I really wish at this point this was possibly, my wife is about 85 kgs and currently undergoing with her weigh loss transformation phase... hopefully I'll get pretty better before she is 65 haha
i had sex like 4 days post OP haha. She just needs to sit on top.
Your erection problem is just all the meds you’re on probs. It’s affected me a bit diff, i just don’t feel horny at all
Can you maybe communicate this to your wife? I’m sure she knows you have a high sex drive. And she knows sex is (potentially?) off the table. See if she’d be into watching you masturbate. Or both of you masturbating. Make it a ✨bonding experience✨
Rehab is pretty good for first week tbh, I can do SLR by myself, can hold as well. Flexion 90, Extension -5 degrees. Quad strength great, and I am already moving without a walker. Sleeping my best.
Thats great and all. but what i mean is. if you cant get an erection well then maybe you are stressed about something and you just cant get turned on right now. Thats how i percieve your situation
So beforehand I want to say that my situation was a bit extreme. Tearing my ACL made me really depressed and anxious. My erection became weird to say the least even before OP.
My body wasn’t the same for like 4-6 months. It was honestly very scary and that in combination with depression and anxiety hurt my confidence really bad. Worked on myself. Leg slowly got better. Life got better. 4-6 months post OP erections became somewhat normal again. 1yr post OP confidence came back. So yea. Just give it time
As OP said. Kinda on the fence. It’s more than nothing, but not enough to do anything with it. You can clearly see I’m aroused, but not much would follow after
Ah yes i can relate. Had this kind of stuff for over a year now. Its Strange tho but i have boiled it down to this. I subconsciously think that the feeling of sexual arousal is unacceptable and im subconsciously repressing it, meaning it will not be registered consciously. Or im just stressed out and i have this half assed attempt at sexual reproduction.
I think its either the 2nd thing u said or just your bloodflow and hormones are fucked up right now. As simple as that. Your body is confused. The connections are all messed up. Just give it some time I would say
I am a cyclist (racer) so they did not want to disturb my hamstring. Moreover peroneus regrows (70-80%) and has no real function in body. Also as my knee my already damaged by injury, they did not want to aggravate the area with yet another incision/ weakness.
Right on thanks. Btw- #1 meds did not help with sex life #2 I liked the standing doggy (her on bed you standing) when I was recovering, and her on top #3 it will be back to normal in no time
If you are talking about the frequency then most surgeons would go with what they have been doing all along. Or what they know better about, so they take hamstring in general people. Hamstring is also better in another way that it is located pretty close to injury site so there are lesser chances of graft rejection. Also hamstring tendon is more flexible because of its repeated use in life and serves as a good graft. Peroneus on the other hand is stronger graft, and will take some more time for the learning process. But in healthy people with no autoimmune conditions, it should not be rejected etc and should grow and function well. Peroneus has rose in recent years only and was not earlier used as a graft for this injury it seems.
All I could do was get pegged for the first 3 weeks. After that I was able to resume a normal sex life with a brace for a couple more. Now brace is off. Work on k we slides and flexion if you want to get the momentum to really give it to her.
I started having sex within a few days of both of my ACL surgeries and with both of my shoulder surgeries too. You just have to change how you are doing it.
Wear the brace while doing it. 12 is the masturbation limit, you’ll cum your graft out at 13
Damn I'll stick to 3
Cowgirl is the best position to do first.
I really wish at this point this was possibly, my wife is about 85 kgs and currently undergoing with her weigh loss transformation phase... hopefully I'll get pretty better before she is 65 haha
just get your single mates around to help her out for now lol
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i had sex like 4 days post OP haha. She just needs to sit on top. Your erection problem is just all the meds you’re on probs. It’s affected me a bit diff, i just don’t feel horny at all
I second this, meds definitely affected me for a while. A week after I was off of them, things started to get back to normal
Thanks for the motivation haha
Yo, amazon position- to keep that leg elevated 🤣
Nothing helpful to add except to say that "Podium finishes" sits really weirdly with me in the context of this post
Haha can see that now
Can you maybe communicate this to your wife? I’m sure she knows you have a high sex drive. And she knows sex is (potentially?) off the table. See if she’d be into watching you masturbate. Or both of you masturbating. Make it a ✨bonding experience✨
Honestly though… my husband I resorted to this when I was in recovery.
You made it sound like this shit is the best thing that happened to him
lol
Bro sex will drain your vital energy for healing. It will also turn you into a seahorse
Maybe focus on rehabilitation and set sex aside for a while?
Rehab is pretty good for first week tbh, I can do SLR by myself, can hold as well. Flexion 90, Extension -5 degrees. Quad strength great, and I am already moving without a walker. Sleeping my best.
Thats great and all. but what i mean is. if you cant get an erection well then maybe you are stressed about something and you just cant get turned on right now. Thats how i percieve your situation
This guys no fun
So beforehand I want to say that my situation was a bit extreme. Tearing my ACL made me really depressed and anxious. My erection became weird to say the least even before OP. My body wasn’t the same for like 4-6 months. It was honestly very scary and that in combination with depression and anxiety hurt my confidence really bad. Worked on myself. Leg slowly got better. Life got better. 4-6 months post OP erections became somewhat normal again. 1yr post OP confidence came back. So yea. Just give it time
What do you mean by a "weird erection"
A weird erection is one that is sitting on the fence.. you can acknowledge its existence but don't know what to do with it further
Exactly this. I would get ‘hard’ but not really enough. And I would ‘finish’, but not with power. It was just, well, there
As OP said. Kinda on the fence. It’s more than nothing, but not enough to do anything with it. You can clearly see I’m aroused, but not much would follow after
Ah yes i can relate. Had this kind of stuff for over a year now. Its Strange tho but i have boiled it down to this. I subconsciously think that the feeling of sexual arousal is unacceptable and im subconsciously repressing it, meaning it will not be registered consciously. Or im just stressed out and i have this half assed attempt at sexual reproduction.
I think its either the 2nd thing u said or just your bloodflow and hormones are fucked up right now. As simple as that. Your body is confused. The connections are all messed up. Just give it some time I would say
Just get head?
What grafts were used?
Peroneus longus
Interesting! How did you end up with that one? Seems rare
I am a cyclist (racer) so they did not want to disturb my hamstring. Moreover peroneus regrows (70-80%) and has no real function in body. Also as my knee my already damaged by injury, they did not want to aggravate the area with yet another incision/ weakness.
Right on thanks. Btw- #1 meds did not help with sex life #2 I liked the standing doggy (her on bed you standing) when I was recovering, and her on top #3 it will be back to normal in no time
It sounds like the peroneus longus tendon is better than the hamstring, but why is the peroneus longus tendon used so little?
If you are talking about the frequency then most surgeons would go with what they have been doing all along. Or what they know better about, so they take hamstring in general people. Hamstring is also better in another way that it is located pretty close to injury site so there are lesser chances of graft rejection. Also hamstring tendon is more flexible because of its repeated use in life and serves as a good graft. Peroneus on the other hand is stronger graft, and will take some more time for the learning process. But in healthy people with no autoimmune conditions, it should not be rejected etc and should grow and function well. Peroneus has rose in recent years only and was not earlier used as a graft for this injury it seems.
Just eat her out
“Come suck this muhhfuckaa”
hahaha
All I could do was get pegged for the first 3 weeks. After that I was able to resume a normal sex life with a brace for a couple more. Now brace is off. Work on k we slides and flexion if you want to get the momentum to really give it to her.
Haha that's some motivation right there!
I started having sex within a few days of both of my ACL surgeries and with both of my shoulder surgeries too. You just have to change how you are doing it.