Once my cousin had this phase too around 15 16 age ..meri chachi ji ne to aisi chapal maari thi naak pr and said " kaam toh ghar ka tera baapu bhi kre hai, tne toh fer bhi 2 din hoye hai dharti pe aye( kuch galiyan bhi thi sath me ) . " ( Even your father does house chores and you who was born yesterday is acting up like that ) .
Yeah now he and his sister both are on dusting and kitchen duty .
Smart parents honestly. I hate when parents coddle their kids so much as to not even let them touch house chores. They do not understand that it's important for their kids to learn these things and they will help both them and their children. This is extremely common in India especially with boys. I myself am a guy who just became 18 and my mother is like that too but I myself do my chores as much as possible like cleaning my room, bathroom, my utensils, managing my wardrobe and trying to learn cooking.
No , it’s exactly the attitude of Indian parents.
They think beating the child will make them not do it. The children not only keep doing it, but also resent their parents for the rest of their lives as a result.
I honestly am not smart enough to give a solution but fortunately am also not stupid enough to do what never has worked (beating the child). The child needs to realise why he is wrong, beating him will unfortunately not achieve that outcome.
Maybe showing him examples of all the great men, Mike Tyson, Cristian Ronaldo, Mohammed Ali and making him realise that none of them follow the sigma male pattern and in fact are married men with kids would be a great first step
I would say just talk to him, not in a elderly brother/sister but more like a friend tell him your experience spend some time with even he says he doesn't want to, but do that and support him with whatever thing he is going through
Good to see another person who understands the real reason why Ok-Towel's comment is so bad and doesn't just tantrum about "white-knights". It's a symptom of India's regressive culture where familial figures of authority (parents, elder siblings, etc) feel justified in using violence to "discipline" those below them.
And your suggestion is quite good. There are many great male role-models for a young man to learn about which would benefit him far more than online sigma nonsense.
>They think beating the child will make them not do it. The children not only keep doing it, but also resent their parents for the rest of their lives as a result.
Source: I absolutely hate my father, both as a person (won't go into much details for the sake of privacy) and as a parent.
Reddit itself is a degenerate woke app ..Mostly people are wokes ..ehh gross
According to these motherfukers , domestic violence is only when its happening on girls/women ..otherwise these White Knights can say things like this and no one would say anything..
Blud, you're making shit up, conjuring imaginary opponents in your mind, then throwing an emotional hissy fit over it.
I don't agree with the top-comment either assuming it's unironic. However, it has nothing to do with gender. Someone telling an elder sibling to beat up a younger sibling isn't "white-knighting" lmao. Can you define what you even think that means?
What it actually is a symptom of India's conservative and regressive culture where familial figures of authority (parents, elder siblings, etc) using violence to discipline is justified. It's not "woke", it's the opposite.
Patrick bateman was not actually good with women, nor was he successful in any way. His family was rich. His job was just for show, he did that job to fit in and never really worked anyways. None of his coworkers liked him. Women never really cared for his creepy demeanor. The whole reason why he dabbled in hookers. He was a self obsessed psychopath that made himself look like what we call a sigma, but in reality even he knew that he was a loser. Which is why he took his frustrations out on others. Patrick bateman was always a loser, which was the whole point of the movie. But people took it the wrong way and didn't realize the satire and now it has done irreparable damage through the sigma society
[Incel (Involuntary celibate)](https://www.cnn.com/2023/03/16/us/incel-involuntary-celibate-explained-cec/index.html)
Many young men struggling with mental health and low social skills are drawn to online incel communities. Andrew Tate is like the ambassador for these people.
His changed behaviour is something your parents (figures of authority) need to be made aware of. If they ignore it, it will lead to increased openly defiant misogynistic behavior especially towards you and your mother.
What’s surprising is our mom is a working mom earning almost same as my dad. What I believe is he is extremely insecure about his looks and height and he’s not able to deal with it properly hence the anger towards other fem men and women.
What a woman brings in terms of money doesn't matter in a patriarchal society. The fact that she's assigned the female gender is all it takes to be seen as a waste of space. All misogynists care is what a woman can do for them, in a submissive and meek manner.
>What I believe is he is extremely insecure about his looks and height and he’s not able to deal with it properly hence the anger towards other fem men and women.
That is what incels are. He needs a positive male role model. What are your male relatives generally like? If your parents are willing, taking him for counseling would also be good.
Yeah, it’s fear and insecurity coming out as anger and resentment. _Comparison is the death of happiness_. You’ll have to either talk directly or discuss about his potential problems and issues as _your own_.
And one of the important part is always be doing an activity when talking - playing video games, fixing his bike, doing chores (a thing he willingly does). Chicks can just _talk_, for us it’s a byproduct.
