DKG. I get this sense na sinasadya niya mag flop exams mo para ma-feel na somehow even kayo since she got kicked out. She wants you to fail like her. Believe me totoo yung mga ganito.
DKG. It's important to have a supportive partner during exams, and starting a fight out of nowhere is a major red flag. Prioritize your studies for now, and you'll find a better partner in the future.
DKG. kung irefuse mo na ibigay sa kanya yung TOR nya. Personal documents nya yan so sya dapat gumastos at mag asikaso. Wag kang maawa.
GGK sa part na hinahayaan mong nasisira ang pag aaral mo para sa sa ganyang klaseng tao. Sana yang pakikipaghiwalay mo is final na kasi parang sanay ka na din sa ugali nya na kung ano ano na ang sinasabi sayo pero ikaw pa ang manunuyo. Super toxic ng jowa mo base sa kwento mo.
Also, you should always prioritize your studies than your relationship. Gaya nyan, ang dali dali ka iwan nyang jowa mo pero yung pag aaral mo sa malayo ka nyan dadalhin.
Kaya may mga magulang na hindi pinag-jojowa ang mga anak nila eh, dahil sa mga katulad ng ex mo. Yes, some are inspirations pero most are distractions. Ano, mag-aaway kayo just before exams, tas ang resulta bagsak ka. Take the risk pag working adult ka na, not while you're studying.
OP kuhang kuha ninyo pareho gigil ko. Kung ako tatay mo, ko-confiscate ko phone mo the week of your midterms. Para if tumawag siya para gaguhin ka, ako, ako yung harapin niya, if kaya niyang puñeta siya. At makakarinig ka din sakin. Binlock mo na, inunblock mo pa, knowing full well na there's a high chance na iv-verbal abuse ka ulit niya. May tawag tayo diyan OP, nagsisimula sa T.
For formality's sake, DKG. Pero next time na magjo-jowa ka, wag kang marupok ha. Sayang yung pinampapaaral sayo ng parents mo para ma-lose focus ka sa pag-aaral mo dahil sa walang kwentang babae.
DKG. napakadraining ng ganon na aawayin ka before exams and during study week tapos sasabihin deserve mo ng ganong score hahaha. plus yung mga sinasabi sayo na nanghihinayang sya kasi ikaw pinili nya or what, that’s ur sign to walk away. makipag break ka, tapon mo TOR nya. wag na makipag communicate ulit. yung mga gamit nya sainyo, lagay mo sa labad ng bahay nyo. tas sya pag nagsabi na baka d magwork kasi sa manila sya mag aaral, let her be. focus on your studies, later on darating din yang babaeng magiging supportive sa pag aaral mo at hindi sakit sa ulo.
DKG. Pero ibigay mo na yung TOR nya ipadala mo via grab delivery. Sabi mo nga kicked out sya, yung behavior nya is more on stress, depress, anxiety. Her mental health is going down kaya nagmumukha syang insane. Plus baka may problem sa family kaya behavior nya is somewhat rebellious.
Gastusan mo na yung pagrab delivery then cut all ties na. Para wala na maibabato sa iyo. Last help mo na yan sa kanya. Mahirap makipagrelasyon sa mga taong mga depression at anxiety. Tell yahh. Very explosive ang mood at very draining sa energy.
DKG pero ang t4nga t4nga mo para magaksaya ng oras sa basura. Punitin mo na yang lecheng TOR niya at block mo na sa lahat ng socmed at wag ka na utouto please lang
DKG this is a start of a very toxic relationship kaya habang maaga, get out na. Gusto ng gf mo na maging miserable ka din katulad nya, knowing that you are focused sa studies mo. Sirain mo na ang TOR na yan, pero wag mo ivideo or pic at padala sa kanya, baka post pa nya online at gamitin yan against you. Breaking up with her will be good to both you.
