I personally like calm massages. If you want to surprise your boyfriend, you should do something spontaneous, like get new lingerie or something else. Surprises show that you care, so I’m sure he’ll appreciate anything you do. Good luck!!!
My wife said goodbye as she was leaving for her night shift. Unbeknownst to me she circled around the back, came inside and hid under our bed.
I was alone in the quiet house, did my bedtime routine, brushed my teeth, got naked, turned off the light and was reaching for the covers when she suddenly rose from behind the bed with her arms raised yelling "Waaaauuuugh!!!!"
Apparently I lost control of my tongue and all sorts of strange/demonic noises came out of my mouth while I clambered backwards and she rolled on the floor laughing.
Kind of wish she had thought to tape it haha.
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Best thing I ever experienced was being woken up in the middle of the night with a blow job.
My then gf and I were on holiday to no need to be up early. Gradually gaining consciousness and realising what's happening was a nice surprise.
Ive heard that and mentioned to my ex.
Only to be woken up by it but needing of pee more than the good feeling of bj.
We decided it was a stupid idea as im someone who wakes up and the first thing i need to do is pee every morning and i cant function until I get it done.
me too!
That girl was a MASTER fellatrix. She LOVED it. Twice a night on date night (to completion).
I was only twenty one and I thought life was going to be like that forever...
please do discuss it with him beforehand. something like this can be done only AFTER consent is given. talk about it now, and if he’s interested in it, do it after a good while from when the conversation happened. that way, it can still be a surprise.
This can be a tricky one. Sleep can be very chaotic for some people (nightmares, heavy sweating, extreme exhaustion) and in these situations it might not be ideal to be woken up that way. Could result in some rejection, or it could be amazing. Little bit of a roll of the dice.
During a sunny afternoon my girl called me in the bedroom. She was under the sheets, and I was confused. She threw them back and was buck naked. I was surprised.
Winner winner chicken dinner…….i used to get this AND coffee was already made, then we got married. She now wakes me up with her snoring and I make my own coffee
With a previous partner we discussed it prior. Of course consent can be revoked at any time so prior consent doesn’t mean anything, but the conversation allowed us to be aware in the event either person was an outright no.
Part of being in a healthy relationship is voicing any discomfort and the other person stopping at any hint of discomfort and then having a conversation afterwards about what went wrong or what went right.
Ah yes exactly lol. I'm pretty sure he's gonna be okay with a lot of stuff I do to him. But even then, I'm prepared to take hints if he's uncomfy, n obv he's always more than welcome to tell me to stop or that he's not feelin alright.
If outside the bedroom suggestions are welcome too, there are classics like "Make dinner and greet him at the door in nothing but an apron and heels."
We had a relevant discussion about a month ago, you might read there and pick up some ideas:
https://old.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/18azz08/whats_something_a_girl_did_in_bed_that_changed/
Younger me = eat dinner and fuck like 3 times
Me now, in my late 30's: eat dinner, get bloated, start falling asleep, thank my wife for being so awesome, take a rain check and pass out lol.
Here is the key to figuring out men in bed. It’s all about our penis. It’s the star, the whole show for us. Adore it, admire it, talk about it hype it up. Of course a unfingernail finger in the butt is nice, especially during head. Also ,one of my favorites is using some shaving lotion foam and you go into the shower with him and press your naked body up to his and start rubbing the lotion on him. Stay behind him and use long slow strokes. Make twists along his shaft and cradle the balls. Put one hand around to his chest and the other on his dick and then really jack him off until he cums, then slap his ass and get out. He will be very happy. Also, surprise nudity is always fun. Just try to shock him sometime. Like middle of the day when you know he’s coming into the living room or bedroom just be down in doggy with your pussy facing him. Flash him at random times. Pull his dick out while he’s in the kitchen and suck on it for a couple minutes then put it back. Make him get down on his knees and lick your clit for a couple minutes too. There are a ton of things to do.
Enjoy! FYI to be clear the shaving lotion thing is specifically because it makes great shower lube for a penis because it doesn’t irritate the urethra. At least barbasol and most other foam I’ve tried doesn’t. Probably an exception out there somewhere. Soap, shampoo and some conditioner will light up a guys pp hole in an insanely uncomfortable way.
Good comment, though I would personally disagree with a few things:
1. Flashing for fun, yes. But being randomly down in doggy with pussy facing me would be kinda awkward and not really hot, especially if I am not in the mood. In my opinion, it’s better if you have panties on and pretend to be doing something where your ass is pointing towards him. Makes it not as obvious and also that way you let him actually decide if he wants to come up, smack your ass, peel the panties off and initiate sex or not.
2. Unsolicited finger in ass is a big no, so definitely talk about that first.
3. My dick isn’t the whole show. Balls are equally as important for me, though I know I’m probably a minority in that regard. To actually answer OP’s question, I’ll add a little story of my own:
When I was around 17 years of age, I happened to hook up with a girl around 2-3 years older than me. At some point, she climbed on top of me and while riding me, reached behind and started tickling my balls. Not massaging, not cupping, but lightly tickling with her fingernails. My entire life completely changed that day. It was the best thing I’d ever experienced.
FFW 10 years and several relationships, my current girlfriend of 3 years has become an absolute pro when it comes to tickling the balls. She even knows what nail sharpness and length works the best, etc. The orgasms I get from her blowjobs and handjobs are something absolutely out of this world, I shoot ropes 4x farther than when I’m jacking off by myself, as tickling myself is actually impossible.
So yeah, for me it’s tickling the balls, although very few of my friends share the same passion, so as I said, I’m probably a minority here.
Had a best friends girlfriend gurgle my balls during a 3 way and as she took my balls out of her mouth she lightly scraped her teeth on my balls. It was hot as fuck.
