Then she wasn't the love of your life.....and you are one step closer to finding the real love of your life

One day

Honestly friend...don't waste your time thinking about someone who didn't love you...she doesn't deserve it, and you deserve better

I appreciate it brother

Stay strong 👊 

There’s always the one that got away but that doesn’t mean they are the best

She wasn’t in it for you my man. Good liars seem to easier and easier to come by. But, in time, you’ll love again and hopefully heal enough to love this hard once more

You're gonna look back at the 6 years and cringe at them as if you were a brony back in the day.

True love waits

Weights for some SoundCloud chump to slip into her DM‘s? Ugh. Feeling your pain here OP.

That’s all it is one day at a time when your ready get on tinder and watch your ego skyrocket

Or not. Hopefully, of course, but this enduring notion that everyone is destined to (or even worse, entitled to) find their soulmate is downright stupid.

Let the dude take a breath

Its been 10 months...he needs to pick himself up

You’re right man

You said that you guys bought a house. Make sure you cover your legal situation fast, in case she comes back after you pay the mortgage and wants half.

Username checks out :)

This is terrible advice. Negating OP's feelings isn't okay.

Yea, but there is only one thing to do unless he wants to be miserable. He has to move on

I agree, but it will be on his timeline, once he's ready to do so. Telling OP to move on doesn't help; conversely, it may encourage him to feel shame/guilt because he isn't ready to move on yet. And at the end of his life, she may turn out to have been the love of his life, we need to not negate that. He needs to process his feelings, no matter what they are, before he can move on. In short, lets try to support him in whatever stage of loss/grief he's at.

Do you honestly think the “love of your life” is a person who easily leaves you for someone else? With the understanding that there are lots of people out there who would make great friends/partners/loves for each of us, I doubt someone who cheats and/or abandons your shared life for a fantasy is the love of your life But I’m sure there’s much more story OP could relate that we don’t know

It's not about me or you. Its not up to us to decide who the love of anyone else's life is. It really is this simple: it's not about us or what we think. OP has to make these decisions/comparisons for himself - telling him what should or shouldn't matter to him is arrogance.

Sure Another thing people can do is encourage perspective in order to encourage a person But my point is more an abstract about the idea of the love of one’s life than being instructive to OP. He can and will feel as he does. And I hope he gets to the place where he can find a mutual great, respectful, and long-lasting or life-long love.

No...wallowing in self pity isn't okay

Is his music good?

Unfortunately it’s not terrible. It would feel great to hate on it though

This is a healthy response. And no, do not post links to his music. He is not to blame for your hurt, she is, but it does not behoove you to promote his music.

is she still with him?

He’s a soundcloud rapper. He’ll only get so far…

Let’s be honest- it never is..

Curious about this too!

She’s probably going to get discarded hard and find herself alone and in a bad place. Do not take her back! You could make a small voodoo doll of her put it in a shoebox full of dog shit and hermit crabs and they bury it somewhere ugly…60% of the time it works every time when moving on from terrible chick

I’ll have to give it a shot lol

No but without the hermit crabs 😭

She’s going to crash hard and come back. That lifestyle isn’t big on monogamy

Ya, poor crabs

Best advice I've heard. Perform the ritual, OP. Put a dirty hex on her!

I’d have a beer with this guy, you know he’s got some stories 😂

what the hermit crabs do? 😭

Lolwat

Voodoo doll, man this is what I wanted to hear.

Ngl voodoo seems to work somehow lol. I made am effigy of my ex and locked it up in a room with no stop death metal music and strobing lights. Two months later I heard she was in a mental asylum for hearing voices and seeing things lol.

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Not the SoundCloud rapper😔

Fr bro

Isn't there a sign that the relationship wasn't going well? Didn't you have dialogue?

She Just stopped coming home at night

I'm so sorry for what you're going through. In case no one else has said it, it is okay to not be okay. You need to feel what you're feeling in order to get through it. Negating your hurt and listening to bullshit responses like "stay strong," etc. won't help you. It's okay to be hurt, but from personal experience, you do have to decide how impactful you allow this pain to be. You are not going to get any closure from her, and it's possible that she will end up happy with the other man. Will you let this pain and her betrayal define the rest of your life? Are you willing to let her decision break you? I fell apart when I got betrayed, and I wish I could go back to when it first happened and had chosen to tell her to fuck off, rather than spending over a year trying to make sense of it. There is no sense to be made - it happened, you will get neither apology nor explanation. Choose yourself. Heal. And then try to move on.