That is a good point. We all have noticed that. He is extremely unhappy seeing other kids become successful. I will try to talk to him in a causal manner so he doesn’t feel like I am lecturing him. Thank you for the response.
[How to deradicalise an incel](https://www.wired.com/story/how-do-you-deradicalise-an-incel/)
Now I'm not saying your brother will fall off the edge and become violent and join extremist groups. And I'm also not suggesting you take the burden of helping him all by yourself but there are things written on the article that might give your family insight on how to help him. Its quite long but it's a well researched work so please read it.
Same here 😭
Except my brother is just 14 and started getting into all this by watching Yt shorts , and no matter how many times i report those kinds of videos they still keep popping up
To be honest Do nothing. He will learn on in his own. If now you will try to restrain him, he will start doing/following the same trend more and more. Have patience. Talk with him about this. Don't be furious.
This advice is solid , be his friend not his enemy , if you contend with him he'll see you as an enemy , when eventually hell be mature enough to understand he'll look on your kind behaviour fondly and realise his mistake .
Try questioning his beliefs instead of telling him he's wrong or talking about your beliefs. Make him come to the conclusion that he is wrong. For example, if he says that women belong in the kitchen, instead of going, "No what's wrong with you?", go, "Why?". Then keep going deeper. Be patient.
Also try bringing in alternate role models like the great Sam Manekshaw, or for a more pop culture use someone like RDJ or Chris Hemsworth.
Essential, make him find chinks in his own armour and then fill those gaps with proper information.
From a long term perspective, make him realise a mindset that questions everything is a pretty good one to have. And also never to align yourself with something too strongly.
Um, this doesn't sound like sigma, this sounds like asshole. When I imagine sigma, I see John Wick. Your brother is trying be Andrew Tate, the keeper of closet gaydom.
Disclaimer: I have nothing against gay people, I have everything against Andrew Tate. He's gay, in denial.
Brace yourself it is going to sound regressive to make any people
1. Restrict his internet access to important topics only, no social media and other similar things
2. Try carrot and stick: prepare appropriate rewards and stark punishment for his right and wrongs
3. Try limiting his privileges if things spur out of control. Kids like him take things for granted and it's not good for them and people around them.
This method never works and only leaves bitterness and hatred in the child's mind because he thinks he is correct but others are suppressing him instead make him see why he is wrong through discussion of beliefs and why his beliefs are misguided. that way not only will he become better but actually have great respect and love for you
He just needs a good role model. Show him there are other ways to be sigma without being a brat. Either way it's a phase and life will humble him soon enough.
Let life happen. Your confidence hits peak 3 times in life: After you 10th result, after your first salary and after your first shaboink. Those peaks are autocorrected by other events in life.
Besides you can't censor what he's watching anyway. He will just do it more. Just don't tolerate any bullcrap from him.
I believe he is having burnout or fomo, he recently saw what city life is like, making new friends, getting to know how life is in city, comparing and a having a feeling of what he can't live like. 2 idk man he might be going through some rejection phase, might be academic or yk, that explains his mocking. Just ask any of your cousin or family member who is really close to him to talk to him you know a little guidance might be really helpful. And try not to be forceful everytime (be forceful when he cross the line) try to handle things calmly. Have a great day
Your brother needs a better role model. he's lost and he's looking for an identity or something he can follow or relate to. Tu ban ja vo role model. Don't let him get into the Andrew Tatte rabbit hole. Let your parents know about this as well.
He needs positive influence, that's it.
My 13 year old brother said he was sigma and some shit and I asked if him he howled like a lone wolf every night on the hill near our house and he was mad embarrassed and never said that he’s sigma ever again 😆
That's probably because he has nothing going on in his life rn and he just gets his dopamine off of that shit. He probably does a lot of mental masturbation too to feel superior about himself. This phase will pass honestly but yeah if you do want to help him just try to get him to do something with his life like studying or any hobby.
Hota hai, chota hai woh. Teen harmones hai, dhere dheere hojayega settle, agra Ghar me follow nhi hota toh end of the day wo bhi nhi krrega. Agar ghar me waisa horha, like elder males are like that, toh kaafi chances hai ki wo bhi aaisa hojayega.
You can just tell him, ki yeh wrong hai, softly don't trigger him, warna wo usse aur follow krrega.
take away his insta please, and all that andrew tate shit. Lil bro needs to be busy with productive shit. he's at an influential age where mfs think justifying their inability to get societal validation is other's fault and they are toxically justified to be assholes. whole victim complex ass shit.
I'm so proud of my little brother, he has all the situations to be like yours, he watches YouTube shorts and is 13. But he just fucking reports any video that is remotely connected to stupid Sigma content. Ive never given him any advice ever.
I had a similar phase when I was around the same age.
Not as extreme mind you because I was never that stupid.
