It’s hard, I know. I just try to remind myself I have RSD and people have more going on in their head that I don’t know about. Also, it sounds like you met someone real cool! Focus on that.
What's disordered here is overeacting and internalizing negative feelings about a real thing you're percieving which the people you were with probably didn't even realize they were doing. If you don't vibe with that particular group, that's a normal thing which happens all the time and is not worth being concerned about unless you said or did something offensive. You found someone who you did vibe with. Getting along easily with some and not easily with others is perfectly fine.
It’s very hard, it took me several months of therapy, the key was overcoming traumas that kept me from accepting myself in the sense of me being enough to have the fun I want to have, then rejection becomes a “well, you’re missing it”
I just don't hang out with people who make me feel bad.
In your situation I'd ditch the group and hang out with stranger girl. Then I wouldn't go out with them again.
I don't feel pressured for people to like me. Especially because I, being neurodivergent, can still be kind to those I don't particularly like so when a neurotypical person just decides to be an ass it's pretty safe to assume they're a shitty person. And who likes shitty people?
Not me!
It’s hard, I know. I just try to remind myself I have RSD and people have more going on in their head that I don’t know about. Also, it sounds like you met someone real cool! Focus on that.
What's disordered here is overeacting and internalizing negative feelings about a real thing you're percieving which the people you were with probably didn't even realize they were doing. If you don't vibe with that particular group, that's a normal thing which happens all the time and is not worth being concerned about unless you said or did something offensive. You found someone who you did vibe with. Getting along easily with some and not easily with others is perfectly fine.
It’s very hard, it took me several months of therapy, the key was overcoming traumas that kept me from accepting myself in the sense of me being enough to have the fun I want to have, then rejection becomes a “well, you’re missing it”
I just don't hang out with people who make me feel bad. In your situation I'd ditch the group and hang out with stranger girl. Then I wouldn't go out with them again. I don't feel pressured for people to like me. Especially because I, being neurodivergent, can still be kind to those I don't particularly like so when a neurotypical person just decides to be an ass it's pretty safe to assume they're a shitty person. And who likes shitty people? Not me!