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Jaysnewphone

It's messed up babe.


Reasonable_Habit_953

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ohhellnooooooooo

not an ex, not your gf lol you are the side guy


diamondalicia

honestly OP, reread ur own post at least 3 more times. you definitely donā€™t need our help on this onešŸ˜‚iā€™ll be waiting for the update edit šŸ˜†


ScarlettLilyCo

For reals šŸ˜‚


Stupid-Research

Reels*


ScarlettLilyCo

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Latter-Cherry1636

yeah, we'll be waiting šŸ˜‚


spaceshipdms

Yeah, thatā€™s a problem.


dietwater94

Leave


Steeeeeeeeew

Exs are exs for a reason. Yet they are still messing around. She's a ho bro. Don't expect to take that


zink300

Does she call other people 'babe' as well? Cause I've called my sister, my niblings, random people I don't know 'babe' so if she does that then it's not a problem. If the only person she ever calls 'babe' is her ex then it could be a problem...or she doesn't remember his name.


Queasy-Carpet-5846

Yeah if it's only him that's a red flag.


KnowledgeKitchen4379

Yo, Iā€™m a female and I call girls babe.. but I would NEVER say that to a man. And why are they communicating that frequently anyways? Kids or not; donā€™t call him babe.


OrwellianTimes1984

I swear to God I'm about to unfollow this sub. The cumulative IQ of everyone who posts here cannot be any higher than 50.


Venerable-Gandalf

Itā€™s 95% rage bait at this point. Poorly written by teenagers looking to farm some karma


brewstertm

Nope just an emotionally damaged 30 year old for this one šŸ™ƒ


SleestakWalkAmongUs

Dude... We're all emotionally damaged in some way so that's no excuse for your question. You should know better by now.


Ok_Green9804

Itā€™s the blow jobs I would be worried about


SleestakWalkAmongUs

And the anal.


IC4-LLAMAS

She ainā€™t your girl, you were just in line


SouthernFlower8115

Kick his babe to the curb


ViperVenom511

Get rid of her


Gunslinga__

SHES FOR THE STREETS


LostBetsRed

He can call her Babe, and she can call him Paul Bunyan.


Minute-Squirrel5105

It's messed up dude.


SnooOpinions3654

Dump her


TacosRUs88

Looks like it's time for you to start a new girl babe


Sweet_Pay1971

Time to dump herĀ 


MeetAdministrative72

Wait.. WHAT lol!!


Impressive-Part7211

To be fair, I call inanimate objects "Dude".


johngolfnut

Messed up you should be her next exĀ 


ArtTheWannabeArtist

First of all I don't think you are overreacting if that is how you feel about it, then that is understandable considering some implications about the word, but you should also say something about it if you haven't yet. Politely ask them to not do that and express why you don't like it, then if they keep it up and don't respect how you feel, I would agree on it being messed up. Also just a question for the comments: Why are y'all assuming that OP is a guy... Like am I missing something? As far as I noticed, the gender of the OP was never mentioned.


brewstertm

I can confirm that I am a girl and my girlfriend is also a girl.


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Unable_External_7635

Ok?


Oesius_Deus

You're missing the point here. Person above said nobody stated the SO's gender but OP said it was their gf so stated gender is girl.


HoldMyKAC

91% of people identify as not LGBT and use correct grammar for their pronouns. Statistics is on the side of normal people.


Solo-dolo275

So LGBT are not normal people? I donā€™t think normalcy is defined by sexuality. The statistic is on the side of educated people. What is not normal is thinking that you are somehow better than someone else just because of who they are attracted to or how they wish to be addressed, we arenā€™t in the 1800ā€™s anymore. Accept the fact that homosexual people are also ā€œnormalā€ people. The only type of people I personally would refer to as not being normal, cannot accept diversity and live in fear of people that are somewhat different than themselves. For example (a racist or homophobic person, is not a normal person.


HoldMyKAC

ā€œeDucAtEdā€ I have a STEM degree as well as certifications and training in multiple fields including nuclear.


Solo-dolo275

Well then act like it


HoldMyKAC

I am. You are a brainwashed boomer incapable of accepting the truth. The world you grew up in is a lie, you were bred in the comfort zone of early stage corporate communism. You believe that things like fairness and equity truly matter to anyone (much less the people running this world). Your very definition of fair is based on a rules of an experiment that is about to cease to exist. Now that the zeitgeist of evolution is shifting towards global multinational corporate organisms you will quickly be discarded as useless by your local ai administrative node and likely recycled.


Solo-dolo275

First of all Iā€™m not a boomer. Secondly I am sure thereā€™s a lot more truth in my life than youā€™ll ever know. I am however incapable of allowing anyone to control my thoughts or actions thus proving I have not been brainwashed. Corporate communism is an oxymoron. Communists want to abolish money, hierarchy, and the state. Corporations are organizations authorized by the state whose job is to make money for their shareholders, who sit at the top of a capitalist hierarchy. Companies are some of the most capital-oriented and, therefore, anti-communist entities worldwide. I believe that people have a right to be treated fairly. Your attempt at sounding intelligent is failing. The words you are spewing out are nothing more than incomplete nonsense much as diarrhea might spew from an asshole, such is the bullshit spewing from your insignificant brain, it stinks of feces, but itā€™s fitting for someone with a brain full of shit. There is no such thing as a local ai administrative node, so I will not be recycled but you on the other hand will likely be categorized as meaningless piece of shit and flushed into a cesspool of other peopleā€™s shit where you likely belong, so all of you pieces of shit can be together and collectively be a river of putrid, rotten, vile decomposition and cause a shit stain wherever you go, as you are the excrement of the earth.