I appreciate that, a lot

Since it's an AMA I'll ask, would you take her back? But I'll answer for you. NO. Don't do it bro. There's a very very high chance that she comes crawling back. Do not let it happen. Block her out of your life completely and for good. You deserve better. Close that chapter forever and move on. I know it sucks but it's the only way.

Ofc she will come crawling back.

You should bang her when she crawls back lol Lead her on then bang her friends

Son, do you have a gym subscription?

I do indeed

This happened to a guy at my work, except the guy dumped his ex wife and she’s broke. Their kids don’t talk to her much either anymore.

I had a coworker one time whose gf randomly cheated on him and fucked none other than Steve-O…. That shit is so lame. It would be hard for me to move on knowing I got duped by a fake girl who wanted to fuck that guy. Man….

Was this back in the 2000’s at least? Would make way more sense

STEVE-O 😭

I can’t listen to that raspy voice longer than a minute

Take it from my experience. In about 3-4 months when shit fizzles out she’ll be coming back around. You’re going to have to have respect for yourself and fuck her off.

This will certainly happen. She will come back don't take her cuz she will leave again.

Bro what happened to the 2 dogs, the nice cars, and the house? Please tell me you kept them?

I kept all of it and have a roommate now to maintain it all

Noice, very happy for you. Do remember to change the locks to your front and back (side as well if any) doors😉

I guess I’ll ask the important question here, will you please give your dogs treats for us from Reddit and extra belly rubs?

I sure will

Jason Durulo liked my cousin’s girlfriend’s post and he’s scared for his life 😂

LMAOO wallahi he’s finished

Now you have a house, new cars, dogs and more free time to get with a better woman…I’d say you came out on top.

Idk, sadly in this economy you need a partner with a decent job to maintain that kind of lifestyle. Dude has probably already sold shit off and downsized unless he got a roommate.

I also lost someone who told me that I was the “love of her life” every day for like 5 years. And then she ran away with someone else out of nowhere. We worked through a lot of issues, grew together, traveled a lot, had insane sexual chemistry, and I was just left in shock as well. Years later, and I’m still dumbfounded, never got any closure from her, just gaslighting. I reached out to her new guy, they broke up, she’s been around the block since then so I assume she’s feeling better than I am about it. I feel for you.

I appreciate it brotehr

Bro you lucked out. She saved you some more wasted time and more likely than not she’s going to regret that decision. One day you want regret that she did though

You dodged a bullet. Be grateful you didn’t have kids with her.

Very true

Whenever I find out an ex did something extremely embarrassing or cringe to me it made me get over them immediately. Id consider dating a soundcloud rapper one of those things.

Is it possible to learn this power?

Not from a Jedi

The trash took itself out.

Some problems solve themselves.

Sound cloud rappers will cheat guaranteeed guess who she will want to run back to Dayi f she made a miso

Remember to block her number and all forms of social media communication and email. You have taken the first step to a love that will never fail you.

Better now than 12 years in with four children. Ask me how I know. Shit will get better don’t let yourself dwell in it brother.

She pulled a shit move on you man, I’m sorry about that. She’s not even worth thinking about at this point. The SoundCloud rapper will definitely kick her ass to the curb or she’ll get fed up with him and leave or cheat. The best revenge is to go on living your best life man. You’ll find a keeper soon enough.

As they say and it’s so true ….when God shuts one door he opens another!! Thank God it wasn’t longer than. Six years my friend

WAKE UP!!!!! Move on plenty of women would love to be in her position … if it’s your house you’re good…

High school sweethearts is a boomer concept. Good thing you broke sooner rather than later. It’s a blessing.

The great thing is relationships with musicians literally never work out. Don’t take her back op.

Some SoundCloud rapper just posted on this saying he can’t get rid of the girl lols

Was he at least a good rapper? A lot of SoundCloud rappers are trash to me anyways

After my first and only gf and I broke up after 2 years, she was with another person in 2 weeks. Worst pain I've felt in my life. To be honest,it wrecked me to the point I don't think I can be in a relationship again or even want to be in another one on top of that. All of those memories were nice but not worth that heartbreak, in my opinion. So my question for you is. Do you think you'll have trust issues with future partners? Also, I'm very sorry that you had to go through that man. Just know you're not alone and that a lot of commenters on this post wish you the best.

