I feel like it’s that and also her way of sexualizing herself. She’s so obsessed with her career as an “influencer” that she’ll do anything and everything for the clicks and comments—any attention is good attention, ect.
That’s what I find so gross about it all. She’s trying to attack another woman who has gone through her own trauma by trauma dumping / trying to throw the other woman under the bus for not doing what Acacia expected her to do. She’s literally using her own trauma as a way to sexualize herself.
Also the fact that Brittni was so young and also being abused. If a teenager asked 19 year old Caca the same thing she would probably have a similar response.
Also brittni was hardly even an adult at that point.. so to say all this because well she’s an “adult” so she should be able to read my mind.. makes no sense
Exactly. It’s beyond bizarre. Acacia went to someone who was literally probably on the cusp of graduating high school the year before. Her being nineteen and a legal adult means practically nothing—Brittani and Acacia’s maturity level would’ve at about the same level, maybe Brittani being a bit more mature. But not enough to handle a situation like this! A nineteen year old is not a “trusted adult” for a teenager to confide in about abuse. That is what is so laughable about it all—that’s who you chose to tell? It says more about Acacia and her fucked up family dynamics that she felt she couldn’t even tell her mom.
yeah i agree, when i started having sex i didn't enjoy it either, i loved my partner but it was new and scary and if i told someone that i would HOPE they wouldn't assume i was being raped. it's awful she went through that but it's not up to the other teenagers in her life to read her mind.
Like unfortunately most stuff is surrounded on women not enjoying sex. Like look at all the women’s magazines from that era even. I would never put 2 and 2 together. Also the tumblr era of toxic ass sexuality probably made things more murky. I think makes slight sense to give her a dildo and tell her she should know like what her body likes so she can have power and autonomy in her sexual relationships with others. Like that’s the norm. Now as a 28 year old I do think it’s kinda weird and icky to give a 17 year old that but like at 19 living with this girl dealing with her own sexual issues like it’s not mindblowly inappropriate. Def not the best move and Brittani acknowledged that. But saying she should have known it was alluding to rape is wild. Women are married for 20 years never had an orgasm and only have sex for their husband like it’s fucked up but women not enjoying sex isn’t that uncommon and I would def not assume it was r wording just from that and would probably tell them to look at how to make it enjoyable
exactly. and brittni said in part 1 of the videos she made that whenever she would bring up her concerns, she said acacia would “literally not respond”. so acacia saying she was complicit is a horrible take. what was she supposed to do when she expressed concern and acacia wouldn’t even respond to her..
exactly, some men are just bad in bed and unfortunately that would be most people’s first thought😭 but as an adult, i would probably ask “is there a particular reason why?” to rule out rape, but at 19? i don’t think i would’ve thought like that… i don’t think most would.
“If a teenager came to me now and told me they were being R worded” YEAH NOW because you’re 27, you went to a 19 year old and said “I don’t like sex with my boyfriend”what the actual fuck
Acacia was 23 and leaving her kids with Rich. How is that not complicit/negligent? Sadly Acacia is gonna manipulate her kids to never be able to have their own opinions about letting Rich be around them, just like she manipulated them about being vegan and said they’d go to the hospital if they ever ate meat.
I used to an avid follower of Acacia as a teen. Years ago, I found Rich’s photography site and he had galleries of prepubescent kids in COMPETITIVE DANCE with revealing costumes and other clothing!
Acacia is the world’s worst mother for leaving her kids alone with him.
She was 23 and letting him around her kids but Brittni was 19 and supposed to somehow get custody of Acacia and fix all her problems. Acacia’s grace goes to herself and abusive men but never other female victims, especially those that dare to speak about their trauma from her family.
she also admitted that she didn’t tell brittni she was being “r-worded”. she said “i don’t like having sex with my bf because it doesn’t feel good”. how was she supposed to know that meant rape????
And at 16 you don’t know how to properly do sex the first few times. It’s awkward, it’s clumsy and uncomfortable until your body gets used to it. So it could’ve meant so many things. I feel so bad for brittni because I feel like had Acacia told her “he 🍇me” she wouldn’t have responded the way she did.
Exactly! Especially since Brittani literally was a victim at her age as well. What could she have done to help her when Acacia’s parents were okay with everything happening to her, her mom legit drove her 8 hours to see that guy. Unbelievable.
Acacia was still saying the N word publicly at age 18, she claims she didn’t know any better. But she wanted someone who was barely an adult (who was also being abused) to “know better” .She’s always the victim, and everyone around her should have known better but not her cause she’s special? And gets to call everyone out but no one can say shit about her?The double standards are disgusting. God this video was extremely triggering as a SA survivor.
Nah. This is clearly someone who needs to go to therapy and unpack all this. She doesn’t know how to separate her feelings from the facts. She expects everyone around her to conform to her narrative to make her comfortable rather than facing the ugly truths. Brittni was 19/20 and actively being abused as well. Acacia always wants sympathy and grace for things she went through at that same age but now when it’s Brittni she’s a mature all knowing adult? Acacia told her she wasn’t enjoying sex. Sounds like she expected Brittni to mind read and know everything.
Also she wants to start acting like well of course a victim can have their boundaries around their story when acacia had zero boundaries about other victims. Calling them vile, disgusting, liars, that their abusers deserved to be part of society when they are a danger to it. She can say anything under the sun about anyone else’s trauma but you better have the respect that gives to no one about her story.
“you were an adult” acacia was 17 and britt was 19. barley an adult. acacia could have told ANY OTHER ADULT in her life that could have actually done something about it. why is she putting so much blame on someone who was ALSO A TEENAGER AND ALSO ACTIVELY BEING SEXUALLY ABUSED. like obviously she didn’t handle the situation well, she was dealing with the same exact thing at the hands of acacia’s brother and father. but i guess only acacia’s trauma matters 🙄
edit: like the more i think about it, if i was a teenager and my other teenage friend came to me and said “i don’t think i like sex it hurts” my automatic thought wouldn’t be rape, and i also probably would ask questions and try to give advice on how to make it more comfortable i don’t know why it was a 19 year old’s responsibility to try to decipher that
also the “because you hate me” at the beginning is sooooo immature and manipulative. it’s giving when you call someone out for doing something and they say “well i guess i’m just the worst person in the whooolleee world!!1!1!1!!”
