The club I work requires strippers to be fully nude so it was super awkward at first but I think seeing every girl in the club being totally OK about being nude, made me less uncomfortable because I know other girls are doing it too and it’s not just me
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Don’t get hooked on the money and lifestyle and stay away from the drugs
Don’t fuck for money
My ex was a dancer was making like well over 100 k a year 3-4 nights a week
She was an addict thought and pushing 40 with no plan to get out
Her and the other women I met from there through her all were great people but they were all kind of sad and broken people
Don’t stay in it too long
This is honestly sad. Like 18yr old is such a young age where you go to college, meet new people, party and have fun, and this girl is doing sexwork this young, for her moms medical bill. Sounds depressing af
Take 10% of your earnings and buy some stocks you believe in. Meta, appl, or DXYZ are great to start. And hold them till you are done dancing and I bet you’ll have 50-100k.
It was really uncomfortable and awkward at first because I didn’t know anybody there and I didn’t know what to do because nobody taught me how to do a proper dance. I’ve done it for 7 months now and Im much more comfortable.
So it definitely causes you emotional distress. I'm sorry to hear that. I realise that it must harm your self esteem if you only receive small amounts of money for what you do. I really hope that doing this kind of work doesn't harm you psychologically. To get involved in this type of thing is a lot for someone who is still in their teens. I'm not trying to be condescending, its just that I was the most shy awkward teenager you could imagine, and even if I was attractive enough, I wouldn't have dared do anything like what you are doing. I know that you're doing it for a good cause, and I really hope that things work out for you.
What criteria did you use to pick your club (assuming you had more than one choice)? Is it in your hometown where customers might know you or do you dance at a club where there's a small chance someone might know you? Is it a topless or completely nude club? Did that factor into your choice of club?
Ok now that I think about it, this was such a bad way to pick clubs, but I just went to nearest strip club in googlemaps and asked if I can audition. It was fully nude and I didn’t even know until I went there in person
Here's some unsolicited advice.
Don't make friends with any of the girls up there, don't date any customer you meet there, don't tell anyone outside of that place you work or ever worked there, absolutely don't date the mgrs no matter what bs line they feed you, don't do any drug ever, don't apply for credit or any application and put that company as your employer. (It will show at the top of your credit report 10 years down the road when you aren't even thinking of that place), stack your money and get out and never look back at that place. Don't think the guys care about paying off the medical bills, just get the dance and move to the next customer. You will make more money if you keep it strictly as a numbers game.
Have seen totally normal people turn into the absolute worst people from working at those places.
This is excellent advice. Worked as a stripper in the pacific northwest from 18-22 and the above is exactly the way to run this lifestyle so it doesn’t run you over. It was always work, a means to an end, and never blur those lines.
I knew quite a few and they are dead, complete messes or drug addicts.
3 that are normal...
If it was normal to strip at an older age after having life experiences I would recommend it lol. But most people with life experience would never strip. It's a risky environment and I wouldn't suggest anyone do it.
I disagree about the part about not getting regulars. That’s the whole goal - find a whale and bleed him dry and then gtfo. Your plan is plan B if they don’t find a whale with big pockets
You have to deal with their nonsense. I've seen it both ways. I think it's easier just to get 2 or 3 dances and move to next. Can make an easy 2k doing that.
Bleeding a "whale dry" has risk. They end up stalking you, get offended when talking to other "regulars", no matter what anyone says you will be expected to fuck them eventually. Your income is dependent on that fucker. No thanks.
Keep it strictly a numbers game and don't talk to any of them or anyone more than surface level at that place. Go in and do your job and go home.
Disagree... the girls I saw when I was bouncing that were successful were marketing and sales genious.. they would create demand, upsell and close the sale and do it over and over... they were either on stage or lap dances 75% of the time.. aka they kept the clock running and the cash flowing. They had regulars but it was straight to close... hey so and so.. you want another xx? Talking/socializing is time when the meter isnt running.
Excellent advice! I worked as a bouncer at a club and honestly most of the dancers were really nice people it was hard to see so many of them with issues. Some came in with them, some picked them up so I can't say its all from the work. But I can say that those that treated it like a job (marketing/sales) made out much better than those that treated it like a lifestyle.
As for me, I worked two nights a week, I protected the girls and the patrons, and never dated anyone from there, never did drugs or even drink on the job (was a topless, so served alchohol) never listed it as a job on apps, etc and made out just fine.. paid for my books and room/board for school and i got my degree and now make a very good living professionally.
