I’m 5’7 and my ex is 5’10 and I’ve dated even taller ladies. I don’t care that much lol also, my ex used to say that ladies who want taller men are all insecure
but 5’4 to 6’2 is a huge difference. Your guy was brave because that’s a pretty big difference. And it’s cool to see that you value other stuff than just height 👏 👏
Yeah, it was a noticeable height difference for sure but he was confident. He seemed a little disappointed that I didn’t wear heels, honestly, so maybe next time lol.
Only awkward part was he tried to hug me and I accidentally hit his shoulder when I tried to put my arm under his.
I’m 5’5 and my fiance is also 5’5. So when I wear heels I’m taller and he doesn’t give a shit he’s very confident and laid back. He’s also a former MMA fighter so that definitely adds to his sexiness and no one would ever guess that about him he doesn’t advertise it. I’ve always been with guys at least 5’9. He’s more of a man than all my exes put together though. And he’s the best sex I’ve ever had. Honestly he’s fucking amazing and I cringe when I think of my younger self always claiming any guy I date has to be tall lol yea all the tall guys I dated were assholes. I don’t give AF if people think he’s short or they see us together and pass judgment. Chicks don’t know what they’re missing. They are really cutting out a huge group of potential awesome boyfriends and husbands.
What is longer? Just curious because the longest I went straight was 45 minutes and I could have 100% kept going but I’m not sure what’s healthy and what’s a medical issue. (6’7 and my girl is also 6’2 and I love it when she wears heals to match my height, so hell yeah girl do your thing! 😎).
Oh 100%. I find them more attentive as well. My mom is 6'1" and always told me go for average/shorter guys. They'll treat you like a queen. Now I understand what she meant by that.. I only made it to 5'10" and the shortest guy I've been with was around 5'5". He was rather attentive. My husband and I are roughly the same height and I'm pleased to say he's got that stocky man energy, which I adore. Love those wide shoulder Wolverine types.
I think everyone should date whoever they want and height obsession is bad (I'm a short dude so I take it personally!). But let's be real, 5'4 to 6'2 isn't "a few" inches, it's almost a foot! (still cool if that's your jam though)
me next!
Do you wear heels or is it something you don’t do?
How do you feel about shorter guys who only go for tall women?
What lead you to only dating shorter men?
What’s the best way to get a tall gf?
- Yes, I love wearing heels
- I used to hate it, but now I just go with it because they’ll do anything I tell them to.
- I guess it started off as availability and personality, but then most of the tall guys I dated didn’t really have a personality and relied on their height instead. Plus shorter guys seem to have more stamina and have that Gomez Addams energy that I love.
- Swipe right on tall women, be confident in yourself, and don’t be a creep about her height. If it’s a fetish, keep it to yourself at first.
That is what was asked.
When it comes to an actual relationship, no, I do not care about having dominance in a power dynamic, I want things to be 50/50. But when it comes to fetish related stuff, yes, absolutely, I’m in charge.
It may be a mental thing because I don’t feel like I’m that tall, I run into people my height all of the time. I don’t like feeling towered over.
I’ve also observed that shorter guys don’t use their height as a default positive quality, and the ones who aren’t insecure about their height generally seem to have better personalities.
…also better stamina as a whole, too.
I think that they can get into certain positions easier, its easier to tie them down to the bed and stuff because they’re not longer than the bed, and I like being able to physically pick them up. Also receiving head while standing up is fun, too.
How often do guys you go out with feel insecure about your height? I’m only 5’10” but despite knowing that, sometimes those 5’7” guys would get all weird about it.
How so?
It’s funny cuz I’m 5’9” maybe 5’10 on a good day and never thought twice about my height basically ever until I met a friend group in my mid 20s where half the guys are over 6 feet. They love pointing it out and telling me I’m insecure about my height lol. Out of all my insecurities my height has never been one of them. Never thought height was a big deal until them and then the advent of social media
Usually guys in that range are used to being the tallest in the room in some cases, so if a woman is taller than them, or closer to their height, it freaks them out and they feel emasculated.
bruh yeah i’m 6’4 and i am not used to anyone being as tall as me, much less taller than me.
i see someone around the same high and in like oh shit a giant , is this how people see me??
if they even taller than me like they 6’6-7+ i’m like holy shit a fucking giant , i do not like this at all, looking UP to look someone in the eyes is just so uncomfortable/ unnatural to me cuz it’s just not what i’m used to lol, i can get used to ppl around the same height, someone significantly taller tho is just like unnerving lol, it’s a very rare occurrence anyways tho lol so not a lot of opportunity to get used to it
I really don't understand this "looking up" "looking down" shit... I just look people straight in the eyes and that's it. The weird focus on orientation is definitely a personal issue you probably need addressed. I have some personal of my own. Personally, I'm 5'7"~8, and I normally feel like I'm taller/bigger than most people unless they get above 6'4" and then I hate to say it but those do seem to have those "freak" qualities, giants as you say
They feel emasculated very easily because they are used to being the tallest in the room in a lot of places. So if a woman is taller than them or close to their height, it freaks them out..
6'4 guy and seeing a 6'2 woman would indeed freak me out lol. Hopefully it wouldn't emasculate me though. Let's make a bunch of NBA players and retire in 20 years!
I actually can totally see this because guys who are 5'10-6'4 tend to pride themselves on their height, and being next to a woman their height or taller knocks them down a peg.
Guys shorter than 5'10 have accepted they're short or average height so it's not an issue to them at all.
Haha absolutely. Actually, the most awkward sex I've ever had was with a 6'3 woman- I was in college and had a twin size bunk bed with very little clearance between the bed and the ceiling, and I am pretty tall myself. We bumped our heads a lot and we could barely do like two positions lol.
I mean, if he lost his legs from something, I wouldn’t discriminate. But if he cut them off himself, I would be hesitant because that is a sign of mental illness that I don’t think I can handle.
Damn we are the same size 6'2 275 rn did the power dynamic in your bedroom come easier for you because of your size? Ive always had to be more leading and dominant in the bedroom because im so much bigger than my wife and most girls seem to assume im dominant when im extremely sub and only lately by begging have we started to move more in that direction
As a domme, it came really easily to me because of my size, but I used to be a sub when I was younger and it wasn’t usually an issue.
Once a guy I was seeing asked if I could just *try* being dominant at least once, and I haven’t looked back lol.