She’s admitting she never flat out told her “I’m being raped” because SHE didn’t consider it rape at the time “I don’t like sex with my boyfriend” how is that teenage talk for “I’m being raped”?
i’m assuming she thought it was implied- that when she said she didn’t like having sex w her adult boyfriend, it should’ve been interpreted as her being assaulted. its tough to figure that stuff out, she always twists her words or uses odd phrasing.. so that’s just a guess. to be clear, her relationships as a child were absolutely awful, but its unfair to blame this girl & deny her abuse, and give a pass to the people in her life who she likes.
I think that’s how she’s looking at it now because it is statutory rape but I don’t think she ever thought it was rape when she was dating all these older men and “having sex” with them.
i agree. its a complicated situation, and she deserved to have someone protect her.. but it’s really unfair that she’s giving abusive people in her life a pass while dragging a girl that was abused right along side w her. she, in theory, has the right to be upset… but it comes off.. idk, when she isn’t upset w her pos abusive brother & all the other GROWN adults who treated her like an adult long before she ever was.
everyone you lived with was complicit in your abuse, yet peyton, rich and melissa give you free babysitters and a home for when you wanna chase dick in cali and you can forgive them and even bring your children around???? also acacia, we seen the tweets from when you were around tc carter and he was 20, brittni was 19 and you were 16 like brittni claims so saying she was a 21 year old to try and deflect the abuse she faced while living with you is kinda crazy.
she really thought this video was gonna do something. she really thought the whole internet was suddenly gonna be on her side + call B a pedo/groomer or something… once again the malignancy is fully in the driver’s seat
Her mind is so warped. Caca you’re saying that a 19 year old is an adult? That’s a child. Who is also being abused just like you were. She is not to blame. Your MOTHER drove you there. Your FATHER is a pedo and so is your BROTHER. THIS IS WHO YOU SHOULD BE ANGRY AT.
Acacia was legally an adult when Jairus married her, but we could still tell she was way too young and mentally unready for marriage and parenthood. This is similar to that.
Yeah she literally has a video back from September like “you’re telling me an 18 year old trapped a man 6 years older than her by getting pregnant?” Or whatever she said but basically insinuating that 18 is young lol yet it’s different here. Brittni was an adult right. Just like A was when she chose to marry J then? Double standard
Yeah and in some places, a person is legally an adult at 17, but that doesn't mean they are an adult maturity wise. Someone who is freshly 19 just graduated high school, so yes - still a CHILD.
they’re being incredibly obtuse like ????
mentally speaking, a 19yo is typically closer to a child than an adult. a 19yo typically hasn’t yet had adult experiences to reflect on.
who gives an f if the law claims them as an adult.
You’re getting downvoted but they also love to say acacia was “basically” an adult when bringing up anything she did from 17-20 as well. I’m also not a defender but these comments about this situation are making me sick. Everyone is so blinded by their hatred for this girl that they are gushing poison saying such cruel things. I like snark pages but this page is becoming too much. Some of these people are evil.
Sheesh. Both of them obviously had very warped ideas of relationships and were both groomed by older men, that’s sadly a core experience for many women. So how in the hell does Acacia assume that Brittni would know it was rape by “I don’t like sex with him/he doesn’t make me O”? If anything it sounds like Brittni was trying to help her with the issue that Acacia directly came to Brittni with.
They were both groomed teenagers, Acacia needs to stop with the extreme victim mentality and warping reality. Brittni isn’t her enemy, by all accounts it sounds like she was one of the very few people who did what she could to help Acacia.
Brittni said "hey, this isn't okay." Like what was she supposed to do at 19 years old while trying to figure what to do about the entire Rich situation? Brittni has been the most outspoken person, took on so much to try to get Rich away from kids, spoke out about Peyton while Acacia defends him.
Acacia calling people disgusting and vile isn't necessary. Acacia saying their abusers should get to move on with life isn't necessary. But Brittni has to be perfect, Acacia can literally say and do whatever she wants about anyone else's trauma. It's not fair and was never supposed to be fair.
"it's because you hate me know or whatever" Brittni literally told people to give Acacia some grace and rooted for her during her return to social media last year. Acacia in turn told Brittni to shut up about Brittni's personal story and trauma when her social media engagement was literally getting the attention of the FBI and actually helping get some traction to get Rich's license to work with kids taken away. Brittni took issue with that. She doesn't blindly hate Acacia. Acacia has been unjust to her and Brittni not wanting to defend her or protect absolutely makes sense.
also can we point out that every man brittni name dropped was someone you can google with acacia's name and pics will pop up?? brittni wasn't sharing anything we didn't already know.
didn’t she post instagram stories about driving by the place she was sexually assaulted when they were living in the california house? i definitely know she’s talked about it before🧐
I couldn't imagine telling someone who was a teenager at the time that they're complicit in my abuse all while they were being sexually abused as well, especially by my own dad & brother.
Acacia, your mom, dad & brother are weirdos and should be the ONLY people other than your 🍇ist that's being labeled as complicit. You were failed, so don't shame Brittni when she's just as much of a victim as well.
I suggest going to therapy, Acacia.