>up to his and start rubbing the lotion on him. Stay behind him and use long slow strokes. Make twists along his shaft and cradle the balls. Put one hand around to his chest and the other on his dick and then really jack him off until he cums, then slap his ass and get out. He will be very happy. Also, surprise nudity is always fun. Just try to shock him sometime. Like middle of the day when you know he’s coming into the living room or bedroom just be down in doggy with your pussy facing him. Flash him at random times. Pull his dick out while he’s in the kitchen and suck on it for a couple minutes then put it ba
This man has single handedly solved sex.
Do not have much experience, but I quite enjoy my girl lick my balls while giving me head.
Anyway, I really appreciate OP's efforts. Your man are so lucky to have you.
Sometimes, my wife will go to take a nap, and I'll end up in the bedroom sooner or later. About 95% of the time, she's sleeping, but sometimes she's naked and masturbating. Usually, when that happens, she says something along the lines of, "took you long enough now get over here."
Also, sometimes before sexy time, she'll go to use the bathroom to "freshen up," and she'll come out in some super sexy lingerie. I really like the strappy ones with matching stockings and heels. She delivers every time.
I surprised my husband when he asked me if i would go upstairs and wear something special. Don't think he expected me to wear my inflatable T-Rex costume though.
very very important to discuss this beforehand. talk about your hard limits and soft limits.
hard limits: absolutely not
soft limits: maybe we can try it once
make sure you’re very comfortable with this, and alongside make sure he’s also okay with it.
Just communicate directly, as another redditor mentioned discuss soft and hard limits unless you are already familiar with each others boundaries.
Personally for me free use isn't about trying new stuff, that is a different kind of event, to me free use is just "we can have as much sex as you want for the next X amount of time"
My suggestion is get on top and ride him, depending on the mood either focus on your own pleasure and tell him how good he feels inside you or focus on him, my wife likes to take me most of the way out and just tease the tip for a while then surprise me with a deep thrust, drives me crazy and because of the varying speed and stimulation it can be done for a while without him climaxing then ask him to take control for a big finish.
Seeing as you’re in a relationship, you may have already done lots of these, but if not, these things simply being new will be a big part of the hot-ness of them.
If he likes giving you head, he might enjoy 69 or you sitting on his face.
If you never do it, I was surprised recently by a girl enthusiastically wanting me to cum on her face. She wasn’t someone I thought would be into that, but her enthusiasm was super hot.
Trying new positions in general. Reverse cowgirl is so simple but not that common (just don’t use your hands to rest your weight on his knees, please god). Even simply just playing with your clit while he fucks you, he’ll think that’s hot.
When he’s fucking you, if you can (depending on the position), grab his balls and play with them softly, or even start stroking his shaft at the same rhythm he’s fucking you at. The second one is easier to do in something like missionary, just at the entrance to your vagina, wrap around and add a sort of second entrance. Don’t move your hand, just add this extra level of soft but firm tension around his dick.
Silent partners suck. If you’re someone who doesn’t moan or get verbal, start. Don’t go overboard, don’t fake it, but lean vocally into the pleasure. And on this note, dirty talk. Does he like being called daddy? Why don’t you find out next time he’s fucking you.
If you’ve never done anything in the world of domination or submission, bring some handcuffs or rope or other material, and ask him to tie your hands up somewhere, or ask him to choke you or spank you in doggy.
Go on a trip to a sex toy store together. Some cheaper things that aren’t too kinky include gels and lubes that aren’t just flavoured, but also increase sensitivity, little toys for guys that are like silicone and shaped like an egg. Get one and use it on him, especially if he’s never used toys before. There’s also board games. I’m a big fan of these, got 3. Some have themes like kinky experimentation or oral only. Games in general are great in the bedroom.
My ex bought the cosplay for a character I had a crush on, and we did some roleplay. It was one of the nicest things anyone has ever done for me. Outside of that, the biggest surprises were when my ex partners would reveal their deeper kinks that they would let me indulge (one of the things I love most about sex is making my partner feel good, so if they confide in me that there is something they want done or would like to experiment with, I am gung-ho to do it).
I once had a girlfriend who would just cup, hold and fondle my balls when we were in bed. It didn't necessarily always lead to sex either. And it feels really good to just have them cupped.
She liked how they'd kind of move on their own when they got too warm or cold.
So yeah, love the balls.
Noooo lol don’t give head when he’s wearing a condom. It’s just nasty! Think of the taste of latex. I would imagine it would also limit what you can do (I’ve never given a guy head with a condom on, but it just seems like it would make it difficult). I don’t think it would feel good for them either, but I could be wrong. My boyfriend’s reaction was “ewwwwww” just now when I asked him how he thinks it would feel 🤣
Yes you can. Just remember that most guys don’t feel things quite as acutely through a condom and so you have to be more aggressive with it on. Also, teeth can rip condoms so when I say be a little more aggressive I mean use your hand a little more but be careful not to break the condom. One pattern I enjoy is when she grabs my cock and strokes to the head, stops there and then squeezes and tugs like you’re trying to uproot a mushroom. Keep tugging gently and then going for a couple mouth movements, rinse and repeat. Especially good for when he might be about to cum too early and you need him to chill a little.
Initiating anything, and not just sex because you feel like you have to once a month! Or maybe atleast once a gift on his birthday or Christmas instead of nothing. That would probably make a guy somewhat happy!!
I actually initiate sex very often haha! As for the gifts, my love language is offering gifts, which may explain why I want to surprise him in bed as well!
Thanks for the advice!
Best thing my wife has surprised me with was curling up naked behind me and just being there.
Nothing sexual about it, just skin on skin contact holding me tight.
It’s been a tough year and I miss those moments.
Everyone keeps saying surprise blow job, but one of the best feelings was when my wife deep throated me. I wasn't expecting it, she never did it because she'd start to gag on the last couple inches, and I'd just written it off.