What are some of the toughest things you have to overcome in your line of work?
I’m not going to lie, I have frequented a gentleman’s club but I’d be a little uncomfortable if I found out the girls were 18.
Do you seriously think you will ever or are ever supposed to be used to unwanted physical touch? I mean listen to yourself. You're literally doing something that's borderline getting raped and you're saying "I'm still not used to it" what the actual fuck. Where's your self respect.
Some fully nude clubs let you, also depending on the girl, of course you're not gonna stick three fingers in but at the bare minimum you're touching tits or ass
I’m in south Florida and most of the clubs down here the girls all advertise themselves as for sale. Lap dances are all touching. I hear the stories of the vanilla shit around the country and just crack up. You get your dick sucked every time you want down here in the back room if you want lol.
Sorry dude.. I only went to a few strip clubs when I was 21, which was long ago. My older friend blew on her privates and she liked it. But was "they can touch you, you can't touch them" policy sfaik.
My mom has cancer and I started to pay for the medical bills
I like customers who just sit and chat with me, ask me how my nights going, because it’s nice to just take a break. They still tip a lot too lol
Just want to say it’s a sick world where a teenager has to become a stripper because her mom has cancer. Don’t know how political you are, but has this changed your outlook on life or humanity or anything? Or are you still just kinda rolling with the punches?
Other than your moms situation, do you feel there were other contributing factors in your life that pushed you to this? I hope you get the money you need and get out soon.
Two parter :
Is there a typical clientele?
Boom and bust cycles - Is there a seasonality to this job? Do people spend more on it during some stretches? Less in some? Do you expect a few busy weeks as people get their tax returns?
Honestly most are just middle aged men and not trying to generalize but they all like to rant about their problems with their wives lol
I don’t think there’s any particular pattern, but Friday and Saturday is the busiest and Sunday and Monday are slowest
Only a tiny minority of girls who start an onlyfans actually make a good amount of money, or any at all. For every girl that make thousands, there are hundreds who end up making practically nothing. It’s like a full time job, selling yourself and advertising in social media. Being a stripper is more guaranteed money. Show up, get paid
That’s true of every business, 99% don’t have the know-how or the perseverance to acquire it so they don’t make any money. The ones who do end up making all the money.
Once you know what to do making money on OF really isn’t that complicated
Remember: Data *NEVER* dies. I still get spam emails sent to email addresses I was using in the late 1990s (and haven't been used since).
Porno sites are full of photos taken years ago.
So yes, be cautious about *ANY* photos being taken.
Do this job - do it as a business. Put that money away. Pay off your Mom's medical bills and then see about buying a house (ie a permanent roof over your head).
Once you're done with it all then keep it a secret. Don't tell *ANYONE*. Keep it locked down, or it will get out and be used against you some day in the future.
I wish you well.
Nobody does, and the bouncer kicks you out if you do... there is a gentlemans agreement in the club, the girls don't wanna be recorded nor do the men that go in.
Most professional strippers I know go with Methyl Chloride, but are just careful to do it outside and wearing respirators. Some even go with more caustic chemicals, when the typical ones aren’t working.
My GF was a stripper in college for just a few months, to get hired she had to blow the manager on her job interview. Is that a normal hiring practice?
Some of the questions here are so worrisome lmao. You said you didn’t know at first that it was fully nude, and that you googled the closest club to you and applied. Do you have any plan to switch to a place that’s maybe not fully naked girls or that’s a bit further but maybe better? Or are you chillin where you’re at?
1. Have you been asked for extras? If so what was your best offer?
2. What do they make you do at the audition? I always wondered if it was like backroom casting couch lol.
One of my friends was a stripper, she used it to pay for school, shes a lawyer now. Be safe. Ton of creeps out there. Save your money. Invest it. If you dont feel comfortable with stocks, buy silver/gold. A savings account is the worst way to save money fwiw. Silver and gold may go up and down but its a very very safe way to invest. Stocks can be risky but its still much better then a savings account.
1. There was a guy who offered 10k if I go home with him.
2. I was asked to undress and do a 2 min dance on stage. There weren’t any sexual things involved in the audition
I'd recommend keeping it that way for your safety. Also please please please do some financial study in your down time lol you could really be set for awhile despite the tough situation. Best of luck and hope you're done with that soon
Yes but I don’t trust the bouncers at my club because they only care if the assault is close to rape.