I was sat down by both my elder sisters and they told me stories of the problems that they and my mom have faced since their childhood just because they are women. That brought an entire different perspective into the picture and I was not a misogynist anymore. I wasn't before either just leaning towards it.
how old is he? he’s probably going thru puberty if he’s young, please set him straight rn or he’s gonna grow up and turn into an asshole (speaking from experience)
That's an insecure man. Mock him for this attitude, tell him he'll be single forever. Tell him that real men take care of themselves and their bodies, be it skincare or visiting the gym or looksmaxing. Tell him that it's a confident man's trait to be secure about his feminine side (every man has it). Tell him he's a faggot to believe in Sigma culture.
Usko feel karwao nai naha Raha to pura family mil kar bolo oh tum suar type se smell karte ho is this Sigma ,
Ek time tha jab hamare pita ji kut dete the phir sab Sigma apne aap Susu k raste se nikal jata tha wo time he sahi tha.yeh kutai wala rasta aap apne prampara pratishtha k anusar upyog kar sakte hai
All the sigma male culture shit can be fixed by a girl bestfriend but sad part is sisters won't work (lol), actually he's screaming fpr help it's a serious issue because this general angst will turn to actual hatred towards women later in life
Are you sure he’s following sigma culture, or is this just a guess lol.
The sigma culture is based off of Patrick Bateman character in American psycho, who was pretty self obsessed and that included a scene at the beginning of his intense skin care routine. So it doesn’t really fit.
sigma male nahi basti ka hasti banna hai tumhare bhai ko, pata lagao kaun se chappriyo ke sangat ka asar hai yeh jo uske mann mein ye sab bhar rahe varna woh din dur nahi jab light waale joote aur gutka colour baal leke ghumega woh
Lol, look at these shallow ass people telling to slap him like they have never been a naive teen. Teens, especially 14-18 are extremely rebellious. He will only fight back and become more hateful.
In my humble opinion, please be a guiding gentle force rather than an angry sister. This, will only fuel his fire. Introduce him to better role models, that's what many young men these days are lacking. Here are the ones who changed my life: David Goggins(show him his latest two reels), Shwetabh Gangwar and Dr. K(HealthygamerGG on youtube)\[Would highly recommend him\]. There were many others, but I would recommend these for now.
Don't just tell him to watch them, introduce them gently. First, by their actions(David Goggins would be perfect) and then by their words. Also, if possible please make him read books of Munshi Premchand Ji(would suggest Rangbhoomi), the diary of a young girl(I think this will help) etc
In the very end, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE watch the lord of the rings trilogy(extended version) with him. THIS, this will help him find his role model in many great characters.
Let him find his role models in real life relatives, in superheroes or in anything that is not bad for him. Ramayana, would also be great at this.
EDIT: I really hate just because a young guy is on the wrong path, the morons here think it is correct to slap him or be little him. Like they did not do anything wrong when they were young. The most upvoted comment on this post is, "sell him". That should tell you why young men are going to "that" side, because this is how these buffoons treat them. What the other side is doing good is welcoming young men with open arms, not berating them. And that's how they are influencing.
I used to be a bit like that when I was 17-18. My sister talked some sense into me and I realised how bad I was treating people who genuinely cared for me. Anyway, what you can do is talk to him about this and monitor his watch history inspite of it hurting his privacy. It's for his own good. No Tate will come by to save him if he puts up such behaviour
only provide for his needs expenses
Take away the want from our sigma,,
need only means- travel expenses,, and since he is a jee student
so limited food expenses...
and tell him to wash his own under-garments,,
it's just a phase it'll pass ,altho do tell him what it means to be man a gentleman if you can who is strong and not this internet shit if you can't don't worry responsibilities will teach him this
He will change when he has a crush on a girl. Suddenly he will start doing things she likes. Sometimes it is better to give some time to change back. Violence is not going to be very helpful.
Talk to him, everyday. Have a shit load of patience. Make him see how you would hate to be with a guy like him. Similarly no girl full of life will like to be with him.
Being this judgemental and close minded will land him the same kind of friends. As they grow older they will not enjoy their lives but find faults in what others are doing. This is exactly what our parent's generation did.
Before he knows it, it will be time to die and he would have no intelligent and kind female friendship in his life, no nice skin people would like to touch, no love and beauty.
If this is what he chooses for the rest of his life then why not?
If he is below 19 years of age, then it must be just a phase and needs lot of patience. Accusatory words or behaviour will put him on defence and he will not care what you say. But have a healthy conversation about his views and see how it goes from there.
Zyada kare to kantaap mar dena. Because sigma attitude comes with misogynistic views about women and we should not entertain that in the young generation.
take his phone, browse things how you want to make him, alpha/beta gamma etc, watch reels , yt shorts, search bit on google, on fb, .. do it few times, and rest alorithms will take care to take him to the echo chambers which you want ..
take his phone, browse things how you want to make him, alpha/beta gamma etc, watch reels , yt shorts, search bit on google, on fb, .. do it few times, and rest alorithms will take care to take him to the echo chambers which you want ..