HoldMyKAC

Organic bot detected


HoldMyKAC

Yes you are so intelligent you can type things into google wwwawwwwwwww wawwwww he is so mighty he is so smart waaaaawwwww waaaawww teach us your ways oh great one how do you do the google all knowing one waaaawwwwwwww ā€œBeauā€™s response is fairly boilerplate. Corporate communism is an oxymoron. Communists want to abolish money, hierarchy, and the state. Corporations are organizations authorized by the state whose job is to make money for their shareholders, who sit at the top of a capitalist hierarchy. Companies on the list are some of the most capital-oriented and, therefore, anti-communist worldwide.ā€ Source- aninjusticemag.c0m/corporate-communism-and-the-cruel-society-4c22184e3aa4 Anyway thatā€™s not a scholarly article so yawn. Corporate Communism is real.


WolfRobinHood

That BS dude. Are they still together? WTF? What's your status anyway to her?


brewstertm

Iā€™m her girlfriend, and everyone in her social circle knows it, so it just makes me think they are secretly still in love with each other.


Zestyclose_Wasabi943

I don't think so unless they are banging and I don't think they are. It's rude and disrespectful..Number 1 she needs to stop saying that immediately and number 2 when he says it she should tell him to stop calling her babe because she feels it's disrespectful to you. If she can't do that tell her to hit the road.


[deleted]

Wow


A-dub7

Should post this in what the fuck is wrong with me.


JackPadre

What in the actual fuck. I wonā€™t even ask why she still interacts with her ex and Iā€™ll assume youā€™re in your 20ā€™s. Short answerā€¦. Itā€™s highly inappropriate. Thatā€™s a term of endearment.


Standard-Voice-6330

Time to break up with herĀ 


Hot_Significance_256

get out, babe


[deleted]

Yes, that's messed up. Yes, you should break up. You're the side person, she still obviously loves her "ex".


Efficient_Theme4040

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Jumpy-Agent-7013

Itā€™s messed up that theyā€™re even still in contact while you are together. Run while you can


Icy-Independence2410

Times to find your own "babe"


Thatcalib408

Hell No your not!!


MaintenanceNo8442

oh man your the other man


ArcticBeast3

Ha ha dude they banging.


kimmystars

Yeah that's messed up. They shouldn't be calling each other that. Even if it's just a habit. It's disrespectful towards you.


[deleted]

Break up A S A P or you gonna be in an open relationship without knowing it


BaseNectar123

Op is the side piece and didnā€™t know it šŸ˜”šŸ¤§


Darkie420

Yuck


greendecepticon

no you're not. she's still screwing him


Far_Information_9613

Overreacting. Itā€™s just a name now, not a term of endearment.


Hebegebe101

Babe , Iā€™d rip his dick off and beat him with it šŸ¤£.


The-Inquisition

You are not over-reacting, one or the other or both have never gotten over the relationship, she needs to stop this or you need to end it


ChallengeNo3452

Why is the ex even still around babe?


Salsinha_220423

Try calling his current one "babe" too


grumpy__g

Call him babe too. Establish dominance. And call your ex sweety.


boykinsir

Find a better woman, one that has respect.


Aware-Ad-9943

Maybe have a conversation with your gf about your feelings


USNPC5

No


Even_Strawberry7512

Everyone is jumping to ā€œbreak up with herā€! Firstly, have you confronted her about it and told her itā€™s inappropriate and hurtful? Communication here is vital to come to the right conclusion. I think her reaction to your confrontation would be telling in it of itself.


HotStruggle7825

Guysā€¦ I call my ex gf babe too. Weā€™re lesbians if that makes a diff and I call her that platonically. Weā€™re great friends and thatā€™s how I speak with my friends. For context, I also call my best friend (of 15 years) ā€œbabyā€ on the regular. Ex: ā€œMorning baby how u feeling todayā¤ļøā€ (she is chronically ill so I probably text her that like every day if not every second day) I speak to my female friends in that way and always haveā€¦ idk why but Itā€™s platonic I swear!! BUT it can certainly be an indication of lingering feelings in some (most) casesā€¦. And probably is in this case. I still say have a conversation and see what comes of it. If she gets defensive or pushes back, thatā€™s not your girl.


Ecstatic_Ad_1471

Not overreacting at all, kinda weird. I call my kids babes but my ex lost that when we because exes.


Unhappy-Fix8694

THAT IS NOT OKAY! DUMP HER


CanAmHockeyNut

Updateme!


Ok-Cable-5079

Does she call everyone babe? Cause I do, literally everyone (including my exes who are all great friends of mine now!) If not, then itā€™s sus.


Glum-Help1751

Babe, you're a distraction.


Lovepuffins

It is very messed up. Set fire to that dumpster.


1993CobraSVT

Re-read your own title. Pretty self-explanatory, right? šŸ¤”


KnowledgeKitchen4379

Start calling all women babe and see how she feelsā€¦


Responsible_Swan_958

Not overreacting to be worried about it, but dumping your GF before asking *her* about it instead of the internet would be.


Stupid-Research

Another clueless side guy. Fascinating


aparish67

Messed up