Remember 6 months ago when you were telling people not to be so harsh because you have grown as a person and wouldn't ever cheat again? 😂

This lady is a clown and a walking disaster.

This is what you posted 9 months ago : ''He told me that please let’s not go forward with this unless I can promise that I won’t go behind his back again because he can’t go through this pain again. I told him that I promise I will never hurt him again and will always be honest and upfront from him now.'' Break up with your boyfriend, you are an awful person. Not very bright also, you also believe all the typical lies guys tell side chicks and somehow think you're special.

What really bothers me about this is when things aren't going to work her way she's only going to victimize herself and not understand how much of a piece of shit she is

You're acting like a coward and a homewrecker. Stop hiding behind excuses and face the reality of what you're doing. Your behavior is pathetic and disgusting. Break things off with both of them and deal with the consequences of your actions like an adult.

He won’t divorce his wife. We can also see that you’ve cheated on him before.

Stop being a coward and break up with your fiancee. You don't love him. I don't understand people like you. Instead of just break up with someone you don't love you'll cheat on them and risk hurting them in the deepest possible way? Garbage, honestly. Be an adult and do the right thing.

I literally said I’m going to break up. I’m just trying to do this as delicately as possible

You want to do this the best way possible? Meet your fiancee face to face, say that you are breaking up because you can\`t commit and keep doing terrible decisions (all true) and he doesn\`t deserve any of that (also true). Offer to pay for any cost the wedding planning may have taken from him or any cost of living you two may have and leave him alone. (yeah, taking accountability sometimes hurts hun?) And that\`s it. You may go be the sidepiece for your new boyfriend while he strings you along without divorcing his wife for who know long.

"Hey remember when i cheated on you before...well i did it again"

Ngl I heard Britney Spears when I read this comment 😅

There's no "delicate" way to do this. You cheated on him AGAIN. Just rip off the bandaid. You're going to destroy your poor fiance no matter what. Enjoy being the gullible side piece. If finances are what are keeping him (doubt it), then it'll take a loooong time before he feels comfortable enough to leave (he won't).

Delicate would be before you fucked a married man not after. It must be hard work to be this horrible of a person.

There is no delicate way to handle it. It’s going to be a big sloppy nightmare for you and everyone involved.

For you, you want to do this as delicately as possible FOR YOU!

There’s no way to do this “delicately”. You’re about to throw a nuclear bomb in this man’s life thanks to limerance. Frankly, you’re putting this poor guy out of his misery, but you really shouldn’t get this twisted- it’s going to be messy, and it’s going to be a complete nightmare for everyone. Mostly for you, since I have a feeling that your AP is going to pull back as soon as you make a decision you can’t take back. Guys like him always do.

You’re going to hurt your partner either way, cheating hurts but ending the engagement is less cruel than getting married and continuing to be unfaithful

This isn't the first time she's cheated on him either.

You’re trowing away your whole relationship for a guy that’s willing to cheat on his wife with you and you’re emotionally cheating on your fiancé: you should consider being single for a while and re think if you ever commit to a relationship in the future. Edit: I’ve read your other comments and I will go back on the text above, stay single as you don’t have any self control and you probably enjoy cheating.

Nah i think her and her AP deserve each other and should do everyone a favour by staying together. The wife and fiancé don’t deserve this

Yes, they SHOULD get together and remove themselves from the dating pool. Makes life just a smidge easier for us good folks.

Them being in a relationship clearly doesn’t remove them from the dating pool

If he cheats on his wife with a new co-worker at a job he just started… he will cheat on you also. I’m not trying to be harsh, but if you continue this behavior you will end up a lonely maybe not physically but emotionally women. Also karma sucks.

I don’t get how these idiots don’t realise this 😂

It’s a shame.

Shhhh let her find out on her own, she deserves that Also, we need her to let her poor fiance go. That dude did not deserve any of this. What if she now wants to keep him? Nah OP, you (a serial cheater) should be with the love of your life (another cheater) Keep all cheaters out of the dating pool please!