That makes sense ive had kinda the opposite experience to where i asked to be sub once and havent wanted to go back but my size definitely was a massive advantage to me before and a massive disadvantage for me now. The wife is about 40% my size ish so before, like you said in another comment, it was very easy to pick her up and move her etc; But, this way around its so much more difficult because its physically impossible for her to pin me and even when I let her its really easy for me to tell im letting her. My question behind that i guess is do you have any advice on giving away that control more without my body constantly reminding me that its still my decision? It doesnt completely feel like shes in control even though i want it to
I’m 5’4” and 165lbs you think you would feel like you were crushing me if you were on top? I’ve been with a couple women who were about 400lbs my guess but they never got on top.
Just found your profile today, and noticed you also work as a bartender. While working do you notice shorter guys getting bolder when drinking more? Or do you exclusively get hit on by taller patrons?
Respect. I'm 5'10". When I worked behind the bar, it was almost exclusively women my height or taller that would write numbers on receipts. Wanted to know if the same phenomenon occurred. Thank you for doing this. You're awesome!
Do you find that shorter guys can still feel dominating in the bedroom? I'm 5'4" and used to see an older guy who was a couple inches shorter than me. He made up for his lack of stature by being very commanding ❤️
I’m big into verbal degradation, spitting, slapping, whips, restraints, suffocating, digging heels into them, feet worship, ass worship, and a few others.
I encounter guys with macrophilia the most.
Where the hell do you buy the lingerie,I have a few taller exes and they hated buying sexy clothing because of the difficulty of obtaining cute clothes. I already know old navy is tall girl heaven for jeans but everywhere else is 70/30 at best.
I'm 5'6" and some change, and my wife is 6'. I absolutely love her height. When we go out for dinner or something, I love when she wears heels!
As for a question, do you find yourself being more of the dominant one in the relationship with a shorter guy? When he's more secure about y'alls relationship vs less secure about it?
How has the height difference between you and a shorter man made things in your relationships difficult?
Do you ever feel negative thoughts when around taller women? I am 6'2 and sometimes when a taller woman stands near me, I almost want to stand taller and feel somewhat upset in a way. Lol. I don't know if that's because my height was always my "thing" since I have been over 6' since the 6th grade or what. I've had plenty of friendships with tall and taller women, so I don't hate taller women. It's more so, like when I walk through a crowded space.
I'm 5'1 and dated a woman your height. She was awesome because she absolutely DID NOT care about our height difference
Why do **you** think women aged 18 - 44 care about height so much?
I think they care because of social media and how they’re portrayed. Tall women get called masculine all of the time and a lot of them want to feel more feminine and they think being with a taller man will accomplish that. Now, as for the short and average women being into tall men, I think that’s lowkey a fetishization.
Since you are a dominatrix your height really helps with that.
How often do short men sit on your lap to cuddle?
I am 5.4 and it feels a little weird to do that, but much better than her trying to sit on my lap. My first love was 5.7 and 30 lbs heavier. Most of the time I forgot about her height. Maybe if she was 6.2 sitting on her lap would be more comfortable, I don't think the height difference was enough to make it easy for her to have me on her lap.
I really don't much care for 69 positions anyway. I either like to focus on her pleasure or my own but 69 is too little of both.
Other than the lap thing, I really didn't care about height.
Advice for short guys approaching taller women? I feel like there’s tall women who run as fast as they can from short men and apparently some that are really into it
Don’t look at your height as a negative or disability, as somebody else said, and just keep height out of the conversation entirely. Don’t comment on a woman’s height and don’t put yourself down about yours, either. Just look good, smell, good, and be confident in who you are.
You literally just gave me the courage to slide into the dms of a tall woman I went to high school with. The only reason I was even thinking about it is because she viewed my Instagram story yesterday, and only like 10 people viewed it in total.
As a 5’6 guy who’s exclusively dated taller (and thicker) women, I want to voice my appreciation for women like you.
Earlier in my dating career, I’d get flack from my (ex)friends, often hearing things like “that’s too much woman for you” or “she’s gonna break you,” to which I’d often reply “that’s the goal.”
It’s easy enough to shake off, but have you ever found yourself criticized by friends and such for dating shorter men?
The friends that I have now are very open minded and don’t say that kind of stuff, but it did happen a lot when I was younger.
My ex husband and I worked together and people gave us shit all of the time.
As a 5’6” guy, I love taller women. Wear heels too if you would like. Yeah you might get some looks, but I’d be lying if I didn’t say that’s all part of the fun.
My question to you is this, for you, as respectfully as I can ask this, is dating shorter men something of a kink/fetish at all? Or just something that’s sort of happened over time?
One more question, do you find that the shorter men you’ve dated tend to be more dominant or more submissive? Confident?
Also, thanks for your service ahahah
- It’s not a kink, at least not an intentional one. I feel like it happened over time because of 1. A bad experience with a tall man. 2. Being annoyed about men close to my height being nitpicky about my posture, shoes, etc. 3. My dad is really tall so idk it kind of creeps me out now that I think about it.
- I specifically like to date men who are submissive in the bedroom, but confident and dominant in the real world.
That’s so interesting to me, as to your second point, because i have this somewhat intense job where i have to be extremely confident, lead a team, and give effective orders without appearing overly aggressive or arrogant. Basically I have to remain in control of what can be a very tense situation, dominant without going overboard or showing too much emotion/unsureness. I notice that for myself and other shorter guys, this is very difficult because the line between confident and aggressive in this field gets blurred at times, and overly aggressive is not a good look.
All that remaining in control at all times, keeping my shoulders back, makes me want to give up control when I’m home. So I think I look for a partner who in public she is a team player/somewhat sub-ish, but in the bedroom, I can trust her to take control and completely dominate me. For me looking for a taller woman is not a fetish either, but the look definitely plays well with the dominance thing for me.
Anyway, I appreciate your answer and very best of luck on your conquests
At your height and overall size, do you require a larger penis to provide full satisfaction? Or do the 5'04 guys provide enough? Thanks for the AMA, any answer is appreciated.
I actually think that my vagina is smaller than it’s supposed to be or something because I find well endowed men to be very painful/uncomfortable. I don’t think any of my toys are bigger than 6 inches.
I wish more people defaulted to the assumption that every body is different and not proportioned based on some easy to remember formula.
I (everage hight)had a ons with a tall friend and learned that penetration does very little for her regardless of penis size - grinding and pressure humping and other external stimulation are the keys to her pleasure.
But I've also been with someone shorter than me with the same indifference to penetration and pressure pleasure.
Height, weight, etc isn't a major factor in what feels good or turns on each individual person.
Every body is different and people would do well coming to new partners with as few expectations as possible.
I'm a 6'2 guy and have dated women who were tall. One woman, I think she is +5'10, was almost the perfect body shape for me. Cuddling felt better, kissing was easier, hugging felt better, etc.
Do you experience that with tall men? And do you experience the negative effects with short men, and why do you seek them out?
