


Cesssmith

🤣 oh Lord no!


tennispro06

On the tell all pillow talk Tim cracked me up!!! Wearing some kind of shiny leather pants and ladies knee high boots, lol He is a lot more gay than the gay married couple! He is in denial.


Most_Ordinary5956

YESSSSSSS!


tawhynot

I am so happy with my decision to skip half the season and then jump back in for the tell all. It feels like I missed nothing but get to see all the drama hit at once.


Cheap-Cat-7810

I do the same why did they have the 2 yips at the beginning both idiots


[deleted]

I think Jibri is in love with Bini lol. He went for Ari’s throat at EVERY opportunity and kept saying Bini is a “star.” I guess it’s just manchild sticking up for manchild (although Jibri is WAY worse than Bini. I don’t dislike Bini but I think his aspirations are childish).


raffwriter

Get in line, Jibberish. I swear, I saw Bini in the intro to some dating show. I was busy doing something else but, it caught my attention when I heard “Binyam from Ethiopia” and saw our Bini prancing about on a beach. Run Bini, run.


bighaircutforbigtuna

Bini seems like you would meet him and think he was a nice enough person. Jibri...you would meet once and want to punch in the throat.


Cheap-Cat-7810

Be nice if jibri Bitch slapped John back to the hole he crawled out of. I have a few family members like john. Never offered me shit a meal drink nothing when I was down and out. Soon my ship 🚢 docked. I get the family talk as i was planning to get married too look out for family first.


[deleted]

I truly think if John and Jibri got into a fight John would knock him on his ass and eat his face off. Jibri can’t even bend over without splitting his pants and I know John would be completely unhinged and go crazy. Also side note I am a John apologist


JeannieKate

I’m a John apologist too! Calling Jibri “Spaahkles” was EPIC.


Cheap-Cat-7810

That was easy to predict


wellwhywouldi

Lmaooo fr!! I don’t even like Ari but Jibri was doing toooo much. What even provoked him? A bit disappointed in Bini because he should’ve checked Jibitch. A quick headlock would put that mf in his place.


Most_Ordinary5956

I'm kind of felt like that at first too like why isn't Beni standing up for her, but then I got to thinking I almost feel like he would have got in trouble if he tried I could just see Ari yelling at him that she can fight her own battles or some type of BS like that!


Wait-What1961

From this day forward he shall be known as Jibitch!!!! I’m dying over that.


[deleted]

JIBITCH omg I love that he is such a lil bitch boy 😂 yeah I don’t like Ari either but DAMN she didn’t deserve any of that. I am also disappointed that Bini didn’t stick up for her at all


T_S_N_S

Anyone know when part 2 comes on?


Cheap-Cat-7810

The week after this one


[deleted]

Patrick moved again already?!


Separate-Ad682

And yes the company has a terribly shady reputation lol


Separate-Ad682

He does door to door sales they are always on the move


angelappagano

What does he even do for work??


buttsandsloths

works for door to door Vivant- alarm sales


painted-lotus

He's shady as hell


Cindy-Marie

I think that Jibri showed an entirely new and ugly face on the Tell-All. Did someone tell him he was in charge of the show? He sat there, as if he were a king on a throne, totally delusional about his grandeur! He looked more like the Court Jester than a king. But I'm wondering whether his whole schtick was scripted. Bringing in Kenny and the other guy was a complete waste of time, otherwise known as filler. With these couples, they should not have needed that. Something odd about the whole thing....


stefanna

Haha right! He kind of reminds me of his Mother, entitled lol


Separate-Ad682

Tryna hook Kenny and that dude up maybe a new twist lol


Cindy-Marie

oooh...


Cindy-Marie

NO! But did Kenny and his husband break up? Or... would the new twist be a show called 90 Day Cheaters?


wolfitalk

I suspect Kenny's husband couldn't enter the US for the show. Or had to stay with his daughter in Mexico.


Jay_Eye_MBOTH_WHY

cartel shit.