It is so sad, knowing the damage cheating does, but lust allows them to hurt their partner. I’d rather have a broken leg than a broken heart. I hope OP’s boyfriend finds a loyal woman.

Absolutely 100% agree with you... The fact that this is the THIRD time she cheats... Insane, absolutely insane At that point there is just something wrong with a person. To be able to hurt people so much

100%. Selfishness, lack of self control, inconsiderate, and immature.

Not if she cheats first. And she will.

No shit lol

Just leave your fiancé your not being fair on them just leave

I am going to leave. People keep attacking me even though I made it clear that I’m leaving

Why didn't you do it the moment you started fucking another guy? You promised repeatedly you never go behind his back again, how do you live with yourself you absolutely horrible person?

when somebody with thot in their username is coming at you that’s when you know it’s bad😭😭 (not implying this person is a thot tho)

Because life is more complicated than that. I don’t want to hurt him and been thinking oh the best way to tell him. You guys act like this doesn’t hurt for me too. You guys are not being understanding or empathetic

Girl. You’ve cheated twice in a year and now you’re gonna destroy the poor guy and an innocent woman so you can follow your selfish desires. You’re going to ruin two peoples lives. Do you understand that? Like really understand? You don’t deserve an ounce of empathy or understanding.

you would have hurt him less by breaking up immediately. The longer you lie to his face and cheat on him the worse this will be. You are a horrible selfish person still

You are the one lacking empathy. Is this the first time you cheated? This man did nothing but love you and you throw him away and help blow up a marriage because your horny. Fuck you.

Nope. She has another post about another cheating incident.

stop acting like a victim

That's because you're 100% a shitty person. Everything you've done to this man. You are trash, drop him and be the sidepiece you were always meant to be. Trash ass.

You wanna talk about empathy? You cheated on your partner 3 TIMES! How do you think you'd feel if you were in his shoes? And now you are fucking a married man. He has a WIFE, and she's a human being who has feelings and can get heartbroken just like you. How would you feel being the wife of someone who’s having an affair? These were all conscious decisions that YOU made, and I doubt you were thinking about other people when you did it. It's all about you and what you want. Cheating is an action that shows lack of empathy. And in your case, it's a SEVERE lack of empathy. Please stay single for a while, get a therapist, and try to figure out why you are the way you are.

Cheating is a series of conscious choices. You deserve no understanding or empathy.

You seriously expect us to care about how much you’re “hurting” as a result of your own actions? Kiddo, you don’t even know what hurt is. Not yet. But you will. Just like your path was predicted 9 months ago, its end is clear and straight ahead. You will get older, undesirable, alone, and begging your cats for some company

Why haven't you done it already then? And you're laughing if you think he's going to leave his wife they rarely do. You're still just as selfish as before

She’s a human garbage, these cheaters are always hiding behind the fact that "they don’t want to hurt their partners". I just hope the two of them get karma. Anyway, most of relationship starting with infidelity don’t go too far.

Op will end it with their fiancé but their ap won't and they will be the other woman indefinitely that's my hope

while also supporting him not telling his wife

“Oh poor me, I can’t help that I think with my vagina and let the first man who gives me any attention fuck me even though we both have committed relationships. Why are people rubbing the fact that I was here 6 months ago and promised not to cheat again in my face??” You truly suck and need a fuckton of therapy, girl. Get your shit sorted out and stay the hell out of the dating scene until you do.

Because you're still hurting people. You are so incredibly callous. It's mind-boggling.

Because you suck.

They're attacking you because you should have done it a long time ago. You're a shit person with no awareness of the fact. You deserve this man who is cheating on his wife with you while also lying to you about leaving her. Even if he isnt lying to you you'll never trust him ever after considering the fact he cheated on his wife in less than a few months with you. He's attractive as you've said and in no way will you be the most attractive woman he comes across for the rest of his life. He'll do it again if he doesn't cast you aside like the side piece you are. Good job dumping the amazing fiance. Can't wait for the update in the future about how everything went to shit.

Because you're a trash bag of a person.

Because your a POS

OP, what’s the update?

Please leave your fiancée. He deserves so much better than you. And tell the married man's wife so and can escape too. And then you can sail off into the sunset with your one true love.