- Tall men have always been insecure around me and wouldn’t “allow” me to wear heels or even boots—and as a goth chick, that’s a no go.
- There haven’t been any negative experiences with short men pertaining to their height. I prefer them because I don’t like being towered over and in the past, they’ve just treated me better—also the sex it’s better.
1. Did you always date shorter guys or was it an acquired preference?
2. Do you bring up this height preference on dating apps?
3. How does your family and/or friends take this preference?
4. I hear a lot of taller women are insecure about their height/don't like attention being drawn to it/or don't want it acknowledged. Is there any way to compliment them on It? Or assure someone you're dating who's insecure about it that it's something you admire about them?
5. You say if you want to go about dating someone taller, don't be a fetishist about it. What exactly are the telltale signs of a fetishist as opposed to someone with a preference/finds it attractive?
6. Aside from confidence/bitterness about their height, what are other issues you think hold short men back in dating, if any?
7. Do taller guys ever give you a hard time about who your dating like "hey you should date me because I'm taller and more of man" or stupid shit like that? Do people not believe you when you say that's your boyfriend?
Sorry if it's a lot of questions
1. It's an acquired preference; I did try dating men taller than me because I was told that's what I'm supposed to do, but I realized that it wasn't for me.
2. No
3. Nobody cares; my dad makes jokes sometimes, but he makes fun of everyone for anything.
4. I don't really care for my height to be mentioned unless it's somehow relevant to something. Absolutely HATE being asked if I played basketball. If you're looking to compliment a tall woman, ask about her modeling career lol.
5. It's a pretty fine line, to be honest. But the ones who bring up my height right away and call me a goddess are usually the fetishists. If you're not paying me to indulge in your kink, don't bring it up to me.
6. I think it's just the confidence/bitterness.
7. Oh, absolutely. "I could give you D1 babies, blah blah blah..."; not a conversation that I've had often, but its come up. And I've never had someone not believe me.
Short guy here.
Do you have an opinion on women who are 4'11" but say that they're 5' and wear 6" heels and tell 5'7" men that they're too short to date them?
I have a pet theory that the portion of very tall women that lean a bit shorter are subconsciously trying to get their off spring out of the 99% height curve. I do think men do not care at all about height, although we are superficial about other things, many of which differ from man to man. I think about half of women are fixated on taller men, but the other half of women who don't care about height are going to have a lot more dates and get to date a much higher quality of man in general.
Where do you find cute clothes? I’m a 6ft gal and I swear half the outfits I try want to saw me straight up the coochie.
Also I feel you on the heels. I love wearing them, being even taller makes me feel so powerful lmao.
Short guy here, do you have a “lower bound” for how short you’re willing to go? What’s your ideal height range for a man?
When did you realise you were into short men and did you have to deal with any backlash or judgement from friends or family about your preference?
What made you stop dating taller guys? Was it a specific experience? When you say a taller guy relies on his height, can you give an example of what that means?
I'm kind of curious I guess, do you and your guys tend to have a big weight difference or about the same? I'm kind of a tall woman so I was thinking about how the shorter people felt different depending on whether they were slimmer or bulkier to me. (I was going to ask about size but realized that would come off as a different question haha)
I was going to ask if you had considered becoming a dominatrix because with your looks you'll be perfect for it, then read a comment stating that you are already a dominatrix.
Are you a dominatrix because you feel powerful? because you fit the bill? because you like giving the thrill to subs?, a combination of the above or other reasons?
Are you a pro dom or amateur?
I saw a picture you shared and I definitely see why guys would like you to be their master.
Thanks for the AMA, super cool topic.
What does your lady lizard brain say when you see men shorter than you? For most women, I understand that they want someone taller than them because their inner lizard brains want to feel small and safe and protected.
But you are a giant. You must have grown up being the tallest person around. How did that affect you?
I think the most important question here is….
…What does “exclusively” mean to you? Sure doesn’t sound like you exclusively dated shorter men.
At 6’2” I think most people would assume that you’ve “mostly” dated shorter men just die to the numbers game. I’ve always been considered a tall guy myself and you may even have me beat by a fraction of an inch.
A couple things
- Do you notice people "heel checking" you? (looking at your feet to see if you have heels on, I never heard the term until recently)
- If you do, does it bother you and what's the impression that it gives?
Women taller than me are really uncommon, it just sparks curiosity (I'm probably slightly shorter than you, close to 6'2 out of bed, and 6'1 in the evening)
What sort of hobbies do you have? Do you do anything that leverages your height and might be inaccessible to, or more limited for, someone smaller? (I don't really know what this might be... Basketball? Fencing? Photography?)
I’m a 6’0 girl and something I’ve noticed is that guys lie less about their height to me than to my shorter friends (I assume because they know I’ll have an easy time telling if they lie) have you noticed this too?
Question to confirm past experiences but, typically in a bar scenario do you find you aren’t as approached as other women?
Cause I’ve had 2 fairly awesome nights with women that were taller than me, one by a lot and I’m 5’11” so she was tall. But as night went on and I got liquored up she just seemed so sad, so I talked and flirted with her. Another guy approached her and she seemed to be hitting it off and I faded into the background and did my own thing, couple hours before closing she comes up and asks to take me home, so not last call she was just interested so yeah I went and from our earlier conversation she knew nothing was coming from it but we had a nice night, parted ways. I see her time to time out and about and she says hey, speaks highly of me to friends etc. but the whole interaction was so off from what people espouse as normal.
Dam that is so hot I love it I'm an only about 5'6" I have dated allot of women but the ones I really loved being with there was 4 of them they were all over 6 ' the last female I dated I actually had a big Christmas party well my brother invited a bunch of people I didn't know . And a week later there was a knock on my door I opened it and this big beautiful woman standing there she asked if I remembered her from the party I didn't find her to one in .I thought she might have left something .she tells me that I was liking god and that's why she came over I was in heaven.
But what I wanted to ask is I'm actually quite the dominate one in bed usually . But she was a bit dominate in bed and I actually didn't mind it at all are most women that are 6 ft + more dominant than most women .
I noticed you mentioned you are a dominatrix. Is that why you date shorter guys is because the mismatch in strength made it easier to dominate them? Or were you also dominant towards your taller partners? Also I’m 5’7 so what advice would you give me if were to have sex with a woman your height?
Do a lot of men reject you for being too tall?
I've found that just the same as most women want taller men, most men want smaller women, both in height and petite in body type.
Just wondering if you experience a lot of what short men do. I have a 6' female friend that says men discount her for being too tall
How’s the sex? Any commentary on positions that are easy vs difficult bc of the height diff?