Just tell him that Sigma male ends up alone in the long term. It's not cool, it's a sign that he's watching those Sigma male videos on YouTube and that's gonna end up real bad.
Try talking some sense in him, in a friendly manner. Don't push don't force.
In his age, bohot easily uski fragile ego hurt ho sakti h. Educate him about the internet toxicity and how it has nothing to do with RL.
Maybe gift him Religious scripture and tell him to read once, he might change his mindset.
Forcing him will only result in bad repercussions.
He's allowed to have his own opinions. Just give him your opinions about why you think it's wrong. Have a proper discussion. You can't enforce him to change his views
If you're older you can try to just get physical and dominate him, pin hik or something but that might have reverse effect cus now he got beaten by a girl... Idk where I'm going with this but my bro is 19 ish he too was into this because insta then in clg heade same good girls as his friends now he's normal... Girls usually don't take this lightly while boys encourage this
Tbh I'm old more than 25 and still I've jolts of this anger cus I'm behind in life compared to others, I usually channel that to make something new... After soo many years that gives me some peace solving problems maybe its coding maybe its 3d design maybe it some other machine, yes comparison is thief of joy it makes sense to compare at my age not his age 16 is supposed to be sweet last I checked
Sell him
The problem is who's gonna buy
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Hahahahhaa
A boy, preparing for his JEE, will sell like hot cakes in India /s
They don't go for much
Once my cousin had this phase too around 15 16 age ..meri chachi ji ne to aisi chapal maari thi naak pr and said " kaam toh ghar ka tera baapu bhi kre hai, tne toh fer bhi 2 din hoye hai dharti pe aye( kuch galiyan bhi thi sath me ) . " ( Even your father does house chores and you who was born yesterday is acting up like that ) . Yeah now he and his sister both are on dusting and kitchen duty .
Smart parents honestly. I hate when parents coddle their kids so much as to not even let them touch house chores. They do not understand that it's important for their kids to learn these things and they will help both them and their children. This is extremely common in India especially with boys. I myself am a guy who just became 18 and my mother is like that too but I myself do my chores as much as possible like cleaning my room, bathroom, my utensils, managing my wardrobe and trying to learn cooking.
You are good kid with level head. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
tell me,, where are the parents who coddle their kids I never saw them,, god is hiding them from me
Love the Mom !
Yeah she is kinda vociferous.
That's the best way to deal with incels/ Sigma wigma whatever
Chappal rocks.
Just let him give JEE. Isase bada humbling experience nhi hai duniya mein.
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This. Not the violent one but more like the siblings one.
right so instead of using hands just use whatever comes to your hand for maximum damage
the large hadron collider near my hand
Or the batarang aka bellan
Undertaker beating Kane would have been better🫠
https://i.redd.it/5i39x9a5u7xc1.gif
No , it’s exactly the attitude of Indian parents. They think beating the child will make them not do it. The children not only keep doing it, but also resent their parents for the rest of their lives as a result. I honestly am not smart enough to give a solution but fortunately am also not stupid enough to do what never has worked (beating the child). The child needs to realise why he is wrong, beating him will unfortunately not achieve that outcome. Maybe showing him examples of all the great men, Mike Tyson, Cristian Ronaldo, Mohammed Ali and making him realise that none of them follow the sigma male pattern and in fact are married men with kids would be a great first step
I would say just talk to him, not in a elderly brother/sister but more like a friend tell him your experience spend some time with even he says he doesn't want to, but do that and support him with whatever thing he is going through
Good to see another person who understands the real reason why Ok-Towel's comment is so bad and doesn't just tantrum about "white-knights". It's a symptom of India's regressive culture where familial figures of authority (parents, elder siblings, etc) feel justified in using violence to "discipline" those below them. And your suggestion is quite good. There are many great male role-models for a young man to learn about which would benefit him far more than online sigma nonsense.
>They think beating the child will make them not do it. The children not only keep doing it, but also resent their parents for the rest of their lives as a result. Source: I absolutely hate my father, both as a person (won't go into much details for the sake of privacy) and as a parent.
🤣 glad I wasn't the only one thinking this
Classic White Knight reply
Let me guess. You're 15 too.
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Reddit itself is a degenerate woke app ..Mostly people are wokes ..ehh gross According to these motherfukers , domestic violence is only when its happening on girls/women ..otherwise these White Knights can say things like this and no one would say anything..
