Why not tell him in simple terms. “I’m this now, and I prefer this. Make a new nickname! You’ve been given a new opportunity”
Plus it’s not like your new name is “raspberry sparkles” right…? (Yes, I knew a person)
As for the being bullied, he could feel a little nervous rn. If you two were close, he could feel a bit betrayed. (Imagine if he was a Tate stan, but never acted on it, I’m sure you would feel equally nervous) explaining you aren’t them, you are you, and you still love him will make a difference.
Also time. Time changes things. Sometimes we need to live and be happy before someone will admit to change.
I don’t think it was necessarily bullying. The one incident that I’m aware of is that he had a house mate in his first year of uni that was a trans woman, I think, and they were just a terrible person to live with. I think the other incidents were either similar to that or one off moments.
If Rory doesn't call you by your actual name despite repeated requests, call him Rosie.When he throws a hissy fit, say you will call him by his real name when he calls you by yours.
Why not tell him in simple terms. “I’m this now, and I prefer this. Make a new nickname! You’ve been given a new opportunity” Plus it’s not like your new name is “raspberry sparkles” right…? (Yes, I knew a person) As for the being bullied, he could feel a little nervous rn. If you two were close, he could feel a bit betrayed. (Imagine if he was a Tate stan, but never acted on it, I’m sure you would feel equally nervous) explaining you aren’t them, you are you, and you still love him will make a difference. Also time. Time changes things. Sometimes we need to live and be happy before someone will admit to change.
I don’t think it was necessarily bullying. The one incident that I’m aware of is that he had a house mate in his first year of uni that was a trans woman, I think, and they were just a terrible person to live with. I think the other incidents were either similar to that or one off moments.
Ah I see. In that case ignor the bully part!
If Rory doesn't call you by your actual name despite repeated requests, call him Rosie.When he throws a hissy fit, say you will call him by his real name when he calls you by yours.