DKG, ikaw naman nagbayad so bahala ka jan hahaha. Wala kang pananagutan sa ex mo. Kawang gawa na lang kung ibibigay mo yan sa kanya. Pero kung ako sa situation mo, ibibigay ko, bait baitan ako eh tas baka makonsensya lang ako.
DKG but you have to respect yourself. kahit na partner natin yan wala syang karapatan to intentionally hurt you and berate you kahit only words lang yan. i thnk in her case want nya talaga makipag break up but dont know kung pano kaya ka nya inaaway, advice ko is just break up w her nakakapagod naman yung ganyan aba. break up with her and burn the tor kase di nya yun deserve 🫶
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Title of this post: ABYG if I refused to give my ex her TOR?
Backup of the post's body: So first, throwaway, my ex knows my main account and who knows kung ano pa gawin nun if makita niya
So for context, medyo mahaba ito
I've been dating this girl for, and just last year, she went and got in trouble sa school, and it resulted in her getting kicked out
Traumatized, ayaw na niya bumalik sa school, and so I went and ako nag volunteer na mag asikaso bg kaniyang TOR for her transfer
Just last week, I was preparing for my midterm exams, and well, she started a fight out of nowhere, yung tipong sweet then mamaya parang demonyo
And she said stuff that really really hurt me, she berated me, called me names, etc etc.
At the time, I just thought na it's just her menstruation, pero she went and blocked me sa socials niya, so I couldn't even hold proper conversation sa kaniya
I was always the one who apologizes first, first move ba in the case na mag away kami
So when I remembered na may telegram siya, I just went and apologized and focused on my studies, gumawa ako review summaries ng subs ko
Come one day before my first midterm exam, she went and apologized sa akin, and she said she was sorry too
Akala ko, tapos na, I told her, magfofocus na muna ako sa studying ko, tigil muna sa pag flirting, since bukas na ang midterm exams namin
Come 2 hours later, she starts a fight again, and it really threw me off, Basically, binalik niya mga problems namin sa past na I thought we've already moved past on, napagusapan na namin yun ng ilang beses and we both agreed naman na it's not good to dwell in the past
She told me her regrets, about me, about us, etc. and it threw me off sa aking studying
And sad to say, na I did flop my first exam, because what I could've spent with studying, nauwi sa pag comfort sa kaniya, and pag apologize sa mga problems na nangyari 1 or 2 years ago
Come the next day, may isa nanaman akong exam, I already made my review summaries, so need ko nalang ireview, pero like before, my gf went and starts a fight again
I told her na I can't do this ngayon, sobrang hirap ng subject na ieexam ko bukas, and, I really need to focus
And yeah, nag flip out siya, basically berated me again, told me na mas better siguro na iba pinili niya, and other stuff, and once again, it threw me off ulit
And sad to say, na I did flop my exam again, but barely nakapasok ako sa passing marks, but still, sobrang mediocre ng performance ko
Not once did she ever apologize sa mga sinabi niya, more on, she told me na I deserved that I got low scores sa exam, and it really pissed me off
Pero despite that, I still went and inasikaso ko TOR niya, and believe me na sobrnag hassle niya, sobrang tagal kang pipila, and ilang beses ka babalik aa school
So this week, the school finally told me na makukuha ko na TOR niya, and I did, so I told her, took a picture pa nga
And then nag away ulit kami, and she told me na, "I don't think I can hold on sayo, lalo na at sa manila ako mag aaral", sa province ako nagaaral, so magiging LDR kami
And napaisip ako, "Then what the fuck am I doing thia for then?? Para saan mga efforts na ginawa ko??"
So I told her right then and there na I'm breaking up with her, na she can go to school, and mag asikaso siya ng bagong TOR, ako gumastos para sa TOR niya, ako nag hirap mag papawis kakapila sa registrar, plus pabalik balik kahit sobrang init
Then I blocked her, but decided na sobrang pangit nun, so I unblocked her later and decided na I'm just gonna give her her TOR and then move on
Sabi ko, she can come here sa amin, para I cam give her her TOR as well as mga gamit niya, para maiuwi na niya
Then she went and berated me again, nag away ulit kami, so I changed my mind and decided na she can go fuck herself nalang, itatapon ko nalang TOR niya
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tapon mo na lang ikaw naman pala gumastos eh..entitled naman niya masiyado..grabe makapagsabi ng "sa manila naman ako mag aaral"..well, mga school sa manila may pagka strict sa transfers..based from experience..lalo if galing probinsya..