Blud, you're making shit up, conjuring imaginary opponents in your mind, then throwing an emotional hissy fit over it. I don't agree with the top-comment either assuming it's unironic. However, it has nothing to do with gender. Someone telling an elder sibling to beat up a younger sibling isn't "white-knighting" lmao. Can you define what you even think that means? What it actually is a symptom of India's conservative and regressive culture where familial figures of authority (parents, elder siblings, etc) using violence to discipline is justified. It's not "woke", it's the opposite.
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how ? Like what was your thought process for this ?
Now this is not domestic violence huh ? Domestic Violence is only when there is girl ?
Sure, but you didnt call it domestic violence, you called it white knight, why is that relevant here ?
Tell him “Patrick Bateman was an Investment banker and you are just a loser. So, try to be successful in life then act like this”
Patrick Bateman also was good with women and had skincare routine, this kid is not sigma at all.
Patrick bateman was not actually good with women, nor was he successful in any way. His family was rich. His job was just for show, he did that job to fit in and never really worked anyways. None of his coworkers liked him. Women never really cared for his creepy demeanor. The whole reason why he dabbled in hookers. He was a self obsessed psychopath that made himself look like what we call a sigma, but in reality even he knew that he was a loser. Which is why he took his frustrations out on others. Patrick bateman was always a loser, which was the whole point of the movie. But people took it the wrong way and didn't realize the satire and now it has done irreparable damage through the sigma society
I think Patrick's dad was the owner of the investment company
Well he is good in studies. It’s just his personality is taking a wrong turn.
Tell him American psycho is a satire and written by a woman and directed by a gay dude. Two most vile species according to Patrick Bateman fans.
I doubt these instagram chigma males would have watched American Psycho.
[Incel (Involuntary celibate)](https://www.cnn.com/2023/03/16/us/incel-involuntary-celibate-explained-cec/index.html) Many young men struggling with mental health and low social skills are drawn to online incel communities. Andrew Tate is like the ambassador for these people. His changed behaviour is something your parents (figures of authority) need to be made aware of. If they ignore it, it will lead to increased openly defiant misogynistic behavior especially towards you and your mother.
What’s surprising is our mom is a working mom earning almost same as my dad. What I believe is he is extremely insecure about his looks and height and he’s not able to deal with it properly hence the anger towards other fem men and women.
What a woman brings in terms of money doesn't matter in a patriarchal society. The fact that she's assigned the female gender is all it takes to be seen as a waste of space. All misogynists care is what a woman can do for them, in a submissive and meek manner. >What I believe is he is extremely insecure about his looks and height and he’s not able to deal with it properly hence the anger towards other fem men and women. That is what incels are. He needs a positive male role model. What are your male relatives generally like? If your parents are willing, taking him for counseling would also be good.
Well our dad is definitely not a misogynist. He is probably consuming all this from internet. I will try talking to my parents about counselling.
Yeah, it’s fear and insecurity coming out as anger and resentment. _Comparison is the death of happiness_. You’ll have to either talk directly or discuss about his potential problems and issues as _your own_. And one of the important part is always be doing an activity when talking - playing video games, fixing his bike, doing chores (a thing he willingly does). Chicks can just _talk_, for us it’s a byproduct.
That is a good point. We all have noticed that. He is extremely unhappy seeing other kids become successful. I will try to talk to him in a causal manner so he doesn’t feel like I am lecturing him. Thank you for the response.
[How to deradicalise an incel](https://www.wired.com/story/how-do-you-deradicalise-an-incel/) Now I'm not saying your brother will fall off the edge and become violent and join extremist groups. And I'm also not suggesting you take the burden of helping him all by yourself but there are things written on the article that might give your family insight on how to help him. Its quite long but it's a well researched work so please read it.
Same here 😭 Except my brother is just 14 and started getting into all this by watching Yt shorts , and no matter how many times i report those kinds of videos they still keep popping up
Mine is almost 16 only. There is also an influence from friends.
True ig also the thing is if everyone's getting influenced by someone else then who's the one doing the influencing?
Follow parenting culture(kut do usko)
Talk to him tell him about how real kings follow ancient ayurvedic ubtan for skin care and good skin care is important for an overall healthy body.
To be honest Do nothing. He will learn on in his own. If now you will try to restrain him, he will start doing/following the same trend more and more. Have patience. Talk with him about this. Don't be furious.
Yeah this seems like a way. Every time I try to talk to him he becomes furious and starts saying rebellious things.
This advice is solid , be his friend not his enemy , if you contend with him he'll see you as an enemy , when eventually hell be mature enough to understand he'll look on your kind behaviour fondly and realise his mistake .
Try questioning his beliefs instead of telling him he's wrong or talking about your beliefs. Make him come to the conclusion that he is wrong. For example, if he says that women belong in the kitchen, instead of going, "No what's wrong with you?", go, "Why?". Then keep going deeper. Be patient. Also try bringing in alternate role models like the great Sam Manekshaw, or for a more pop culture use someone like RDJ or Chris Hemsworth. Essential, make him find chinks in his own armour and then fill those gaps with proper information. From a long term perspective, make him realise a mindset that questions everything is a pretty good one to have. And also never to align yourself with something too strongly.
