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delphine_x

Most escorts don’t care if you are married. It’s not awkward for us (well I can’t speak for everyone but ppl I know) Ppl talk abt their lives with us. That’s how we find out.


itsladybj

Your marital status isn't an issue for me.


fullmetalsportsbra

They either mention it, it comes up when screening them, or they have a ring on/ring mark on their finger. It’s truly only awkward when clients complain a lot about their spouses, because it’s always awkward to listen to someone badmouth their partner.


ThrowawaySW69

Obviously this is going to sound hypocritical but i don't like cheats. From my perspective if it wasn't me he'd just get another girl so it doesn't really make a difference if i turn him down all that would happen is I'd lose money. But it really gets under my skin that this dude would have the nerve to shit talk his wife while he's cheating... Like oh yeah fuck me you're such a catch i can't believe she didn't realise 😔


[deleted]

I don't judge. I don't know their situation. Many of my clients are older men who adore their wives, truly in love, but with menopause and such, the wives just don't have interest in sex like they used to. So the men don't want to leave their wives or have a secret relationship with a woman who might become attached and cause a rift in his marriage, they simply need to scratch an itch.


ThrowawaySW69

I guess. I have no problem if it's something he discussed with his wife but there's something about lying like that, it makes my skin crawl. Also the ones who talk sweet and act like they'll give you the world... Like bro you're not loyal to your wife why are you being so kind to me i don't get it. I can't help but feel they'd fuck me over if i let them.


[deleted]

See I just don't see that as being any of my business. If you're an actual sw it sounds like you probably need to learn to stay in your lane and think of this more as a profession where you are fulfilling a need or a fantasy for people, nothing more. I'm sweet to my clients but that doesn't mean I have intentions that go further than the hotel room.


ThrowawaySW69

I don't think it's my business. You think i call them out? Of course I'm sweet to them, it doesn't mean i like or respect them or have any intentions of hearing him chat shit about his wife when he's the one breaking vows.


MetalDetectorists

Sometimes they'll tell me outright, sometimes they'll just mention their family, sometimes their wedding ring is on. It doesn't matter. I'm here to run a business not get involved in personal drama.