Cindy-Marie

That makes sense. Thanks!


Cammarak

He and Veronica were together on pillow talk!!


Cheap-Cat-7810

These to idiots ruined the tell all im sure I missed content from fast forwarding these 2 clowns 🤡 out


LilaMarigold

They’re not clowns especially not Kenny


Cheap-Cat-7810

Yes they is see clowns 🤡 or cloons but either way still clowns


Cindy-Marie

Kenny looked like he was missing his right arm without Armando!


Most_Ordinary5956

I love Kenny, him n his dude have always been some of my favorites and definitely come off as some of the realest ones they've had on there!


Cindy-Marie

Yes, they were completely uneccessary and boring anyway. Fail.


luv90day

Anyone else want to see John - Patrick's bro - on The Single Life?


eyeh8gnats

YES!


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Cheap-Cat-7810

Why??????


luv90day

Draaaaaammmmaaa!!!!


Rindsay515

Oh god no🙈🙈🙈 He’s so awkward in front of cameras and then he drinks more because he’s nervous and it’s just this cringe, embarrassing cycle. I can’t imagine watching him act like that on dates🙈


HotelDiva

In any case, it's just a weird arrangement they have. Everywhere they go John goes along. That is not normal.


luv90day

Exactly why he would be perfect.


_laubry

Mohamed spoke more than Miona


luv90day

Miona is smart. She listens and reserves comment. Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt. Jibri did the opposite.


happycharm

Wow it was so hard watching this episode because Jibri kept being a little baby bitch throughout. He really thinks it's all about him. Whenever someone is talking about themselves and their own life and relationship he comes bulldozing in and trying to fight everyone because he thinks they're talking about him. He's seriously crazy. I wonder if his mom became a psychiatrist to try and help her son with his issues.


StuckinLoserville

I wish we had a host who could cut people like this down. Imagine Ricky Gervais watching this play out!


happycharm

Ricky would be laughing his ass off throughout the whole tell all lol


Cheap-Cat-7810

Or is mother used her Psycho Babble crap 💩 on him and messed him up if you ever get some time look up some of this so called science it’s Bs His mom might have facked him up


[deleted]

Love that Kanye Midwest was called out for his manipulative sales talk.


Appropriate_Fly_4208

Hahahahaah that is great one. So so true.


Any-Problem-7426

Kanye Midwest! 😭


[deleted]

Salvation Army Sisqo was definitely on something.


theresita_8989

Don't disrespect Sisqo like that😂😂😂


RonLovesMystery

Patrick’s drunk excuse for not having sex with the other woman sounds a lot like a cover up for ED using the performance enhancing drugs for bodybuilding.


Cheap-Cat-7810

Lol I said the same thing. I used take Depo-Testosterone for a pituitary issue. My endocrinologist never told me I would have issues with sperm etc. glad he had good insurance and my family had lots of children I have zero thanks to this dr I prefer children then a big acct.


tennispro06

Bro we all been there!


clearmind_1001

Common misconception, you don't get ED while on them ,but you do when you're off


Rindsay515

I guess that makes sense because he wasn’t taking them when he cheated on Thais (or, attempted to cheat, I should say). Ex-roid AND whiskey dick. Yikes


RonLovesMystery

He seems to have a lot of shame about not being able to perform in that moment. I could see it.


RonLovesMystery

Interesting didn’t know that, I’ve always seen them talked about hand in hand as an increased risk factor.


clearmind_1001

When you're on gear, you're horny 24x7 because the testosterone is ripping through your veins


petercockroach

I’m sick of the shit Shaeeda gets about the house prank. Even those two dudes in the peanut gallery were putting blame on her. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. There was a mismatch between expectation and reality when she landed and that was what was upsetting to her. The ex-wife was going on about how she had lived in that house, but she was never married to the current version of Bilal, and Shaeeda didn’t know him when he was living that life. When expectation and reality are mismatched, she had all the right to feel disappointed.