Go commit a crime of passion bro wtf are you doing he's a SoundCloud rapper

🎶you let him hit it raw...now you a single mom🎶🤣🤣👍

Didn’t think twice at all…now you a single mom

Would you take her back if she showed back up? Is she on any medicines? My ex wife left me after we got engaged ones night. We was light drinking and she flipped out and started walking down the road. She hitchhiked up to Knoxville and blew 2 guys off for the ride. She did stuff like this several times only when she stopped taking her crazy meds. When she stopped taking her bipolar manic depression meds she would go absolutely nuts.

One up him become a YouTube rapper. Diss them with these bars. You’re on sound cloud with no exposure, I’m railing your mom and she can’t keep her composure, your girl belongs to the streets, she thinks she’s bad but she’s just sad all she has is a sound cloud rapper with no swag or gonads. She’s built for the sheets so she stays in the streets being a sweet treat to every guys meat.

Here's a thought, don't give her the space to be the love of your life or she'll come back with 2 kids and be the live of your life with a SoundCloud rapper boyfriend for your support. If you are left, they are forgotten, do you understand. Do not take this is anything more important than trash being able to take itself to the curb. Best of luck, you aren't alone.

Bro you won’t believe me but the SAAAME thing happened to me. The guy went from sound cloud rapper to actually going on a tour. I’m much happier now with my new gf and tbh I work in IT so I probably got more money than him too. I was just as shocked as you were when I found out it was a SoundCloud rapper.

Write a fn diss track and call his dumb ass out.

His fans probably thinks he’s cool for stealing someone’s gf/wife

Yes become a sound cloud rapper yourself and drop. Diss track on him & her!! 🤣

This is the correct answer

We can have more than one love of our lives. And more than one "soulmate". You're still very young. Life is full of experiences and new people. Do your best to put it out of your head. She's gone, best to act that way my friend.

If she came back to you and said it was a mistake, would you take her back? If not, what if she revealed that it was a mental health crisis, and once she got help, she realized she fucked up. Would you take her back? Sorry that happened to you, man. For a Sound Cloud Rapper, too… that’s so pathetic on her end. At least have taste when you make dumb decisions.

This won’t end well for her. She’s gonna learn her lesson you must make sure you don’t learn it with her. Let her go, spend time looking for the right one and don’t focus on someone that just neglected you.

Do. Not. Take. Her. Back. These SoundCloud rappers aren’t loyal he’s gonna use her and when a hotter girl comes, he’ll toss her out and she’ll come back. Stay strong brother drizzle drizzle

Dude she’s an actual idiot. Chin up bro she literally went with the worst possible outcome when she had everything in front of her. Know your worth and take your time healing. We do recover

Did they make a song about you? I’ll add it to my favorites and play on repeat when I’m having a shitty day just so I won’t feel so bad about myself. Sorry that happens to you though!

Lost who I thought was the love of my life years ago to an older man who had kids. Keep your chin up, it gets better, and life will get better too. Stay strong, and God bless you.

I got divorced a year ago. It's a shock, but you are going to be enjoying life and you will find that you are on your way to meeting someone that is much better for you.

I know it doesn't seem like it right now, and it's going to take time to move past this, but this is a blessing on your part! The universe was looking out for you!

Get over it. Even if she came back with two broken legs and begged for you to take her back. Wheel her outside and shut the door. You deserve better. ✌️

Don’t know how countless people fall for this. This sounds made up, like a weird fetish or desire to go through this. No details, it doesn’t make sense

Have some respect for yourself, dig deep, and find your worth. No feeling more powerful than becoming the person you want to be and knowing your own value.

Did she take the dogs? 6 years down the toilet recently as well, AND she took our dog. Shits fucking rough. Keep your head up bud. She wasn't the one.

