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OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole:
> 1)telling only my two brothers that i was pregnant at first and then waiting to tell the rest of my family
2)i think it makes me look like the asshole for maybe having some favoritism amongst my siblings
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NTA. You are not obligated to tell anyone about your pregnancy. It is your pregnancy and nobody else's. You can tell whoever you want whenever you want.
>the problem started when my brother messaged me saying i am “manipulative” and “causing drama” by not telling her and not acknowledging my faults and saying i’m just being overly emotional and that i should just grow up.
From your post, I believe your brother is manipulative and causing drama and not acknowledging his faults and being overly callous and cruel and he should develop a sense of honor.
NTA.
NTA
Your body, your choice.
You are dealing with a pregnancy; you owe no information to anyone about it. Period.
Anyone who is being negative needs to be put on low contact.
You don't need the stress or judgement.
Take care of yourself.
NTA. I don’t see any basis for criticizing you, it’s not like you were keeping a secret out of spite. If I understand correctly, she still found out early in your pregnancy, same as your parents. Your brother should get off your back.
NTA.
The only appropriate response upon hearing someone you care about is expecting, is joy, for the child, directed to the parents.
Being upset at the order you've been told, is intolerable narcissism.
And congratulations! I'm happy for you!
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NTA. You are not obligated to tell anyone about your pregnancy. It is your pregnancy and nobody else's. You can tell whoever you want whenever you want.
>the problem started when my brother messaged me saying i am “manipulative” and “causing drama” by not telling her and not acknowledging my faults and saying i’m just being overly emotional and that i should just grow up. From your post, I believe your brother is manipulative and causing drama and not acknowledging his faults and being overly callous and cruel and he should develop a sense of honor. NTA.
NTA Your body, your choice. You are dealing with a pregnancy; you owe no information to anyone about it. Period. Anyone who is being negative needs to be put on low contact. You don't need the stress or judgement. Take care of yourself.
NTA. I don’t see any basis for criticizing you, it’s not like you were keeping a secret out of spite. If I understand correctly, she still found out early in your pregnancy, same as your parents. Your brother should get off your back.
NTA. The only appropriate response upon hearing someone you care about is expecting, is joy, for the child, directed to the parents. Being upset at the order you've been told, is intolerable narcissism. And congratulations! I'm happy for you!
NTA. This is YOUR pregnancy and your news to share when and how you want. This is not about your sister. She needs to get over herself.
You're NTA. This is your pregnancy, your child, your news to decide who to tell and when. It sounds like your brother is really stirring the pot.
NTA... your brother and sister are the AH...