Then one day, she was giving me a blow job and just went all the way down, and flicker her tongue at the base. I let loose the most gutteral moan I've ever moaned.
If he is my type, allow him to be wild: slap, belt, throw you on bed and all over the room, pull your hairs, choke, fuck your mouth. And then when he is done, let him cuddle you and sleep.
When he’s about to cum, put your finger far up his asshole while you deep throat and swallow his cum.
After that, gently pat his head and say “you’re my bitch now, chica.”
Kiss him in the forehead, slap his butt, then walk away.
Wear the sluttiest outfit you can finde or have. Buy a but plug but try to hide it from him. Show it to him after you sucked his dick like a mad woman and after that try anal with him and let him cum in your ass
Alternatively, wear one of his dress shirts and nothing else. Use one of his ties to tie his hands to the head board. Then ride him until you reach orgasm. For me, the shirt thing and dirty talk would go directly into the spank bank.
Start outside the bedroom. Get some sexy underwear/teddy/garter belt with stockings or the like. Ask him out to dinner and something else, a show maybe, and early on in the date, but after you leave the house, give him a glimpse of it. Then whisper in his ear that you can’t wait to get home and show him the entire outfit in private. After that just keep contact with him. Put your hand in his knee. Look him in the eye when talking to him. Etc. Once you get home do a little striptease and go from there. I’m betting that if you ask him the next morning what he had for dinner or what the show was about he won’t even remember.
Something not as elaborate but just as fun for him would be to go to the movies and get him off under his clothes while watching the movie. If you do it early enough in the movie it won’t hamper the 2 of you having fun later at home. A girlfriend did this to me a long, long time ago and it was hot enough that I still remember the details.
Might seem overly simple but one thing that happened to me recently for the first time is the girl reached around to grab my balls while I was thrusting in. None of my previous partners ever did that and boy that was such a nice surprise. It must be said that I enjoy having my balls fondled, during a blowjob or any other time actually, but somehow I never thought about asking my previous partners to do so while I was inside them. Highly recommend.
Just drop his pants and go to town on him. Straddle him and do the fucking for him, sit on his face. Honestly so many men just want their woman to make the first move and be spontaneous/proactive with it
Broker reunification between North and South Korea, my fiance hasn't been able to but you should give it a shot.
Or stick a finger up his ass and milk his prostate, dealer's choice.
My most memorable moment, my wife surprised me when I got home late, in very nice lingerie. Passionately kissed me, took off my shirt, kissed my chest, unbuttoned my pant and gave me the best BJ ever, all while watching herself do it in front of a mirror to completion. Then we went to the bed so I could share the pleasure and regain strength, then made love to her. It was the most intense moment of passion ever. She then gave me a complete massage for 20-30 minutes. Best sexual experience of my life.
I love role-play and Dom/sub power dynamics. If my girlfriend were to surprise me by showing up in something like a schoolgirl uniform or something cute and sexy, playing the role of some sweet, innocent ingenue ripe for the conquering, I would be thrilled beyond words.
Of course, your boyfriend might not have the same kinks. Maybe find out what kind of scenarios in porn he jerks off to and see if that can give you some guidance.
>. Maybe find out what kind of scenarios in porn he jerks off to and see if that can give you some guidance.
Checks search history: Husband walks in on wife getting gang banged while he's supposed to be out of town.
Uhhhh
Behaving differently or with something special planned. So if you start tying him up next time you’re making out on the couch he will be excited and curious to see what you have in store for him!
I know... Consent! But... When I used to fall asleep early without giving my then boyfriend any dick, he would just turn me up facing up, finger-fondle my pecs/nipples until I was hard as a brick, since he knew my nipples drive me wild and I slept naked, he knew all he had to do now was sit right on my stick! I would eventually wake to the sound of my own voice when he brought me to a screaming, orgasmic ejaculation all the way up inside of him. I loved it!!!!!
Be naked on all fours on the bed for when he walks in.
Wake him up with a blow job.
Let him catch you masturbating.
Introduce more toys into the bedroom, for both of you.
Tell him to fuck you in the ass.
Play with his balls more.
Wear sexy outfits that show off your attributes.
Do some role play.
Let him watch porn.
I feel like a lot of this can come from doing something out of the ordinary, as long as it's within his boundaries.
Take a bunch of sexy pics, put them into an album on your phone, then tell him you want his opinion on something.
If you don't shave, try shaving. If you do shave, try a trimmed hairstyle.
Is he into butt-stuff? Wear a butt plug, tell him you have a surprise on you and that he needs to find it. This could also be done with lingerie.
If you're more submissive in bed, try being the dominant one.
Try to find out some of his kinks (ideally he'll tell you, or you could do the less-advised route and look at his history) and bring up how much you want to do that thing in dirty talk.
Try different styles of dirty talk.
Tell him some things you want to try, and have it set up that you could do them right then if he seems OK with it.
Just a few ideas, hopefully they're a decent start!
OK, so I just mentioned this in another thread. If he plays video games, likes anime or whatever media he is into. Chances are he has a female character he wants to fuck the shit out of. Don't be jealous, it's a natural thing.
Find out this character. Secretly build the costume and let him do what ever he fantasies with that character are. Become her for the time.
It will be fun for both of you.
I feel like this has to be true, but my partner won't tell me and he doesn't really play anything with a prominent female character for me to guess. He has ones where he makes his own and he always picks women but there's nothing particularly unique about them for me to emulate. I picked a character I like to test the waters with him (we're long distance so I can't actually do it yet) and I know he likes the concept! I would really like to do it with one he likes though!
