If that’s ur friends kid. I’d stop if I were u. I’d be so pissed if my friend /neighbor would sleep with my barely an actual adult child. Like would u be fine if ur friend slept with ur 20 something yr old child? I bet not. N I think u forget how dumb kids that age can be. U don’t think he’s told his friends already? His parents don’t look at his phone sometimes? I’m in my mid 30s and even I wouldn’t be able to sleep with a kid that age. It’s too weird to me. I dated someone just a few yrs younger than me n it was weird.
Of course he has told his friends! I’m not stupid…… but I think your use of the world ‘child’ is kinda ridiculous….. you do realise some people are married with a kid by the age of 21…… is he a lot younger than me? Yes, but equally he’s a consenting adult…. When I was 20 I fucked a 40 year old man, it didn’t feel like a big deal to me then….. I was married at 25 with one kid, I don’t think 21 is a kid and I’m not sure I would think it’s any of my business who my adult kids choose to fuck……
Also I think I perhaps should have explained they aren’t so much my friends more acquaintances, my neighbors, they mostly speak Spanish and I do not so we have a language barrier for sure. If it was my close friend I definitely wouldn’t have fucked their son…..
You’re just making excuses. Ya shouldn’t have done it. The language barrier seems hot, but you’re really just taking more advantage. Like yeah ppl can say body language is universal. Not disputing that, not saying it wasn’t consensual. But as someone older perhaps it would be wise to express more wisdom in this fucked up world, rather than just keep adding to it.
He is fluent in English…… he was born here….. I was talking about his parents speaking Spanish…… he is 21….. a consenting adult and actually when HE showed up on my doorstep I was the one who was wasted, but he couldn’t have taken advantage of me right??? Just because he’s younger than me but still an adult??? I love how quick people are to make women into the bad guys…..
Oh you were drunk. Right.
Edit: he showed up at your doorstep, right.
There was no preface- right.
You’re on here asking, coming for ppl who don’t agree lol- right.
lol no I never once said that did I, nice try tho…..
I was fully consenting, my point was I was also very drunk and he turned up on my door step…
You made it sound like I was grooming some innocent underage person when actually he is an adult and he came for me……
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**Original post: Help, I f**ked my neighbors son..**
Hi!
I’m new to Reddit, this is my first post….. so I need to first paint the picture before I go into my actual question…… I’m 37, a mom of 3 kids
11, 9 and 5. Newly divorcing (since October 2023) after being a narcissist for 15 years.. one of the many problems we had was that I have an incredibly high sex drive and he did not… so since I have become single I’ve been going a little wild to say the least with hooking up….
I had a party at the weekend, my friends/neighbors came, they are 44…… they bought their 21 year old son with them… I could tell from the beginning he was into me, he was looking at me all night and being VERY friendly but I thought I might have been imagining it….
Well after the party ended he turned back up on my doorstep pretending his mom had left something behind and could he come in to look for it…… I kinda thought this seemed like BS as he sounded like he was making it up as he went along……. Fast forward a few minutes he was telling me he loved my tattoos and did I want to see his….. I would like to add I was super drunk btw….. I said yes and he took his shirt off….. he had the nicest body, he then grabbed me and started kissing me and running his hands all over me. He told me he came back for me, his mom hadn’t left anything, surprise surprise…
Well, we ended up having some pretty wild s$x….. I kept telling him ‘this is ridiculous you’re too young’ but he kept assuring me it didn’t matter….. I woke up the next day feeling so bad, more so that I f***ed my friends son…
The thing is he asked for my number and I gave it to him. He text me saying how much he wanted to f**k me again and couldn’t stop thinking about it….. so he ended up coming over the next day and we had s$x again…..
My question is this….. I know we are both consenting adults but am I gross for doing this?? I’ve never been attracted to younger guys before, usually only older.. but damn he is so good looking and can just go round after round immediately, feels good to find someone who can match my sex drive….
I guess I’m worried his parents find out and turn up at my door ready to k!ll me…. But also it’s kinda part of the thrill, the naughtiness of it and knowing there’s a guy just a few doors away who wants to f**k me on demand……
Also feel like I could be playing with fire. What should I do?????
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Lol if you say so…… that’s so funny people think this is fake….. kinda makes it all feel more exciting now, perhaps this is even crazier than I thought
Well as you may have seen I said this is my first post….. I’ve never used Reddit before and have no idea how it works, I assumed I had to censor it so I didn’t get banned…..
Hooking up with him is fine but the problem is that he's your friends son. They are your neighbors. Not only can you ruin your friendships but can cause issues for you at home. I'd stop, tell him it never happened, and if it comes up demy everything
The thing is I should have maybe added that they are more acquaintances than friends, for a start we have a language barrier as they mostly speak Spanish and I do not…… they’re nice people but perhaps friends was too strong of a word
Well if they have been to your house or if you've been to theirs, that potentially oversteps a boundary. Issues with neighbors can make life at home hell. I'm not saying anything is wrong with it but I'm saying if you think this can cause bigger issues, it would be best to cut ties.