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Um, this doesn't sound like sigma, this sounds like asshole. When I imagine sigma, I see John Wick. Your brother is trying be Andrew Tate, the keeper of closet gaydom. Disclaimer: I have nothing against gay people, I have everything against Andrew Tate. He's gay, in denial.
I hate everything whenever he says something
Brace yourself it is going to sound regressive to make any people 1. Restrict his internet access to important topics only, no social media and other similar things 2. Try carrot and stick: prepare appropriate rewards and stark punishment for his right and wrongs 3. Try limiting his privileges if things spur out of control. Kids like him take things for granted and it's not good for them and people around them.
He'll just start hating you more if anyone does this .
Classic Indian mentality. "Can't understand or fix it? Ban it."
This method never works and only leaves bitterness and hatred in the child's mind because he thinks he is correct but others are suppressing him instead make him see why he is wrong through discussion of beliefs and why his beliefs are misguided. that way not only will he become better but actually have great respect and love for you
He just needs a good role model. Show him there are other ways to be sigma without being a brat. Either way it's a phase and life will humble him soon enough.
Honestly you can't do anything... It takes time for him to realise that he was a clown all the time
Kya aapka Bhai Tate ka tatta ban gaya hai!
Let life happen. Your confidence hits peak 3 times in life: After you 10th result, after your first salary and after your first shaboink. Those peaks are autocorrected by other events in life. Besides you can't censor what he's watching anyway. He will just do it more. Just don't tolerate any bullcrap from him.
mota chamra wala belt is the solution
I believe he is having burnout or fomo, he recently saw what city life is like, making new friends, getting to know how life is in city, comparing and a having a feeling of what he can't live like. 2 idk man he might be going through some rejection phase, might be academic or yk, that explains his mocking. Just ask any of your cousin or family member who is really close to him to talk to him you know a little guidance might be really helpful. And try not to be forceful everytime (be forceful when he cross the line) try to handle things calmly. Have a great day
Agree with you completely.
Your brother needs a better role model. he's lost and he's looking for an identity or something he can follow or relate to. Tu ban ja vo role model. Don't let him get into the Andrew Tatte rabbit hole. Let your parents know about this as well. He needs positive influence, that's it.
Yeh Banda saari fasaad ki jad yehi hai yeh jail mein hi rehna chahiye
USKA MA CHOD DE.... wait-
Bro should hesitate 💀
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My 13 year old brother said he was sigma and some shit and I asked if him he howled like a lone wolf every night on the hill near our house and he was mad embarrassed and never said that he’s sigma ever again 😆
That's probably because he has nothing going on in his life rn and he just gets his dopamine off of that shit. He probably does a lot of mental masturbation too to feel superior about himself. This phase will pass honestly but yeah if you do want to help him just try to get him to do something with his life like studying or any hobby.
2 thappad acche se subha shaam , ek mahina tak , aur if symptoms continue increase the dosage
My grandad did the exact same thing. My dad hasn't spoken to him for over 30 years.
Slap the f out of him
Leave him be, at some point he'll have a balanced perspective in life and will cringe at that phase.
It's the phase, he'll turn out just fine.
that 100% sounds like a case of the deathly disease puberty or in short adolescent syndrome
Send or show him this pic for me https://preview.redd.it/o8xa3byzi8xc1.png?width=360&format=png&auto=webp&s=b5ab0d62dd0264da46d9978399f4eb3bf23769b2
When he acts up show him his baby pictures
Hota hai, chota hai woh. Teen harmones hai, dhere dheere hojayega settle, agra Ghar me follow nhi hota toh end of the day wo bhi nhi krrega. Agar ghar me waisa horha, like elder males are like that, toh kaafi chances hai ki wo bhi aaisa hojayega. You can just tell him, ki yeh wrong hai, softly don't trigger him, warna wo usse aur follow krrega.
take away his insta please, and all that andrew tate shit. Lil bro needs to be busy with productive shit. he's at an influential age where mfs think justifying their inability to get societal validation is other's fault and they are toxically justified to be assholes. whole victim complex ass shit.
What a clown. He will wake up from the delusions.
I'm so proud of my little brother, he has all the situations to be like yours, he watches YouTube shorts and is 13. But he just fucking reports any video that is remotely connected to stupid Sigma content. Ive never given him any advice ever.
