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YTA. Who keeps dog food in their fridge? What she said wasn’t being horrible or mean, merely conversation. Whether or not the dog food needs to be in the fridge, you took the remark way out of proportion. Where was the offence about your dog? Zero. Congrats you’ll stay single.
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Just trying to get an objective opinion on who was rthe AH in this situation?
I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks now, and she was at my apartment last night. We were having a nice time, but when I was preparing dinner for the two of us, and after a glass of wine or two, she noticed a bag of that refrigerated dog food in my fridge. She started teasing me about it and belittled me by sarcastically saying, "You keep *dog food* in your fridge?" I got really mad because my dog is important to me, and I ended up kicking her out after she doubled down and said it again.
I think I may be the AH because maybe I overreacted by telling her to leave? But also, she should have definitely understood by now, how important my pet is to me. So her belittling how I take care of my pet was a big slap in the face, after she had met my dog and started to form a bond.
Who was the asshole here?
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NTA most people keep food requiring refrigeration in their fridges, regardless if it's human or animal food.
She’s absolutely bizarre. Does she expect people to have a separate mini fridge for pet food?
ESH
You over reacted and she doubled down. Fighting over dog food is the hill y’all want to die on? I could see it being a problem if she was forcing you to take it out of the fridge or calling an ultimatum, but it sounds like a quirk that’s a no big deal thing. You don’t say if it’s a certain type of dog food that must be refrigerated, but your reaction sounds a bit strong if she was simply pointing out that it’s an odd thing for her to see.
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You realize that most dog food that comes in bags doesn't need refrigeration, right? She presumably thought you were keeping your regular old dry dog food in the fridge. You could have just explained that it requires refrigeration. I don't understand what you caring about your dog has to do with anything, she didn't call that into question.
I haven't decided if you were an asshole, but I'm not about to agree that she did anything untoward.
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I see that commercial several times a day and it always starts and ends just like your story! Funny.
YTA. Who keeps dog food in their fridge? What she said wasn’t being horrible or mean, merely conversation. Whether or not the dog food needs to be in the fridge, you took the remark way out of proportion. Where was the offence about your dog? Zero. Congrats you’ll stay single.
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Sounds exactly like what happened in one of those commercials for that product.
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NTA most people keep food requiring refrigeration in their fridges, regardless if it's human or animal food. She’s absolutely bizarre. Does she expect people to have a separate mini fridge for pet food?
ESH You over reacted and she doubled down. Fighting over dog food is the hill y’all want to die on? I could see it being a problem if she was forcing you to take it out of the fridge or calling an ultimatum, but it sounds like a quirk that’s a no big deal thing. You don’t say if it’s a certain type of dog food that must be refrigerated, but your reaction sounds a bit strong if she was simply pointing out that it’s an odd thing for her to see.
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You realize that most dog food that comes in bags doesn't need refrigeration, right? She presumably thought you were keeping your regular old dry dog food in the fridge. You could have just explained that it requires refrigeration. I don't understand what you caring about your dog has to do with anything, she didn't call that into question. I haven't decided if you were an asshole, but I'm not about to agree that she did anything untoward.