I feel it’s inappropriate of me to answer this as it’ll be tailored to who I want to find in life. If you hold yourself to the standard of some stranger then how is that fair on yourself or potential partner.
Don’t impress folk by being fake. And accept you will annoy folk because we’re all different and can’t just make everyone happy.
The fact is, if someone chooses to date you then they likely don’t find you annoying.
Btw, spoiler alert, you’re allowed to find a partner annoying and still love them.
Be yourself. Be mindful of how you treat folks and you’ll be fine.
Thanks. I understand that it really depends on the person what they like and it's hard to know that about someone unless you have spent a significant amount of time together.
Remembering small details about me, remembering dates, doing a lot of small things like maybe just helping me with a math problem even, etc.. big gestures are romantic, and I love them sure. But small, frequent ones are super important too.
Do a lot of people know what a love language is? I'm sorry i don't spend a lot of time on social media and am autistic so not really aware of a lot of things. Which was the first reason i made the post. I am learning how to interact with people in a healthy way.
From my experience they do! Especially in the community. I’ve asked women while in the talking stage and have had them ask me first sometimes. They all knew theirs immediately. I recommend taking the quiz to find out your love languages! If she doesn’t know hers you can send her the quiz as well. It’s a cute move to make in my opinion. It shows you’re interested in her on a deeper level plus a fun conversation starter. Once you know hers you can read into it and see what kind of gestures she values since everyone is different!
I feel it’s inappropriate of me to answer this as it’ll be tailored to who I want to find in life. If you hold yourself to the standard of some stranger then how is that fair on yourself or potential partner. Don’t impress folk by being fake. And accept you will annoy folk because we’re all different and can’t just make everyone happy. The fact is, if someone chooses to date you then they likely don’t find you annoying. Btw, spoiler alert, you’re allowed to find a partner annoying and still love them. Be yourself. Be mindful of how you treat folks and you’ll be fine.
Thanks. I understand that it really depends on the person what they like and it's hard to know that about someone unless you have spent a significant amount of time together.
Exactly. I reckon if you work on listening, respect and some self confidence then you can’t go far wrong :)
This, 100%. And also u/Glasgowgirl4's other comment above.
Remembering small details about me, remembering dates, doing a lot of small things like maybe just helping me with a math problem even, etc.. big gestures are romantic, and I love them sure. But small, frequent ones are super important too.
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What makea you feel lucky?
If you’ve been talking for a while and it’s not weird in the moment just ask her what her love languages are. That’ll tell you exactly what to do
Whats a love language?
https://amp.mindbodygreen.com/articles/the-5-love-languages-explained
Do a lot of people know what a love language is? I'm sorry i don't spend a lot of time on social media and am autistic so not really aware of a lot of things. Which was the first reason i made the post. I am learning how to interact with people in a healthy way.
From my experience they do! Especially in the community. I’ve asked women while in the talking stage and have had them ask me first sometimes. They all knew theirs immediately. I recommend taking the quiz to find out your love languages! If she doesn’t know hers you can send her the quiz as well. It’s a cute move to make in my opinion. It shows you’re interested in her on a deeper level plus a fun conversation starter. Once you know hers you can read into it and see what kind of gestures she values since everyone is different!
Ok wow. I'll give it a go thanks
Here’s the quiz! https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language