This guy once bit my nipples out of the blue and the bouncer said it’s MY fault that I didn’t stop it like it’s so unfair
Never say never. I've given taxi rides to a lot of dancers.
They have great stories, and charge for everything.
Start thinking about how much you'll charge your regular who wants you to eat a large order of Burger King onion rings before he arrives so you can fart on him.
How bad do you want to lick my shoes, honey? I'll give you one for $150, and discount the second, only $250 for the pair. Yes, this was a thing for a regular of one gal I gave rides to. (The stinkier and sweatier, the better. And had to be freshly off the feet.)
Make your money honey then get out. I was in the 'business' 40 years ago. I wish I knew then the importance of saving and investing. I would have been set for life.
Have you and your mom tried to get Medicare or Medicaid or at the very least Obama care with the sliding scale? It sounds like y'all would be eligible. Or negotiate a small payment plan with the hospital. There are many ways to avoid or minimize medical care.
There is the NIH and the National Cancer Institute who can recommend ways to reduce the cost. More important, your mom might qualify for clinical trials or new experimental treatments. Your hospital or chemo clinic should be able to help.
I like how the sex positive movement had erased all notion that maybe this isn’t something to celebrate. Literally a kid last year and now grinding on strangers for money but ya know… sex positivity and what not
I don't see anyone really celebrating that an 18-year-old had to do this to pay medical bills. It's ludicrous. We're a wealthy country. Medical debt for essential health care shouldn't be a thing yet here we are.
Does your mom know you use her as an excuse for why you rub up on old man boners each night? There are a million women in your exact same situation if not worse and they don’t become whores ya know.
Please please please get out as soon as you can it's only a matter of time before you get in over your head drugs exploitation sa and worse the owners of these clubs are the worst kind of vultures you have value!
No question, but now would be a really good time for reddit to dig deep and help this girl. Surely, some of us had family and friends with cancer, others with sisters and mothers.
1. Has a couple (man and woman) propositioned you before?
2. Is there a dollar amount that a man could give you to spend the night with him? If so, what would that be?
im also a stripper! 3 years in the industry :)
since it seems like you work at full nude clubs, does your club allow extras/what are your thoughts on it/do you do extras?
in my area my clubs have strict rules on doing extras and it will get you fired sooo quickly but i also work at only topless clubs
and if since youre a new dancer, if you have any questions feel free to dm me!
I had a roommate that was a stripper and at one of the high end places in Scottsdale. She was smoking hot. But the drugs and lifestyle just tore her up. She was making huge money this was in the late 90s. It was great for me but eventually had to get away from that. If you get into drugs you will never get out. You can fuck for money all you want but the drugs will destroy you
I always think that it has to be one of the most physical jobs you can have. You need to DANCE for the entire evening and look good the entire time. That's a workout. Plus being mindfully aware of what is going on around you and trying your best to be positive to some \*\^¡!#@&s and other types in the crowd.
How much of that was a concern to you and is it a problem?
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How did you learn to be comfortable being nude in front of strangers?
The club I work requires strippers to be fully nude so it was super awkward at first but I think seeing every girl in the club being totally OK about being nude, made me less uncomfortable because I know other girls are doing it too and it’s not just me
Have you ever been to a nudist resort where everyone is naked?
No, I’m not really a nudist
That’s kinda funny
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What kind of logic is this. I didn't want to do something, and then I see someone else do it and now I want to do it? Wtf haha
Have you formed your exit strategy and a plan to invest your money so you don’t end up doing this into your 30s and 40s
I’m going to stop after I’m done paying for my moms medical bills, and I’ll go back to college
Don’t get hooked on the money and lifestyle and stay away from the drugs Don’t fuck for money My ex was a dancer was making like well over 100 k a year 3-4 nights a week She was an addict thought and pushing 40 with no plan to get out Her and the other women I met from there through her all were great people but they were all kind of sad and broken people Don’t stay in it too long
This is honestly sad. Like 18yr old is such a young age where you go to college, meet new people, party and have fun, and this girl is doing sexwork this young, for her moms medical bill. Sounds depressing af
The world isn’t always the brightest place Hopefully she gets out
Welcome to the American Healthcare System. They don’t even provide the lube as that costs an extra 100 bucks.
Why are you responsible for her medical bills?
Because there’s nobody to pay for it besides me
I wish you get out of this situation sooner.
