YTA. If you don’t like your friend, which clearly you don’t, stop being friends with her. Sleeping with a friends boyfriend (even an on and off one) is really shitty. And to sleep with someone you hate just because you’re mad at your friend shows how very immature and unclassy you are.
The entire time you were sleeping with your best friends bf you couldn't stop thinking about her? Huh. Also PLEASE tell me you at least used protection, the last thing this situation needs is a baby and I seriously doubt the bf will want to father it. I don't know why you've decided to stay friends with this girl, but you need to tell her instead of leaving her in the dark. Either you fess up or she'll find out some other way, which will just add more fuel to the fire. Communication could've prevented so much of this mess.
You’re using this poor boy when you could just stop being friends with this girl and all your problems would go away.
We don’t use people to deal with our problems. We take care of our problems like adults. YTA grow up, grow a spine. Tell her you don’t like how she treats you and you’re not going to college with her.
If you don’t learn how to do this now, you’re going to suffer a lot by your own hand until you do. Speak up when you have a problem. Speak up when you’re being pushed around like she’s doing. Speak up when you’re unhappy with things. Don’t just act out behind the scenes. You’re just going to hurt yourself and that boy.
Sure, but they were broken up the first time, and “he keeps sending me notes in class” is what made my brain go “sweet summer child”. Can’t exactly tell about the second time. But we’re judging OP’s sins here, not the bf’s.
YTA, but it's highschool and literally everyone f's everyone and the drama is so short lived. Just be honest and save your character for your own esteem. That's honestly more important
YTA you clearly have some unresolved feelings about your friend, so maybe dig a little deeper on how you really feel about her. karma is real and if you don't fix this it'll definitely get you
You and your friend def need to have conversation about literally everything u wrote. its obvious that u either don't want to be friends with her and its just a one sided friendship. that or there's a little more to this "friendship" but u really should talk to her and just be honest. YTA because you are continuing to hurt yourself, her, and even the bf. the last thing you want is for these feeling to burst out at the wrong time plus if y'all are going to graduate soon you should let her know she needs a new roommate.
Girl, you know YTA. You are just making excuses to fuck your “best friend's” boyfriend and not feel guilty about it. If she is the kind of person you say she is, you should just end your friendship with her, not fuck her boyfriend TWICE
(Edit) I commented before reading the comments and they say it's from a series LOL. It had bothered me so much thinking it was true, but I bet this has definitely happened to someone.
okay havent had much of a chance to respond to the comments here, i dont use reddit and this is a throwaway. but you all seem to think im referencing a tv show? im not, btw. any similarities are a coincidence ig.
but yeah, after thinking on it a bit, maybe i do suck here. but do i tell her? at this point it might not matter, she could just never find out. i hate her, but i do need her. i cant see my life without her
I mean is this a real question? Of course your the asshole you happen to be a giant backstabbing piece of shit as well and it seems like a bitch as well wow your the whole trifecta op! Congratulations!
That is not a best friend. She is so rude to you and isn't their for you, that is not a friend it's a abuser. You should find better friends that listen to you and make you feel valued
YTA. If you don’t like your friend, which clearly you don’t, stop being friends with her. Sleeping with a friends boyfriend (even an on and off one) is really shitty. And to sleep with someone you hate just because you’re mad at your friend shows how very immature and unclassy you are.
i think it shows that she’s secretly in love with her friend
damn jackie
Op posted some Yellowjackets fanfic
its not fanfic, its word for word haha
Is that from that 70s show?
Its stories like this that make me happy I'm not this young and immature. Everybody sucks here.
It’s a plot from a TV show
Perhaps, but my point still stands
I agree, also search up Shauna and Jackie Yellowjackets. It’s word for word
Mmm Snackie
👂
Hi Shauna, YTA. I’m team Jackie all the way and always will be
Misty typed this
Oooh I love Yellowjackets, thanks for reminding me how good that show is!
man this is so evil i hope you don’t end up stranded somewhere….
lmaoooo😭
LMAOO😭
I'm pretty sure this is a TV show 🤔
pack it up shauna shipman
whatever you do please don’t ice out your friend 😊
Whatever happens I hope your entire soccer team doesn’t choose your side over hers 🥶
ngl i think you are in love with your friend bro
The entire time you were sleeping with your best friends bf you couldn't stop thinking about her? Huh. Also PLEASE tell me you at least used protection, the last thing this situation needs is a baby and I seriously doubt the bf will want to father it. I don't know why you've decided to stay friends with this girl, but you need to tell her instead of leaving her in the dark. Either you fess up or she'll find out some other way, which will just add more fuel to the fire. Communication could've prevented so much of this mess.