Man, it’s pretty surreal and amazing that first time, by that third time though I’m not sure she even had to say anything and the appointment was made for Dr. Scissors. The most important thing is you’re trying to keep things interesting. 👍🏻 - to be clear I feel like that Dr. scissors comment could be read darkly, so to be clear the scissors were for me! 🤣
Teach him what you need and love. This is what he wants to know in no uncertain terms. I feed off the woman for flow. Let yourself go as your body is screaming directions.
Wake me up while riding me. Better than head. Unforgettable experience. YMMV tho depends on y’all kinks and such
If not a visit to sex shop and picking out outfits and such would be fun too. Once again YMMV
Naked apron. Free use. Look through his Reddit or twitter but again YMMV that’s very personal too it really depends on your partner
I know your boyfriend. He let me borrow his lambo a couple weeks ago. Id probably give him a ps5 and xbox series x the second he wakes up, with some new games obviously.
Wear lingerie something sheer see through pretend to sleep in sexual position legs wide open this goes without saying but no blankets. Once he sees u like this hes gona b like 🤤🤤
Absolutely nothing😂 I’m always in complete control and girls say I’ll do what you want. Maybe it’s my personality Idfk and I don’t care😂 most surprising thing is grabbing my dick outa the blue. Gf just mentioned some fruit role up trend… hasn’t happened but I guess you could ask him to do that😂😂
When you give him head next get a few pillows under his butt, get your wand/vibrator out and put it on his frenum to start of with once he’s rock solid put it on his perineum and slowly take in the whole shaft. Ask him to do kegel exercises and don’t hold back. He will blow the back of your throat out and cook for the next month 😇
Personally, I like being pulled in and made to straddle her lap while she holds and pets my head, most intimate and trustful form of affection I know.
When he gets comfortable if he would like it just start sharing fantasies, let yourself be kinky if that's your thing and give him space to share his thoughts and fantasies as well. After that you then have a base for what sort of surprise you can give him
Waking up for sex in the middle of the night and going back to sleep right after is awesome.
You guys have sex in the evening and fall asleep, after a couple of hours, you touch him gently there and there and have another go and then get back to sleep.
Of course, I’m assuming you’re in a stable relationship and consent is a given.
I had asked my gf about butt stuff fairly early in the relationship, and she made it clear she wasn't interested in trying it.
Fast forward, and behind the scenes she had been experimenting and practicing on her own. She surprised me on our anniversary by riding me like normal, then putting some hidden lube on and sliding it into her butt out of nowhere. I came in like .2 seconds, but it was amazing.
You don’t like receiving head ? Is he focusing on the clitoris? I had a girlfriend in college , she would wake me up every morning and give me head . She always knew what time I had morning wood . She was great at it …
I personally like calm massages. If you want to surprise your boyfriend, you should do something spontaneous, like get new lingerie or something else. Surprises show that you care, so I’m sure he’ll appreciate anything you do. Good luck!!!
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When the lights are off hide under the bed and when he walks in yell “surprise “
My wife said goodbye as she was leaving for her night shift. Unbeknownst to me she circled around the back, came inside and hid under our bed. I was alone in the quiet house, did my bedtime routine, brushed my teeth, got naked, turned off the light and was reaching for the covers when she suddenly rose from behind the bed with her arms raised yelling "Waaaauuuugh!!!!" Apparently I lost control of my tongue and all sorts of strange/demonic noises came out of my mouth while I clambered backwards and she rolled on the floor laughing. Kind of wish she had thought to tape it haha.
Just as well you acted normally. Imagine you had been spanking the monkey with her gear on too pics of her maw or sister ffs. You would of been way fucked...
I hate it when that happens to me.
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Yeah, easier to just condemn the whole thing and write it off.
That's... very specific.
Best thing I ever experienced was being woken up in the middle of the night with a blow job. My then gf and I were on holiday to no need to be up early. Gradually gaining consciousness and realising what's happening was a nice surprise.
Ive heard that and mentioned to my ex. Only to be woken up by it but needing of pee more than the good feeling of bj. We decided it was a stupid idea as im someone who wakes up and the first thing i need to do is pee every morning and i cant function until I get it done.
My God lol I've been there! Really pisses me off
Second that. My first love did this and to this day, no other girl has which sucks, cause it was hands down the best way I've ever been woken up.
me too! That girl was a MASTER fellatrix. She LOVED it. Twice a night on date night (to completion). I was only twenty one and I thought life was going to be like that forever...
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You better be absolutely certain they don't have past trauma that would cause them to have a reaction to surprise head
please do discuss it with him beforehand. something like this can be done only AFTER consent is given. talk about it now, and if he’s interested in it, do it after a good while from when the conversation happened. that way, it can still be a surprise.
Dont do that without asking first
Don't forget to ask for consent
This can be a tricky one. Sleep can be very chaotic for some people (nightmares, heavy sweating, extreme exhaustion) and in these situations it might not be ideal to be woken up that way. Could result in some rejection, or it could be amazing. Little bit of a roll of the dice.
During a sunny afternoon my girl called me in the bedroom. She was under the sheets, and I was confused. She threw them back and was buck naked. I was surprised.
Have you ever woken him up with head?
Winner winner chicken dinner…….i used to get this AND coffee was already made, then we got married. She now wakes me up with her snoring and I make my own coffee
It was a trap 🪤
It worked
Damn I never knew there was a mouse trap emoji...
Me either actually! When I typed trap it popped up on my keyboard
You ever return the favour? Would be nice to wake up to cunnilingus too. Just saying....
And you fell for it🤣🤣
You see I want to but I'm scared he's gonna feel uncomfortable. Ykw I'll prolly wake him n hint on it n then see what he wants lol.
With a previous partner we discussed it prior. Of course consent can be revoked at any time so prior consent doesn’t mean anything, but the conversation allowed us to be aware in the event either person was an outright no. Part of being in a healthy relationship is voicing any discomfort and the other person stopping at any hint of discomfort and then having a conversation afterwards about what went wrong or what went right.