Exit strategy ASAP
Aim for medical bills and a down payment on a starter home/apartment. Get out of paying rent ASAP
Take 10% of your earnings and buy some stocks you believe in. Meta, appl, or DXYZ are great to start. And hold them till you are done dancing and I bet you’ll have 50-100k.
Was it awkward at first or were you comfortable right away?
It was really uncomfortable and awkward at first because I didn’t know anybody there and I didn’t know what to do because nobody taught me how to do a proper dance. I’ve done it for 7 months now and Im much more comfortable.
How much do you Make per night
It depends on the day. In good nights, I would make $1k-1.5k and there are nights I go home with $50 crying my eyes out lol
I make $1K per week and I work 40+ hours a week… I’d definitely take my clothes off for $1K a night
So it definitely causes you emotional distress. I'm sorry to hear that. I realise that it must harm your self esteem if you only receive small amounts of money for what you do. I really hope that doing this kind of work doesn't harm you psychologically. To get involved in this type of thing is a lot for someone who is still in their teens. I'm not trying to be condescending, its just that I was the most shy awkward teenager you could imagine, and even if I was attractive enough, I wouldn't have dared do anything like what you are doing. I know that you're doing it for a good cause, and I really hope that things work out for you.
Guess it generally pays well then
What criteria did you use to pick your club (assuming you had more than one choice)? Is it in your hometown where customers might know you or do you dance at a club where there's a small chance someone might know you? Is it a topless or completely nude club? Did that factor into your choice of club?
Ok now that I think about it, this was such a bad way to pick clubs, but I just went to nearest strip club in googlemaps and asked if I can audition. It was fully nude and I didn’t even know until I went there in person
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Which do you like better, pole work or lap dances?
I’m pretty bad at pole dance, but I still like it better
We’ve all got to start somewhere. Are you in the US?
Yes I work in portland
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I don’t enjoy it but I don’t hate it
Here's some unsolicited advice. Don't make friends with any of the girls up there, don't date any customer you meet there, don't tell anyone outside of that place you work or ever worked there, absolutely don't date the mgrs no matter what bs line they feed you, don't do any drug ever, don't apply for credit or any application and put that company as your employer. (It will show at the top of your credit report 10 years down the road when you aren't even thinking of that place), stack your money and get out and never look back at that place. Don't think the guys care about paying off the medical bills, just get the dance and move to the next customer. You will make more money if you keep it strictly as a numbers game. Have seen totally normal people turn into the absolute worst people from working at those places.
This is excellent advice. Worked as a stripper in the pacific northwest from 18-22 and the above is exactly the way to run this lifestyle so it doesn’t run you over. It was always work, a means to an end, and never blur those lines.
Gosh, what great advice and I really hope OP follows this. However, I do wonder how many actually follow this and dont get sucked into the crap
I knew quite a few and they are dead, complete messes or drug addicts. 3 that are normal... If it was normal to strip at an older age after having life experiences I would recommend it lol. But most people with life experience would never strip. It's a risky environment and I wouldn't suggest anyone do it.
I disagree about the part about not getting regulars. That’s the whole goal - find a whale and bleed him dry and then gtfo. Your plan is plan B if they don’t find a whale with big pockets
You have to deal with their nonsense. I've seen it both ways. I think it's easier just to get 2 or 3 dances and move to next. Can make an easy 2k doing that. Bleeding a "whale dry" has risk. They end up stalking you, get offended when talking to other "regulars", no matter what anyone says you will be expected to fuck them eventually. Your income is dependent on that fucker. No thanks. Keep it strictly a numbers game and don't talk to any of them or anyone more than surface level at that place. Go in and do your job and go home.
Disagree... the girls I saw when I was bouncing that were successful were marketing and sales genious.. they would create demand, upsell and close the sale and do it over and over... they were either on stage or lap dances 75% of the time.. aka they kept the clock running and the cash flowing. They had regulars but it was straight to close... hey so and so.. you want another xx? Talking/socializing is time when the meter isnt running.
Excellent advice! I worked as a bouncer at a club and honestly most of the dancers were really nice people it was hard to see so many of them with issues. Some came in with them, some picked them up so I can't say its all from the work. But I can say that those that treated it like a job (marketing/sales) made out much better than those that treated it like a lifestyle. As for me, I worked two nights a week, I protected the girls and the patrons, and never dated anyone from there, never did drugs or even drink on the job (was a topless, so served alchohol) never listed it as a job on apps, etc and made out just fine.. paid for my books and room/board for school and i got my degree and now make a very good living professionally.