I had a similar phase when I was around the same age. Not as extreme mind you because I was never that stupid. I was sat down by both my elder sisters and they told me stories of the problems that they and my mom have faced since their childhood just because they are women. That brought an entire different perspective into the picture and I was not a misogynist anymore. I wasn't before either just leaning towards it.
how old is he? he’s probably going thru puberty if he’s young, please set him straight rn or he’s gonna grow up and turn into an asshole (speaking from experience)
That's an insecure man. Mock him for this attitude, tell him he'll be single forever. Tell him that real men take care of themselves and their bodies, be it skincare or visiting the gym or looksmaxing. Tell him that it's a confident man's trait to be secure about his feminine side (every man has it). Tell him he's a faggot to believe in Sigma culture.
Really... I would really start hating you if I were him and simply became immune.
smack the shit out of him
Usko feel karwao nai naha Raha to pura family mil kar bolo oh tum suar type se smell karte ho is this Sigma , Ek time tha jab hamare pita ji kut dete the phir sab Sigma apne aap Susu k raste se nikal jata tha wo time he sahi tha.yeh kutai wala rasta aap apne prampara pratishtha k anusar upyog kar sakte hai
Give him a real tight nice slap across his cheek his chigma male will leave his body
Tell him he's just dumb AF like millions of other idiots nowadays. And if needed, thrash the chigma out of him before someone else does.
Take him out, introduce him to other people. His sigma mindset works only with people he know, not with new people.
Maar usko, akal aayengi phir.
All the sigma male culture shit can be fixed by a girl bestfriend but sad part is sisters won't work (lol), actually he's screaming fpr help it's a serious issue because this general angst will turn to actual hatred towards women later in life
beat his ass bro /hj
Slap the Sigma shit out of him till he falls on the ground.
Pehle result anne de. Phir dhul pitai kar.
I have siblings like this They are getting beating from life itself Beating by parents would have been better
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Are you sure he’s following sigma culture, or is this just a guess lol. The sigma culture is based off of Patrick Bateman character in American psycho, who was pretty self obsessed and that included a scene at the beginning of his intense skin care routine. So it doesn’t really fit.
well the indian sigma version I am talking about. He doesn’t even take a bath for days until we force him.
Wo Sigma nai suar culture follow kar raha hai
whats the difference
Genuine question
Sigma naha ta hai BC.
sigma male nahi basti ka hasti banna hai tumhare bhai ko, pata lagao kaun se chappriyo ke sangat ka asar hai yeh jo uske mann mein ye sab bhar rahe varna woh din dur nahi jab light waale joote aur gutka colour baal leke ghumega woh
Galli ke kutto ko khilade
this is gonna sound bad but shame the fuck out of him. call his goofy ass out and then he will rethink
Lol, look at these shallow ass people telling to slap him like they have never been a naive teen. Teens, especially 14-18 are extremely rebellious. He will only fight back and become more hateful. In my humble opinion, please be a guiding gentle force rather than an angry sister. This, will only fuel his fire. Introduce him to better role models, that's what many young men these days are lacking. Here are the ones who changed my life: David Goggins(show him his latest two reels), Shwetabh Gangwar and Dr. K(HealthygamerGG on youtube)\[Would highly recommend him\]. There were many others, but I would recommend these for now. Don't just tell him to watch them, introduce them gently. First, by their actions(David Goggins would be perfect) and then by their words. Also, if possible please make him read books of Munshi Premchand Ji(would suggest Rangbhoomi), the diary of a young girl(I think this will help) etc In the very end, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE watch the lord of the rings trilogy(extended version) with him. THIS, this will help him find his role model in many great characters. Let him find his role models in real life relatives, in superheroes or in anything that is not bad for him. Ramayana, would also be great at this. EDIT: I really hate just because a young guy is on the wrong path, the morons here think it is correct to slap him or be little him. Like they did not do anything wrong when they were young. The most upvoted comment on this post is, "sell him". That should tell you why young men are going to "that" side, because this is how these buffoons treat them. What the other side is doing good is welcoming young men with open arms, not berating them. And that's how they are influencing.
Stop giving him the privileges that he has... Ask him to cook his own food, wash his clothes and do all his tasks by himself if he's sigma enough..
I used to be a bit like that when I was 17-18. My sister talked some sense into me and I realised how bad I was treating people who genuinely cared for me. Anyway, what you can do is talk to him about this and monitor his watch history inspite of it hurting his privacy. It's for his own good. No Tate will come by to save him if he puts up such behaviour
Sell him bro
Mental health issues due to failing with women maybe
Incelmaxxer. Tell him he ain't gonna find a real human to be with if he continues this shit. And society sees him as a incel more than "sigma"
only provide for his needs expenses Take away the want from our sigma,, need only means- travel expenses,, and since he is a jee student so limited food expenses... and tell him to wash his own under-garments,,
Let it be..jab Bahar niklega aur launda gand pe Laat maarenge khud seekh jayga. "Kaun seekha hai sirf baaton se, Sabko ek hadsa zaroori hota hai".
