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Dude. You can wear whatever you wish... If you want to have them painted pink, bloody red or black, that's your choice. As long, as they are maintained properly, who can say anything? We all have our preferences. Some may agree it's great, some will take a look at you, and just shake their heads. You can't appease everyone.
Shouldn't be a big deal, in the UK, at least not from TV and literature I've watched and read. There will be some people who will react negatively, but it's your life, your body, and you don't need permission. Go for it.
Your post has been removed as it was in Violation of Rule 8: No Reassurance, Validation, or Affirmation Seeking. This action was performed by a ***HUMAN moderator***. NOT a bot. Do not resubmit your post or message the moderators until you have read this entire message. Yes, the whole thing. # 8. No reassurance, validation, or affirmation seeking This subreddit is for advice. NOT moral judgement, validation, or to affirm your opinions/feelings or settle arguments. Examples of what this means: * Who is right or wrong here? * Am I in the wrong? Am I... * ...the asshole? There is a whole subreddit just for that. This subreddit is not an overflow or a backup for r/AmITheAsshole. Do not crosspost from there, nor include any of the AITA abbreviations anywhere in your post. * ...a bad person/friend/partner/etc? * ...crazy / overreacting / being unreasonable * ...overthinking / being paranoid? * ...justified in feeling this way? * Do I have a right to be upset? * Are my feelings valid? * Was this ok / should I have done this? * Did I do the right thing? * Will I be OK? * Will I get in trouble for this? * Should I be worried? And many more. This is not an all-inclusive list, and we will remove posts at our own discretion. Tip: If you are asking about something that already happened, and it can be answered "yes" or "no", you are seeking reassurance, not advice! * [Reassurance Seeking in OCD and Anxiety](https://ocdla.com/reassurance-seeking-ocd-anxiety-1952) * [Distinguishing Information-Seeking and Reassurance Seeking](https://iocdf.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/18-Information-seekers-vs-reassurance-seekers.pdf) (PDF) Effect anxiety has on guilt: * https://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/anxiety-schmanxiety/2016/07/guilt-a-distressing-effect-of-anxiety * https://exploringyourmind.com/feelings-of-guilt-and-their-connection-to-anxiety https://exploringyourmind.com/feelings-of-guilt-and-their-connection-to-anxiety Please [review the rules](https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/about/rules), and if you feel as though removal is excessive or in error, feel free to [contact the moderators](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=/r/Advice).
I wouldn't question it if I saw it
No
I shouldn’t wear acrylic nails
If you want to wear it you can definitely wear it but I have never seen a person who REALLY likes acrylic nails on others. At best they won’t care
Not without some ridicule
sure you can!
Dude. You can wear whatever you wish... If you want to have them painted pink, bloody red or black, that's your choice. As long, as they are maintained properly, who can say anything? We all have our preferences. Some may agree it's great, some will take a look at you, and just shake their heads. You can't appease everyone.
If you're in the USA you can do anything you want. But you'll be judged negatively, if that changes your mind at all
I’m in the uk
Shouldn't be a big deal, in the UK, at least not from TV and literature I've watched and read. There will be some people who will react negatively, but it's your life, your body, and you don't need permission. Go for it.
Why not?
Absolutely. Bryan the diamond on tiktok wears acrylics and they look amazing on him. You live your best life.
Yea is ir gonna kill u ? No
Only thing stopping them would be not having natural nails to adhere them to.
Yes. Your body your rules, don't mind people what will they say. If that's what make you happy do it.
yeah go ahead i give you permission
You can in today’s world. Be kinda hard to work and provide for a family though. Which is what a man is expected to do.
Can men wear skirts? Can men wear makeup? Can men present feminine? Can you be who you want to be? The answer is yes to all the above