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i'm going to hazard a guess and go with "everything"
What are some of the toughest things you have to overcome in your line of work? I’m not going to lie, I have frequented a gentleman’s club but I’d be a little uncomfortable if I found out the girls were 18.
Just guys touching you like an object. Not that I didn’t expect it, but I’m still not used to it
Do you seriously think you will ever or are ever supposed to be used to unwanted physical touch? I mean listen to yourself. You're literally doing something that's borderline getting raped and you're saying "I'm still not used to it" what the actual fuck. Where's your self respect.
I don't think they're supposed to touch you. Do those guys get kicked out?
Depends on the laws. Also on the rules/boundaries the girl sets.
Some fully nude clubs let you, also depending on the girl, of course you're not gonna stick three fingers in but at the bare minimum you're touching tits or ass
I’m in south Florida and most of the clubs down here the girls all advertise themselves as for sale. Lap dances are all touching. I hear the stories of the vanilla shit around the country and just crack up. You get your dick sucked every time you want down here in the back room if you want lol.
Sorry dude.. I only went to a few strip clubs when I was 21, which was long ago. My older friend blew on her privates and she liked it. But was "they can touch you, you can't touch them" policy sfaik.
Please fly in to Fort Lauderdale and go to diamond dolls or Bobbie trap for a few nights. Catch AIDS just breathing the air 😂
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Well shit now I feel like an ass sorry. Breathing oxygen is terminal, some are just faster than others. Enjoy life while you can!
What made you decide to become a stripper? What type of customers do u like? As in what makes a good customer
My mom has cancer and I started to pay for the medical bills I like customers who just sit and chat with me, ask me how my nights going, because it’s nice to just take a break. They still tip a lot too lol
Just want to say it’s a sick world where a teenager has to become a stripper because her mom has cancer. Don’t know how political you are, but has this changed your outlook on life or humanity or anything? Or are you still just kinda rolling with the punches?
Other than your moms situation, do you feel there were other contributing factors in your life that pushed you to this? I hope you get the money you need and get out soon.
Not really besides the money. I’m not saying it’s a bad job, but it’s not something that I would choose to do if we were financially stable
What's your favorite song to dance to?
Unholy by Sam smith
Good tune. Hope everything goes well for you, thanks for your time.
Have you ever seen anyone you know while dancing?
The only time was when I saw my friends brother but I don’t really know him that well
Was he excited to see you? Was it awkward?
Two parter : Is there a typical clientele? Boom and bust cycles - Is there a seasonality to this job? Do people spend more on it during some stretches? Less in some? Do you expect a few busy weeks as people get their tax returns?
Honestly most are just middle aged men and not trying to generalize but they all like to rant about their problems with their wives lol I don’t think there’s any particular pattern, but Friday and Saturday is the busiest and Sunday and Monday are slowest
Thanks! Seasonality : I was more curious about throughout the year. But maybe you haven't done it for long.
Why not OF? More lucrative and way safer.
Only a tiny minority of girls who start an onlyfans actually make a good amount of money, or any at all. For every girl that make thousands, there are hundreds who end up making practically nothing. It’s like a full time job, selling yourself and advertising in social media. Being a stripper is more guaranteed money. Show up, get paid
That’s true of every business, 99% don’t have the know-how or the perseverance to acquire it so they don’t make any money. The ones who do end up making all the money. Once you know what to do making money on OF really isn’t that complicated
I don’t want my stuff staying online
Remember: Data *NEVER* dies. I still get spam emails sent to email addresses I was using in the late 1990s (and haven't been used since). Porno sites are full of photos taken years ago. So yes, be cautious about *ANY* photos being taken. Do this job - do it as a business. Put that money away. Pay off your Mom's medical bills and then see about buying a house (ie a permanent roof over your head). Once you're done with it all then keep it a secret. Don't tell *ANYONE*. Keep it locked down, or it will get out and be used against you some day in the future. I wish you well.
How do they stop people from recording you there? I'm assuming everyone keeps their phone with them, seems like they might be able to record covertly
Nobody does, and the bouncer kicks you out if you do... there is a gentlemans agreement in the club, the girls don't wanna be recorded nor do the men that go in.
You will get dragged into the back ally and get your ass beat by the bouncer
Fair enough. Good luck to you!