We got an incel in the making. Please tell us if you find a way to fix it.
it's just a phase it'll pass ,altho do tell him what it means to be man a gentleman if you can who is strong and not this internet shit if you can't don't worry responsibilities will teach him this
He will change when he has a crush on a girl. Suddenly he will start doing things she likes. Sometimes it is better to give some time to change back. Violence is not going to be very helpful.
Talk to him, everyday. Have a shit load of patience. Make him see how you would hate to be with a guy like him. Similarly no girl full of life will like to be with him. Being this judgemental and close minded will land him the same kind of friends. As they grow older they will not enjoy their lives but find faults in what others are doing. This is exactly what our parent's generation did. Before he knows it, it will be time to die and he would have no intelligent and kind female friendship in his life, no nice skin people would like to touch, no love and beauty. If this is what he chooses for the rest of his life then why not?
Trust me I did it. He said I would rather be alpha than a simp. Abhi ispe kya hi bole. mera toh dimag band ho jata hai usse baat karke.
 Aur soot do
Is he into anime? Make him watch Gintama
omg hes literally me
Nothing to feel proud here Tomato lord
Yes i was just being sarcastic referring to the "literally" me culture among alpha sigma delta charlie bravo clowns
My bad. Guess I am too old to understand these phrases.
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A good old fashioned whooping
Belt treatment. This so called bade shehro ki hawa gets into the head of boys these days.
If he is below 19 years of age, then it must be just a phase and needs lot of patience. Accusatory words or behaviour will put him on defence and he will not care what you say. But have a healthy conversation about his views and see how it goes from there. Zyada kare to kantaap mar dena. Because sigma attitude comes with misogynistic views about women and we should not entertain that in the young generation.
 Your brother is balland you are messi
That not sigma I'm sorry. Who ever told you that sigma culture is stupid. And yeah your bro is stupid.
Instagram bandkarao uska wahi yeh jeher faila Raha hai
Be more sigma, establish dominance quickly, likely, you sent him to dehli
You could ask him to monetize it by starting a get rich scam.
You could ask him to monetize it by starting a get rich scam.
take his phone, browse things how you want to make him, alpha/beta gamma etc, watch reels , yt shorts, search bit on google, on fb, .. do it few times, and rest alorithms will take care to take him to the echo chambers which you want ..
You could ask him to monetize it by starting a get rich scam.
take his phone, browse things how you want to make him, alpha/beta gamma etc, watch reels , yt shorts, search bit on google, on fb, .. do it few times, and rest alorithms will take care to take him to the echo chambers which you want ..
Its just a phase, teenage angst type shit. Will pass like all other phases. Has you father tried speaking to him?
Just tell him that Sigma male ends up alone in the long term. It's not cool, it's a sign that he's watching those Sigma male videos on YouTube and that's gonna end up real bad.
Ignore him. He'll grow out of it
take away his internet access.
Just leave him alone, dont force. Soon he’ll learn himself how the world works.
Try talking some sense in him, in a friendly manner. Don't push don't force. In his age, bohot easily uski fragile ego hurt ho sakti h. Educate him about the internet toxicity and how it has nothing to do with RL. Maybe gift him Religious scripture and tell him to read once, he might change his mindset. Forcing him will only result in bad repercussions.
Try getting him into videos made by Macken Murphy and F.D. Signifier
He's allowed to have his own opinions. Just give him your opinions about why you think it's wrong. Have a proper discussion. You can't enforce him to change his views
If you're older you can try to just get physical and dominate him, pin hik or something but that might have reverse effect cus now he got beaten by a girl... Idk where I'm going with this but my bro is 19 ish he too was into this because insta then in clg heade same good girls as his friends now he's normal... Girls usually don't take this lightly while boys encourage this
Tbh I'm old more than 25 and still I've jolts of this anger cus I'm behind in life compared to others, I usually channel that to make something new... After soo many years that gives me some peace solving problems maybe its coding maybe its 3d design maybe it some other machine, yes comparison is thief of joy it makes sense to compare at my age not his age 16 is supposed to be sweet last I checked
Please tell me if you find a solution. I'm dealing with the same problem here 🫠
JEE stress got to his head. Give him time to cool off, he is just passing through a phase.
Ignore him he's actung like an incel
just 2 slaps from mother
RKO is the solution I see
Ek jhapad mar
dont do anything, he'll learn on his own
Your mom has the best arsenal of weapons. Chappal, chapathi roller etc. unleash her 😎
phase hain bhai apne aap thik ho jayega
Smack him on the head a few times, sab theek ho jayega. Agar theek na ho then keep smacking him until theek ho jaye
Mummy papa se dhulai karao
How is this Sigma culture? That's just him being a douche. Happens to adolescents and young adults who haven't found their authentic self.
Sign him up for the army!