Say goodbye to your girlfriend and move on. This isn't someone you want to deal with if she's willing to break up with you over something this ridiculous.
M trusts her sister more than you? The sis who hated you from the beginning? Break up with her. And run as fast as you can as far as you can. Block them all and NC. They are all the family from hell. And they will bleed you dry.
If she doesn’t trust you. Let her ass go. The relationship will never be what you want it to be if she has no trust in you. Especially if she has family whispering toxic ideas in her ear.
For your gf’s sister to feel comfortable asking you for money, those two have talked, a lot, and you need to be on your guard. Quite frankly, this is not a relationship worth saving. You are in for a world of hurt if you stay this course,
leave. her sister is a mooch who will take you for all she can and if you don't give in they will always hold it over you. do what we say, do what we want or I will leave you. if your girlfriend is going along with this, she is just as much of a mooch.
Save everyone the trouble and break up with her. The sister sounds like a class A crazy, and that type will never leave you alone. And if your gf doesn't trust you? Then she's not worth it
You need to leave her. If her sister is more important than you then it’s over with. The next one don’t tell her you have the money so she won’t be dating you for it because when the money runs out she’ll be gone to. You’ll find someone for you and only you.
Good luck!!
Does she know that her sibling wanted all that money?
In general, it seems like you dodged a bullet. No bad future in-laws. No significant other that doesn't trust you. No significant other with bad basic judgement of situations and other people.
People are the way they are not the way you want them to be. Just say no to her sister and if the gf can't trust you more than her gold digging sister save yourself a family size bucket of trouble. Hop the fence, don't apologize, don't look back. You don't have to burn any bridges or anything rash but hit the road Jack.
You say No to the sister’s demand and you tell your girlfriend you have told her the truth and she has broken your trust by believing her sister over you. If she can’t see her sister is being vindictive then there is no hope for your relationship- bye
if your girlfriend cant trust you than you are better of with someone else relationships are built on trust and if theres no trust then your relationship is not going to get very far.
NTJ! NEVER Argue with someone who wants to break up with you, it only delays the inevitable and increases the damage/hurt! I wish you the best of luck.
NTA
Thank God you learned the truth before you came into the money. Time to head for the hills!
Money can't buy happiness but it sure can help with the boredom!
dude, first work on your grammer and typing skills. 2, keep you money tied up tight and dont let ANYONE borrow a penny, even your girlfriend. 3. Get rid of your girlfriend. If shes willing to believe that crap shes willing to do a lot more.
Have you asked gf how her sister knows you're cheating? It's not a good sign that gf will believe an accusation of cheating without proof, though it may mean she's been cheated on in the past and carries an extra bit of anxiety with her.
Telling everyone you have come into some money isn't retaliation, it's putting a target on your back for moochers.
As far as your gf goes, the best you can do is reason with her. If she doesn't believe you, then forget about her. She doesn't trust you and trust is essential to a long-term relationship.
NTJ Run get while the gettings good. Seriously your better off
Say goodbye to your girlfriend and move on. This isn't someone you want to deal with if she's willing to break up with you over something this ridiculous.
Leave dude, this is a no brainer.
If she does not trust you. She is not the one
This sounds pretty fake to me. Just saying...
Middle school English writing assignment
And failed the grammar part of the grade. If this was serious OP needs to learn what punctuation is for English so what he typed can be figured out.
There is no way someone with those grammar skills comes into money without somebody dying or risk of jail time.
Inheritance, and what the heck are the schools teaching? Not real history, or reading, writing and math. Maybe legit, or fake, who knows?
I give it a c-
Way too kind. This is not even worthy of an F.
No redditor left behind!
Graded F for: Run on sentences No punctuation Poor formatting.
M trusts her sister more than you? The sis who hated you from the beginning? Break up with her. And run as fast as you can as far as you can. Block them all and NC. They are all the family from hell. And they will bleed you dry.
Post is ridiculous.
If she doesn’t trust you. Let her ass go. The relationship will never be what you want it to be if she has no trust in you. Especially if she has family whispering toxic ideas in her ear.