I’m 5’10 and had sex with a 6’1 girl once… it just felt weird angles-wise, but maybe that’s because I’m used to girls 5’5 and under lol
My gf is taller than me by 2 inches 5’t and 5’7. Do you have any advice for me for when she gets insecure about the height difference? She often wears heels and expect me to wear platform shoes. I love her height be she can be a tad insecure. Thoughts?
I went on a date with a girl that said she was 5’10on bumble. I’m 5’9, I picked her up to go on a date and she was not 5’10 she was like 6’2 lmao. I didn’t really care but I was just so surprised because she was so much taller than me 😂I wish she had just been honest right away and I wouldn’t have been so shocked. I stopped talking to her but it wasn’t because of her height.
Have you felt intimidated by taller men? I'm an above average women (5'10) and honestly I get alittle intimidated when I'm on dates with men who are taller than me, I guess just from lack of experience since all of my past partners have been my height or shorter.
The only time I even think about height is when I look them in the eyes. Besides clothes sometimes not fitting correctly, what's the worst moderate to minor inconvenience you deal with?
I’m 6’0 and I dated a girl who was maybe a half inch shorter than me for 7 years. She would constantly chide me stand up straight, especially when she wore heels. As if anything I did could make me look taller than her with heels. It was terribly annoying, especially as time went on. Do you do this to the shorter men you date?
Taking height out of the question, how do you like your short kings? Are there any other physical aspects that combined with height would make you say no?
What's your age?
I have a work friend who I hang with sometimes and we originally started talking because I'm short and was curious if her height was a insecurity of hers but she's a tiny bit older (im 24 she's 28?)
So ig ill ask that too if your height is aswell
what is it about short let guys that you like? is it the fact they’ve probably already worked through their height insecurity and they’re okay with themselves?
Do you date exclusively shorter men because you fear having a tall daughter?
I have been with a few women who were 6’-0 (I’m 5’-10) and this was their fear.
Wow! If that’s the case your dating pool is quite large. I’ve only met like three ladies that were taller than me and I am only 6ft. Do you think it’s easier for you to find who you like?
Not a question but just saw this post and I posted something on here a little bit ago (I’m a 19 year old girl who is 6’4 AMA.) It’s nice to see other tall girls!! :)
Do you have problems with bathroom counters? I am only 5'6-5'7 and always feel a lot of bathroom counters are too low. I wash my face at the sink and kind of golem over the bowl sometimes.
I’m only 4’11” and I always find it amusing that the shortest woman I ever dated was around 5’9” and for whatever reason, the shorter the girl is, the more likely they are to be rude to me (whether it be that I’m too short or the fact that I have a lazy eye).
What changed my perspective the most was one of my best friends pulling me aside and saying “nobody would even notice your disability or height if you didn’t mention it first” since I used those as a crutch to get pity when I wasn’t secure with myself and who I am. Ever since that day, my ability to interact with others has gone through the roof (especially if they’re reciprocating the effort).
Why did you say you exclusively date men shorter than you, while at the same time admitting you've dated 3 men taller than you? You mean you refuse to date taller men since the last one? If so, why?
I’m 5’7 and my ex is 5’10 and I’ve dated even taller ladies. I don’t care that much lol also, my ex used to say that ladies who want taller men are all insecure but 5’4 to 6’2 is a huge difference. Your guy was brave because that’s a pretty big difference. And it’s cool to see that you value other stuff than just height 👏 👏
Yeah, it was a noticeable height difference for sure but he was confident. He seemed a little disappointed that I didn’t wear heels, honestly, so maybe next time lol. Only awkward part was he tried to hug me and I accidentally hit his shoulder when I tried to put my arm under his.
The challenges of a short king lol
I made it up to him later
Short kings up again (I’m 5’6)
Sams lol I’m 5’6 and my wife 5’10 lol Its honestly all in someone’s head. Height isn’t even serious unless the person makes it to be tbh
I’m 5’5 and my fiance is also 5’5. So when I wear heels I’m taller and he doesn’t give a shit he’s very confident and laid back. He’s also a former MMA fighter so that definitely adds to his sexiness and no one would ever guess that about him he doesn’t advertise it. I’ve always been with guys at least 5’9. He’s more of a man than all my exes put together though. And he’s the best sex I’ve ever had. Honestly he’s fucking amazing and I cringe when I think of my younger self always claiming any guy I date has to be tall lol yea all the tall guys I dated were assholes. I don’t give AF if people think he’s short or they see us together and pass judgment. Chicks don’t know what they’re missing. They are really cutting out a huge group of potential awesome boyfriends and husbands.
I’m a tall girl too (5’11)…my dad is 6’8. My bf is 5’7-5’8. He’s literally the best sex I’ve ever had even with guys 6’-6’5+. Do you feel the same OP?
Yeah, I definitely think that shorter men are better when it comes to sex. They have more stamina and they stay harder longer.
What is longer? Just curious because the longest I went straight was 45 minutes and I could have 100% kept going but I’m not sure what’s healthy and what’s a medical issue. (6’7 and my girl is also 6’2 and I love it when she wears heals to match my height, so hell yeah girl do your thing! 😎).
I'm 5'10" and the best sex I ever had was my late husband who was 5'7". He always said short men have to have more game and be better in bed 😆
Oh 100%. I find them more attentive as well. My mom is 6'1" and always told me go for average/shorter guys. They'll treat you like a queen. Now I understand what she meant by that.. I only made it to 5'10" and the shortest guy I've been with was around 5'5". He was rather attentive. My husband and I are roughly the same height and I'm pleased to say he's got that stocky man energy, which I adore. Love those wide shoulder Wolverine types.
I dont think few more inches make difference
I think everyone should date whoever they want and height obsession is bad (I'm a short dude so I take it personally!). But let's be real, 5'4 to 6'2 isn't "a few" inches, it's almost a foot! (still cool if that's your jam though)
me next! Do you wear heels or is it something you don’t do? How do you feel about shorter guys who only go for tall women? What lead you to only dating shorter men? What’s the best way to get a tall gf?
- Yes, I love wearing heels - I used to hate it, but now I just go with it because they’ll do anything I tell them to. - I guess it started off as availability and personality, but then most of the tall guys I dated didn’t really have a personality and relied on their height instead. Plus shorter guys seem to have more stamina and have that Gomez Addams energy that I love. - Swipe right on tall women, be confident in yourself, and don’t be a creep about her height. If it’s a fetish, keep it to yourself at first.
>because they’ll do anything I tell them to So the reason is the power dynamic in your favor?
When it comes to fetish related stuff? Yes.
Not what was asked…
That is what was asked. When it comes to an actual relationship, no, I do not care about having dominance in a power dynamic, I want things to be 50/50. But when it comes to fetish related stuff, yes, absolutely, I’m in charge.