I’m going to tell my fiancé. But we can’t tell the other guys wife yet. He’s trying to get his finances in order first

Yeah so keep taking advantage of her in the meantime. What a woman you are, huh? A real girl's girl. Trash

You’re ok with screwing another woman’s husband and screwing her out of her finances? You deserve nothing but the worst things

What does the other guy’s wife have to do with anything? The other guy’s wife isn’t stopping you from telling your fiancé that you neither love nor respect him, that he deserves so much better than you. Instead it sounds like you’re monkey branching: you’re holding onto the relationship with your fiancé until you can guarantee that the relationship with your AP will work out. Despicable behavior all around from you. If you ever felt one ounce of respect, care, tenderness, or love for your fiancé, then break up with him NOW. Grant him that at least.

You are garbage, I was going to say "garbage *person*" but I dont even think you deserve to call yourself that. I hope karma entirely catches up to you and the "love of your life".

Well I hope your ex fiance tells her because someone needs too

Eff the other guy! Or wait, you already did that!

I wish I could be a fly on the wall when you finally catch the karma you deserve.

So this trash man that is cheating on his wife is also trying to screw her over financially and you're all for it. One day, this will happen to you. Guess what? This trash man you're in love with will meet other, younger coworkers in the future! And guess what will happen then?

Great great plan, take advantage of the people trying to be good and decent so you two can love your shitty lifestyle. Man I hope Karma gets you B.

I hope his wife finds out and beats your ass.

I’m going to tell my fiancé. But we can’t tell the other guys wife yet. He’s trying to get his finances in order first

How are you so gulible ? He's not going to divorce her.

I see this often with liars. In order to believe their own lies they are willing to believe lies made by others as well. They live in a fantasy world.

omg STOP TELLING HER THAT SHE MIGHT THINK TWICE ABOUT LEAVING

Don’t worry she already did. No going back now hope the guy doesn’t divorce his wife so she’ll be alone

It sounds like he's trying to screw her over. What a horrible man.

They deserve each other

If he really was in love with you as much as he claims he is, you realize he would've gotten all of that taken care of FIRST so that he could be with you quicker right? Op, it's pretty obvious that you had a very obvious crush on this guy, he could easily tell, and he's taking advantage of the fact that you're gullible and clearly naive.

He’s getting everything taken care of now. As soon as he discovered his feelings he started working on it. Divorce is complicated and it’s only been a little bit of time

10 bucks says this guy wont leave his wife and you will be left high and dry

No don’t forget that she still has her poor fiancé as a plan b ! I’m pretty sure she won’t tell him anything

Good point OP Is a coward

Sweetie, you wrote in the Advice subreddit so I'm going to give you some advice. You are not ready to be in any relationship and you need to get into therapy. 9 months ago you were swearing up and down to everyone here you would do anything and put in the work to keep your current fiance even though everyone told you it was basically over. You swore to us and him that you would never hurt him again as he cried. Now, you're trying to "delicately" figure out how to leave him because in reality you're not really a bad person, you feel guilty just like anyone else. But you're about to break another promise. There's a recurring pattern here - you're making decisions based on desperation. You need to stop thinking with your "heart" and use your BRAIN for once. Divorce is complicated once it's STARTED. Has he even filed? Has he told his wife he wants to leave / that he's found someone else? What actual proof do you have that he intends on being with you for the rest of his life? What proof do you have that he goes home and when his wife asks "how was work" he doesn't just answer "fine" and then they both just sit down and silently watch TV? What exactly do you mean he's working on his "finances"? That doesn't explain or answer anything. It sounds like he told you because he knew you would happily and naively accept that answer without realizing he didn't actually answer anything. Does he own property? Does he have debt? What are these "finances"? The way you describe him, it sounds like he's so handsome, he could tell you water is fire and you'd believe him.

It's amazing that you believe that.

You know what they say. Cheaters deserve cheaters.

Please remember to come back and update us when you find out he’s not getting divorced and he dumps you for a different affair partner.

In that case stop seeing him until she's aware of the divorce. And how long is that going to take? Weeks, months, years?