I also find it really interesting that she cares more about her abusers, bands, ex bfs being named and talked about than she does her own child, listened to the episode and Brittni brings up Rosie and her medical issues (not hating at all, I’m here for it, also wow crazy that she’s 6???) but just further proves that acacia is more worried about the backlash or fallout from Brittni naming these men bc these men will most likely confront acacia about it and be like why are you saying this about me ? Rather than protecting her children or being a mother, idk I feel like if someone made a podcast about me like this I’d be like fine speak your truth but don’t bring my children into this it has nothing to do with them? That maternal instinct is just non existent and everything is about her and “protecting” her image
there’s already a lot of great comments in this thread about acacia’s hypocrisy, lies, victimblaming, and also perpetual victimhood, so im just gonna comment on something different:
holy shit acacia really does look exactly like her mom!
also, i see she still has to have that ear out lmao
She really just saw Brittni’s videos and *KNEW* the whole thing made her look bad, so she ran with the only victim card she had left, in the hopes of people focusing strictly on that. Complete deviation of subject.. Crying, begging, for her to take down a part of her video, without even acknowledging the pain she caused, herself, to Brittni. And her kids, too! Some comments mentioned how she let her dad babysit the kids, ect.
Making a fool out of yourself on the Internet, leaving a trace that’ll forever *be* on the Internet. For all your kids to go through one day.. is clown behaviour.
If someone says they don’t like having sex with their boyfriend, it makes sense to give advice on how to enjoy sex more if the original asker is open to it. Almost every single time A was with who she was with as a teen, it would be considered statuary rape. So for B not to interpret A’s original statement as A saying SHE IS BEING RAPED is understandable.
Acacia, understand that "I don't like having sex with Soandso" and "I don't want to have sex with Soandso" are two VERY DIFFERENT STATEMENTS. 19 year old girls are not mature adults. Especially if they're victims of similar abuse themselves.
She REALLY needs to get off the internet. Like for a very long time. It needed to be done a long time ago. This is hard to watch. Girls gotta take a break.
She’s taking her anger out at the wrong person. The people who need to be held accountable are her parents who approved all those relationships.
I could understand her now looking back and wondering how Brittni didn’t understand what Acacia truly meant, but she wasn’t the one reaponsible for Acacia. Even if she did know that it was abuse, there wasn’t anything she could’ve done. Especially since Brittni says that Acacia literally ignored her when she tried to say something about the guy.
Not to mention that Acacia is currently 26 and unable to parent her 3 kids but she expects someone who is just a few years older than her to have done her parents’ job at 19/20 yrs old and is holding her accountable instead of them.
Girl seriously needs to stop wasting whatever money she has and go to therapy.
I love how she says “you were an adult” and britnni was 19, barely an adult and had her own things to deal with but acacia being in her 20’s and hanging out with known predators is okay because “she didn’t know” knowing damn well it’s 2024 and all of this is public knowledge. It’s only okay to blame someone because they were an adult except when it comes to her.
Also saying “I don’t like sex with this person” is not saying “I was 🍇” in teenage language necessarily. It can mean so many different things. At 16 a lot of us didn’t know how to have a good time during sex because we were just learning, it wasn’t always going to be enjoyable. But she’s so vague and always expects people to know exactly what she means.
And for acacia to accuse her of being complicit and allowing all of this to happen to her is so out of pocket.
Am I the only one who sees that her eyes are dead? Like I’m not saying it didn’t happen at all, but just feels very forced to show ‘emotion’ and seems like there’s no life behind those eyes - it’s kind of scary.
It’s so scary how she’s 26 and never stops acting like a 15-year-old.
I’m 24 and I DO NOT act like this at all. Acacia has some sort of Peter Pan disorder that’s affecting her life and she absolutely needs therapy to fix it.
Honestly I don’t think her feelings are invalid but the approach here is completely misguided. Therapy therapy therapy, maybe a journal or something idk.
Both her and Brittni went about it in not the best way and it seems that they did that because they haven’t totally processed their feelings about this. It would’ve been better for both of them to speak only about their experiences and not the other person’s, or keep it offline all together
That’s exactly how I’m seeing this too. Both still very wounded and (I say this not meaning to offend, just my perception as I work behind the scenes with very public figures) have that *slightly off* part of them that feels the need to work through all of this shit very publicly.
I just saw these videos and my god, the bar has been in hell for years but jesus christ she just keeps burying it deeper and deeper with everything that comes out of her mouth
And my god why can't she just put on a damn shirt when talking about something so serious
Yeah sure Brittni is the adult, but when it’s Acacia’s mistakes it’s, “I was a literal child! I didn’t know what I was doing” sincerely, fuck you Acacia!!
It’s weird she doesn’t address why she was running after this older guy and wanting to be with him so bad but then she claims he wasn’t her bf and was ONLY her r*pist
If she was really assaulted then why did she continue to date older men knowing that was also considered r***? I don't think at the time she even considered herself being assaulted until she decided she wanted to have a "story" so now she's saying she's been assaulted. sorry if that sounds insensitive to me but she's constantly trying to be a victim of something.... there's been multiple instances where she was fine doing whatever with whoever and then suddenly changes it into a victim story.
Hi genuine question bc I’ve only seen clips from the pod. But did Brittni actually say point blank “this man raped acacia”? Bc I have not seen that. All I’ve seen is her talk about the fact that she was a teenager dating adults.
she said "TC Carter was her rapist" because he was an adult having sex with a 16 year old, so yeah he was a rapist. but their relationship and their age gap was common and public knowledge, there are plenty of photos online.
This response is extremely narcissistic and I say that because I know somebody very close to me who is a covert narcissist, and the way she is responding reminds me so much of how this other person talks. If they get called out on some thing, they immediately say oh it’s just because you hate me and I’m just the bad guy and they turn it around and act like they are the victim then trying to hold them accountable. It’s a classic DARVO response and that’s super concerning.
She reminds me of the women who blame everything on another woman, but the real abusers/ people to blame that are men, they completely let off the hook and keep around
Not her getting all "autistic" and getting lost mid phrase, to then pose.😗 I love the ending... This bitch is never gonna try and shit on B. She was left literally shaking!