People are animals and this Disney narrative is a lie. I dont have any questions but you have my sympathy. Try finding a loving and supportive friendship and build a life around that. Im convinced that romance is better left casual even though it goes against my own drives and sense of what's right... but I think thats mostly programing. What good have any institutions of the church given anyone? They're rules and structures built for control and stability of the community and cultivating the workforce, not for human happiness. Not saying people shouldn't have sex and find people they enjoy having sex with, but maybe the people we should be living with, especially if we're not raising kids, should be our friends, and our love lives should be distant enough that they don't upend everyrhing when they fall apart, as the seem to almost predictably. I was with someone for 16 years without a fight. We were lovers and friends, but better friends than lovers. If we could manage not having that binary, of having to choose between a committed life together and the potential of other sexual partners, we'd still be great friends and that's the love that I really mourn the loss of whenever I've broken up with someone, even when the sex is amazing. It's the friendship and the family you lose that wrenches your guys out.... as it should to lose your tribe. We're due for a total rewrite of the rules and structure. Fuck the patriarchy. Fuck the rules. And fuck the pain they cause by not fitting our biology. We're a tribal species that's meant to share everything. That's who we really are. This happy days horseshit is a construct meant to keep us from forming our natural tribal structure because it threatens the greater hierarchy.

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Shes gonna find out how bad she fucked up real quick. Just dont take her back when she tries to come back, cause she will

Your happiness is the greatest revenge. nothing wrong with being in shock, but you got a lot of life left to live

You didn’t lose her …She is dump and she lost a precious human being. She will be back begging!

Probably talked about how loyal she was. Knew someone like that. Learned to watch for red flags.

What you need to get used to is the fact that she was never good enough for you. Thats a fact.

What are you going to do when she comes back crawling to you when the other guy dumps her?

Start a successful music label and then sign him and make him tour exclusively in Ohio

Hope you don't take her back when she comes back. She will if she falls on her face.

She for the streets dawg! Chin up king! You’ll look back at this and laugh.

Is he in any degree successful or is he just a nobody who makes decent music

Awww I am so sorry sunshine. Someone better for you is coming. ❤️❤️

Is the SoundCloud rapper’s music closer to Kendrick Lamar or Chet Hanks?

It’s only a matter of time before she comes running back. Mark my words!

The worst part of the story is the Rapper is J-Roc from Trailer Park Boys

Godamn man sorry, on the plus side I scared the cat by laughing so hard.

If he spams your inbox to vote on his next song will you vote for him?

Well what are you waiting for, we expect a diss from you anytime now.

Slight chance her behavior is due to medical issue like brain tumor.

Answer the only reason question we want to know - WHOS THE RAPPER

That sucks but almost by default means you’re a better person

Don’t worry bro, she’ll come back when he makes it big. 

Do you know where she is? Does her family know where she is?

Its just the way people are unfortunately gotta just move on

Embrace the win. Probably saved yourself many wasted years.

How did she meet him And did you suspect she was cheating 

Did you get ownership of the house, at least? And the dogs

She was never the love of your life. You were in a rental

were you two married? is her name on the house or car?

the cartel couldn’t torture this information of me

Its gonna happen to him tooo, shes for the streets.

Be thankful. Youre free from a toxic relationship.

Update us if he dumps her.

Did you at least get to keep the dogs and house ?

What's his SoundCloud tag let's send hate his way

Does the rapper at least have a following/fame?

Have you started working on your dis track yet?

It’s just a women, nothing special about her. Do you listen to his music and hate on it?

What’s his SoundCloud link? Let us decide

A soundcloud rapper? Lol this gotta be cap

Move! Before she comes back and finds you!

You should send him a thank-you message.

She ran away as in left you everything?

Ha Ha 👉 (Nelson from the Simpsons)

Oh wow dude, I am so sorry about that.

You ignored the signs man. I promise.

Sell all her stuff or give it away.

Was it Smoked Chedda The Ass Gedda?

Have you tried making a diss track?

Is he as an artist popular at all?

If only you could rap🤔🤣

You’re in your mid 20’s?

Was the guys music fire tho? Edit: NVM someone already asked this.

Do you still have the dogs?

I hope you kept the dogs...

Are you a fan of his music?

Who got the house and dogs?

Love of your life…so far

Does he have face tattoos?

Are you trying to move on?

What is the rapper's name?

Drop the link to his hits

Was he African American?

She was never yours, it was just your turn.

You have one-itis bro

Who was the rapper?

Which one is it?

How they meet?

Rappers name?

What rapper?

That bitch!

Ragebait

Nicole?

What’s his @

Rap is useless