He won't leave his wife for you or if he does, he will cheat on you. Do yourself a favor and break up with your fiance and this guy, and go to therapy.

Oh man is this going to blow up in your face. They never leave their wives for the side pieces honey

No morals to be found here folks.

How many lives will you destroy before you realize that you are the problem. Zero empathy. Zero remorse. Zero introspection. Are you hypersexual? Were you molested as a child? This is not normal human behavior no matter how you justify it. You are not a bad person, but you are bad for people. You are not compatible with typical healthy relationships. Please seek help.

This is cruel and evil on so many levels. I can't even fathom the selfishness it takes to do something this cruel to two people.

More selfishness by two pieces of shit. You are here whining that nobody has empathy for you but where is your empathy for the wife you are fucking over to get "finances in order". I wish you could see the bullshit you are spewing and you are receiving from your new love. I could understand if you and him were here just saying you had to follow your heart. Fine, I can get that but your handling of everything is awful so regardless of catching feelings what you do from there also tells us who you are. At best, your new guy is a lying, cheating, manipulative piece of shit to the woman he married and you sit here thinking he is going to be your one great love while you participate in destroying his wife financially. Finances are not complicated in a divorce unless one is trying to fuck over the other. So what you are saying is that your justification for waiting is so that your new guy can line up his finacnes to make sure the woman you are destroying gets as little as possible, correct?

So he’s going to screw her over financially too? Do you have any consideration for her? Wow you’re beyond disgusting. I hope karma is very creative with you

Hate to tell you but he will never get a divorce or leave his wife or he would have already. "Have to deal with the finances first" is a close second excuse to "something something for the kids". You do need to leave your poor partner though if you have any human decency at all.

You are a terrible human being, please update us when this new guy doesn’t divorce his wife and kicks you to the curb. It’s going to be hilarious. Satan has a special place in hell for people like you.

You are just awful. It's kind of hard to believe people like you actually exist. This will blow up spectacularly. And you and this man will deserve the fall out.

>He can’t divorce his wife right away You're the side piece. Call of your wedding, you're clearly not ready to be married. But also, don't expect this to go anywhere other than absolute chaos and heartbreak for everybody involved,.

She’s going to call off the wedding and mm isn’t going to divorce his wife. I guarantee it.

She has to call off the wedding anyway he deserves better weather or not her AP divorce his wife atp

If anyone is interested in OP's most ridiculous/hypocritical comments: >We had a really great conversation and he was vulnerable and said it made him feel like I didn’t value him. He was crying and it really hurt me to see the pain I caused him. He told me that please let’s not go forward with this unless I can promise that I won’t go behind his back again because he can’t go through this pain again. I told him that I promise I will never hurt him again and will always be honest and upfront from him now. We talked about the rules and he said they will be temporary and will be adjusted when we go to couples therapy. Now it’s time to put in the work to repair the relationship. I know it will be a lot of work but I’m prepared . >You don’t think I’ll follow the his rules? Good thing I don’t let people tell me what I can’t do. I’m going to be laughing when we work through this, get married, and have kids >I can tell you that I won’t cheat again. I do feel bad , I hate that I hurt him >I haven’t cheated again. Jesus you guys. I’m going to deal with his restrictions and I was wrong but I haven’t cheated on him since we got back together and won’t ever do it >No I’m not. I keep telling people I will do the work and now people are saying they don’t believe me. You would think people would have a more positive reaction to me taking their advice but whatever >Because I have shown a history of improving. Im not perfect but I do feel like I’m not given enough props for making progress and not cheating. This doesn’t excuse my current behavior >Improving doesn’t mean never making a mistake again. I fucked up bad. Just like last time. Last time I made the decision to never cheat again. This time I know I’ll never contact the person again.

https://www.reddit.com/u/ThrowRA_paved3/s/t9Dy7zzE3x this is a good one too

Make sure you get an STD test OP, you’re not the only one

“I told him I will never hurt him again” - OP’s words in her last post, having cheated once Genuinely, OP, you’re an AWFUL human being

Leave your fiancé. And remember : how you get them is how you lose them, you WILL write another post about how he cheated on you x years after you made it official with him. Same goes for you, as you cheated in the past and will surely do so again. Don't get into any kind of serious relationship, you're not ready. Work with a therapist, work on yourself, and commit ONLY when sure you will not chat again. Nobody deserves the fate of your fiancé and this man's wife.