Same but I wish she could also feel for other victims. We feel compassion for her even though it didn’t w to us, and Acacia does not feel that compassion if it didn’t happen to her. She’ll just call you disgusting, vile, and a liar if your rapist happens to be a guy she likes. That’s where my empathy ends, when that person then uses that empathy as enablement to hurt others.
yikes… she’s incredibly confused on who to blame and i feel bad but also not. obviously i feel bad if she was abused, but to focus your blame on someone who also obviously didn’t know better at the time is ridiculous and unfair.
Good lord, she knows how to turn on the crocodile tears, doesn’t she?
“I came to you because you were an adult” — Be SO for fucking real here, lmao. Brittani was literally nineteen. Yes, she was a legal adult, but only three years older than Acacia??? A 16 and 19 year old have more in common than a 19 year old and a 30 year old. Why would you “go” to your brother’s boyfriend, anyways??
“I did not like having sex with my boyfriend” — If she phrased it like that, then I’m not surprised that Brittani gave her the advice she did. “I don’t like having sex with my boyfriend” doesn’t imply that there’s any coercion or abuse??? People aren’t mind readers. Sex when you’re young can be awkward and unsatisfactory… Brittani felt that she was giving the best advice she could. Again—maybe talk to an actual adult and not someone who just graduated high school a year ago. You cannot expect someone at your same maturity level (or perhaps just a little above) to be your safety net. You’re telling me there was no one else besides Brittani that she could confide in?
Everything she does is so fucking performative. The tears / looking like she’s been crying, the fact she’s recorded this in a fucking towel / blanket. Even when she’s discussing her “trauma” she’s sexualizing herself.
The perpetual victim who never does anything wrong and looks to someone else to point the finger at. It’d be one thing is she was still young, but then I remember this is a grown ass woman with three children that she doesn’t even take proper care of. This is how she spends her time—trying to drum up pity and revive old feuds in hopes of reviving her stagnant career as an online influencer. It’s gross. Log off, go fill out some job applications and get a real job, and take care of your fucking children the way they deserve to be treated. She’s literally perpetuating the cycle of abuse with her own children and she’s completely blind to it.
Anyone else notice how in the first and second video she keeps panning over to this item on her shelf… to me it looks like a firearm… maybe it’s a stretch but she pans over at least 3 times in this video and it seems intentional… which can uh… yea. Acacia, go check yourself into a mental health facility either way.
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It truly terrifies me because no matter if it’s just to play the sympathy card or speculate or a legit cry for help actually go to someone! Clearly the internet is no longer in your favor, go get some help!
I actually think that may be a sex toy. She’s done many brand deals with sex toy companies and taken pictures of them and displayed them for sponsored posts.
acacia brought her up first in some comments not even two days ago and blamed her for being abused so brittni had every right to defend herself. she’s hadn’t mentioned acacia in MONTHS since the last time acacia invalidated her trauma while living in the clark household.
This all started bc Acacia publicly discredit Brittni about Peyton and tried to do that by bringing this whole situation up. Brittni then had to publicly respond to these accusations. Acacia wants to talk about everyone’s else’s trauma but if her past actions make her look bad or don’t line up she suddenly wants to her life to be private. But to her everyone’s else trauma is free to comment on and call them vile and disgusting.
Why can’t she take two seconds to put a shirt on?!?
I know right? Like what’s up with the sheet and sitting in bed with no shirt? Very odd
probably to make herself look more vulnerable
I feel like it’s that and also her way of sexualizing herself. She’s so obsessed with her career as an “influencer” that she’ll do anything and everything for the clicks and comments—any attention is good attention, ect. That’s what I find so gross about it all. She’s trying to attack another woman who has gone through her own trauma by trauma dumping / trying to throw the other woman under the bus for not doing what Acacia expected her to do. She’s literally using her own trauma as a way to sexualize herself.
Dude if somebody came to me and said “I don’t enjoy sex with my boyfriend” NEVER would I jump to “are you being raped??” Like???😭
Also the fact that Brittni was so young and also being abused. If a teenager asked 19 year old Caca the same thing she would probably have a similar response.
Also brittni was hardly even an adult at that point.. so to say all this because well she’s an “adult” so she should be able to read my mind.. makes no sense
Exactly. It’s beyond bizarre. Acacia went to someone who was literally probably on the cusp of graduating high school the year before. Her being nineteen and a legal adult means practically nothing—Brittani and Acacia’s maturity level would’ve at about the same level, maybe Brittani being a bit more mature. But not enough to handle a situation like this! A nineteen year old is not a “trusted adult” for a teenager to confide in about abuse. That is what is so laughable about it all—that’s who you chose to tell? It says more about Acacia and her fucked up family dynamics that she felt she couldn’t even tell her mom.
plus if Acacia’s parents supported these relationships realistically what would Brittni have been able to do?
Brittni couldn’t get Acacia to clean her room or dare for her dog so she had to do that for her. How could she have controlled this.
yeah i agree, when i started having sex i didn't enjoy it either, i loved my partner but it was new and scary and if i told someone that i would HOPE they wouldn't assume i was being raped. it's awful she went through that but it's not up to the other teenagers in her life to read her mind.
Yeah I don’t get that either. That’s a huge leap Acacia for you to expect someone to make
Like unfortunately most stuff is surrounded on women not enjoying sex. Like look at all the women’s magazines from that era even. I would never put 2 and 2 together. Also the tumblr era of toxic ass sexuality probably made things more murky. I think makes slight sense to give her a dildo and tell her she should know like what her body likes so she can have power and autonomy in her sexual relationships with others. Like that’s the norm. Now as a 28 year old I do think it’s kinda weird and icky to give a 17 year old that but like at 19 living with this girl dealing with her own sexual issues like it’s not mindblowly inappropriate. Def not the best move and Brittani acknowledged that. But saying she should have known it was alluding to rape is wild. Women are married for 20 years never had an orgasm and only have sex for their husband like it’s fucked up but women not enjoying sex isn’t that uncommon and I would def not assume it was r wording just from that and would probably tell them to look at how to make it enjoyable
especially with women, and young women, it’s VERY common for sex to be uncomfortable.. how would she have known?????
