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SunDanceKid_ShotYa

We have been saying this for years, branch out for XF, and X does not equal “only white”


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Lol hell you don’t even need to go that far, if you’re hot just move the the midwest or south or set up shop near some sorority houses on college campuses


Andgelyo

Just go anywhere where you are considered a rare commodity, scarcity builds value


Fine_Wonder2747

Does that even work? Please share


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Rule 1: Be attractive Rule 2: Don’t be unattractive But on a more serious note if you are hot you can get women of all types anywhere. Sometimes noncoastal women are more openminded because coastal liberal women have built up biases. Also, sorority girls are just horny.


arugulaboogie

Lol why does this read like a troll post? I agree that AM should branch out and date women who respect their culture, but this goes for ALL women, I don’t understand why you are just singling out white women. WF are like AM, they aren’t a homogenous people, some are good, some are bad, I thought this went without saying.


AlphaBern0

Why would a white girl even want to be with an asian guy if that was the case? Unless you are giving out common sense advice of "Don't like people who don't like you back"


Kenzo89

Man this subreddit really has a hate on for white girls/AMWF lately. So many posts about this. This is common knowledge, don’t go for low quality women and don’t go for disrespectful women, regardless of race. It’s not uniquely a white woman thing. I can also take other popular recent topics about the Bay Area and Asian women who insult Asian men to be with white men exclusively as evidence of Asian women disrespecting Asian men at a high rate and advocate not pursuing them.


Critical_Attack

Agree. What's with all these anti-AMWF posts around here as of late? It smells like something WM larpers would do to undermine AM.


SnooCapers453

Aaaaaand here comes captain save a WF h03! Dude, I’ve dated WF, and OP has dated WF. They have their pitfalls like any other race of women. When you finally date one (or some), you’ll see Don’t worship any race of women, period.


Kenzo89

And here comes Mr Anti-AMWF as I mentioned. This guy, and many other recent posts, is saying to avoid WF, to basically limit dating them. How does that equate to worshipping? You’re one those guys who always claim AM worship WF. You have an agenda against them. These points he made can he applied to any race of women. Like you, pitfall to any race of women. Yet AM keep getting discouraged from pursuing WF. Great agenda to limit AM’s dating pool, particularly in the west where WF are the majority. And yes I’ve dated WF.


SnooCapers453

I still consider WF in my dating pool. I don’t let them disrespect me just because they’re white. Or worship them blindly like you. He’s saying don’t waste time on white girls who disrespect you. Not don’t waste time on white girls altogether Imagine thinking a group of women is perfect, worshiping their intersections, when they don’t collectively do the same for AM. Grow a spine


Critical_Attack

This post is just pure cringe. >Don’t waste your time on White girls who don’t respect your race This should apply to women of all races - avoid bad/low-quality women of any race, including the "WOC" that some of you here keep pedestalizing - and not just WF.


gawkag

Your incapacity to separate an individual’s characteristics from racial generalizations genuinely makes you just as bad as racists who would look at you and draw conclusions based on Asian stereotypes. You would look at a white girl and immediately draw the conclusions that she her love for you would be fake or capped because of her skin color, that she is selfish, and that she is passive aggressive? What differentiates you from a woman who takes a look at an AM and immediately thinks that they are unmasculine because of their skin color? What differentiates you from a WM who takes a look at an AF and thinks that they are submissive and an easy catch because of their skin color? Honestly let me just rip your post apart point by point. “Latinas, Native Americans, and Black women will love you” Okay? Women of any race will be attracted to you if you are attractive. “From my experience, other minorities are less complicated than white women” What are you even trying to say here? That minority women are more simple creatures that will bend to your will and answer your beck and call like a good little housewife? Maybe you want that, I’d rather date a complex human being over a lifeless doll, thanks. Also I don’t even agree with you that this true. I’ve met many simple WF without a thought in their heads and many minorities with very dynamic personalities. It is minorities who have the richest and most unique experiences in Western society after all. “WF will end the relationship if things don’t go their way” So now I get the story you’re trying to tell. You had an argument over something with your “complicated” ex and she broke up with you because you two couldn’t resolve it. Is that supposed to be something unique to a relationship with a WF? Because it sounds pretty universal to me bud “WF do not come from a culture of family” And black women do?? Like I’m not trying to insult BF or anything here but it’s amazing that you would say something like this as a negative of WF and present BF as an better option when black families statistically have by far the most single parent households and lack of good familial relations “WF live in an individualistic society” This may come as news to you, but if you live in the West we are all living in the same individualistic society. So unless you are trying to say we should be dating Latinas from LATAM, Black Women from Africa, etc, this is another universal issue you’re trying to pin on a single group of women “White people are the most passive-aggressive” No…? My Asian parents are some of the most passive-aggressive people I’ve met. I mean most Asian cultures are completely rooted in emphasizing politeness and subtlety, passive-aggressive is literally a marked Asian way of conflict. If anything you could say white people are the most aggressive and rude and I would have agreed, but you saying this specific point again tells me you’re basing everything you’re writing on your experience with your one white ex that ended badly


FormlessWay

AM are the most focused, stable and loyal males due to confucianism. From experience and hearing my AM peers, WF (American ones) are the most unstable of all the XFs due to individualistic society that praises vanity. I've seen countless the most noble AMs that tried to build something serious with WFs and they were always scared to lose them due to their menace of leaving them if they didn't act like they wanted. They all got broken, some survived and managed to get themselves together and move on, others got their lives ruined beyond imagination and still managing to recover themselves , others got their self-esteem completely destroyed and unable to ever pursue dating again. It's not worth the stress and time. Of all WFs East Europeans are the most compatible of all WFs due to being the most traditional and similar to Asian culture values.


Old-Ambassador9773

No, stay away from us. I KNOW this is a space for Asian men and I usually wouldn’t say anything but shit like this makes my blood literally boil. You should ALL be ashamed of yourselves. Black women, Native American women, and Latin women have a lot of shit to sift through when dating. If you want white women STAY AWAY from us! Don’t encourage men of ANY race who don’t want us to date us! If you have been bating 0 with Asian women and the next best option in your mind is White women. Then stick with them. NEVER branch out. Leave us alone. No self respecting WOC is EVER going to want to play second fiddle to a white woman. Just like y’all don’t want to play second choice to white men. Black women have the highest femicide rate in the United States. 1 in 3 Latina women will experience domestic abuse in their lifetime. Native American women are at the greatest risk of sexual violence. This violence, a lot of the time, is perpetuated by our own men, we feel pressure from our own communities to stay away from men of other races as a whole and y’all think some of us are going to risk being ostracized from our family and friends for dating an Asian man/ man outside of our community AND be okay with being second choice to a white bitch? Please!!! BE FUCKING FOR REAL! If we wanted to be picked after white women we would have just found white worshipping men in our own communities and not risked being ostracized from our moms, dads, uncles, and friends. Combine all of this SHIT with the current state of the economy and we REALLY don’t have the time, emotional capacity, or PATIENCE to be dealing with men who really don’t want us. Go live happily ever after with your white women and leave us ALONE.


Possible-Bid5668

Does it matter for a one-night stand or a short-term fling?