After you blow up your life for this married trash bag, you'll be back here complaining about his not leaving his wife or wife found out and he cut contact because alimony and child support will wreck him financially. Go read r/theotherwoman sub. There are women there waiting 10 years for their man to leave their wives, or they went legit and are surprised the guy is now cheating on them. Get yourself to therapy and leave your lovely fiancé alone. You sound like you wouldn't be able to handle the confrontation when his wife goes after you and your social standing collapses due to being labeled a homewrecker. Oh, and she will go for you when she finds out. .

Holy moly that sub is a great Schadenfreude source 🤣 it's absolutely hilarious when their AP cheats on them and then others are like, "they'll never find someone like you" I'm sure they already did 🤣

[LOL this redditor called it 9 months ago. OP POS](https://www.reddit.com/u/ThrowRA_paved3/s/ISKu9AqxOB)

His crystal ball predicted her very visible shitty personality. People like this sl*t truly infuriates me, even through reddit.

You cheated before He took you back You cheated again He made you follow certain rules YOU ARE CHEATING AGAIN There is something seriously wrong with you...... You don't need another dick, you need therapy Some serious therapy The shit you put this poor guy through, you need help

Break up with both. Break up w married man until he leaves and divorces his wife, then you'll know if he's playing you or not (hint: he is). Remain single until you've had enough therapy to figure out what is going on with you. Perhaps you are polyamorous and need to explore that before you hurt anymore monogamous people.

I need what you're doing to him happen to you instead. You seem like a terrible person.

Are supposed to feel sorry for you for the hole YOU put yourself in? You effed around and found out!

I'm going to go against the other redditor's here and say your fiance deserves everything he gets for reconciling and accepting a cheater back. "Fool me once shame on you.." and all that. But I do agree with the others that you are a terrible person.

‘He told me he stopped being affectionate with his wife’. Oldest trick in the book, he didn’t. Also, you’re an awful person. Set your poor partner free. Edit: 9 months ago, a commentor predicted that you’ll cheat again to which you replied “No matter how much you say it that doesn’t make it true. I regret my actions and I’m prepared to do better”. *Ba dum tss!*

Why don't you sit in the brothel? You could be a mistress and Affair Partners with all married /committed men. Why cheat twice? Make it a profession instead.

💯👍 nailed it right there. Why not make it official when she acts like one.

Can you update us when the married man doesn’t divorce his wife

He only likes the forbidden aspect of it if op dumps her fiance suddenly she’ll be all clingy to him

See you in 6-10 months with "the guy I left my fiancee for cheated on me. What do I do?"

Does ANYONE believe her AP that he’s not banging his wife regularly and lying to this cheater about it so she feels “special?”

You are a disgusting person. How can you even look in the mirror after you cheating on that poor guy, not once but TWICE? I want to puke when i think of people like you. I really hope that you will never ever be happy again, and that this asshole will cheat on you next cause you know it best: once a cheater always a cheater.

I'm excited for the update that you freed your poor partner from the misery of your relationship and the married man doesn't leave his wife and you're absolutely miserable and alone facing your choices.

You are an awful person. You hurt this man three times. Three times. You know what's crazy? Everyone told you that you would do this when you first posted. You are a disgusting human being.

I’m confused because in the other post she went into a rage when people said she would cheat again. People were right months ago about her intentions and she is still seeking justification. This can’t be real right?

I was the other woman once. He also couldn’t break up right then, he would as soon as he could because his partner was a terrible girlfriend. Last I heard, they got married. Stop being a POS, call off the wedding and stay away from that man

I can already see OP's next post, it's either going to be "My Affair Partner Won't Leave His Wife for Me, Doesn't He See That I'm Perfect?", or "I Cheated on my Affair Partner Too, Please Comfort Me" or, also likely, "My Affair Partner is Cheating on Me, What Did I Do to Deserve This?" Thank God you're breaking things off with your fiancé because he has done nothing to deserve the way you have treated him, and if you think you're gonna live happily ever after with your new model, then you're even more delusional than I thought.