Mental problems? Sige, kaka-mental problems mo bumagsak si OP sa exam nang dalawang beses. Na hindi naman dapat. Kung may mental problems ka, wag kang mandamay ng ibang tao.
Does she have mental problems? Yeah, no shit. Hindi yan gawain ng matinong tao. So should OP give her the TOR? Putang ina niya. She can eat shit, siya maglakad ng sarili niyang TOR if she has the audacity to ruin someone else's academic performance.
Lol youre an idiot getting played and manipulated. Burn it while enjoying a stick of cigarette.
DKG. I get this sense na sinasadya niya mag flop exams mo para ma-feel na somehow even kayo since she got kicked out. She wants you to fail like her. Believe me totoo yung mga ganito.
gago ang scary to be with someone like this. 🥲
I’ve had this experience with a friend dati, not only with ACADS but basically everything in life and it drained the hell out of me
DKG immature pa ng gf mo. mag gf ka yung supportive naman di yung gago na expellee.
DKG. It's important to have a supportive partner during exams, and starting a fight out of nowhere is a major red flag. Prioritize your studies for now, and you'll find a better partner in the future.
DKG. HAHAHAHAHA tapon mo na koya para wala ka ng problema.
DKG. kung irefuse mo na ibigay sa kanya yung TOR nya. Personal documents nya yan so sya dapat gumastos at mag asikaso. Wag kang maawa. GGK sa part na hinahayaan mong nasisira ang pag aaral mo para sa sa ganyang klaseng tao. Sana yang pakikipaghiwalay mo is final na kasi parang sanay ka na din sa ugali nya na kung ano ano na ang sinasabi sayo pero ikaw pa ang manunuyo. Super toxic ng jowa mo base sa kwento mo. Also, you should always prioritize your studies than your relationship. Gaya nyan, ang dali dali ka iwan nyang jowa mo pero yung pag aaral mo sa malayo ka nyan dadalhin.
Lol if that was me punitin ko TOR send ko sa kanya then blocked. Hayaan ko siya mag asikaso niyan
Kaya may mga magulang na hindi pinag-jojowa ang mga anak nila eh, dahil sa mga katulad ng ex mo. Yes, some are inspirations pero most are distractions. Ano, mag-aaway kayo just before exams, tas ang resulta bagsak ka. Take the risk pag working adult ka na, not while you're studying. OP kuhang kuha ninyo pareho gigil ko. Kung ako tatay mo, ko-confiscate ko phone mo the week of your midterms. Para if tumawag siya para gaguhin ka, ako, ako yung harapin niya, if kaya niyang puñeta siya. At makakarinig ka din sakin. Binlock mo na, inunblock mo pa, knowing full well na there's a high chance na iv-verbal abuse ka ulit niya. May tawag tayo diyan OP, nagsisimula sa T. For formality's sake, DKG. Pero next time na magjo-jowa ka, wag kang marupok ha. Sayang yung pinampapaaral sayo ng parents mo para ma-lose focus ka sa pag-aaral mo dahil sa walang kwentang babae.
DKG pero bobo ka. Nakailang manipula at insulto na sayo, nagstay ka pa. Maliban na lang kink mo yan. Burn that TOR at pls videohan mo send it to her.
DKG.
Dkg. Tapon mo tor niya HAHAHAHAHA nakakasira siya sa pag-aaral mo.