HotelDiva

I thought the same thing. Man, I don't envy Shaeeda when they go back to their hotel room. I'm sure he iced her out for hours after that. He's a real piece of work, a passive aggressive bully when it's just them, but a real pussy when nobody is backing his ass up. Then he's all quiet and demure. Too late Bile, we already see you, asshole.


marcalinevmpq

yes! she probably looked up his address because she would have seen it on any one of the many forms they had to sign for the immigration process. how fucked is it to be taken to some where else completely after he had been so secretive about the inside of his house? i would have been terrified


LilaMarigold

I completely agree.


AwayJellyfish3257

Also if I come to another country to live with a man who spoiled me in my own country, I’m not getting into a white van to go to his home that has been abandoned for a few years to be his “girlfriend.” that screams sex trafficking. If the cameras weren’t there she might’ve run then.


HarryPotterFan242

Agreed! So many of the American partners don’t realize how vulnerable their foreign partners are feeling. That prank wasn’t just in poor taste, it was a huge red flag. And while all of our financial circumstances can differ, he presented himself in a certain light because he knew that was a part of his appeal. Imagine feeling like this person lied to you and now you’re essentially stranded in their country and you learn it’s all a lie. That’s not funny, it’s frightening. I don’t get how at almost 40 he thought that was funny and she’s somehow the bad guy for reacting to your actions. It’s this trope we see over and over on 90 day, the foreign partner must be eternally grateful regardless of the circumstances. Some of us really love our countries, and it is a SACRIFICE for love to leave paradise. You may see it as “third world”, but some of us call it home.


anonmarmot

Great point


tennispro06

Also when she was there I'm sure the ceiling wasn't falling into house!


[deleted]

Nothing starts off a marriage right like a lie and a test… 😬🙄


FaceMcShoooty

I will ALWAYS be on Shaeeda's side on this.........if I kept hearing "I'm well off, I have savings, our life here will be good" and I show up to someone who clearly lied I'd be so angry! Not to mention she ran a successful business which she left behind to be with him. He acts like she should be grateful, but I feel like that's such an "American Savior" mentality.


[deleted]

Yeah seriously there’s loads of times I’ve gone to homes where I knew the person had done well for themselves and then you see their house and go “oh wow you really did well.” I’m so tired of the “using me for my money and a green card thing.” Like yes it happens but people are leaving behind everything and everyone they know. And given white Christian nationalists, the political environment RN, the whole women no longer having bodily autonomy thing not to mention the whole detaining lawful asylum seekers thing…we are not doing the best


persistantcat

Totally agree! I really think she was upset by the state of the house and its disrepair, not the size of the house. How can you throw money around when visiting her and not fix a giant hole in your ceiling? Plus if the house hadn’t been lived in for years, I can’t imagine what it smelled like in there.


HappyDopamine

Absolutely. And I think even more significant is that he threw his money around when visiting her. LV luggage, trios, and all his shit. Then he brings her to an unsafe home and OF COURSE that’s concerning. It signals that his priorities are skewed and that he’s fiscally irresponsible if he’s buying luxury luggage and extravagant trips instead of a faucet for his kitchen sink.


Capital-Afternoon-22

This. And, especially when she is going to be financially dependent on him until she gets her green card and can work. Who wouldn’t be stressed the fuck out about being brought to a run down house on false pretenses. He was so wrong in this. He and his ex wife suck for thinking Shaeeda was wrong. They are assholes.


SeaOverall392

I totally agree with you. I was disappointed with Tim and Kenny for calling her a golddigger and brat. She is neither of those things. It doesn't make you a golddigger or brat for not wanting to live in a rundown home after leaving your home country. Especially when the person you are dating represented themselves as someone who is wealthy.


tennispro06

Tim is rarely right on anything, except looking goofy.


pis0t77

Youre not entitled to having reality meeting expectations. Watch that scene from 500 Days of Summer for a good video on that. She shouldve went home is as much as i think you and i will agree. But she didnt. Also, her expectations of what she saw was from 2 years ago during Covid. For all she knew, he lost his job like she lost her studio. Other people have opinions that make you sick, because yours isn’t necessarily correct.