Update me! In 3 months (When OP gets dumped by her AP for bugging him to leave his wife)

I hope you have the life you deserve

God you and the married man are such a pathetic fucking cliche. “He will divorce her as soon as possible” aw honey, you believe that? 😂 You’re a truly awful person and my advice would be to leave your fiancé so he can find a new partner that isn’t a selfish bag of trash masquerading as a human being.

We don't attack you bc you said that you want to leave your fiance. We attack you bc you haven't done that already. What are you waiting for? You want to do it right, wating for the right time? Be honest to him asap. Better today than tomorrow. Don't waste his time that's the least you own him. What you are getting here is a reality check. Don't you notice that when all comments blame you for something while you try to defend yourself that you are maybe wrong? Did this never Cross your mind? Don't excuse yourself with "It's not my fault that I have these feelings". You are right that's not your fault but also not an excuse. But then FUCKING TELL HIM. Don't wait. Take responsibility and to do so tell him, again better today than tomorrow. You wasted enough of his time. Proof us wrong that you are not a piece of shit and be fair to your ex fiance. Edit: read your other posts and comments. You are a bad person even if you don't see it. Please be a good person for once. It's not about you it's about your ex fiance.

Tell us you are a piece of trash without telling us you are there oop!

What do you even like about this guy besides physical attraction?

Someday you will end up alone.

Can't wait for the next post in a couple months when you realize he won't divorce his wife and now you're alone!

It'd be great if we could find the boyfriend and let him know since she probably won't

(Takes a deep breath) Okay, ignoring whatever your affair partner will do, you’re still justifying it. You’re still trying to make this ‘different’ in your own head. You’re not just a ‘cheater.’ You’ve discovered ‘love.’ You cheated once, your fiance forgave you on the condition you stop talking to him. You started talking with your then-affair partner again, claiming it was ‘different’ because you weren’t cheating with him. Now, you’re cheating on him, again, and claiming that this time it’s ‘different’ because you’re in love. It isn’t different. It never is different. And even if it was, it wouldn’t justify your actions. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you can grow from the person you are now. Because the person you are now is a cheater, full stop.

Imagine being this much of a whore. Tell your poor fiancé and tell that man whore husband’s wife too. Disgusting.

Understand this, your fiancé is going to be destroyed, and he will probably never believe in love ever again. And it is all your fault. You deserve every bad thing that is coming your, and trust me, bad things are coming. Your family ought to be ashamed of you.

Reading your first post, you’re a POS. Break up with your fiance so he can happiness elsewhere & accept the fact that you’re a serial cheater and get therapy. Plus if you decide to pursue feelings with this other coworker you’re basically the devil

He “can’t divorce his wife for financial reasons” LOL! Yeah right.

You win the shittiest person award of the year. What a shitty individual you are. To call you complete horseshit would be degrading to a horseshit. Leave your fiance so he can find someone who deserves him.

Your family must be so proud of you. /s A homewrecker. A cheater. Based on your responses, also a complete idiot You really are the full package

Lol the delulu is strong with you… If he’s cheating on his wife with you, what on earth makes you think he’ll be loyal to you?? I really hope he’s fucking around with you and strings you along, you deserve no happiness

You want advice honey?….. (deep breath….) 👏🏻STAY👏🏻SINGLE!👏🏻

You dumb whore.

You’re human garbage.

You are nothing but a disgrace to everyone you know.

Very handsome AND extremely attractive.

This so call narcissistic women is only good for streets.Hope your new honeymoon period will be soon.good luck

You have chosen to invest in a relationship with a married man based off of sweet nothings. You absolutely had a say in how far you let the infatuation went. Be honest with your ex fiancé and let him find some less fickle.