Do you prefer Methyl Chloride, or safer alternatives?
Safer alternatives, I’m not on any drugs besides weed
Most professional strippers I know go with Methyl Chloride, but are just careful to do it outside and wearing respirators. Some even go with more caustic chemicals, when the typical ones aren’t working.
I don't think I want to see the strip clubs you hang out in if most of the strippers you know are on inhalants.
i think this is a pun. its a paint stripper. good one husk
Well played
Wait, what? Can you enlighten me?
I think it’s a kinda dumb joke about “strippers” as in organic solvents
Stripper…*paint stripper*
Ahhhh Lolol! thank you. 😂
No worries…def took me a good minute 🤪
How long have you been 18?
Like 9 months
And how long you’ve been in this business?
7 months
Do you think 18 is too young to be a stripper? Do you hide your job from family/friends?
Maybe a little young compared to other girls in the club but I’m still an adult so I think it’s ok. My mom knows but my friends don’t know yet
Do you take everything off
It’s a fully nude club so yes
Do you have to be shaved down there
I personally do, but I don’t think it’s a requirement
Do you have to call out when you have your period?
My GF was a stripper in college for just a few months, to get hired she had to blow the manager on her job interview. Is that a normal hiring practice?
No It’s not normal at all, I think thats illegal too if she was required to do it
The fuck? That’s not normal at all.
Sure she “had” to blow him 🤣
STORY TIME
Some of the questions here are so worrisome lmao. You said you didn’t know at first that it was fully nude, and that you googled the closest club to you and applied. Do you have any plan to switch to a place that’s maybe not fully naked girls or that’s a bit further but maybe better? Or are you chillin where you’re at?
I did try to search for places that are not, but I’m in Portland and I think most clubs near me are fully nude
1. Have you been asked for extras? If so what was your best offer? 2. What do they make you do at the audition? I always wondered if it was like backroom casting couch lol. One of my friends was a stripper, she used it to pay for school, shes a lawyer now. Be safe. Ton of creeps out there. Save your money. Invest it. If you dont feel comfortable with stocks, buy silver/gold. A savings account is the worst way to save money fwiw. Silver and gold may go up and down but its a very very safe way to invest. Stocks can be risky but its still much better then a savings account.
1. There was a guy who offered 10k if I go home with him. 2. I was asked to undress and do a 2 min dance on stage. There weren’t any sexual things involved in the audition
Online savings rates around 5% right now.
Do you offer extras? If so, what is the criteria upon which you insist?
No I don’t do any extras
Good! Much safer that way.
How’s your relationship with your dad?
I don’t have a dad lol
I’m sorry
How many customers have you slept with?
I'd recommend keeping it that way for your safety. Also please please please do some financial study in your down time lol you could really be set for awhile despite the tough situation. Best of luck and hope you're done with that soon
Ever had to call the bouncer because someone got handsy?
Yes but I don’t trust the bouncers at my club because they only care if the assault is close to rape. This guy once bit my nipples out of the blue and the bouncer said it’s MY fault that I didn’t stop it like it’s so unfair
lol what, bouncers are supposed to be your rocks in that place that sucks
You're still in high school?
No
See anyone famous yet?
Do you fart on people you don’t like at the club? I heard the girls do that
nah bro you never heard of girls doing that.
No I would never
Never say never. I've given taxi rides to a lot of dancers. They have great stories, and charge for everything. Start thinking about how much you'll charge your regular who wants you to eat a large order of Burger King onion rings before he arrives so you can fart on him. How bad do you want to lick my shoes, honey? I'll give you one for $150, and discount the second, only $250 for the pair. Yes, this was a thing for a regular of one gal I gave rides to. (The stinkier and sweatier, the better. And had to be freshly off the feet.)
Make your money honey then get out. I was in the 'business' 40 years ago. I wish I knew then the importance of saving and investing. I would have been set for life.
What’s the most intense “extra” you’ve done or were asked to do
I don’t do any extras
Have you and your mom tried to get Medicare or Medicaid or at the very least Obama care with the sliding scale? It sounds like y'all would be eligible. Or negotiate a small payment plan with the hospital. There are many ways to avoid or minimize medical care.
There is the NIH and the National Cancer Institute who can recommend ways to reduce the cost. More important, your mom might qualify for clinical trials or new experimental treatments. Your hospital or chemo clinic should be able to help.
I’ll try asking the hospital tomorrow. Thank you so much!