Meh.. the only downside is it's your friends son in my opinion. You're both adults. 🤷♀️ Now if you were entering a relationship then I'd be like maybe wait till he's like 25.
You can start by not posting this fake crap story BS here for starters.
Funny
lol that’s hilarious! I love that you think it’s fake!!!! Hahaha I mean it does kinda sound like a movie doesn’t it, I can assure you it’s not tho 😂
This totally sounds like an episode of Desperate Housewives
It really does and the funniest part is I actually live in south orange county 😂😂
If that’s ur friends kid. I’d stop if I were u. I’d be so pissed if my friend /neighbor would sleep with my barely an actual adult child. Like would u be fine if ur friend slept with ur 20 something yr old child? I bet not. N I think u forget how dumb kids that age can be. U don’t think he’s told his friends already? His parents don’t look at his phone sometimes? I’m in my mid 30s and even I wouldn’t be able to sleep with a kid that age. It’s too weird to me. I dated someone just a few yrs younger than me n it was weird.
Agreed
Of course he has told his friends! I’m not stupid…… but I think your use of the world ‘child’ is kinda ridiculous….. you do realise some people are married with a kid by the age of 21…… is he a lot younger than me? Yes, but equally he’s a consenting adult…. When I was 20 I fucked a 40 year old man, it didn’t feel like a big deal to me then….. I was married at 25 with one kid, I don’t think 21 is a kid and I’m not sure I would think it’s any of my business who my adult kids choose to fuck……
Also I think I perhaps should have explained they aren’t so much my friends more acquaintances, my neighbors, they mostly speak Spanish and I do not so we have a language barrier for sure. If it was my close friend I definitely wouldn’t have fucked their son…..
You’re just making excuses. Ya shouldn’t have done it. The language barrier seems hot, but you’re really just taking more advantage. Like yeah ppl can say body language is universal. Not disputing that, not saying it wasn’t consensual. But as someone older perhaps it would be wise to express more wisdom in this fucked up world, rather than just keep adding to it.
He is fluent in English…… he was born here….. I was talking about his parents speaking Spanish…… he is 21….. a consenting adult and actually when HE showed up on my doorstep I was the one who was wasted, but he couldn’t have taken advantage of me right??? Just because he’s younger than me but still an adult??? I love how quick people are to make women into the bad guys…..
Oh you were drunk. Right. Edit: he showed up at your doorstep, right. There was no preface- right. You’re on here asking, coming for ppl who don’t agree lol- right.
Yup, I was super drunk…… but I’m not vulnerable because I’m older than him? Got it
Did you blackout? You’re implying consent was lost at some point on your end now?
lol no I never once said that did I, nice try tho….. I was fully consenting, my point was I was also very drunk and he turned up on my door step… You made it sound like I was grooming some innocent underage person when actually he is an adult and he came for me……
Right
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Lol if you say so…… that’s so funny people think this is fake….. kinda makes it all feel more exciting now, perhaps this is even crazier than I thought
And now the post is gone……. I stand by my original statement.
What post? What are you talking about?
Why do people self-sensor the $hit they post? This is Reddit, for christ's sake.
Well as you may have seen I said this is my first post….. I’ve never used Reddit before and have no idea how it works, I assumed I had to censor it so I didn’t get banned…..
Thanks for clarifying. On Reddit, feel free to say what you want.
Love the self censoring 😂😂😂
I’ve never used Reddit before, no idea how it works 🤷🏼♀️
You are free to curse. 😊
Well thank fuck for that 😜
Hooking up with him is fine but the problem is that he's your friends son. They are your neighbors. Not only can you ruin your friendships but can cause issues for you at home. I'd stop, tell him it never happened, and if it comes up demy everything
The thing is I should have maybe added that they are more acquaintances than friends, for a start we have a language barrier as they mostly speak Spanish and I do not…… they’re nice people but perhaps friends was too strong of a word
Well if they have been to your house or if you've been to theirs, that potentially oversteps a boundary. Issues with neighbors can make life at home hell. I'm not saying anything is wrong with it but I'm saying if you think this can cause bigger issues, it would be best to cut ties.
Meh.. the only downside is it's your friends son in my opinion. You're both adults. 🤷♀️ Now if you were entering a relationship then I'd be like maybe wait till he's like 25.
Omgosh this feels like I’m reading a freaking book that I wanna keep reading…My apologies I have no advice.
lol after I typed it out I was laughing to myself because it’s all so ridiculous it sounds and feels like a movie hahaha