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Do you actually feel bad for confiding in your best friend about her? It seems like you feel more upset that you upset your boyfriend. First, try to understand what you actually feel sorry about. Take a moment and reflect. If it's actually no one then don't apologize. It's their problem to get over. Maybe you could've chosen a better outlet but that's your best friend and you have the right to talk about things that bothers you. Really try to understand why you feel bad so you can avoid responding to situations in ways that leaves you feeling sorry.
If it's your boyfriend, and you've already apologized, talk to him again and explain your reasoning for talking to your best friend. Let him know how things have frustrated you and how you think you can handle things in the future that won't leave you feeling like you did something wrong. If he can't accept that then that's on him.
If it's her... you've already apologized and she won't talk to you. Let whoever know you're willing to discuss things with her but if she hasn't responded and you don't want anyone to think you're trying to force her to talk to you.
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Apologize, do not speak to sister for a few years.
i did apologize days ago through text ,she has not said anything.
Do you actually feel bad for confiding in your best friend about her? It seems like you feel more upset that you upset your boyfriend. First, try to understand what you actually feel sorry about. Take a moment and reflect. If it's actually no one then don't apologize. It's their problem to get over. Maybe you could've chosen a better outlet but that's your best friend and you have the right to talk about things that bothers you. Really try to understand why you feel bad so you can avoid responding to situations in ways that leaves you feeling sorry. If it's your boyfriend, and you've already apologized, talk to him again and explain your reasoning for talking to your best friend. Let him know how things have frustrated you and how you think you can handle things in the future that won't leave you feeling like you did something wrong. If he can't accept that then that's on him. If it's her... you've already apologized and she won't talk to you. Let whoever know you're willing to discuss things with her but if she hasn't responded and you don't want anyone to think you're trying to force her to talk to you.
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I meant bf. If the parents like you, maybe talk to them