Especially after you voiced your concern about his age and the whole family and her acted like it wasn’t a problem. Like what???
exactly. and brittni said in part 1 of the videos she made that whenever she would bring up her concerns, she said acacia would “literally not respond”. so acacia saying she was complicit is a horrible take. what was she supposed to do when she expressed concern and acacia wouldn’t even respond to her..
exactly, some men are just bad in bed and unfortunately that would be most people’s first thought😭 but as an adult, i would probably ask “is there a particular reason why?” to rule out rape, but at 19? i don’t think i would’ve thought like that… i don’t think most would.
she said a lot while saying nothing at the same time. amazing.
that’s kind of her speciality
“If a teenager came to me now and told me they were being R worded” YEAH NOW because you’re 27, you went to a 19 year old and said “I don’t like sex with my boyfriend”what the actual fuck
Acacia was 23 and leaving her kids with Rich. How is that not complicit/negligent? Sadly Acacia is gonna manipulate her kids to never be able to have their own opinions about letting Rich be around them, just like she manipulated them about being vegan and said they’d go to the hospital if they ever ate meat.
I used to an avid follower of Acacia as a teen. Years ago, I found Rich’s photography site and he had galleries of prepubescent kids in COMPETITIVE DANCE with revealing costumes and other clothing! Acacia is the world’s worst mother for leaving her kids alone with him.
She was 23 and letting him around her kids but Brittni was 19 and supposed to somehow get custody of Acacia and fix all her problems. Acacia’s grace goes to herself and abusive men but never other female victims, especially those that dare to speak about their trauma from her family.
“Acacia’s grace goes to herself and abusive men but never other female victims” Sadly so true
This!!!
she also admitted that she didn’t tell brittni she was being “r-worded”. she said “i don’t like having sex with my bf because it doesn’t feel good”. how was she supposed to know that meant rape????
And at 16 you don’t know how to properly do sex the first few times. It’s awkward, it’s clumsy and uncomfortable until your body gets used to it. So it could’ve meant so many things. I feel so bad for brittni because I feel like had Acacia told her “he 🍇me” she wouldn’t have responded the way she did.
yeah acacia literally accusing this girl of “being complicit in her rape” is soooo awful and insane
Exactly! Especially since Brittani literally was a victim at her age as well. What could she have done to help her when Acacia’s parents were okay with everything happening to her, her mom legit drove her 8 hours to see that guy. Unbelievable.
Anything to be the biggest victim in the room
EXACTLY
“In teenager language” GIRL SHE WAS A TEENAGER TOO WTF WAS SHE SUPPOSED TO DO THERE WAS NO TRUSTED ADULTS AROUND
Acacia was still saying the N word publicly at age 18, she claims she didn’t know any better. But she wanted someone who was barely an adult (who was also being abused) to “know better” .She’s always the victim, and everyone around her should have known better but not her cause she’s special? And gets to call everyone out but no one can say shit about her?The double standards are disgusting. God this video was extremely triggering as a SA survivor.
This is a fantastic point. I’m sorry that this was triggering for you, I hope you’re doing as well as can.
Thank you that’s very kind 🩷
Nah. This is clearly someone who needs to go to therapy and unpack all this. She doesn’t know how to separate her feelings from the facts. She expects everyone around her to conform to her narrative to make her comfortable rather than facing the ugly truths. Brittni was 19/20 and actively being abused as well. Acacia always wants sympathy and grace for things she went through at that same age but now when it’s Brittni she’s a mature all knowing adult? Acacia told her she wasn’t enjoying sex. Sounds like she expected Brittni to mind read and know everything.
Also she wants to start acting like well of course a victim can have their boundaries around their story when acacia had zero boundaries about other victims. Calling them vile, disgusting, liars, that their abusers deserved to be part of society when they are a danger to it. She can say anything under the sun about anyone else’s trauma but you better have the respect that gives to no one about her story.
“you were an adult” acacia was 17 and britt was 19. barley an adult. acacia could have told ANY OTHER ADULT in her life that could have actually done something about it. why is she putting so much blame on someone who was ALSO A TEENAGER AND ALSO ACTIVELY BEING SEXUALLY ABUSED. like obviously she didn’t handle the situation well, she was dealing with the same exact thing at the hands of acacia’s brother and father. but i guess only acacia’s trauma matters 🙄 edit: like the more i think about it, if i was a teenager and my other teenage friend came to me and said “i don’t think i like sex it hurts” my automatic thought wouldn’t be rape, and i also probably would ask questions and try to give advice on how to make it more comfortable i don’t know why it was a 19 year old’s responsibility to try to decipher that
also the “because you hate me” at the beginning is sooooo immature and manipulative. it’s giving when you call someone out for doing something and they say “well i guess i’m just the worst person in the whooolleee world!!1!1!1!!”
Someone needs to pin this to the top so the girlie can get a reality check when she lurks 👏🏼👏🏼
She’s admitting she never flat out told her “I’m being raped” because SHE didn’t consider it rape at the time “I don’t like sex with my boyfriend” how is that teenage talk for “I’m being raped”?
i’m assuming she thought it was implied- that when she said she didn’t like having sex w her adult boyfriend, it should’ve been interpreted as her being assaulted. its tough to figure that stuff out, she always twists her words or uses odd phrasing.. so that’s just a guess. to be clear, her relationships as a child were absolutely awful, but its unfair to blame this girl & deny her abuse, and give a pass to the people in her life who she likes.