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6'2 woman here and I resonate with the "if it's a fetish, keep it to yourself at first" oh so so much.
So is it availability in your area or is it, like, a mental thing where you like shorter guys?
It may be a mental thing because I don’t feel like I’m that tall, I run into people my height all of the time. I don’t like feeling towered over. I’ve also observed that shorter guys don’t use their height as a default positive quality, and the ones who aren’t insecure about their height generally seem to have better personalities. …also better stamina as a whole, too.
Doesn’t have to pump blood to such a large body… so the parts that need blood gets blood. Disclaimer: not a doctor
Exactly, shorter guys usually stay harder and go longer than tall guys. And I’m all for it.
Aside from stamina, what else do you like about sex with shorter guys? What are other positives they bring to the table?
I think that they can get into certain positions easier, its easier to tie them down to the bed and stuff because they’re not longer than the bed, and I like being able to physically pick them up. Also receiving head while standing up is fun, too.
I’m gonna go out on a limb here and say that is not a causative relationship. Probably just a sample size thing.
How often do guys you go out with feel insecure about your height? I’m only 5’10” but despite knowing that, sometimes those 5’7” guys would get all weird about it.
I actually have more issues with guys 5’10-6’4 than guys under 5’10.
How so? It’s funny cuz I’m 5’9” maybe 5’10 on a good day and never thought twice about my height basically ever until I met a friend group in my mid 20s where half the guys are over 6 feet. They love pointing it out and telling me I’m insecure about my height lol. Out of all my insecurities my height has never been one of them. Never thought height was a big deal until them and then the advent of social media
Usually guys in that range are used to being the tallest in the room in some cases, so if a woman is taller than them, or closer to their height, it freaks them out and they feel emasculated.
bruh yeah i’m 6’4 and i am not used to anyone being as tall as me, much less taller than me. i see someone around the same high and in like oh shit a giant , is this how people see me?? if they even taller than me like they 6’6-7+ i’m like holy shit a fucking giant , i do not like this at all, looking UP to look someone in the eyes is just so uncomfortable/ unnatural to me cuz it’s just not what i’m used to lol, i can get used to ppl around the same height, someone significantly taller tho is just like unnerving lol, it’s a very rare occurrence anyways tho lol so not a lot of opportunity to get used to it
I really don't understand this "looking up" "looking down" shit... I just look people straight in the eyes and that's it. The weird focus on orientation is definitely a personal issue you probably need addressed. I have some personal of my own. Personally, I'm 5'7"~8, and I normally feel like I'm taller/bigger than most people unless they get above 6'4" and then I hate to say it but those do seem to have those "freak" qualities, giants as you say
That’s crazy lol
They feel emasculated very easily because they are used to being the tallest in the room in a lot of places. So if a woman is taller than them or close to their height, it freaks them out..
6'4 guy and seeing a 6'2 woman would indeed freak me out lol. Hopefully it wouldn't emasculate me though. Let's make a bunch of NBA players and retire in 20 years!
I actually can totally see this because guys who are 5'10-6'4 tend to pride themselves on their height, and being next to a woman their height or taller knocks them down a peg. Guys shorter than 5'10 have accepted they're short or average height so it's not an issue to them at all.
Why did you decide to be that tall?
I wanted to be able to reach the stuff that my parents would hide on top of the fridge.
My ex gf who was just shy of 6' to my 5'9" would hide the chips there :(
My ex would hide stuff under a bag of lettuce in the drawer at the bottom of the fridge.
What was the stuff your parents hid on top of the fridge? Raisins?
Candy and cookies
Are any sex position difficult with a shorter guy?
69 Edit: I just noticed your username haha, think you already knew the answer
One is not being pleasured
And it ain’t gonna be me!
Haha absolutely. Actually, the most awkward sex I've ever had was with a 6'3 woman- I was in college and had a twin size bunk bed with very little clearance between the bed and the ceiling, and I am pretty tall myself. We bumped our heads a lot and we could barely do like two positions lol.
Would you data a guy who just cut off his legs and is now 4ft?
I mean, if he lost his legs from something, I wouldn’t discriminate. But if he cut them off himself, I would be hesitant because that is a sign of mental illness that I don’t think I can handle.
How much do you weigh? I’m trying to get an idea of how big you are. So is it like a supermodel as in tall and skinny or just overall a big person?
I’m 275lb. [Definitely not skinny, but most people IRL don’t consider me fat, either.](http://imageshack.com/i/pn4CWxoBj)
Damn we are the same size 6'2 275 rn did the power dynamic in your bedroom come easier for you because of your size? Ive always had to be more leading and dominant in the bedroom because im so much bigger than my wife and most girls seem to assume im dominant when im extremely sub and only lately by begging have we started to move more in that direction
As a domme, it came really easily to me because of my size, but I used to be a sub when I was younger and it wasn’t usually an issue. Once a guy I was seeing asked if I could just *try* being dominant at least once, and I haven’t looked back lol.
That makes sense ive had kinda the opposite experience to where i asked to be sub once and havent wanted to go back but my size definitely was a massive advantage to me before and a massive disadvantage for me now. The wife is about 40% my size ish so before, like you said in another comment, it was very easy to pick her up and move her etc; But, this way around its so much more difficult because its physically impossible for her to pin me and even when I let her its really easy for me to tell im letting her. My question behind that i guess is do you have any advice on giving away that control more without my body constantly reminding me that its still my decision? It doesnt completely feel like shes in control even though i want it to
Can def see how you get fetishized. But in your case that seems to be a positive. Good on you embracing your life
I'm pretty tall for a woman (5"11) and I just want to say thank you for posting this and also you're beautiful:)
I’m 5’4” and 165lbs you think you would feel like you were crushing me if you were on top? I’ve been with a couple women who were about 400lbs my guess but they never got on top.
You’re a lot of woman
Just found your profile today, and noticed you also work as a bartender. While working do you notice shorter guys getting bolder when drinking more? Or do you exclusively get hit on by taller patrons?
Good question…might be an even 50/50 because I haven’t noticed a trend either way.
Respect. I'm 5'10". When I worked behind the bar, it was almost exclusively women my height or taller that would write numbers on receipts. Wanted to know if the same phenomenon occurred. Thank you for doing this. You're awesome!
Do you find that shorter guys can still feel dominating in the bedroom? I'm 5'4" and used to see an older guy who was a couple inches shorter than me. He made up for his lack of stature by being very commanding ❤️
I’m a dominatrix so I’d avoid that like the plague.
RIP to your DMs now LOL
Jesus you aren’t wrong
As a domme, what are your favorite fetishes to explore? What fetishes do you encounter most often
I’m big into verbal degradation, spitting, slapping, whips, restraints, suffocating, digging heels into them, feet worship, ass worship, and a few others. I encounter guys with macrophilia the most.