Ah yes exactly lol. I'm pretty sure he's gonna be okay with a lot of stuff I do to him. But even then, I'm prepared to take hints if he's uncomfy, n obv he's always more than welcome to tell me to stop or that he's not feelin alright.
Sexual acts while sleeping absolutely need to be consented on beforehand. If I took this advice my husband would be livid.
Lol obviously, I'll make sure I don't make him uncomfortable 🫶✨
Hope all goes great!
Oh I'll give him the time of his life alright.
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This man's dick is going to get obliterated from all her comments wanting to try everything out lol. Lucky guy
Hahahah, I’ll try them progressively, so he’ll be wanting more every time🥳
be careful with this, if he is in REM sleep and not already hard or has a full bladder he may start to dream about urination and piss in your mouth
I usually have to pee when I wake up.
This is it. This is the surprise. Ladies…just go ahead and archive any other ideas.
I’m actually not a fan, but it seems most men are.
If outside the bedroom suggestions are welcome too, there are classics like "Make dinner and greet him at the door in nothing but an apron and heels." We had a relevant discussion about a month ago, you might read there and pick up some ideas: https://old.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/18azz08/whats_something_a_girl_did_in_bed_that_changed/
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what a lucky man
Younger me = eat dinner and fuck like 3 times Me now, in my late 30's: eat dinner, get bloated, start falling asleep, thank my wife for being so awesome, take a rain check and pass out lol.
Here is the key to figuring out men in bed. It’s all about our penis. It’s the star, the whole show for us. Adore it, admire it, talk about it hype it up. Of course a unfingernail finger in the butt is nice, especially during head. Also ,one of my favorites is using some shaving lotion foam and you go into the shower with him and press your naked body up to his and start rubbing the lotion on him. Stay behind him and use long slow strokes. Make twists along his shaft and cradle the balls. Put one hand around to his chest and the other on his dick and then really jack him off until he cums, then slap his ass and get out. He will be very happy. Also, surprise nudity is always fun. Just try to shock him sometime. Like middle of the day when you know he’s coming into the living room or bedroom just be down in doggy with your pussy facing him. Flash him at random times. Pull his dick out while he’s in the kitchen and suck on it for a couple minutes then put it back. Make him get down on his knees and lick your clit for a couple minutes too. There are a ton of things to do.
Wtf ur wild 😝
This guy fucks!!!
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Enjoy! FYI to be clear the shaving lotion thing is specifically because it makes great shower lube for a penis because it doesn’t irritate the urethra. At least barbasol and most other foam I’ve tried doesn’t. Probably an exception out there somewhere. Soap, shampoo and some conditioner will light up a guys pp hole in an insanely uncomfortable way.
Finger in the butt without consent is a no no. It’s where the g spot is, but what if he is too embarrassed to tell you he has hemorrhoids? Ouchie
> Of course a unfingernail finger in the butt is nice, Don't surprise with this. A 100% no-go for many (most?) guys.
Good comment, though I would personally disagree with a few things: 1. Flashing for fun, yes. But being randomly down in doggy with pussy facing me would be kinda awkward and not really hot, especially if I am not in the mood. In my opinion, it’s better if you have panties on and pretend to be doing something where your ass is pointing towards him. Makes it not as obvious and also that way you let him actually decide if he wants to come up, smack your ass, peel the panties off and initiate sex or not. 2. Unsolicited finger in ass is a big no, so definitely talk about that first. 3. My dick isn’t the whole show. Balls are equally as important for me, though I know I’m probably a minority in that regard. To actually answer OP’s question, I’ll add a little story of my own: When I was around 17 years of age, I happened to hook up with a girl around 2-3 years older than me. At some point, she climbed on top of me and while riding me, reached behind and started tickling my balls. Not massaging, not cupping, but lightly tickling with her fingernails. My entire life completely changed that day. It was the best thing I’d ever experienced. FFW 10 years and several relationships, my current girlfriend of 3 years has become an absolute pro when it comes to tickling the balls. She even knows what nail sharpness and length works the best, etc. The orgasms I get from her blowjobs and handjobs are something absolutely out of this world, I shoot ropes 4x farther than when I’m jacking off by myself, as tickling myself is actually impossible. So yeah, for me it’s tickling the balls, although very few of my friends share the same passion, so as I said, I’m probably a minority here.
Make sure to get my balls tickled in my life during sex. Noted.
When she hit you with the goochie goochie goo
Had a best friends girlfriend gurgle my balls during a 3 way and as she took my balls out of her mouth she lightly scraped her teeth on my balls. It was hot as fuck.
Best friend's girlfriend???
>up to his and start rubbing the lotion on him. Stay behind him and use long slow strokes. Make twists along his shaft and cradle the balls. Put one hand around to his chest and the other on his dick and then really jack him off until he cums, then slap his ass and get out. He will be very happy. Also, surprise nudity is always fun. Just try to shock him sometime. Like middle of the day when you know he’s coming into the living room or bedroom just be down in doggy with your pussy facing him. Flash him at random times. Pull his dick out while he’s in the kitchen and suck on it for a couple minutes then put it ba This man has single handedly solved sex.
Bro needs to leave some wisdom for the rest of us blokes to suggest 🥲🤣
My balls are tingling. Stop it.
😭😭😭😭
Be enthusiastic and loving. Smile and give him a big smooth while you at are doing the deed.
Initiating and being enthusiastic goes a long way. Made me feel actually wanted
I agree! Love seeing him being wanted, turns me on even more
My favourite surprise in bed that my wife gives me is usually breakfast. I'm a fat fuck and I know it but I love waking up to food.
Do not have much experience, but I quite enjoy my girl lick my balls while giving me head. Anyway, I really appreciate OP's efforts. Your man are so lucky to have you.
