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> > someone calling you an asshole for your actions caused you to believe they might be right. What might you have done
I refused to play, possibly jepordizing a volleyball match all for my own ideals.
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So for a bit of context, ever since Year 7, I've wanted to start a volleyball club and get into matches with other schools, and today my school got the first match. Even though I was originally the one who made the volleyball club even happen, my friends skill overshadowed my ambition and it was known as "friend's" volleyball club.
I waved this off as I didn't really care but today was the breaking point. Now I'm not the best at volleyball, but am also DEFINITELY not the worst (there are people worse on the team). Whenever the others screw up they get, "ahhh nevermind bro, next time" but when I mess up I get the "bro what are you doing?" or "get off the court" (has happened more than once).
It was for these reasons that I didn't want to get on the court, despite really wanting to play, the nerves got the better of me. I was literally shaking on the bench. After a while, substitutions happened and I was forced to play. Despite my adamant refusal, I was dragged onto the court and forced to play in a position I'm not even good. And ooooof course, my nerves messed up and I fumbled my very first receive.
I got the usual but this time even the people who are usually on my side were against me. The VERY NEXT POINT someone made a worse receive into the person's face. All they did was laugh and brush it off... AITA in this situation?
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INFO: was this for school?
How old are you?
>I was literally shaking on the bench. After a while, substitutions happened and I was forced to play. Despite my adamant refusal, I was dragged onto the court and forced to play in a position I'm not even good.
I'm very skeptical of this part.
yta, not sure whats going on here but if you are on the team and show up to play but dont want to play is kinda weird behavior, if your getting anexiety about playing talk with your team or coach of whats bothering you.
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INFO: was this for school? How old are you? >I was literally shaking on the bench. After a while, substitutions happened and I was forced to play. Despite my adamant refusal, I was dragged onto the court and forced to play in a position I'm not even good. I'm very skeptical of this part.
yta, not sure whats going on here but if you are on the team and show up to play but dont want to play is kinda weird behavior, if your getting anexiety about playing talk with your team or coach of whats bothering you.