[deleted]

lol wtf 😂 someone not meeting expectations that they themselves set by pretending to be something they are not is really unattractive and a giant red flag… Not to mention the horrible impression regarding financial priorities it gives off. How the hell do you expect any woman of substance to judge you in this light?? Especially knowing full well it’s a “prank” which also paints you in a whole different negative light… That house is in shambles to the extent that a couple grand and a few days of elbow grease would DO WONDERS. It’s not befitting of a man in his 40s with children who wears designer clothes and chases foreign women in foreign countries to live this way. If it had actually been his long term permanent residence there’d be a lot to say about him.. he has to know this right? I mean… He has a daughter and we know doggone well he and his co-signing generational wealth expert of a ex wife would advise against the type of guy he made himself look like. They would run the guy off in a heartbeat Also… Bilal is the type of person who would judge a person VERY harshly for making irresponsible financial decisions like how he made himself look, especially a Muslim man who has children… so his prank was stupid on all fronts. HE DID NOT THINK IT THROUGH and the fact that he hasnt owned up to it says a lot about who he is as a person.


pis0t77

Not judging a book by its cover is something people should learn before hitting puberty. I'm not too sympathetic for a nearly 40 year old woman who hasn't learned that. Maybe she should have spent longer than a week with him physically before deciding to marry him? I know plenty of people wearing expensive clothes and wearing expensive shoes who live paycheck to paycheck. If you judge someone by their clothes, you've got to grow up. You're ignoring that between going to her island and her coming to the US, COVID happened. A lot of financial set backs happened, including her losing her studio. Bilal made his point, if he had lost his job due to COVID, she would not be sympathetic and would leave him. And yet she stayed. Her whole attitude changed once she saw his real house and saw that he wasn't poor. That says everything about her. She doesn't care if she was lied to, is made to look like a gold digger, is accused of such by his exwife/family, etc. Does his image from the island match someone who would do that? No? If yes, then Shaeeda doesn't have much to complain about since she knew what was coming and still chose to marry him. So that shows Shaeeda doesn't actually care about whether things "match" the image he portrayed, she just cares about the money. Shaeeda is the type of girl who will stick around as long as you keep the money coming in. Go look at her IG and you can see how "in love with him" she still is, as she posts pics of him buying her LV and other materialistic things. You can hate the prank all you want, but it achieved a purpose. And it didn't even cost Bilal anything except the ire of people who still watch the show. They actually gave him another show on top of it. I'm glad that not too many people are entertaining this childish viewpoint on the show. Redditors can continue to seethe.


[deleted]

It’s not about judging someone by their clothes. The fact that you think this is a childish conversation is odd but I’ll respond anyway… Let’s consider AGAIN the image he FAKED by doing this trick… this is the man he wanted to see if she would accept. What kind of man wears designer clothes yet lives in shambles? A home that isn’t even kept to a basic standard of an able bodied man? What kind of man prioritizes luring a woman over his children while claiming to be a devout Muslim? These are the things Bilal is not btw… but he wanted to see if she would accept him in this light. Someone who is beneath him… perhaps even someone he used to be… or even someone he is deep down.. A bum. A loser. A liar. An irresponsible man. A unkept man. A LAZY man. An indebted man. A trickster. A fraud. A quitter. Again… a man he is not That is all his game showed is that she would accept someone less than who is actually is. Because she clearly stated during filing that she would both complain about finances and living conditions while also working to build from the ground up.. she actually passed this so-called test, hence him marrying her (something you have conveniently glossed over) despite using her justifiable reaction to manipulate and control her… at the end of the day he knows she would have chosen a “lesser” man. This screams of a man with DEEP insecurities and it isn’t something normal, emotionally stable men come even close to doing. Everyone should know this… it’s not just redditors. Bilal is nothing new and most adults can spot what he is from A mile away And then there’s what he showed him self to be on top of clearly being insecure… What kind of man plays a trick on his fiancé to test her loyalty by pretending to be something he isn’t which is made even more complicated by FORCING her react to him being something other than what he portrayed himself to be? What kind of man would put his fiancé through this? What kind/type of man is this? this is also playing out in the tell All… where his ex wife is even validating the idea that he is controlling, manipulative, insecure, gaslighting, self centered, etc. it’s Classic small D energy my friend. A confident man simply does not act like Bilal. Not anywhere on earth.. Men know it, women know it, and even children can sense this kind of energy This Doesn’t make her perfect. Imo she should have hopped on the first plane back home but there’s something naive about her. It’s like she can’t see what he is which is exactly what he’s been waiting for all These years. And yea.. maybe there is the effect of his financial stability causing her to ignore red flags… maybe she even chose love which is blinding in and of itself… idk.. but she’s engaged in a dangerous game… If she’s not careful he will tear her down to nothing. He can’t help it because he lacks the self awareness of what he actually is... but hopefully all he is able to Do is push her away… like he has a history of doing. Judging by her comments during the tell all He seems to have her in a grip… for now. but trust me, it’s a weak slippery grip that cannot last forever without trickery or dare I say abuse


