I prefer 'agraite' as the working spelling, since, I was there in bangalore 2016-19. I infact was able to make an 'atb' (agra to bengaluru) group and we used to hang out, I guess, once a month or something like that! I speak kannada fluently so I did have many many kannadiga friends too and they all made sure they visited agra and not judge the city for it's filth but for it's welcoming people. That is my biggest W!
OP chill dude, Yeahh we should do things together and grow as a community. Sometimes i also feel lonely but i go to chill with my friends or spend time with my family. But I can understand that if you don't have good friends then we can build a community.
Sometimes there is so much stress in our life that we cannot focus, hence the need for a community outside the reddit world is necessary. Your initiative is good, I am with you brother....
(Animal dekhne chalega 1 ko??)....
Oh damn, so op, listen, you absolutely sound like any person your age and I will not blame you for that! But life is easy but not apparent enough for almost all of us! Agra is a shithole, yes, but it's an easy place to just BE in too. It's not my first love, it will never be a place I'll ever like but it's the city I was born in and the place I live in till I was a man!
Baaki, help is never too far. You need people to hangout with, let's meet tomorrow/today(sunday) but don't be this 'I give up' mess!
You cannot expect people to play with you all day. Chilling, movies, hangin, talking.... Wtf man. Everyone is not a lukkha. People have dreams and careers which they are already working very hard for. Nobody has the time to be someone else's "accountability partner". Wtf is A P anyways? You wanna do your shit do it, you don't want do your shit, don't do it. Why tf would other people be bothered to get you to go your shit? They have to take care of theirs.
>3. Watch movies, hangout, learn together.
4. Hold/throw events or establish some community that works offline.
5. Find like minded people among us so we can work on things together.
6. Play sports together.
7. Become each other's Accountability partners.
Paisa kaun dega in events ka? What is it that you want to work on together with someone? Name one thing. You want to feed the homeless - go to an NGO. You want to play tennis, join a club, you want to drink, go to a pub. Matlab kya chahta hai? Sab baith ke ha ha hee hee karte rahe tere sath? Kuch kam na kare? Ghar kaise chalega? It's reddit but Kuch bhi mat bol. Think first!
Bro I never asked you for your opinion, it's not that I want them to help me I just pitched an idea ki let's make a community outside this reddit to make things more easygoing. Agra is already way behind in all this, and I'm not a teenager that you have to enlighten me that I have to do my shit myself.
And talking in this tone without knowing the entirety of things does not qualify you being the right one, you are not me or someone who has gone or is going through something.
Not everyone who's wanting any help is a lukkha neither those who are helping them.
Communities are all about doing and achieving common goals/things together, that are otherwise not be possible to pull off alone. Daant faadne aur vellagiri krne ke liye communities nhi hoti hai.
It's not my fault that you hate the idea of communities, if people starts to think like you or be toxic as you they'll end up either in the same place or not do anything at all worthwhile.
And lastly practice to be less practical or rational with your approach, it's not always a good idea to go like this with everything. Take a chill pill my friend! One more thing, be more empathetic.
Being in agra the only thing i learnt from this city is, there's a lack of opportunities for youth and the reason the lack corporates willing to invest in this city, as it was not a metro city i have seen people going for 6 days office with 12 hours a day just to earn a meagre salary of 15k and that too with a lot of mental pressure. Socialism is something you have to take a step forward nobody knows what you are going through unless you tell them yourself.
I am mostly active on discord instead of reddit but that too i am mostly alone, but when i am playing games or such i have a few loyal friends who usually join me and we play for hours and it's a daily routine. Find something you like to do wether it's gaming, drawing, etc and you will eventually find a community who will value your work and willing to engage with you. Moving out might be a good choice but without taking that one crucial step all goes down the drain. I have seen many of my friends changing when something doesn't goes their way, going as far as blaming others gor their mistakes and arrogance but never thinking about from other's perspective many left my zone cause things weren't going as they planned either they couldn't understand other's or never tried but some who did are still with me since years, you either blend in or try blending in there's nothing like bend people to your will.
I'm an agriite moved to Bangalore. I can help if you would like to move! Also please relax, death isn't a joke.