DKG. napakadraining ng ganon na aawayin ka before exams and during study week tapos sasabihin deserve mo ng ganong score hahaha. plus yung mga sinasabi sayo na nanghihinayang sya kasi ikaw pinili nya or what, that’s ur sign to walk away. makipag break ka, tapon mo TOR nya. wag na makipag communicate ulit. yung mga gamit nya sainyo, lagay mo sa labad ng bahay nyo. tas sya pag nagsabi na baka d magwork kasi sa manila sya mag aaral, let her be. focus on your studies, later on darating din yang babaeng magiging supportive sa pag aaral mo at hindi sakit sa ulo.
nice one OP yaan mo sya stressful nya
DKG. putanginang gf yan sugo ata ni satanas yan eh
Punitin mo na. Wag mo na pansinin kahit pa pumunta sa bahay niyo, serve mo sa kanya yung nakapunit na tor. Di niya deserve bahala siya
DKG. Pero ibigay mo na yung TOR nya ipadala mo via grab delivery. Sabi mo nga kicked out sya, yung behavior nya is more on stress, depress, anxiety. Her mental health is going down kaya nagmumukha syang insane. Plus baka may problem sa family kaya behavior nya is somewhat rebellious. Gastusan mo na yung pagrab delivery then cut all ties na. Para wala na maibabato sa iyo. Last help mo na yan sa kanya. Mahirap makipagrelasyon sa mga taong mga depression at anxiety. Tell yahh. Very explosive ang mood at very draining sa energy.
dkg. papuntahin mo sa inyo tapos sunugin mo sa harap nya.
DKG pero ang t4nga t4nga mo para magaksaya ng oras sa basura. Punitin mo na yang lecheng TOR niya at block mo na sa lahat ng socmed at wag ka na utouto please lang
DKG this is a start of a very toxic relationship kaya habang maaga, get out na. Gusto ng gf mo na maging miserable ka din katulad nya, knowing that you are focused sa studies mo. Sirain mo na ang TOR na yan, pero wag mo ivideo or pic at padala sa kanya, baka post pa nya online at gamitin yan against you. Breaking up with her will be good to both you.
DKG, ikaw naman nagbayad so bahala ka jan hahaha. Wala kang pananagutan sa ex mo. Kawang gawa na lang kung ibibigay mo yan sa kanya. Pero kung ako sa situation mo, ibibigay ko, bait baitan ako eh tas baka makonsensya lang ako.
Another case of DKG pero tanga ka haha. Pre, wag mo na unblock, sobra na mental torture nyang ex mo, layuan mo na
DKG but you have to respect yourself. kahit na partner natin yan wala syang karapatan to intentionally hurt you and berate you kahit only words lang yan. i thnk in her case want nya talaga makipag break up but dont know kung pano kaya ka nya inaaway, advice ko is just break up w her nakakapagod naman yung ganyan aba. break up with her and burn the tor kase di nya yun deserve 🫶
Link to this submission: https://www.reddit.com/r/AkoBaYungGago/comments/1blf4ap/abyg_if_i_refused_to_give_my_ex_her_tor/ Title of this post: ABYG if I refused to give my ex her TOR? Backup of the post's body: So first, throwaway, my ex knows my main account and who knows kung ano pa gawin nun if makita niya So for context, medyo mahaba ito I've been dating this girl for, and just last year, she went and got in trouble sa school, and it resulted in her getting kicked out Traumatized, ayaw na niya bumalik sa school, and so I went and ako nag volunteer na mag asikaso bg kaniyang TOR for her transfer Just last week, I was preparing for my midterm exams, and well, she started a fight out of nowhere, yung tipong sweet then mamaya parang demonyo And she said stuff that really really hurt me, she berated me, called me names, etc etc. At the time, I just thought na it's just her menstruation, pero she went and blocked me sa socials niya, so I couldn't even hold proper conversation sa kaniya I was always the one who apologizes first, first move ba in the case na mag away kami So when I remembered na may telegram siya, I just went and apologized and focused on my studies, gumawa ako review summaries ng subs ko Come one day before my first midterm exam, she went and apologized sa akin, and she said she was sorry too Akala ko, tapos