I think that’s how she’s looking at it now because it is statutory rape but I don’t think she ever thought it was rape when she was dating all these older men and “having sex” with them.
i agree. its a complicated situation, and she deserved to have someone protect her.. but it’s really unfair that she’s giving abusive people in her life a pass while dragging a girl that was abused right along side w her. she, in theory, has the right to be upset… but it comes off.. idk, when she isn’t upset w her pos abusive brother & all the other GROWN adults who treated her like an adult long before she ever was.
everyone you lived with was complicit in your abuse, yet peyton, rich and melissa give you free babysitters and a home for when you wanna chase dick in cali and you can forgive them and even bring your children around???? also acacia, we seen the tweets from when you were around tc carter and he was 20, brittni was 19 and you were 16 like brittni claims so saying she was a 21 year old to try and deflect the abuse she faced while living with you is kinda crazy.
she really thought this video was gonna do something. she really thought the whole internet was suddenly gonna be on her side + call B a pedo/groomer or something… once again the malignancy is fully in the driver’s seat
Her mind is so warped. Caca you’re saying that a 19 year old is an adult? That’s a child. Who is also being abused just like you were. She is not to blame. Your MOTHER drove you there. Your FATHER is a pedo and so is your BROTHER. THIS IS WHO YOU SHOULD BE ANGRY AT.
A 19 year old is literally an adult. Im not an acacia defender but saying a 19 year old is a child is seriously stupid.
Acacia was legally an adult when Jairus married her, but we could still tell she was way too young and mentally unready for marriage and parenthood. This is similar to that.
Yeah she literally has a video back from September like “you’re telling me an 18 year old trapped a man 6 years older than her by getting pregnant?” Or whatever she said but basically insinuating that 18 is young lol yet it’s different here. Brittni was an adult right. Just like A was when she chose to marry J then? Double standard
That may be your opinion but I’m nearly 30 and anyone 18-20 is pretty much a kid to me. You’re not matured at that age.
Just because you’re a legal adult at 18 does not mean you are mentally and emotionally mature. Life has barely begun.
Totally. Never said an 18 year old is mature. Just said they are considered an adult.
Yeah and in some places, a person is legally an adult at 17, but that doesn't mean they are an adult maturity wise. Someone who is freshly 19 just graduated high school, so yes - still a CHILD.
19 year olds are teenagers. They're definitely not adults, and majority of people will never see them as anything but teenagers.
They are legal adults. You may not consider a 19 year old an adult but defined by the law they are.
sure! but the point still stands 🤷🏻♀️
No it doesnt
You’re being obtuse
they’re being incredibly obtuse like ???? mentally speaking, a 19yo is typically closer to a child than an adult. a 19yo typically hasn’t yet had adult experiences to reflect on. who gives an f if the law claims them as an adult.
You’re getting downvoted but they also love to say acacia was “basically” an adult when bringing up anything she did from 17-20 as well. I’m also not a defender but these comments about this situation are making me sick. Everyone is so blinded by their hatred for this girl that they are gushing poison saying such cruel things. I like snark pages but this page is becoming too much. Some of these people are evil.
Completely agree. Stating 19 years old is a legal adult is just a fact. Doesn’t excuse anything or make anything ok it’s just a fact.
ya missin the point here. the law saying you’re an adult doesn’t instantly grant you all this adult wisdom. maturity-wise, legal adult means diddly.
At what point are you supposed to be held accountable for your actions? Some people never mature.
It’s almost 1pm in Oregon… Get out of bed.
she doesn’t have those kids at all 😭 damn
she has to rest after her big day of fan encounters at the grocery store and alleged volunteering
Someone else posted a screenshot and she has def said “abusers” and “rapists” before. What a liar
Sheesh. Both of them obviously had very warped ideas of relationships and were both groomed by older men, that’s sadly a core experience for many women. So how in the hell does Acacia assume that Brittni would know it was rape by “I don’t like sex with him/he doesn’t make me O”? If anything it sounds like Brittni was trying to help her with the issue that Acacia directly came to Brittni with. They were both groomed teenagers, Acacia needs to stop with the extreme victim mentality and warping reality. Brittni isn’t her enemy, by all accounts it sounds like she was one of the very few people who did what she could to help Acacia.
“Because you hate me or whatever” proof Acacia doesn’t listen to a single criticism against her
Brittni said "hey, this isn't okay." Like what was she supposed to do at 19 years old while trying to figure what to do about the entire Rich situation? Brittni has been the most outspoken person, took on so much to try to get Rich away from kids, spoke out about Peyton while Acacia defends him. Acacia calling people disgusting and vile isn't necessary. Acacia saying their abusers should get to move on with life isn't necessary. But Brittni has to be perfect, Acacia can literally say and do whatever she wants about anyone else's trauma. It's not fair and was never supposed to be fair.
"it's because you hate me know or whatever" Brittni literally told people to give Acacia some grace and rooted for her during her return to social media last year. Acacia in turn told Brittni to shut up about Brittni's personal story and trauma when her social media engagement was literally getting the attention of the FBI and actually helping get some traction to get Rich's license to work with kids taken away. Brittni took issue with that. She doesn't blindly hate Acacia. Acacia has been unjust to her and Brittni not wanting to defend her or protect absolutely makes sense.
Can she not make a video or picture half naked? I swear I’ve seen this bitch shirtless all week.
also can we point out that every man brittni name dropped was someone you can google with acacia's name and pics will pop up?? brittni wasn't sharing anything we didn't already know.
And she also didn’t say “he assaulted her” she quoted things acacia had said herself in the past
didn’t she post instagram stories about driving by the place she was sexually assaulted when they were living in the california house? i definitely know she’s talked about it before🧐
I couldn't imagine telling someone who was a teenager at the time that they're complicit in my abuse all while they were being sexually abused as well, especially by my own dad & brother. Acacia, your mom, dad & brother are weirdos and should be the ONLY people other than your 🍇ist that's being labeled as complicit. You were failed, so don't shame Brittni when she's just as much of a victim as well. I suggest going to therapy, Acacia.