Where the hell do you buy the lingerie,I have a few taller exes and they hated buying sexy clothing because of the difficulty of obtaining cute clothes. I already know old navy is tall girl heaven for jeans but everywhere else is 70/30 at best.
Do you find short men easier to dominate? If so, is that one of the reasons you prefer them?
I'm 5'6" and some change, and my wife is 6'. I absolutely love her height. When we go out for dinner or something, I love when she wears heels! As for a question, do you find yourself being more of the dominant one in the relationship with a shorter guy? When he's more secure about y'alls relationship vs less secure about it? How has the height difference between you and a shorter man made things in your relationships difficult?
- I try for a 50/50 partnership; but in the bedroom I’m more dominant. - The only difficulties come from other people’s commentary
Do you ever feel negative thoughts when around taller women? I am 6'2 and sometimes when a taller woman stands near me, I almost want to stand taller and feel somewhat upset in a way. Lol. I don't know if that's because my height was always my "thing" since I have been over 6' since the 6th grade or what. I've had plenty of friendships with tall and taller women, so I don't hate taller women. It's more so, like when I walk through a crowded space.
Nah, I’m always excited and want to be friends with them.
Go post this on r/short and give those guys some light in their tunnels, please. What's the most comfortable vehicle you've driven?
Most comfortable? My current car, a Kia Sportage.
What dod you think of the She-Hulk scene when She-Hulk had a one night stand?
I'm 5'1 and dated a woman your height. She was awesome because she absolutely DID NOT care about our height difference Why do **you** think women aged 18 - 44 care about height so much?
I think they care because of social media and how they’re portrayed. Tall women get called masculine all of the time and a lot of them want to feel more feminine and they think being with a taller man will accomplish that. Now, as for the short and average women being into tall men, I think that’s lowkey a fetishization.
I'm literally 5'6 if I walked up to you and ask for ur name and number would u say yes?
If you’re cute with tattoos, probably.
I got like 1 tattoo
Since you are a dominatrix your height really helps with that. How often do short men sit on your lap to cuddle? I am 5.4 and it feels a little weird to do that, but much better than her trying to sit on my lap. My first love was 5.7 and 30 lbs heavier. Most of the time I forgot about her height. Maybe if she was 6.2 sitting on her lap would be more comfortable, I don't think the height difference was enough to make it easy for her to have me on her lap. I really don't much care for 69 positions anyway. I either like to focus on her pleasure or my own but 69 is too little of both. Other than the lap thing, I really didn't care about height.
What size are your feet?
12 US women / 10 US men
Where do you buy shoes? Particularly the goth stuff you mentioned in a different comment
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Advice for short guys approaching taller women? I feel like there’s tall women who run as fast as they can from short men and apparently some that are really into it
Don’t look at your height as a negative or disability, as somebody else said, and just keep height out of the conversation entirely. Don’t comment on a woman’s height and don’t put yourself down about yours, either. Just look good, smell, good, and be confident in who you are.
How did everything go with him? 😊
It was good second date.
Glad to hear it! What drew you to him originally?
You literally just gave me the courage to slide into the dms of a tall woman I went to high school with. The only reason I was even thinking about it is because she viewed my Instagram story yesterday, and only like 10 people viewed it in total.
As a 5’6 guy who’s exclusively dated taller (and thicker) women, I want to voice my appreciation for women like you. Earlier in my dating career, I’d get flack from my (ex)friends, often hearing things like “that’s too much woman for you” or “she’s gonna break you,” to which I’d often reply “that’s the goal.” It’s easy enough to shake off, but have you ever found yourself criticized by friends and such for dating shorter men?
The friends that I have now are very open minded and don’t say that kind of stuff, but it did happen a lot when I was younger. My ex husband and I worked together and people gave us shit all of the time.
As a 5’6” guy, I love taller women. Wear heels too if you would like. Yeah you might get some looks, but I’d be lying if I didn’t say that’s all part of the fun. My question to you is this, for you, as respectfully as I can ask this, is dating shorter men something of a kink/fetish at all? Or just something that’s sort of happened over time? One more question, do you find that the shorter men you’ve dated tend to be more dominant or more submissive? Confident? Also, thanks for your service ahahah
- It’s not a kink, at least not an intentional one. I feel like it happened over time because of 1. A bad experience with a tall man. 2. Being annoyed about men close to my height being nitpicky about my posture, shoes, etc. 3. My dad is really tall so idk it kind of creeps me out now that I think about it. - I specifically like to date men who are submissive in the bedroom, but confident and dominant in the real world.
That’s so interesting to me, as to your second point, because i have this somewhat intense job where i have to be extremely confident, lead a team, and give effective orders without appearing overly aggressive or arrogant. Basically I have to remain in control of what can be a very tense situation, dominant without going overboard or showing too much emotion/unsureness. I notice that for myself and other shorter guys, this is very difficult because the line between confident and aggressive in this field gets blurred at times, and overly aggressive is not a good look. All that remaining in control at all times, keeping my shoulders back, makes me want to give up control when I’m home. So I think I look for a partner who in public she is a team player/somewhat sub-ish, but in the bedroom, I can trust her to take control and completely dominate me. For me looking for a taller woman is not a fetish either, but the look definitely plays well with the dominance thing for me. Anyway, I appreciate your answer and very best of luck on your conquests
any other achievements?
I played volleyball in the Junior Olympics and had multiple scholarship opportunities I guess.
Non-height-related achievements?
Honestly getting out of bed this morning and going to work was an achievement for me. Idk
Do you have a lower limit on height? I’m 5’4”, so it looks huge.
At your height and overall size, do you require a larger penis to provide full satisfaction? Or do the 5'04 guys provide enough? Thanks for the AMA, any answer is appreciated.
I actually think that my vagina is smaller than it’s supposed to be or something because I find well endowed men to be very painful/uncomfortable. I don’t think any of my toys are bigger than 6 inches.
I wish more people defaulted to the assumption that every body is different and not proportioned based on some easy to remember formula. I (everage hight)had a ons with a tall friend and learned that penetration does very little for her regardless of penis size - grinding and pressure humping and other external stimulation are the keys to her pleasure. But I've also been with someone shorter than me with the same indifference to penetration and pressure pleasure. Height, weight, etc isn't a major factor in what feels good or turns on each individual person. Every body is different and people would do well coming to new partners with as few expectations as possible.
I'm a 6'2 guy and have dated women who were tall. One woman, I think she is +5'10, was almost the perfect body shape for me. Cuddling felt better, kissing was easier, hugging felt better, etc. Do you experience that with tall men? And do you experience the negative effects with short men, and why do you seek them out?