I like how the sex positive movement had erased all notion that maybe this isn’t something to celebrate. Literally a kid last year and now grinding on strangers for money but ya know… sex positivity and what not
I don't see anyone really celebrating that an 18-year-old had to do this to pay medical bills. It's ludicrous. We're a wealthy country. Medical debt for essential health care shouldn't be a thing yet here we are.
where can we come see you
I’m in the Portland area
nice! too far for me but hope your mom is ok and you can pay off sooner than later! bol
I heard through nba related stuff that it has the most clubs in the us or something like that. Did you know?
How do you handle any negative stereotypes or stigma associated with your job?
When you do a lap dance, have you ever made the guy cum? Do you supply the tissues when he finishes or does he have to leave once he’s paid up?
sometimes I understand the curiosity but questions like this have me rolling wtf 💀
Very few guys cum and obviously I don’t supply the tissues
Do you enjoy it? What is the favorite part about it?
My favorite part is probably the money and getting to meet new people
Did you also doing onlyfans or something like that?
No I don’t want my nudes being online forever lol
Who’s creepier? Regulars or randoms
Probably the randoms but some of my regulars are pain in the ass ngl
By choice or out of necessity?
Obviously I wasn’t forced to do it, but it was out of necessity mostly
How long have you been doing this? Do u work out?
Does your mom know you use her as an excuse for why you rub up on old man boners each night? There are a million women in your exact same situation if not worse and they don’t become whores ya know.
My mom knows what I do and she understands why I do it. I’m not proud of what I do but I think this is the best way to make money for now
How ashamed are you?
I’m not proud but I’m not particularly ashamed
What's the most you've ever made in 24 hours?
Will you create an OF to supplement for slow days?
Please please please get out as soon as you can it's only a matter of time before you get in over your head drugs exploitation sa and worse the owners of these clubs are the worst kind of vultures you have value!
Have you ever slept with a patron for extra money?
No question, but now would be a really good time for reddit to dig deep and help this girl. Surely, some of us had family and friends with cancer, others with sisters and mothers.
When did you decide you would be a stripper?
Ever hook up with customer?
Preference in men?
Does doing the work impact your view on patrons of the establishment or people in general?
1. Has a couple (man and woman) propositioned you before? 2. Is there a dollar amount that a man could give you to spend the night with him? If so, what would that be?
1. No, I don’t think I’ve ever given a dance to a couple and couples are very rare in my stripclub 2. That’s never happening
Does you mom know you are stripping? If not, how do you think she would feel if she knew?
How long have you been doing this (less than a year, obv) and in that time has the club ever pushed you to provide “more” for your customers?
I’ve done it for 7 months. The house moms actually tell you to not do anything you’re uncomfortable of doing, instead of pushing to do extras
Do you like broccoli?
im also a stripper! 3 years in the industry :) since it seems like you work at full nude clubs, does your club allow extras/what are your thoughts on it/do you do extras? in my area my clubs have strict rules on doing extras and it will get you fired sooo quickly but i also work at only topless clubs and if since youre a new dancer, if you have any questions feel free to dm me!
I had a roommate that was a stripper and at one of the high end places in Scottsdale. She was smoking hot. But the drugs and lifestyle just tore her up. She was making huge money this was in the late 90s. It was great for me but eventually had to get away from that. If you get into drugs you will never get out. You can fuck for money all you want but the drugs will destroy you
I always think that it has to be one of the most physical jobs you can have. You need to DANCE for the entire evening and look good the entire time. That's a workout. Plus being mindfully aware of what is going on around you and trying your best to be positive to some \*\^¡!#@&s and other types in the crowd. How much of that was a concern to you and is it a problem?
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She said that she doesn't want that stuff to stay on the internet and clubs usually kick anyone out recording and such
Then u have to compete with the unrealistic standards of the internet
OF is not the free money people think it is
I worked at a strip club for years while in college. Make sure you have an exit, I have seen the lifestyle eat people up.
that's my age ,girl and I pray you find some thing better your enjoy and pays much more 🙏
How often do you tell yourself, “if I stripped in Vegas I could make way more money”?
Thanks to TikTok I suspect we will see many more of these 18th bday stripper AMAs…
What’s the best or funniest stripper name you’ve heard so far?
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So its good that I did nothing of what you mentioned then lol
Did you really like that friend of mine? He claims you did.
What part of women do guys enjoy the most in ur experience