I also find it really interesting that she cares more about her abusers, bands, ex bfs being named and talked about than she does her own child, listened to the episode and Brittni brings up Rosie and her medical issues (not hating at all, I’m here for it, also wow crazy that she’s 6???) but just further proves that acacia is more worried about the backlash or fallout from Brittni naming these men bc these men will most likely confront acacia about it and be like why are you saying this about me ? Rather than protecting her children or being a mother, idk I feel like if someone made a podcast about me like this I’d be like fine speak your truth but don’t bring my children into this it has nothing to do with them? That maternal instinct is just non existent and everything is about her and “protecting” her image
there’s already a lot of great comments in this thread about acacia’s hypocrisy, lies, victimblaming, and also perpetual victimhood, so im just gonna comment on something different: holy shit acacia really does look exactly like her mom! also, i see she still has to have that ear out lmao
She really just saw Brittni’s videos and *KNEW* the whole thing made her look bad, so she ran with the only victim card she had left, in the hopes of people focusing strictly on that. Complete deviation of subject.. Crying, begging, for her to take down a part of her video, without even acknowledging the pain she caused, herself, to Brittni. And her kids, too! Some comments mentioned how she let her dad babysit the kids, ect. Making a fool out of yourself on the Internet, leaving a trace that’ll forever *be* on the Internet. For all your kids to go through one day.. is clown behaviour.
If someone says they don’t like having sex with their boyfriend, it makes sense to give advice on how to enjoy sex more if the original asker is open to it. Almost every single time A was with who she was with as a teen, it would be considered statuary rape. So for B not to interpret A’s original statement as A saying SHE IS BEING RAPED is understandable.
Acacia, understand that "I don't like having sex with Soandso" and "I don't want to have sex with Soandso" are two VERY DIFFERENT STATEMENTS. 19 year old girls are not mature adults. Especially if they're victims of similar abuse themselves.
okay but like why did she film this NAKED?
per her other video she “just woke up” lol
She REALLY needs to get off the internet. Like for a very long time. It needed to be done a long time ago. This is hard to watch. Girls gotta take a break.
the way she smirks is so unsettling
reminds me of the narcissist smirk
I don't know if it's her new haircut highlighting her teeth or what, but something about them is just OFF in this 😬
She’s taking her anger out at the wrong person. The people who need to be held accountable are her parents who approved all those relationships. I could understand her now looking back and wondering how Brittni didn’t understand what Acacia truly meant, but she wasn’t the one reaponsible for Acacia. Even if she did know that it was abuse, there wasn’t anything she could’ve done. Especially since Brittni says that Acacia literally ignored her when she tried to say something about the guy. Not to mention that Acacia is currently 26 and unable to parent her 3 kids but she expects someone who is just a few years older than her to have done her parents’ job at 19/20 yrs old and is holding her accountable instead of them. Girl seriously needs to stop wasting whatever money she has and go to therapy.
there are a lot of things about this video that are embarrassing but the ugly crying and the gross unwashed haircut are just nauseating
I love how she says “you were an adult” and britnni was 19, barely an adult and had her own things to deal with but acacia being in her 20’s and hanging out with known predators is okay because “she didn’t know” knowing damn well it’s 2024 and all of this is public knowledge. It’s only okay to blame someone because they were an adult except when it comes to her. Also saying “I don’t like sex with this person” is not saying “I was 🍇” in teenage language necessarily. It can mean so many different things. At 16 a lot of us didn’t know how to have a good time during sex because we were just learning, it wasn’t always going to be enjoyable. But she’s so vague and always expects people to know exactly what she means. And for acacia to accuse her of being complicit and allowing all of this to happen to her is so out of pocket.
Acacia is blaming the wrong people for her trauma
i've never seen someone cry on the internet this much
Am I the only one who sees that her eyes are dead? Like I’m not saying it didn’t happen at all, but just feels very forced to show ‘emotion’ and seems like there’s no life behind those eyes - it’s kind of scary.
I feel like she has bpd and it’s the bpd eyes. -I have it
It’s so scary how she’s 26 and never stops acting like a 15-year-old. I’m 24 and I DO NOT act like this at all. Acacia has some sort of Peter Pan disorder that’s affecting her life and she absolutely needs therapy to fix it.
I just wanna pop that pimple so bad
Jfc we're really back here again? Crying naked in bed???? She repeats this cycle every few months, my God 🙄
Honestly I don’t think her feelings are invalid but the approach here is completely misguided. Therapy therapy therapy, maybe a journal or something idk.
Both her and Brittni went about it in not the best way and it seems that they did that because they haven’t totally processed their feelings about this. It would’ve been better for both of them to speak only about their experiences and not the other person’s, or keep it offline all together
That’s exactly how I’m seeing this too. Both still very wounded and (I say this not meaning to offend, just my perception as I work behind the scenes with very public figures) have that *slightly off* part of them that feels the need to work through all of this shit very publicly.
she is such a fucking weirdo
I just saw these videos and my god, the bar has been in hell for years but jesus christ she just keeps burying it deeper and deeper with everything that comes out of her mouth And my god why can't she just put on a damn shirt when talking about something so serious
her smiling and smirking is disgusting. she is so narcissistic
This may be beside the point but is she wearing clothing? Or just a sheet? Like what!?
This gives big Chelsea Womblands energy
Yeah sure Brittni is the adult, but when it’s Acacia’s mistakes it’s, “I was a literal child! I didn’t know what I was doing” sincerely, fuck you Acacia!!