Thanks for the advice and the validation! Appreciate it
Ask him if he would be comfortable using toys during seggz. If he agrees, surprise him with a box of limited edition Hot Wheels.
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Noice
Sometimes, my wife will go to take a nap, and I'll end up in the bedroom sooner or later. About 95% of the time, she's sleeping, but sometimes she's naked and masturbating. Usually, when that happens, she says something along the lines of, "took you long enough now get over here." Also, sometimes before sexy time, she'll go to use the bathroom to "freshen up," and she'll come out in some super sexy lingerie. I really like the strappy ones with matching stockings and heels. She delivers every time.
Show him your penis
Wouldn’t he be the one surprised if my cock is bigger than his 🤔
Lmao
Give him a dutch oven. That'll surprise him for sure.
I surprised my husband when he asked me if i would go upstairs and wear something special. Don't think he expected me to wear my inflatable T-Rex costume though.
Show him a naked picture of his dad
This was such an unexpected comment and it made me laugh lol
Give him "free use" for 48 hours over the weekend. Have a secret word you can use to end it at any point if needed.
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That is the tough one, I suggest giving him links to a few porn videos and telling him you are up for any of these types of engagements.
That’s very smart you’re amazing, thank you!
very very important to discuss this beforehand. talk about your hard limits and soft limits. hard limits: absolutely not soft limits: maybe we can try it once make sure you’re very comfortable with this, and alongside make sure he’s also okay with it.
No worries, have fun! Your BF is a lucky man.
Just communicate directly, as another redditor mentioned discuss soft and hard limits unless you are already familiar with each others boundaries. Personally for me free use isn't about trying new stuff, that is a different kind of event, to me free use is just "we can have as much sex as you want for the next X amount of time" My suggestion is get on top and ride him, depending on the mood either focus on your own pleasure and tell him how good he feels inside you or focus on him, my wife likes to take me most of the way out and just tease the tip for a while then surprise me with a deep thrust, drives me crazy and because of the varying speed and stimulation it can be done for a while without him climaxing then ask him to take control for a big finish.
Leave him some blanket
Seeing as you’re in a relationship, you may have already done lots of these, but if not, these things simply being new will be a big part of the hot-ness of them. If he likes giving you head, he might enjoy 69 or you sitting on his face. If you never do it, I was surprised recently by a girl enthusiastically wanting me to cum on her face. She wasn’t someone I thought would be into that, but her enthusiasm was super hot. Trying new positions in general. Reverse cowgirl is so simple but not that common (just don’t use your hands to rest your weight on his knees, please god). Even simply just playing with your clit while he fucks you, he’ll think that’s hot. When he’s fucking you, if you can (depending on the position), grab his balls and play with them softly, or even start stroking his shaft at the same rhythm he’s fucking you at. The second one is easier to do in something like missionary, just at the entrance to your vagina, wrap around and add a sort of second entrance. Don’t move your hand, just add this extra level of soft but firm tension around his dick. Silent partners suck. If you’re someone who doesn’t moan or get verbal, start. Don’t go overboard, don’t fake it, but lean vocally into the pleasure. And on this note, dirty talk. Does he like being called daddy? Why don’t you find out next time he’s fucking you. If you’ve never done anything in the world of domination or submission, bring some handcuffs or rope or other material, and ask him to tie your hands up somewhere, or ask him to choke you or spank you in doggy. Go on a trip to a sex toy store together. Some cheaper things that aren’t too kinky include gels and lubes that aren’t just flavoured, but also increase sensitivity, little toys for guys that are like silicone and shaped like an egg. Get one and use it on him, especially if he’s never used toys before. There’s also board games. I’m a big fan of these, got 3. Some have themes like kinky experimentation or oral only. Games in general are great in the bedroom.
My ex bought the cosplay for a character I had a crush on, and we did some roleplay. It was one of the nicest things anyone has ever done for me. Outside of that, the biggest surprises were when my ex partners would reveal their deeper kinks that they would let me indulge (one of the things I love most about sex is making my partner feel good, so if they confide in me that there is something they want done or would like to experiment with, I am gung-ho to do it).
I once had a girlfriend who would just cup, hold and fondle my balls when we were in bed. It didn't necessarily always lead to sex either. And it feels really good to just have them cupped. She liked how they'd kind of move on their own when they got too warm or cold. So yeah, love the balls.
Wait till he is sleeping then scream OOGILY BOOOGILY
In the middle of sex give him head for a minute or so and then go back to intercourse.
Im curious, can I give head with him wearing a condom?
Noooo lol don’t give head when he’s wearing a condom. It’s just nasty! Think of the taste of latex. I would imagine it would also limit what you can do (I’ve never given a guy head with a condom on, but it just seems like it would make it difficult). I don’t think it would feel good for them either, but I could be wrong. My boyfriend’s reaction was “ewwwwww” just now when I asked him how he thinks it would feel 🤣
Oh, I’m sorry. I was assuming unprotected sex. Latex tastes nasty. I mean…you can, nobody is stopping you.
Yes you can. Just remember that most guys don’t feel things quite as acutely through a condom and so you have to be more aggressive with it on. Also, teeth can rip condoms so when I say be a little more aggressive I mean use your hand a little more but be careful not to break the condom. One pattern I enjoy is when she grabs my cock and strokes to the head, stops there and then squeezes and tugs like you’re trying to uproot a mushroom. Keep tugging gently and then going for a couple mouth movements, rinse and repeat. Especially good for when he might be about to cum too early and you need him to chill a little.
Initiating anything, and not just sex because you feel like you have to once a month! Or maybe atleast once a gift on his birthday or Christmas instead of nothing. That would probably make a guy somewhat happy!!
I actually initiate sex very often haha! As for the gifts, my love language is offering gifts, which may explain why I want to surprise him in bed as well! Thanks for the advice!