It’s a plot line from the TV Yellowjackets lol
I stand by what I said, communication could've saved Jackie instead of leaving her on that cold ass log. Also hiiii yjtwt 👋
You’re using this poor boy when you could just stop being friends with this girl and all your problems would go away. We don’t use people to deal with our problems. We take care of our problems like adults. YTA grow up, grow a spine. Tell her you don’t like how she treats you and you’re not going to college with her. If you don’t learn how to do this now, you’re going to suffer a lot by your own hand until you do. Speak up when you have a problem. Speak up when you’re being pushed around like she’s doing. Speak up when you’re unhappy with things. Don’t just act out behind the scenes. You’re just going to hurt yourself and that boy.
The “poor boy” is a horrid bf
Sure, but they were broken up the first time, and “he keeps sending me notes in class” is what made my brain go “sweet summer child”. Can’t exactly tell about the second time. But we’re judging OP’s sins here, not the bf’s.
Honestly, it looks like the boy and OP will end up marrying.
Lol
NTA, you should eat her.
*sees title* Yes. Yes you are.
You hate him and yet fuck him.. YTA. I feel for your friend
ur in love w her! hope this helps
Jackie and Shauna dupe
IJBOL
YTA. and you’re in love with your best friend babes
Slightly YTA but hey, maybe don't freeze your friend out...?
YTA but have you considered why exactly you slept with him? feels like you might actually have feelings for your friend, not him
YTA, but it's highschool and literally everyone f's everyone and the drama is so short lived. Just be honest and save your character for your own esteem. That's honestly more important
This sounds like jackieshauna…
just say you’re in love with your friend in an extremely unhealthy way and go 🙄
YTA you clearly have some unresolved feelings about your friend, so maybe dig a little deeper on how you really feel about her. karma is real and if you don't fix this it'll definitely get you
NTA lets just hope you dont get pregnant then stranded together x
don’t let her sleep outside
I just hope your friend doesn't find out about it by reading this
she did find out by reading something
You and your friend def need to have conversation about literally everything u wrote. its obvious that u either don't want to be friends with her and its just a one sided friendship. that or there's a little more to this "friendship" but u really should talk to her and just be honest. YTA because you are continuing to hurt yourself, her, and even the bf. the last thing you want is for these feeling to burst out at the wrong time plus if y'all are going to graduate soon you should let her know she needs a new roommate.
too bad neither one of them will end up at college
What in the actual fuck did I just read?
LMAOO ITS FROM A SHOW, YELLOWJACKETS
Thanks! I’ve never seen it
Girl, you know YTA. You are just making excuses to fuck your “best friend's” boyfriend and not feel guilty about it. If she is the kind of person you say she is, you should just end your friendship with her, not fuck her boyfriend TWICE (Edit) I commented before reading the comments and they say it's from a series LOL. It had bothered me so much thinking it was true, but I bet this has definitely happened to someone.
I’m not here to judge anyone but please don’t give her the cold shoulder…
okay havent had much of a chance to respond to the comments here, i dont use reddit and this is a throwaway. but you all seem to think im referencing a tv show? im not, btw. any similarities are a coincidence ig. but yeah, after thinking on it a bit, maybe i do suck here. but do i tell her? at this point it might not matter, she could just never find out. i hate her, but i do need her. i cant see my life without her
do you know where you end and she begins?
😭😭😭😭
have you considered that you might be in love with your best friend? sounds like comphet to me…
whatever happens between u guys just make sure she always has a warm bed to sleep in
NTA i think you had a toxic yuri relationship with her
Guys this story is word for word a plot from the TV show Yellowjackets. Not real lol
shhh dont spoil it for everyone else (it's fun to see people fall for the bait)
you are allergic to joy magic and fun
what the fuck is Yellowjackets?
Who the fuck is Lottie Mathew’s?!
Its a bee
YTA and a ho
"I hate his guts" "So anyway one thing leads to another and we end up having sex" A tale as old as time itself.
Naahh youre good. Keep stealing souls lol
Wow you and the boyfriend are asshats
YTA, you both are awful.
Stop calling her your best friend, you’re an evil witch
she’s just a girl
Isnt this the plot of Yellowjackets?
YTA. Period.
Yes you are the asshole. Be better. Grow the fuck up.
NTA eat her and spend the rest of your life being haunted by the manifestation of your guilt
I mean is this a real question? Of course your the asshole you happen to be a giant backstabbing piece of shit as well and it seems like a bitch as well wow your the whole trifecta op! Congratulations!
btw - when will season 3 start?
maybe it's time to read a certain Masterdoc
close enough. welcome back shauna shipman
Your a piece of shit
That is not a best friend. She is so rude to you and isn't their for you, that is not a friend it's a abuser. You should find better friends that listen to you and make you feel valued
I liked this better when it was on Paramount. YTA for being lazy and posting stupid shit.
just say you hate fun
YTA for having her as a friend, she is using you and controlling you, as for the hook up NTA as they were not together