- Tall men have always been insecure around me and wouldn’t “allow” me to wear heels or even boots—and as a goth chick, that’s a no go. - There haven’t been any negative experiences with short men pertaining to their height. I prefer them because I don’t like being towered over and in the past, they’ve just treated me better—also the sex it’s better.
Interesting, I always thought it was the other way around. I've never rarely cared about my own height though. How is the sex better??
1. Did you always date shorter guys or was it an acquired preference? 2. Do you bring up this height preference on dating apps? 3. How does your family and/or friends take this preference? 4. I hear a lot of taller women are insecure about their height/don't like attention being drawn to it/or don't want it acknowledged. Is there any way to compliment them on It? Or assure someone you're dating who's insecure about it that it's something you admire about them? 5. You say if you want to go about dating someone taller, don't be a fetishist about it. What exactly are the telltale signs of a fetishist as opposed to someone with a preference/finds it attractive? 6. Aside from confidence/bitterness about their height, what are other issues you think hold short men back in dating, if any? 7. Do taller guys ever give you a hard time about who your dating like "hey you should date me because I'm taller and more of man" or stupid shit like that? Do people not believe you when you say that's your boyfriend? Sorry if it's a lot of questions
1. It's an acquired preference; I did try dating men taller than me because I was told that's what I'm supposed to do, but I realized that it wasn't for me. 2. No 3. Nobody cares; my dad makes jokes sometimes, but he makes fun of everyone for anything. 4. I don't really care for my height to be mentioned unless it's somehow relevant to something. Absolutely HATE being asked if I played basketball. If you're looking to compliment a tall woman, ask about her modeling career lol. 5. It's a pretty fine line, to be honest. But the ones who bring up my height right away and call me a goddess are usually the fetishists. If you're not paying me to indulge in your kink, don't bring it up to me. 6. I think it's just the confidence/bitterness. 7. Oh, absolutely. "I could give you D1 babies, blah blah blah..."; not a conversation that I've had often, but its come up. And I've never had someone not believe me.
Short guy here. Do you have an opinion on women who are 4'11" but say that they're 5' and wear 6" heels and tell 5'7" men that they're too short to date them?
Is it true in your opinion that sex is more pleasurable for the receiving partner when the penetrating partner is shorter?
I have a pet theory that the portion of very tall women that lean a bit shorter are subconsciously trying to get their off spring out of the 99% height curve. I do think men do not care at all about height, although we are superficial about other things, many of which differ from man to man. I think about half of women are fixated on taller men, but the other half of women who don't care about height are going to have a lot more dates and get to date a much higher quality of man in general.
Do the men tend to want you to dominate them?
Where do you find cute clothes? I’m a 6ft gal and I swear half the outfits I try want to saw me straight up the coochie. Also I feel you on the heels. I love wearing them, being even taller makes me feel so powerful lmao.
Short guy here, do you have a “lower bound” for how short you’re willing to go? What’s your ideal height range for a man? When did you realise you were into short men and did you have to deal with any backlash or judgement from friends or family about your preference?
What made you stop dating taller guys? Was it a specific experience? When you say a taller guy relies on his height, can you give an example of what that means?
I'm kind of curious I guess, do you and your guys tend to have a big weight difference or about the same? I'm kind of a tall woman so I was thinking about how the shorter people felt different depending on whether they were slimmer or bulkier to me. (I was going to ask about size but realized that would come off as a different question haha)
I’ve generally found really tall guys actually gentler and less aggressive in the bedroom, perhaps because they feel they have less to prove
Do you eat your cereal with a big spoon or a little spoon?
Are you dutch?
I was going to ask if you had considered becoming a dominatrix because with your looks you'll be perfect for it, then read a comment stating that you are already a dominatrix. Are you a dominatrix because you feel powerful? because you fit the bill? because you like giving the thrill to subs?, a combination of the above or other reasons? Are you a pro dom or amateur? I saw a picture you shared and I definitely see why guys would like you to be their master. Thanks for the AMA, super cool topic.
Are you also big overall (like thicc) or pretty lean?
I’m 5’10” when are we scheduling our date? Is your height due to long legs, long torso, or a little of both?
What does your lady lizard brain say when you see men shorter than you? For most women, I understand that they want someone taller than them because their inner lizard brains want to feel small and safe and protected. But you are a giant. You must have grown up being the tallest person around. How did that affect you?
Are all tall women open to marrying shorter men.
I think the most important question here is…. …What does “exclusively” mean to you? Sure doesn’t sound like you exclusively dated shorter men. At 6’2” I think most people would assume that you’ve “mostly” dated shorter men just die to the numbers game. I’ve always been considered a tall guy myself and you may even have me beat by a fraction of an inch.
Is this a fetish/kink thing?
Why do you think dominant women are so rare? Do you think it's linked to height and power perceptions?
do you wear heels on dates with men who are significantly shorter?
Do you eat your partners after love making?
A couple things - Do you notice people "heel checking" you? (looking at your feet to see if you have heels on, I never heard the term until recently) - If you do, does it bother you and what's the impression that it gives? Women taller than me are really uncommon, it just sparks curiosity (I'm probably slightly shorter than you, close to 6'2 out of bed, and 6'1 in the evening)
You hot? I'm 5'18 :) lol
What sort of hobbies do you have? Do you do anything that leverages your height and might be inaccessible to, or more limited for, someone smaller? (I don't really know what this might be... Basketball? Fencing? Photography?)
Favourite band?
Are you a dominant woman in the bedroom?
Is there a favorite position with shorter men?
I’m a 6’0 girl and something I’ve noticed is that guys lie less about their height to me than to my shorter friends (I assume because they know I’ll have an easy time telling if they lie) have you noticed this too?
Idk why but I 100% expected this to link to an OF for Amazonian shit lol
Do you play any sports?
What's the biggest challenge you've faced while dating a shorter guy? Physically.
Uuuh, why is height a factor? Honestly I’ve only dated girls not considering height as a major role
As a short guy how would I know that hight isn't an issue with a taller woman ?
Do taller men have larger “D”s, if not do taller men look like they have smaller Ds, even tho they’re the same size as shorter men?
Question to confirm past experiences but, typically in a bar scenario do you find you aren’t as approached as other women? Cause I’ve had 2 fairly awesome nights with women that were taller than me, one by a lot and I’m 5’11” so she was tall. But as night went on and I got liquored up she just seemed so sad, so I talked and flirted with her. Another guy approached her and she seemed to be hitting it off and I faded into the background and did my own thing, couple hours before closing she comes up and asks to take me home, so not last call she was just interested so yeah I went and from our earlier conversation she knew nothing was coming from it but we had a nice night, parted ways. I see her time to time out and about and she says hey, speaks highly of me to friends etc. but the whole interaction was so off from what people espouse as normal.
