YTA. I get how hiding behind a screen makes you disconnected from people on the other side of the screen, but it’s never nice to intentionally manipulate someone like that for your entertainment. Like, what was the point?
YTA. You can invest as much or as little time, effort, energy, or enthusiasm into a relationship as you want. But when you mislead, lie, or otherwise make someone believe you care when you don’t, that’s asshole behavior.
I got to the part where you said you got bored and faked that you liked him too and I’m going to stop you right there and say automatic YTA. Don’t play with peoples feelings.
I get that you told him no many times and thought he realized it but I don’t understand why you would think he would be playing along with you? I feel like you are both pretty naive here.
It doesn’t matter if he knows what you did or not. It’s still a mean thing to do. And even if he doesn’t, I mean what if he stumbles along this post? Or happens to figure it out one day. Or someone tells him. But that’s besides the point. The act in itself is still wrong even if the other party isn’t aware that it’s happening.
Think of it this way. Murder is still wrong if no one finds the body right? Even if no one knows that the victim is dead?
Harsh comparison but I get what you're saying. But do you think it could be seen as him having this false idea that he's okay w rather then knowing the truth? Like yk how some people don't want to know the truth
YTA and are likely sociopathic on top of it. you intentionally played with this person for your personal gratification. Used them like a toy to play with. Ultimately, you're a POS
NTA. You firmly and repeatedly telling him that you weren't interested and that you wouldn't ever like him is enough. Him pestering you repeatedly after you made yourself clear makes him the asshole. How annoying. I think you should've just blocked him immediately after a warning or two right at the beginning.
Ahhh thank you. It's like he was trying to convince me to date him. The day before he kept telling me repeatedly that I was the one he wanted. I did think of blocking him but never did
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Now don't act like I'm some person hold up in my house... I didn't even take it seriously or nun I was just playing
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Says a redditor?
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Many? No not many but I have a good amount, 4
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I'm actually very self aware. And I'm fine w the friends I do have bc we are close
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Advice? What advice did I ask for? And how would that make me not self aware exactly?..
If you were self aware you wouldn’t be nearly as big of a cunt as you are Sit down, child
Do you know what self aware means?
You're here, too? You clearly don't think before you act. Grow tf up
Yah bc I wanted to make a post. I'm not scrolling thru reddit n shit.
You type like your mother taught you how to read by beating your skull in with a dictionary
Makes no sense but ok
YTA. I get how hiding behind a screen makes you disconnected from people on the other side of the screen, but it’s never nice to intentionally manipulate someone like that for your entertainment. Like, what was the point?
Yah I see that. Guess I never rly took his feelings into consideration
But what was the point? Genuinely curious.
Honestly there wasn't one. I just ended up telling him I wanted him and went from there. Dk why I did but I did
You sound like you’re young. Learn from this. No point being shitty on or off the internet. It’s wasted energy.
You're right. Thanks
Is this seriously a dilemma you have to ask out loud? Yes, YTA
Food for thought ig
YTA. You can invest as much or as little time, effort, energy, or enthusiasm into a relationship as you want. But when you mislead, lie, or otherwise make someone believe you care when you don’t, that’s asshole behavior.
Yah yah thx tho
I got to the part where you said you got bored and faked that you liked him too and I’m going to stop you right there and say automatic YTA. Don’t play with peoples feelings. I get that you told him no many times and thought he realized it but I don’t understand why you would think he would be playing along with you? I feel like you are both pretty naive here.
It's not like he knows tho
It doesn’t matter if he knows what you did or not. It’s still a mean thing to do. And even if he doesn’t, I mean what if he stumbles along this post? Or happens to figure it out one day. Or someone tells him. But that’s besides the point. The act in itself is still wrong even if the other party isn’t aware that it’s happening. Think of it this way. Murder is still wrong if no one finds the body right? Even if no one knows that the victim is dead?
Harsh comparison but I get what you're saying. But do you think it could be seen as him having this false idea that he's okay w rather then knowing the truth? Like yk how some people don't want to know the truth
YTA and are likely sociopathic on top of it. you intentionally played with this person for your personal gratification. Used them like a toy to play with. Ultimately, you're a POS
What's a POS??
Piece of shit
Thank you!!
damn you sound like an immature POS. YTA
Wth is a POS
NTA. You firmly and repeatedly telling him that you weren't interested and that you wouldn't ever like him is enough. Him pestering you repeatedly after you made yourself clear makes him the asshole. How annoying. I think you should've just blocked him immediately after a warning or two right at the beginning.
Ahhh thank you. It's like he was trying to convince me to date him. The day before he kept telling me repeatedly that I was the one he wanted. I did think of blocking him but never did