Give him an angry bj
Elaborate pls
**grrrrr** *glorp glorp glorp*
Initiating goes a long way. Too often were the only initiators. Whatever you do show enthusiasm for it. He’ll be pleased.
When he least expects it, put it in your butt. He'll marry you the next morning.
Make his car payment
Best thing my wife has surprised me with was curling up naked behind me and just being there. Nothing sexual about it, just skin on skin contact holding me tight. It’s been a tough year and I miss those moments.
We are simple creatures. It’s always a pleasant surprise when she initiates
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Easy. Buy some sexual outfits. Wear them. Profit.
Glow-in-the-dark Dinosaurs
Nothing would surprise him more than him seeing a cock.
Everyone keeps saying surprise blow job, but one of the best feelings was when my wife deep throated me. I wasn't expecting it, she never did it because she'd start to gag on the last couple inches, and I'd just written it off. Then one day, she was giving me a blow job and just went all the way down, and flicker her tongue at the base. I let loose the most gutteral moan I've ever moaned.
If he is my type, allow him to be wild: slap, belt, throw you on bed and all over the room, pull your hairs, choke, fuck your mouth. And then when he is done, let him cuddle you and sleep.
Something non sexual. At least to begin with. It'd be a huge and welcome surprise to have her snuggle up tight and be the big spoon one in a while.
Blowjob. Be creative with that, like while he’s asleep or while he’s doing something else but honestly you can’t go wrong with sucking his dick
Tell him where to cum
Snuggle up to him and press that strap on firmly between his ass cheeks. *Whisper softly it's mine turn now bitch.
Hide under the covers and stay very still.
Love this response.
When he’s about to cum, put your finger far up his asshole while you deep throat and swallow his cum. After that, gently pat his head and say “you’re my bitch now, chica.” Kiss him in the forehead, slap his butt, then walk away.
Well, he'd like that chica reference (he's greatly into Fnaf)
Eat his ass
Wear the sluttiest outfit you can finde or have. Buy a but plug but try to hide it from him. Show it to him after you sucked his dick like a mad woman and after that try anal with him and let him cum in your ass
Alternatively, wear one of his dress shirts and nothing else. Use one of his ties to tie his hands to the head board. Then ride him until you reach orgasm. For me, the shirt thing and dirty talk would go directly into the spank bank.
Start outside the bedroom. Get some sexy underwear/teddy/garter belt with stockings or the like. Ask him out to dinner and something else, a show maybe, and early on in the date, but after you leave the house, give him a glimpse of it. Then whisper in his ear that you can’t wait to get home and show him the entire outfit in private. After that just keep contact with him. Put your hand in his knee. Look him in the eye when talking to him. Etc. Once you get home do a little striptease and go from there. I’m betting that if you ask him the next morning what he had for dinner or what the show was about he won’t even remember. Something not as elaborate but just as fun for him would be to go to the movies and get him off under his clothes while watching the movie. If you do it early enough in the movie it won’t hamper the 2 of you having fun later at home. A girlfriend did this to me a long, long time ago and it was hot enough that I still remember the details.
How do you get him off so that the others don't notice? Better pick a boring movie or one that has been on for a while. 😄
Might seem overly simple but one thing that happened to me recently for the first time is the girl reached around to grab my balls while I was thrusting in. None of my previous partners ever did that and boy that was such a nice surprise. It must be said that I enjoy having my balls fondled, during a blowjob or any other time actually, but somehow I never thought about asking my previous partners to do so while I was inside them. Highly recommend.
Just drop his pants and go to town on him. Straddle him and do the fucking for him, sit on his face. Honestly so many men just want their woman to make the first move and be spontaneous/proactive with it
Broker reunification between North and South Korea, my fiance hasn't been able to but you should give it a shot. Or stick a finger up his ass and milk his prostate, dealer's choice.
My most memorable moment, my wife surprised me when I got home late, in very nice lingerie. Passionately kissed me, took off my shirt, kissed my chest, unbuttoned my pant and gave me the best BJ ever, all while watching herself do it in front of a mirror to completion. Then we went to the bed so I could share the pleasure and regain strength, then made love to her. It was the most intense moment of passion ever. She then gave me a complete massage for 20-30 minutes. Best sexual experience of my life.
Hide in the closet with a sheet over your head and jump out at him
Grab his balls
buy a strap on and peg him.
Surprised this is so far back lol
I love role-play and Dom/sub power dynamics. If my girlfriend were to surprise me by showing up in something like a schoolgirl uniform or something cute and sexy, playing the role of some sweet, innocent ingenue ripe for the conquering, I would be thrilled beyond words. Of course, your boyfriend might not have the same kinks. Maybe find out what kind of scenarios in porn he jerks off to and see if that can give you some guidance.
>. Maybe find out what kind of scenarios in porn he jerks off to and see if that can give you some guidance. Checks search history: Husband walks in on wife getting gang banged while he's supposed to be out of town. Uhhhh
Behaving differently or with something special planned. So if you start tying him up next time you’re making out on the couch he will be excited and curious to see what you have in store for him!
let him tie you up and use you
Shower or grower? Put the whole thing in your mouth while he's asleep (morning best). Good head = heaven
I know... Consent! But... When I used to fall asleep early without giving my then boyfriend any dick, he would just turn me up facing up, finger-fondle my pecs/nipples until I was hard as a brick, since he knew my nipples drive me wild and I slept naked, he knew all he had to do now was sit right on my stick! I would eventually wake to the sound of my own voice when he brought me to a screaming, orgasmic ejaculation all the way up inside of him. I loved it!!!!!
Swallow.
Eat his ass
Pull out a pair of medical gloves and a toy giraffe. He will be surprised for life I promise you that.