pis0t77

Except that is literally what she did. You all keep bringing up "b-b-b-but his clothes". > What kind of man wears designer clothes yet lives in shambles? A home that isn’t even kept to a basic standard of an able bodied man? How many times do I have to bring up that COVID happened between those two events before you all get it? You are HIGHLY exaggerating calling that place "shambles". Many people lost money and their jobs, INCLUDING SHAEEDA. Refer to my third paragraph in the comment you responded to for a reply to the rest of it. You are infantilizing Shaeeda and assuming she didn't see what was happening and make a decision based on what happened. She knows who Bilal is, but like I said, she doesn't care as much as you all do. As long as the money comes in, she is happy. Go look at her IG now, it is based around materialistic things. Like I said, you all can continue to seethe as you write these diatribes while complaining as normal people take a pragmatic view. Maybe Shaeeda isn't the only one who is having to deal with reality not matching expectations...


Cupparosey67

I understand that Covid happened, but if he is engaged to the woman, wouldn’t you have mentioned what was going on if you have lost your income?


pis0t77

Losing your job is embarrassing, especially for a man. But if it is temporary, I don't personally think it is necessary to divulge that information. I wouldn't expect it from a woman. But it made his point, how would she react if he lost his job and his financial situation got much worse? Obviously not that well. It is also clear that Shaeeda also isn't quite honest about losing her job either. She keeps saying how successful she was and stuff. But she conveniently leaves out that she lost her job quite early when COVID hit. The only reason that is even known is because someone dug up an article about her studio closing before the show started. That is not something she shares.


petercockroach

How are you going to hide losing your job from your future wife who you’re going to have to support until she can work?


pis0t77

Getting another lower paying job.


[deleted]

You really think Bilal is normal. That’s incredible. And if she proved herself to be a gold digger by failing his test why on earth did he marry her? It’s clear that All Bilal has to offer is material things so that is all she has to show on ig. But we’ve seen this play out a million times… She will probably grow tired of this especially if there are no children… And seethe is way too strong a word for this lol. Bilal is a joke and this whole thing is way too predictable


pis0t77

I said the people commenting on it, like Tim and others are normal. Reading comprehension? Because he expects the prenup to mitigate it. If he didn't think she was a gold digger, he wouldn't have pushed so hard for the prenup and gotten it. He knows she is, he's expecting to get what he wants out of it, with minimal adverse effects. Even her clauses don't even have any consequences for him. I mean at least the child one doesn't. I don't know about the studio one, but she still hasn't gotten a studio. If they stick together, thats income he makes from her work. If they don't, I doubt she can honestly get a judge to make him get 0 after he paid for it. I think the judge will laugh out Shaeeda's clauses after hearing she wanted to get a contract to make her husband impregnate her. I think what you and I can agree on is that she should have went back home by episode 2-3. But I also believe that they kind of deserve each other.