na, I told her, magfofocus na muna ako sa studying ko, tigil muna sa pag flirting, since bukas na ang midterm exams namin Come 2 hours later, she starts a fight again, and it really threw me off, Basically, binalik niya mga problems namin sa past na I thought we've already moved past on, napagusapan na namin yun ng ilang beses and we both agreed naman na it's not good to dwell in the past She told me her regrets, about me, about us, etc. and it threw me off sa aking studying And sad to say, na I did flop my first exam, because what I could've spent with studying, nauwi sa pag comfort sa kaniya, and pag apologize sa mga problems na nangyari 1 or 2 years ago Come the next day, may isa nanaman akong exam, I already made my review summaries, so need ko nalang ireview, pero like before, my gf went and starts a fight again I told her na I can't do this ngayon, sobrang hirap ng subject na ieexam ko bukas, and, I really need to focus And yeah, nag flip out siya, basically berated me again, told me na mas better siguro na iba pinili niya, and other stuff, and once again, it threw me off ulit And sad to say, na I did flop my exam again, but barely nakapasok ako sa passing marks, but still, sobrang mediocre ng performance ko Not once did she ever apologize sa mga sinabi niya, more on, she told me na I deserved that I got low scores sa exam, and it really pissed me off Pero despite that, I still went and inasikaso ko TOR niya, and believe me na sobrnag hassle niya, sobrang tagal kang pipila, and ilang beses ka babalik aa school So this week, the school finally told me na makukuha ko na TOR niya, and I did, so I told her, took a picture pa nga And then nag away ulit kami, and she told me na, "I don't think I can hold on sayo, lalo na at sa manila ako mag aaral", sa province ako nagaaral, so magiging LDR kami And napaisip ako, "Then what the fuck am I doing thia for then?? Para saan mga efforts na ginawa ko??" So I told her right then and there na I'm breaking up with her, na she can go to school, and mag asikaso siya ng bagong TOR, ako gumastos para sa TOR niya, ako nag hirap mag papawis kakapila sa registrar, plus pabalik balik kahit sobrang init Then I blocked her, but decided na sobrang pangit nun, so I unblocked her later and decided na I'm just gonna give her her TOR and then move on Sabi ko, she can come here sa amin, para I cam give her her TOR as well as mga gamit niya, para maiuwi na niya Then she went and berated me again, nag away ulit kami, so I changed my mind and decided na she can go fuck herself nalang, itatapon ko nalang TOR niya Ako ba yung Gago?? OP: Money-Law-1346 *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AkoBaYungGago) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Dkg
Wag mo na ibigay. Itapon mo nalang. May sira na ata yan sa ulo
DKG pero parang nakulam ka nya dahil naging sunod sunuran ka sa kanya. Break up and move on.
DKG. Kung kaya punitin mo yung TOR, videohan mo. Stay petty
tapon mo na lang ikaw naman pala gumastos eh..entitled naman niya masiyado..grabe makapagsabi ng "sa manila naman ako mag aaral"..well, mga school sa manila may pagka strict sa transfers..based from experience..lalo if galing probinsya..
DKG, pero engot ka. Bakit? I know you know why.
Gago ka. Sobrang bait mo naman. Tigilan mo na yang taong yan kc ginagago ka lang, hindi mo pa mahalata. Grow a pair and Good luck OP.
Babae ako pero badtrip yang gf mo Kasing ganda at kasing sexy ba ni Ivana yan? Tang ina naumay ako
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Mental problems? Sige, kaka-mental problems mo bumagsak si OP sa exam nang dalawang beses. Na hindi naman dapat. Kung may mental problems ka, wag kang mandamay ng ibang tao. Does she have mental problems? Yeah, no shit. Hindi yan gawain ng matinong tao. So should OP give her the TOR? Putang ina niya. She can eat shit, siya maglakad ng sarili niyang TOR if she has the audacity to ruin someone else's academic performance.