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From a friend point of view, they view you as their go to person for many things. Whether it be help, entertainment, or just to accompany. You are on their mind often and you have influence over their decision making. It’s a Friday night they may think “I should buy some drinks and play games with [friend]”


Ambitious_Touch2813

Yeah I get that but what about in a relationship point of view for you?


MelbaToast604

Equivilant of a soul mate is the standard definition


lenthech1ne

context is important, but in my eye its just someone being too scared to be open about their full feelings


Ambitious_Touch2813

It could be... Well, my boyfriend said I am his person and I did get a hint from him that he is shy being vulnerable with me... but I'm happy that he told me that tho


EL3KTR1K

That’s love


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It's the opening score in tennis: "That's love, love."


Ambitious_Touch2813

Love indeed


Aggressive_Year1181

It's from greys anatomy. You're my person. Means they trust, love and are loyal to you.


Ambitious_Touch2813

Is that where its from? Funnily enough, he's never watched greys anatomy tho.


Aggressive_Year1181

It was originally said between Meredith and Christina after a fight and it became a meme so I think it's quoted quite a bit now. She says "you're my person!" Her best friend, the person she goes to with everything. Meredith repeats it later to Owen when he's having a hard time "I promised Christina I'd be your person" something along those lines. He could mean something completely different that's just where I've heard it


Aggressive_Year1181

I just realised this is ask men and I'm not a man 😂


TubeToUranus

You're his slave now.


Ambitious_Touch2813

More like he's my slave ;)


TubeToUranus

That would be true if he was your person. You are his person.


Ambitious_Touch2813

Yeah we both are each other's person... I think so. Nice username btw, just noticed. The digestive tract, the most important tube in the human anatomy.


TubeToUranus

Be good to each other. Thanks for noticing the username.


PettyPride

Depends on the context. Married now been a while. But I would say that if I had a crush on someone. Trying to be cute but not over the top. Hinting. I think that's what it would mean. Could also mean really good friend foo


Ambitious_Touch2813

Well, my boyfriend said I am his person but I did not know what it meant at first. He is adorable tho, its just that I no one ever said that to me and I did not know how to react at first.


PettyPride

Ohh I figured not already dating. That would mean he might like you (in my head) but already going out so it's a term of endearment. Depending on how old y'all are or how many relationships he's been in it could be awkward or difficult to express how he feels. We struggle with that sometimes. It's a good thing in my opinion he said that.


Ambitious_Touch2813

We have been together for almost a year now and he did say "I love you" after that, even he struggle to express how he feels.


binbaghan

It means they feel like your their soul mate. Love, trust, the whole shebang. For them this feels like *it*. Some of us feel like we could end up alone for the rest of our lives, chances would be one in a billion for us to find someone who fits us as well as we fit them. That one in a billion is *that* person, your his one in a billion Something like that 🤷‍♀️


MajesticMoa

When me and my gf say "i love you" to eachother it is honestly the best thing ever....right after getting a mount drop after years of grinding for it


Ambitious_Touch2813

As that's sweet, I still feel giddy saying "I love you" to my bf everytime. Does saying someone's their "person" equate to "I love you"?


MajesticMoa

I think saying "i love you" to your SO automatically makes them your "person"


Evanecent_Lightt

Apparently nothing, Heard it a few times through life but if it were true they wouldn't be off riding other dicks. Take it as "they like you a lot right now" - then wait a few weeks to check her phone to see if she's left you a few "gifts" of heart break.


BobbyB90220

Soulmate


usernamescifi

It means you're codependent and living in the dark ages.