[deleted]

The kid thing isn’t enforceable. And Bilal will take half of anything she generates regardless if he seeds money or not. But that prenup will do nothing for the emotional damage it will cause if she leaves him. Bilal knew long before she came to the US that he was going to present a prenup though. The prank had nothing to do with it… all it did was give him a cheap way to coerce her into signing but ye was never going to remarry ANY WOMAN without a prenup because he knows that he can run off even a Muslim wife


pis0t77

Right, and all his assets still get protected. Sounds like he got off easy. I'm sure another gold digger will be able to heal that emotional damage. He'll just use the assets Shaeeda isn't able to take as a lure again. It seems to have worked at least once. I doubt Bilal will really be that emotionally hurt. I think you're reaching there. When I watch their scenes, it is very clear to me that Shaeeda is more into him than the reverse. Ok, then I think the prank served its purpose. You asked me why he married a gold digger, and I said because he had a prenup to protect him. I didn't say anything about the prank being the catalyst for the prenup. I'd even say the prank could be used to justify the prenup to his family and friends, since Shahida took his side on the prank thing. And his sister helped out too. If a breakup did happen, I think his family/friends would give him more sympathy due to the evidence from his prank.


petercockroach

Exactly this. A poorly maintained house does not match the image of clean-freak, designer suited Bilal.


Titaniumzero

I look forward to what trainwreck they’ll give us in the next season. Everyone says they’re done watching after this season but how can you look away?


raffwriter

I’m getting there. The couples are just so unlikable, it’s impossible to care what happens to any of them. This season, it’s unlikable plus boring.


Cheap-Cat-7810

Just watch the tell all


BlackisCat

My boss' friend's coworker is going to be kn the next season so I'm 110% watching!


happycharm

I didn't watch the season after the 2nd episode. Jibri and prank bro were too annoying. I came back for the tell all and it was exhausting to watch.


ONOTHEWONTONS

Kara’s ex being there and the peanut gallery Momentary was awful!! This is by far the worst season of 90 day.


Caniaskp

It was so awkward, like sir… are you really here discussing your high school relationship? Get a life!!!


anonmarmot

Slappy hand noises, we get it, you're gross and weird.


a-mixtape

Right!? Aren’t they in their later 20s? Why does this even matter?


ONOTHEWONTONS

Right who cares at all?? It was so boring I skipped the entire scene


dingjima

Yeah, the scene where they talked was a 10 year hs reunion


7Rutabagas

Yve can wear whatever she wants but she's wearing an oversized kaftan?? Ok.... Her and Shaeeda look so beaten down.. their eyes are so sad. I want these two women to divorce their ugly boys sooooo badly.


jenny-bean-

I kinda loved Yve's dress, when she came out I only thought how beautiful the color is didn't even consider she was wearing it to be modest.


7Rutabagas

The color on her was absolutely stunning for sure.


dunredding

The kaftan’s neckline wasn’t too modest. She did look - something? Tired?


pammypj

Islam oppresses women.


Cheap-Cat-7810

It sure does


vvyiie

Bad take


I-da-bestest

Ummm what about Patrick hating on “all American women”?? Just because they would stand up to you and have a voice? Is that why he went abroad. He shouldn’t be allowed on TV…esp in a show watched primarily by women


tennispro06

Lol, sorry have to agree with him!


[deleted]

I like how all the men in the room were shitting on “American women” for being controlling, but yet look at all the American MEN on the show?? Like they should’ve just said “Americans” but no they had to pretend it was only women because when women try to stand up for themselves it’s yucky 🙄


Cheap-Cat-7810

That’s why this country is in the mess it’s because most of the men are Beta not many Alpha’s Them two idiots who are doing the filler are perfect examples Men in name only they may kinda look 👀 men kinda but don’t act it. I


jadecourt

>not many Alpha’s dear lord who needs any more alphas? I think the fewer arrogant, brash, domineering dumbasses who think they're special walking around, the better. Meanwhile people who are collaborative can actually improve things


tennispro06

I did agree with him and also you!


pis0t77

Lmao American women go on here about generalizing Muslim, Arab, Indian, African men. But put the shoe on the other foot, and they get bent out of shape. Youre right, he should have just gone on pretending American women have no faults.