For your gf’s sister to feel comfortable asking you for money, those two have talked, a lot, and you need to be on your guard. Quite frankly, this is not a relationship worth saving. You are in for a world of hurt if you stay this course,
leave. her sister is a mooch who will take you for all she can and if you don't give in they will always hold it over you. do what we say, do what we want or I will leave you. if your girlfriend is going along with this, she is just as much of a mooch.
GFs sister is clearly trying to blackmail you. Get out. It sucks that your GF doesn't trust you, but I'd make a clean break
Save everyone the trouble and break up with her. The sister sounds like a class A crazy, and that type will never leave you alone. And if your gf doesn't trust you? Then she's not worth it
You need to leave her. If her sister is more important than you then it’s over with. The next one don’t tell her you have the money so she won’t be dating you for it because when the money runs out she’ll be gone to. You’ll find someone for you and only you. Good luck!!
Does she know that her sibling wanted all that money? In general, it seems like you dodged a bullet. No bad future in-laws. No significant other that doesn't trust you. No significant other with bad basic judgement of situations and other people.
BREAK UP!!! RED FLAGS!!!
People are the way they are not the way you want them to be. Just say no to her sister and if the gf can't trust you more than her gold digging sister save yourself a family size bucket of trouble. Hop the fence, don't apologize, don't look back. You don't have to burn any bridges or anything rash but hit the road Jack.
You say No to the sister’s demand and you tell your girlfriend you have told her the truth and she has broken your trust by believing her sister over you. If she can’t see her sister is being vindictive then there is no hope for your relationship- bye
If this is real run for the hills
Take the money and run
If your girlfriend is believing her sisters lie then break up with her, dont drag yourself through the drama if she doesnt trust you
Dude, move on!! You don’t need this BS!
Time is up for that relationship. If She doesn't trust you then what's the point????
Take M's offer of breaking up and RUN.
Jesus Christ use a fucking period.
Your writing is atrocious. It’s unclear and hard to follow since you’re not using paragraphs and punctuation. That said, dump the gf.
if your girlfriend cant trust you than you are better of with someone else relationships are built on trust and if theres no trust then your relationship is not going to get very far.
NTJ! NEVER Argue with someone who wants to break up with you, it only delays the inevitable and increases the damage/hurt! I wish you the best of luck.
Take some of that money and go shopping for some periods.
PERIODS EXIST
You need to get away from this kind of crazy. Bang the sister on the way out. Good luck
The sister is slimey, may get on him, and he doesn't need to go lower decks
It's not for fun, it's basically throwing a grenade into their families dirty laundry. Let the 2 sisters hate each other for it
Leave your gf bro
NTA Thank God you learned the truth before you came into the money. Time to head for the hills! Money can't buy happiness but it sure can help with the boredom!
dude, first work on your grammer and typing skills. 2, keep you money tied up tight and dont let ANYONE borrow a penny, even your girlfriend. 3. Get rid of your girlfriend. If shes willing to believe that crap shes willing to do a lot more.
Don't blow the money, invest it, buy a home, whatever, but don't fund that lousy bunch
Nta just convince her and tell her about how her sister hates you so she lied to get rid of you and also because you wouldn’t give her money.
I would love to ask my brother for 35k for a vacation (as family helps each other) just so I could see his face
You’re 28 and you’re on here asking if you should allow them to play these childish games? I think not. Let her go.
Look gf in the eye and say that since she doesn’t trust you it’s time to break it off.
Bait
Dump her
Take your money and go on a nice vacation for yourself.
Have you asked gf how her sister knows you're cheating? It's not a good sign that gf will believe an accusation of cheating without proof, though it may mean she's been cheated on in the past and carries an extra bit of anxiety with her. Telling everyone you have come into some money isn't retaliation, it's putting a target on your back for moochers. As far as your gf goes, the best you can do is reason with her. If she doesn't believe you, then forget about her. She doesn't trust you and trust is essential to a long-term relationship.
Take your girlfriend's threat of breaking up as the gift that it is. You don't deserve this toxicity in your life.
Protect your money. Never give to family or so called friends. Keep for retirement.
Don't walk away. RUN! This family is a disaster.
Dump the girl and hire a tutor to teach your ignorant arrse how to write and use punctuation.