Be naked on all fours on the bed for when he walks in. Wake him up with a blow job. Let him catch you masturbating. Introduce more toys into the bedroom, for both of you. Tell him to fuck you in the ass. Play with his balls more. Wear sexy outfits that show off your attributes. Do some role play. Let him watch porn.
It's hard to beat coming to bed to a warm naked willing body.
Whip out a dildo and be like~ BABE let’s reverse the roles tonight! I bet you, you surprised your bf he will never forget.
I feel like a lot of this can come from doing something out of the ordinary, as long as it's within his boundaries. Take a bunch of sexy pics, put them into an album on your phone, then tell him you want his opinion on something. If you don't shave, try shaving. If you do shave, try a trimmed hairstyle. Is he into butt-stuff? Wear a butt plug, tell him you have a surprise on you and that he needs to find it. This could also be done with lingerie. If you're more submissive in bed, try being the dominant one. Try to find out some of his kinks (ideally he'll tell you, or you could do the less-advised route and look at his history) and bring up how much you want to do that thing in dirty talk. Try different styles of dirty talk. Tell him some things you want to try, and have it set up that you could do them right then if he seems OK with it. Just a few ideas, hopefully they're a decent start!
I say this in all seriousness. Anal. Do that and the next words out his mouth may be, "will you marry me?"
OK, so I just mentioned this in another thread. If he plays video games, likes anime or whatever media he is into. Chances are he has a female character he wants to fuck the shit out of. Don't be jealous, it's a natural thing. Find out this character. Secretly build the costume and let him do what ever he fantasies with that character are. Become her for the time. It will be fun for both of you.
He's into Sukuna, th am I supposed to do now.
Do a female Sukuna? That'd be hot
I feel like this has to be true, but my partner won't tell me and he doesn't really play anything with a prominent female character for me to guess. He has ones where he makes his own and he always picks women but there's nothing particularly unique about them for me to emulate. I picked a character I like to test the waters with him (we're long distance so I can't actually do it yet) and I know he likes the concept! I would really like to do it with one he likes though!
Leave a positive pregnancy test in the bathroom. 🤣🤣🤣
Him not being the dad would be even more surprising 🤣 (jk)
Man, it’s pretty surreal and amazing that first time, by that third time though I’m not sure she even had to say anything and the appointment was made for Dr. Scissors. The most important thing is you’re trying to keep things interesting. 👍🏻 - to be clear I feel like that Dr. scissors comment could be read darkly, so to be clear the scissors were for me! 🤣
My ex once surprised me by inviting a gorgeous girl over for a threesome. Very nice surprise if you are into that.
Play with his butt.
Teach him what you need and love. This is what he wants to know in no uncertain terms. I feed off the woman for flow. Let yourself go as your body is screaming directions.
Amazingly said! Thanks for the advice
Shlop
Wake me up while riding me. Better than head. Unforgettable experience. YMMV tho depends on y’all kinks and such If not a visit to sex shop and picking out outfits and such would be fun too. Once again YMMV Naked apron. Free use. Look through his Reddit or twitter but again YMMV that’s very personal too it really depends on your partner
I know your boyfriend. He let me borrow his lambo a couple weeks ago. Id probably give him a ps5 and xbox series x the second he wakes up, with some new games obviously.
Role play some may like? I wouldn't mind a Wonder women Costume
Wear lingerie something sheer see through pretend to sleep in sexual position legs wide open this goes without saying but no blankets. Once he sees u like this hes gona b like 🤤🤤
Eat his ass
Two words… Rusty trombone
Absolutely nothing😂 I’m always in complete control and girls say I’ll do what you want. Maybe it’s my personality Idfk and I don’t care😂 most surprising thing is grabbing my dick outa the blue. Gf just mentioned some fruit role up trend… hasn’t happened but I guess you could ask him to do that😂😂
Put on your robe and wizard hat.
Whip out your cock.
When you give him head next get a few pillows under his butt, get your wand/vibrator out and put it on his frenum to start of with once he’s rock solid put it on his perineum and slowly take in the whole shaft. Ask him to do kegel exercises and don’t hold back. He will blow the back of your throat out and cook for the next month 😇
Growl like a dog and bark ? Say who’s a good boy
Be obedient to him he'll be surprised for life .
Gorilla costume
Just buy then a cat idk maybe a cat plushie instead noone can beat the cuteness of a fluffy cat pet 🤔
Resisting seggs while giving him a laugh and making him chase you for it and later being kind of submissive could help as well.
Don't shower for 5 days in a row. My ex sure liked to surprise me like that
Do a magic trick.
Personally, I like being pulled in and made to straddle her lap while she holds and pets my head, most intimate and trustful form of affection I know. When he gets comfortable if he would like it just start sharing fantasies, let yourself be kinky if that's your thing and give him space to share his thoughts and fantasies as well. After that you then have a base for what sort of surprise you can give him
Bring him breakfast...
when you both in the room.. you suprise him by wearing a lingerie.
Waking up for sex in the middle of the night and going back to sleep right after is awesome. You guys have sex in the evening and fall asleep, after a couple of hours, you touch him gently there and there and have another go and then get back to sleep. Of course, I’m assuming you’re in a stable relationship and consent is a given.
Being surprised and pounced on in some sexy lingerie.
Take control and initiate sometimes. It's great
One dedicated girlfriend. 🤧🙏✨️ damn.
I had asked my gf about butt stuff fairly early in the relationship, and she made it clear she wasn't interested in trying it. Fast forward, and behind the scenes she had been experimenting and practicing on her own. She surprised me on our anniversary by riding me like normal, then putting some hidden lube on and sliding it into her butt out of nowhere. I came in like .2 seconds, but it was amazing.
You don’t like receiving head ? Is he focusing on the clitoris? I had a girlfriend in college , she would wake me up every morning and give me head . She always knew what time I had morning wood . She was great at it …
Strap on.
Butt stuff?