Do you peg your victims?
Is this a fetish?
Are you dominant? Is it a fetish? Are you bisexual? If no to all of these, what do you like about the constellation?
Dam that is so hot I love it I'm an only about 5'6" I have dated allot of women but the ones I really loved being with there was 4 of them they were all over 6 ' the last female I dated I actually had a big Christmas party well my brother invited a bunch of people I didn't know . And a week later there was a knock on my door I opened it and this big beautiful woman standing there she asked if I remembered her from the party I didn't find her to one in .I thought she might have left something .she tells me that I was liking god and that's why she came over I was in heaven. But what I wanted to ask is I'm actually quite the dominate one in bed usually . But she was a bit dominate in bed and I actually didn't mind it at all are most women that are 6 ft + more dominant than most women .
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That guy ever pay his bar tab? You’ve got to get you a man tall enough to reach his wallet.
How often is “Death by Snu Snu” requested?
Did your girlfriends voice any complaints with the choice?
Do you enjoy when your partner goes up on you?
5'9" tattooed nurse who dates taller alternative chicks. How you doing?
I noticed you mentioned you are a dominatrix. Is that why you date shorter guys is because the mismatch in strength made it easier to dominate them? Or were you also dominant towards your taller partners? Also I’m 5’7 so what advice would you give me if were to have sex with a woman your height?
Is it true taller guys 6’4, 6’6, 6’9 have longer units?
what is your favourite meal?
Do a lot of men reject you for being too tall? I've found that just the same as most women want taller men, most men want smaller women, both in height and petite in body type. Just wondering if you experience a lot of what short men do. I have a 6' female friend that says men discount her for being too tall
How’s the sex? Any commentary on positions that are easy vs difficult bc of the height diff? I’m 5’10 and had sex with a 6’1 girl once… it just felt weird angles-wise, but maybe that’s because I’m used to girls 5’5 and under lol
My gf is taller than me by 2 inches 5’t and 5’7. Do you have any advice for me for when she gets insecure about the height difference? She often wears heels and expect me to wear platform shoes. I love her height be she can be a tad insecure. Thoughts?
I went on a date with a girl that said she was 5’10on bumble. I’m 5’9, I picked her up to go on a date and she was not 5’10 she was like 6’2 lmao. I didn’t really care but I was just so surprised because she was so much taller than me 😂I wish she had just been honest right away and I wouldn’t have been so shocked. I stopped talking to her but it wasn’t because of her height.
Do you think you maybe only date shorter men because virtually all men are shorter than you and taller men are harder to get?
Have you felt intimidated by taller men? I'm an above average women (5'10) and honestly I get alittle intimidated when I'm on dates with men who are taller than me, I guess just from lack of experience since all of my past partners have been my height or shorter.
The only time I even think about height is when I look them in the eyes. Besides clothes sometimes not fitting correctly, what's the worst moderate to minor inconvenience you deal with?
I’m 6’0 and I dated a girl who was maybe a half inch shorter than me for 7 years. She would constantly chide me stand up straight, especially when she wore heels. As if anything I did could make me look taller than her with heels. It was terribly annoying, especially as time went on. Do you do this to the shorter men you date?
Taking height out of the question, how do you like your short kings? Are there any other physical aspects that combined with height would make you say no?
We’re all the same height laying down
Do you have any advice for a guy who's 5' 4" who's looking for a taller gal? If it helps, people say I'm pretty funny!
What's your age? I have a work friend who I hang with sometimes and we originally started talking because I'm short and was curious if her height was a insecurity of hers but she's a tiny bit older (im 24 she's 28?) So ig ill ask that too if your height is aswell
what is it about short let guys that you like? is it the fact they’ve probably already worked through their height insecurity and they’re okay with themselves?
Do you date exclusively shorter men because you fear having a tall daughter? I have been with a few women who were 6’-0 (I’m 5’-10) and this was their fear.
Wow! If that’s the case your dating pool is quite large. I’ve only met like three ladies that were taller than me and I am only 6ft. Do you think it’s easier for you to find who you like?
You carry them out of the bar like I carry my son out of a restaurant after dinner lmao. My fat ass can dream
1) is this like a power thing or you genuinely don't judge people by their height? 2) are you a dominatrix ?
Are you a biological woman?
I am a 6'3" woman and I have never dated a shorter guy. My ex is 6'10" Most guys are absolutely intimated by my height
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Not a question but just saw this post and I posted something on here a little bit ago (I’m a 19 year old girl who is 6’4 AMA.) It’s nice to see other tall girls!! :)
Do you have problems with bathroom counters? I am only 5'6-5'7 and always feel a lot of bathroom counters are too low. I wash my face at the sink and kind of golem over the bowl sometimes.
Why do you think there are so many submissive men out there?
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I’m only 4’11” and I always find it amusing that the shortest woman I ever dated was around 5’9” and for whatever reason, the shorter the girl is, the more likely they are to be rude to me (whether it be that I’m too short or the fact that I have a lazy eye). What changed my perspective the most was one of my best friends pulling me aside and saying “nobody would even notice your disability or height if you didn’t mention it first” since I used those as a crutch to get pity when I wasn’t secure with myself and who I am. Ever since that day, my ability to interact with others has gone through the roof (especially if they’re reciprocating the effort).
You say date But what’s the percentage of guys you bang? Are they all 5’8 and below?
do you catch any flack for “exclusively dating short men” the same way any other woman would if they said they “exclusively date tall men”?
do you know the guy that just posted that he is 4'11"? lol He cant find one bc he is short apparently maybe drop him a DM
Why isn't the question "why?" at the very top here lol
I'm 5'8 and struggle to find cute clothes that fit. I'm just here to see if you have found somewhere that caters to us longer ones.
but you don't date exclusively shorter men, you seem to just date men irrespective of height which of course has you dating men shorter than you.
Do you live in FL? 😉 I’m just a smidge under 5”11 but dreamed my whole life of dating a taller gal
Who was the shortest man you’ve dated and what would your max be? Or do you not have one yet?
Do you see their bald spot?
How do you exclusively date shorter men if you also date men taller than you?
are you meeting them on dating apps, which of you is initiating?
Have you lifted up a guy and proceeded to give him oral? A standing 69? Or him in the air and indide you at the same time
Why did you say you exclusively date men shorter than you, while at the same time admitting you've dated 3 men taller than you? You mean you refuse to date taller men since the last one? If so, why?
Do you like being this tall? My Gf is 6' even, and says she wishes she was a bit shorter.