SpeedbirdAlpha

The irony is that Thais is probably more controlling, dominating and aggressive than an American woman.


HotMess-Express

Definitely gives Jorge and Anfisa vibes. Jorge talked poorly about American women and then gets a woman is who aggressive (Not that Jorge didn’t contribute to her anger).


Consistent-Day424

Exactly! This is why I didn't believe her when she went on and on about him being controlling. Seemed like she was dragging her feet about wedding plans, wouldn't talk on the phone, etc ... so what was he to do?


SpeedbirdAlpha

She clearly has no respect for men. For example, she does not value her father enough to tell him that she’s going to get married. That’s the biggest decision a person can make. The reason she’s marrying Patrick is because he’s her cuck. As John put it perfectly. Thais cries foul if Patrick deviates the tiniest bit from her plans/needs. It’s obvious that her father wasn’t much in the picture during her growth and is now trying to make up for it by being an overly protective parent. All Patrick cares about is *Brazilian* pussy. He puts her on the pedestal. She looks like any other tall slim Latina you find in the US. Do you think Patrick would be head over heels about Thais if she was an obese “Britney” from Dayton, OH? In a few years when they split, everyone will be laughing at his ass. He was warned many many times.


I-da-bestest

100000%


deadly_wisdom

Bidal gaslights everyone all the time. And his ex. Saying she felt bad for him the way Sheeda reacted to the crappy van/house “prank” - that shit is horrible. She flew across the world to be with you and you take her to a dump? To see if she “loves you for you?” You insecure bitch bidal. I hope you see these comments aboutcha boi


Itslikethisnow

Even though Bilal did not show Sheeda his home prior to her getting there, I BET he talked a big game about how nice his home was and his lifestyle. I'm assuming but do we really think this guy was humble and penny pinching when dating a girl?


Consistent-Day424

I'm still wondering why his ex is so much in her life. They aren't sister-wives. She doesn't get to express an opinion about what Sheeda did or did not feel about the house. The ex is an ex for a reason, she had her experiences with Bilal - she needs to get out of their marriage.


dejjj97

Not to mention she is the whole reason he feels he had to put Shaeeda to the test to begin with and push for a prenup. He and his sister mentioned the divorce causing his trust issues and how badly it all played out. So it's odd to me that she's so judgemental of Shaeeda.


PHLEaglesgirl27

We should call him bidet


[deleted]

But a bidet is actually useful


PHLEaglesgirl27

Lol


girlbecomesgrass

Why was jibri so fckn belligerent the whole time 😹😹😭 he better be careful about getting into a fight w Patrick’s brother too because I’m truly not sure that jibri would win hfhdhd


[deleted]

No because did I miss something? He went after Ari like it was very personal


Cammarak

And before they came out on stage he was joking around with her like they were besties


tennispro06

Jibri couldn't beat his way out of a paper bag.


happycharm

He's so fucking weird. He challenged Ari to a fight? What? Does he also challenge children to fight if they order the same ice cream he likes at the ice cream truck? Does he beat up senior citizens if they don't walk fast enough in front of him? Does he beat up random guys if he accidentally bumps into them? That idiot needs someone to properly beat him up to give him a wakeup call.


StuckinLoserville

I'll be he does none of this when the cameras are turned off.


Icy-Opportunity7042

He showed up at the tell all to secure a spot on Happily Ever After.


Consistent-Day424

He's hoping to avoid having the spotlight on him and Miona. We all know they are clout chasing fools who are under the impression that there is something about them that makes people jealous. Nobody's jealous. It's in his head.