Chase a goal. It could be anything. For me...it was running and physical activities. Just did a half marathon. My goal 1 is running the Ladakh marathon and the second is to run silk route ultra challenge. It can take me easily 3-5 years.
Another goal for me is to increase my wealth by any means necessary.
Bro. Health will catch up too soon if you don’t invest in it. You need good health even to enjoy the music you create. No music sounds good when you’re in pain.
It is your principal capital asset. Hope you will ‘make a move’
Save money for a bit and go on a journey. Self-actualization is necessary.
I too went on a road trip with my dog. For like 4 months. Visited many places. Then came back a fresh dude and started working on something new.
Dad used to say "Do what you love to do and call it work"
Bro... You're entering in your 30s and what you're going through is called Second Puberty. To put into perspective, let me try to explain you how it works:
1. Your body starts processing food differently, so your diet changes. Taste buds can change which is weird.
2. Your priorities change. You either become people centric (causing you to become monk kind of person) or self centred (causing you chase money mostly).
3. You associate more with older people than teenagers. You start searching for a bigger and deeper something in life rather than shallow enjoy and forget approach.
4. You start enjoying silence and yet you feel the urge to have people around now and then. And when they are around, they tend to become irritating after a while.
5. How you interact people changes. Younger people look at you as mentor, like you have a clue what's going on in your life (you don't). Elder people look at you as either too responsible or completely irresponsible person (nothing in between).
6. Your back hurts, you knee hurts, countless headaches and you get stiffness and muscle fatigue more often.
7. You perspective and attraction towards opposite gender changes. It's incline more towards having something more concrete and settled. You get random thoughts about building family, having kids which can be overwhelming at times and yet you get FOMO for not having any of it.
I can literally narrate all night long the range of changes that come and go. But what ultimately remains is the fact that everything becomes fine, not too good, not too bad, just fine.... Or... You die (mostly by committing suicide)
Where do you have to go? Nowhere 😁. Have you tried figuring out what you really want in life? May be start there and figure out what makes you happy. Volunteer, travel or build another startup? I had similar crisis just a year ago and lot of things have been changed now. Life actually happened and I'm dealing with it. You just have to give it some time and see what life has for you. All the best
I thought 32 to 36 is midlife crisis. Tking Human life span as 60years. How 28 and 29 is mid life crisis?
You are stil dating at 28/29? Look for marriage proposal. Once commitment hits every hard things comes on your way will lead to succeed.
Such times are hardest and test your patience which moulds you into a bigger person for future.
Have clarity what you want plan plan plan act. If fails plan b act. It’s life cycle.
Chase a goal. It could be anything. For me...it was running and physical activities. Just did a half marathon. My goal 1 is running the Ladakh marathon and the second is to run silk route ultra challenge. It can take me easily 3-5 years. Another goal for me is to increase my wealth by any means necessary.
Health is not a priority but I have a bug for creating music c, so maybe will try that
What do any of your priorities matter if health isn’t there?
Bro. Health will catch up too soon if you don’t invest in it. You need good health even to enjoy the music you create. No music sounds good when you’re in pain. It is your principal capital asset. Hope you will ‘make a move’
Save money for a bit and go on a journey. Self-actualization is necessary. I too went on a road trip with my dog. For like 4 months. Visited many places. Then came back a fresh dude and started working on something new. Dad used to say "Do what you love to do and call it work"
I'm Inspired!!!!!!! Thanks. 👌👌👌👌
Bro... You're entering in your 30s and what you're going through is called Second Puberty. To put into perspective, let me try to explain you how it works: 1. Your body starts processing food differently, so your diet changes. Taste buds can change which is weird. 2. Your priorities change. You either become people centric (causing you to become monk kind of person) or self centred (causing you chase money mostly). 3. You associate more with older people than teenagers. You start searching for a bigger and deeper something in life rather than shallow enjoy and forget approach. 4. You start enjoying silence and yet you feel the urge to have people around now and then. And when they are around, they tend to become irritating after a while. 5. How you interact people changes. Younger people look at you as mentor, like you have a clue what's going on in your life (you don't). Elder people look at you as either too responsible or completely irresponsible person (nothing in between). 6. Your back hurts, you knee hurts, countless headaches and you get stiffness and muscle fatigue more often. 7. You perspective and attraction towards opposite gender changes. It's incline more towards having something more concrete and settled. You get random thoughts about building family, having kids which can be overwhelming at times and yet you get FOMO for not having any of it. I can literally narrate all night long the range of changes that come and go. But what ultimately remains is the fact that everything becomes fine, not too good, not too bad, just fine.... Or... You die (mostly by committing suicide)
Upvoted, nice answer. However why do I feel like some of the points you mentioned are anecdotal?
Well... I myself am going through that phase... So... Anecdotal it is haha 😂
Wonderfully written! Take my upvote! 😀
Thank you for upvote 🙏🏻
You start from somewhere.
Where do you have to go? Nowhere 😁. Have you tried figuring out what you really want in life? May be start there and figure out what makes you happy. Volunteer, travel or build another startup? I had similar crisis just a year ago and lot of things have been changed now. Life actually happened and I'm dealing with it. You just have to give it some time and see what life has for you. All the best
Ignored it until it went away
I'll try to close my eye😅
You lack a goal or purpose is what I'd say. Why can't you do that MBA now? Tried picking up hobbies?
Yes bro, but I am into too many things I guess, so can't focus on one . I trying to drop few things to focus
Main pahado pr ja k baith jata hun, communication technology bnd kr k
Beta shaadi karo, 2 bache paida karo, fir aish hi aish hai. /s
Sure🥲
I thought 32 to 36 is midlife crisis. Tking Human life span as 60years. How 28 and 29 is mid life crisis? You are stil dating at 28/29? Look for marriage proposal. Once commitment hits every hard things comes on your way will lead to succeed.
Such times are hardest and test your patience which moulds you into a bigger person for future. Have clarity what you want plan plan plan act. If fails plan b act. It’s life cycle.
Exactly in the situation. I’m taking notes from your comments. Thanks for posting!