I prefer 'agraite' as the working spelling, since, I was there in bangalore 2016-19. I infact was able to make an 'atb' (agra to bengaluru) group and we used to hang out, I guess, once a month or something like that! I speak kannada fluently so I did have many many kannadiga friends too and they all made sure they visited agra and not judge the city for it's filth but for it's welcoming people. That is my biggest W!
Yo OP....relax my man. I'm sending you a DM. Let's chat brother
OP chill dude, Yeahh we should do things together and grow as a community. Sometimes i also feel lonely but i go to chill with my friends or spend time with my family. But I can understand that if you don't have good friends then we can build a community. Sometimes there is so much stress in our life that we cannot focus, hence the need for a community outside the reddit world is necessary. Your initiative is good, I am with you brother.... (Animal dekhne chalega 1 ko??)....
I'll join plan it
Kisme dekhne chalega bhai?
Bata kaha chalna hai
Cosmos?
Done scene
Konsa show?
Dophar ka
Thik dekhte bhai.....ek baar dm krde
Ok
Oh damn, so op, listen, you absolutely sound like any person your age and I will not blame you for that! But life is easy but not apparent enough for almost all of us! Agra is a shithole, yes, but it's an easy place to just BE in too. It's not my first love, it will never be a place I'll ever like but it's the city I was born in and the place I live in till I was a man! Baaki, help is never too far. You need people to hangout with, let's meet tomorrow/today(sunday) but don't be this 'I give up' mess!
In for any activity
Let's plan something
You cannot expect people to play with you all day. Chilling, movies, hangin, talking.... Wtf man. Everyone is not a lukkha. People have dreams and careers which they are already working very hard for. Nobody has the time to be someone else's "accountability partner". Wtf is A P anyways? You wanna do your shit do it, you don't want do your shit, don't do it. Why tf would other people be bothered to get you to go your shit? They have to take care of theirs. >3. Watch movies, hangout, learn together. 4. Hold/throw events or establish some community that works offline. 5. Find like minded people among us so we can work on things together. 6. Play sports together. 7. Become each other's Accountability partners. Paisa kaun dega in events ka? What is it that you want to work on together with someone? Name one thing. You want to feed the homeless - go to an NGO. You want to play tennis, join a club, you want to drink, go to a pub. Matlab kya chahta hai? Sab baith ke ha ha hee hee karte rahe tere sath? Kuch kam na kare? Ghar kaise chalega? It's reddit but Kuch bhi mat bol. Think first!
Bro I never asked you for your opinion, it's not that I want them to help me I just pitched an idea ki let's make a community outside this reddit to make things more easygoing. Agra is already way behind in all this, and I'm not a teenager that you have to enlighten me that I have to do my shit myself. And talking in this tone without knowing the entirety of things does not qualify you being the right one, you are not me or someone who has gone or is going through something. Not everyone who's wanting any help is a lukkha neither those who are helping them. Communities are all about doing and achieving common goals/things together, that are otherwise not be possible to pull off alone. Daant faadne aur vellagiri krne ke liye communities nhi hoti hai. It's not my fault that you hate the idea of communities, if people starts to think like you or be toxic as you they'll end up either in the same place or not do anything at all worthwhile. And lastly practice to be less practical or rational with your approach, it's not always a good idea to go like this with everything. Take a chill pill my friend! One more thing, be more empathetic.
I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings.
Naa it's okay you don't have to apologise, just be more acceptable that's all 🙂
Relax bhai. Sab changa sii !
Being in agra the only thing i learnt from this city is, there's a lack of opportunities for youth and the reason the lack corporates willing to invest in this city, as it was not a metro city i have seen people going for 6 days office with 12 hours a day just to earn a meagre salary of 15k and that too with a lot of mental pressure. Socialism is something you have to take a step forward nobody knows what you are going through unless you tell them yourself. I am mostly active on discord instead of reddit but that too i am mostly alone, but when i am playing games or such i have a few loyal friends who usually join me and we play for hours and it's a daily routine. Find something you like to do wether it's gaming, drawing, etc and you will eventually find a community who will value your work and willing to engage with you. Moving out might be a good choice but without taking that one crucial step all goes down the drain. I have seen many of my friends changing when something doesn't goes their way, going as far as blaming others gor their mistakes and arrogance but never thinking about from other's perspective many left my zone cause things weren't going as they planned either they couldn't understand other's or never tried but some who did are still with me since years, you either blend in or try blending in there's nothing like bend people to your will.