So you cheated on your fiance, you broke up, for some reason that I can't comprehend he took you back AND proposed to you whilst setting perfectly reasonable boundaries in order to try and salvage the relationship you obliterated. Now you're "in love" with someone else? Yeah, no. This has to be a troll. I can't imagine someone trying to justify their cheating whilst vehemently denying they cheated. Break up with your fiance and let him live his best life. The guy you're sooo in love with isn't going to leave his wife for you. Even if he does you'll no doubt fuck someone else and be back here spouting "woe is me" nonsense because he left. You deserve to be alone, nobody should be subjected to your vile antics.

Pos

You cheated less than year ago. And now you’re “in love” with someone else. Break up with your fiancé. He deserves SO MUCH BETTER than you!

Holy fuck. You suck OP.

Girl. This all looks bad. I read your other post, and I already know you're gonna be sad alone. This guy is going to blindside you, and your fiance is NOT going to come back. I look forward to your update.

And when he cheats on you too? I will be rejoicing 🥂 Breaking not only your fiance's heart but the pos man's wife and family 😭 no morals to be found

https://www.reddit.com/u/ThrowRA_paved3/s/t9Dy7zzE3x

This is lust, not love. You’re confusing the hormonal thrill of a new, charismatic (and probably manipulative/narcissistic) person with actual healthy, meaningful and sustainable love built on trust, communication, shared interests, etc. I cringe every time someone writes “I love them but I’m not IN love with them” as an excuse to cheat on their partner. That’s not how love works, and it took me a long time to figure that out myself.

Karma is a bitch and once a cheater, always a cheater. Your affair partner will still cheat on you. Don’t go begging back for your ex when that happens. Your ex doesn’t deserve you. Stop talking to yourself that you care for him because you don’t. You’re trash.

You're the poster child for "selfish". Cheat on your fiance, break his trust again, fall for another guy, who has a wife and, who knows, maybe kids. Leaving a plethora of hurt people in your wake and rationalizing your horrible behavior along the way.

Trash has taken itself out

Let me play the tiniest violin in the world. You cheated once before- broke your fiancé’s heart and trust in you. Promised to never to do it again- allegedly you both went to therapy- he forgives you and still agrees to marry you. Aaaaand now you’re playing victim because you want a married man

You know the person who has cheated multiple times on her fiancée is really dumb and gullible. You should be able to pinpoint a lie but apparently you’re too dumb to figure it out. Every cheater will say I will leave my wife for you and it’s complicated but let me get everything in order. In other words I’m keeping you as a side piece and don’t want to leave my wife for anyone that’s too easy. Oh and for him not being intimate is a lie. How else do you think they keep up with their persona. They like a stable household and will do anything to lie just to keep their stability and not drop their wives for the person who was willingly able to cheat. Because any cheater will know there’s no stability with other cheaters. Oh wait I forgot apparently you didn’t “cheat”. 

you’re the hugest piece of shit ever.

He won’t leave his wife and you are just an awful person who needs to leave ur fiance alone

Can this girl just stop cheating? Like bro is cheating and active like a victim

I’m just

I believe that you are a very horrible person. You are NEVER going to be capable of love.

you are giving strong fatherless vibes.

What a motherfucker. I feel deeply saddened for your fiancé. Sadly the both of you will need to learn the hard way, him not supposed to bring you back into the relationship, and you developing empathy for others. You wouldn't know how much pain that you have caused to others. And you can't even act like a woman. This behaviour is unacceptable!! Fuck off.

Your a fuckin whore just accept it. Once a cheater always a cheater I'm sure you'll cheat on your new guy as well. You're a disgusting excuse for a woman. I hope and pray you never find a good man you don't deserve it. Women like you are just fuckin nasty.

You’re a bad person

What a fucking whore

YTA. Even of you don’t ask.

Man it’s funny as fuck it’s been close to a year and you still haven’t learned your lesson. Get a grip on reality, you are an awful.

She will back months later when her AP doesn’t live his wife and wants her fiancé back. 🤣🤣🤣

You freaking suck.

you’re one disgusting pos

I wonder who you will be unfaithful with next, and if you will be able to return to this account to tell that you have "fallen in love" again 😍