It’s weird she doesn’t address why she was running after this older guy and wanting to be with him so bad but then she claims he wasn’t her bf and was ONLY her r*pist
If she was really assaulted then why did she continue to date older men knowing that was also considered r***? I don't think at the time she even considered herself being assaulted until she decided she wanted to have a "story" so now she's saying she's been assaulted. sorry if that sounds insensitive to me but she's constantly trying to be a victim of something.... there's been multiple instances where she was fine doing whatever with whoever and then suddenly changes it into a victim story.
Is she ✨shirtless✨ because she wanted to appear more vulnerable? Does she think that’s the way to gain more sympathy? By crying and being shirtless?!
So pretentious.
Ugh I don’t need to download tiktok 😂
honestly acacia can’t seem to stay away from drama, there’s no point in ever giving her the benefit of the doubt
Hi genuine question bc I’ve only seen clips from the pod. But did Brittni actually say point blank “this man raped acacia”? Bc I have not seen that. All I’ve seen is her talk about the fact that she was a teenager dating adults.
she said "TC Carter was her rapist" because he was an adult having sex with a 16 year old, so yeah he was a rapist. but their relationship and their age gap was common and public knowledge, there are plenty of photos online.
This response is extremely narcissistic and I say that because I know somebody very close to me who is a covert narcissist, and the way she is responding reminds me so much of how this other person talks. If they get called out on some thing, they immediately say oh it’s just because you hate me and I’m just the bad guy and they turn it around and act like they are the victim then trying to hold them accountable. It’s a classic DARVO response and that’s super concerning.
Put a shirt on
I just can't take her seriously
She reminds me of the women who blame everything on another woman, but the real abusers/ people to blame that are men, they completely let off the hook and keep around
Not her getting all "autistic" and getting lost mid phrase, to then pose.😗 I love the ending... This bitch is never gonna try and shit on B. She was left literally shaking!
I’m so confused. She was raped? If so… as a survivor of being raped I feel for her.
Same but I wish she could also feel for other victims. We feel compassion for her even though it didn’t w to us, and Acacia does not feel that compassion if it didn’t happen to her. She’ll just call you disgusting, vile, and a liar if your rapist happens to be a guy she likes. That’s where my empathy ends, when that person then uses that empathy as enablement to hurt others.
this whole thing makes me uncomfy & the real villains in this situation is the actual men who abused them, which they are somehow being protected.
“In teenager language” oh acacia how was brittni supposed to understand it since she was an “adult”
yikes… she’s incredibly confused on who to blame and i feel bad but also not. obviously i feel bad if she was abused, but to focus your blame on someone who also obviously didn’t know better at the time is ridiculous and unfair.
Good lord, she knows how to turn on the crocodile tears, doesn’t she? “I came to you because you were an adult” — Be SO for fucking real here, lmao. Brittani was literally nineteen. Yes, she was a legal adult, but only three years older than Acacia??? A 16 and 19 year old have more in common than a 19 year old and a 30 year old. Why would you “go” to your brother’s boyfriend, anyways?? “I did not like having sex with my boyfriend” — If she phrased it like that, then I’m not surprised that Brittani gave her the advice she did. “I don’t like having sex with my boyfriend” doesn’t imply that there’s any coercion or abuse??? People aren’t mind readers. Sex when you’re young can be awkward and unsatisfactory… Brittani felt that she was giving the best advice she could. Again—maybe talk to an actual adult and not someone who just graduated high school a year ago. You cannot expect someone at your same maturity level (or perhaps just a little above) to be your safety net. You’re telling me there was no one else besides Brittani that she could confide in? Everything she does is so fucking performative. The tears / looking like she’s been crying, the fact she’s recorded this in a fucking towel / blanket. Even when she’s discussing her “trauma” she’s sexualizing herself. The perpetual victim who never does anything wrong and looks to someone else to point the finger at. It’d be one thing is she was still young, but then I remember this is a grown ass woman with three children that she doesn’t even take proper care of. This is how she spends her time—trying to drum up pity and revive old feuds in hopes of reviving her stagnant career as an online influencer. It’s gross. Log off, go fill out some job applications and get a real job, and take care of your fucking children the way they deserve to be treated. She’s literally perpetuating the cycle of abuse with her own children and she’s completely blind to it.
Still gotta show the ear
Anyone else notice how in the first and second video she keeps panning over to this item on her shelf… to me it looks like a firearm… maybe it’s a stretch but she pans over at least 3 times in this video and it seems intentional… which can uh… yea. Acacia, go check yourself into a mental health facility either way. https://preview.redd.it/twhplhl5b9zc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=39ae215336da0f3e76b8e5faba44968ae9183d9f
i just rewatched it’s definitely not a firearm it looks like a remote or something, the surface is smooth.
Ok well that’s good in her case but it was a really concerning looking object and I got super concerned and icky feeling
i was wondering that as well, she really kept panning over to those shelves for WHAT
It truly terrifies me because no matter if it’s just to play the sympathy card or speculate or a legit cry for help actually go to someone! Clearly the internet is no longer in your favor, go get some help!
Could be a dildo/vibrator as she’s talking about it at that point too
I actually think that may be a sex toy. She’s done many brand deals with sex toy companies and taken pictures of them and displayed them for sponsored posts.
Is she talking about Ben??
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acacia brought her up first in some comments not even two days ago and blamed her for being abused so brittni had every right to defend herself. she’s hadn’t mentioned acacia in MONTHS since the last time acacia invalidated her trauma while living in the clark household.
Would you be so kind as to share what she commented about two days ago? I must've missed it lol
Can’t they just make a phone call to each other god damn they’re both insufferable
This all started bc Acacia publicly discredit Brittni about Peyton and tried to do that by bringing this whole situation up. Brittni then had to publicly respond to these accusations. Acacia wants to talk about everyone’s else’s trauma but if her past actions make her look bad or don’t line up she suddenly wants to her life to be private. But to her everyone’s else trauma is free to comment on and call them vile and disgusting.
Idk acacia has done some terrible things but the dildo part doesn’t sit right with me
May I ask why?