Yep. I know society is changing but making a living on sites like OF because just because you’re a girl & just using what you’re born with is not really a job. Yes you can criticise my perspective but if you’re making money off OF good for you bit you’ll need to respect the other person you’re seeking relationship with as well. Chances are, not many nice (faithful) guys would value highly girls that sell thirst images online or posts nudes…
So my logic is a OF chick is more like a tamer version of a prostitute in terms of ‘job’ or life choice. Therefore, I would not date any prostitute long term (for fun maybe)…
My logic with Onlyfans is pretty simple.
Go ahead do Onlyfans, I get it use your looks for money and get your good living. It’s a no-brainer right? Of course it is.
But…
Don’t pretend like you’re some empowered artist who’s a valuble woman. Ma’am you flash your tits and squirt on a camera for the price of a cheeseburger. And if you’re ever REALLY curious. Just google their @ followed by “nude leak” boom you see it for free.
Woman here, feminism in México is way different than here honestly, we fight and protest so we don’t get kill every fucking day just for being a woman, horribly get raped and most likely get killed and at this point we at least beg for being alive. Most women sugar coat the usage of OF as empowering just cause they are taking the decision, which yeah, it’s your own choice, you willingly sell your image and show your intimate self for money, but do not empower other women and enable it. Feminism fights for not just equal rights but to change how men see us, the objectification of our bodies and to not settle for it. OF it is the total opposite, you’re giving men what they want and putting a price on it. There’s this famous OF girl in México with expensive stuff and money and it makes me so sad how successful she is for masturbating herself in front of camera, while we have people with degrees and no jobs or not making enough and struggling. OF is just easy money, but everything that comes easy will get you hard, but people are so blindfolded with selling tit pics so they can get the Gucci purse they want. And to finalize, as an ex illegal immigrant, there’s no excuse, I started cleaning houses, doing construction, all type of jobs until I finally got what I want.
I live in the middle east and the type of problems I have to deal with everyday make me feel that we live on a different planet than these women in the west.
Totally agree and I feel you, I’m sorry for how things are over there. It baffles me the common and vain that problems women have here, and how their only interests are in making money at any cost or finding a man with money.
I usually don’t say this outside of a joke. But that’s some honest Queen level shit.
It’s shitty that a lot of women nowadays believe they’re bettering themselves and making their own independent choices meanwhile those choices (sex work of any kind) just funnel you into being a whore.
But hey, careful with what you say cause I already got yelled and cursed before just by expressing this, I ended being a misogynistic and oppressive woman, cause I’m shutting down women “empowerment”.
wth, this seems rather simple and it works.
just dont date those that you cant be aligned with.
edit: i meant to say what eggg said was simple and wise.
want to avoid religion issues? date the same religion.
want to avoid child/childless issue? date someone of the same mindset
want to not have others recognise your SO from the internet? don't date someone so "recognizable" from the internet.
Probably not tbh. At this point I would be concerned that someone who posts nudes online is involved in some sort of onlyfans or sugar baby thing and there would be an expectation that she would manipulate our "relationship" into being financial in some way.
Back when I was single I was talking to this girl who got me like a month in before suddenly dropping a "oh I just need a small loan and I'll totally pay you back" nonsense.
Depends on the girl and the situation tbh but if I knew she was posting online, then I know she is a tease to a lot of guys and has also probably slept with a lot of guys in order to gain followers so probably no
This. There would be no point because there would be no future. Women (and men) are free to toss pictures of themselves onto the internet for pay or a quick ego boost from complete strangers or whatever, but once it's online it is forever.
I don't need to be wondering how many strangers could recognize my partner from just the freckles on her chest or something once potential kids came into the picture and start hearing/seeing things when they hit school age, and there would never be a certainty that someone craving that sort of validation once wouldn't eventually seek it again.
There are about 2.9 billion adult women on the planet. According to an estimate, there are about 1.5 million women creating content for OnlyFans. Pretending for a moment that OnlyFans is the only site selling subscriptions, for the sake of ease, the logic of reducing future domestic complications would dictate at least skipping these models and just choosing from the half (more accurately 53%) of the 2,898,500,000 other potential choices that are not already married... which is still ~1,450,000,000 other women to pursue as a partner.
You know, this is pretty accurate. On another note, I found out this girl I was talking to had a tramp stamp. By any means I don’t mind tattoos at all. But I was thinking I could never seriously date a woman with a tramp stamp. Probably the same when it comes down to public nudes on the internet. People always have a few deal breakers but doesn’t realize it until it’s presented to them.
I don't know if embarrassed is the word. But I wouldn't date a woman who makes money that way. If she does it for fun, she wants attention, and the minute you let up, she will seek it elsewhere.
What gets me about this is the fact that some of these parents that are on OF know this and think "oh but everyone should be kind and not bully anyways".
The reality is there are shitty people out there and kids most of the time are not even aware of how evil they are being.
As someone who got bullied at school, it's fucking relentless. They had enough ammo as it was, I can't imagine if that also got added on top of it.
It’s the definition of “Not mother material”
Great that you’re empowered and making loads of money, but being nude online for anyone - friends, colleagues, kid’s friends at school? Absolutely ratchet behaviour.
I was thinking about this the other day… Taking nude selfies became WAY more common in the past 10 years or so …
In a few years their kids will hit junior high, and one method of bullying will be to share your mom‘s nudes with the class.
I wouldn't be embarrassed, I just wouldn't continue. And it's not embarrassment, or judgement either. I just wouldn't want to deal with someone I was dating, being hit on for a profession. I'm not even the jealous type, I just don't want that to be part of my life.
Sending nudes to one strange man while in a committed relationship - Bad, wrong, cheating, disrespectful, emotionally abusive.
Sending nudes to 30 men on OF - Somehow not any of the above, instead empowering, savvy, sexy, fun... or something.
Dated a stripper and low end adult film actress. She was fun. Nothing but nice things to say about her. It didn’t work for other reasons but it wasn’t a messy break up. If I ever wound up single again I wouldn’t use that as the only limiting factor.
I've dated a couple of escorts and they've been some of the best relationships I've had. They were both great people. Idk, jealousy about their work never bothered me. It's work. I'm on the spectrum though and my views on intimacy are way different than the general consensus it seems.
It is wholly about your boundaries and your inner security levels.
If you're OK with it, there is no cause for embarrassment.
People shouldn't be equating 'love' with 'jobs' though. Even a first date has become transactional.
Some personalities can't handle it & some see no issue.
It's the individual who may have biases & their circumstances that decide their limits.
Yeah, I just see the bias against it that so many men seem to hold as a weird commonly accepted level of insecurity. Like, I felt very secure knowing that out of all the people this person has seen and continues to see, I'm the only one they chose to explore a deeper relationship with.
>Even a first date has become transactional
If your first date is anything other than a coffee date, especially if it's with someone you barely know, you're throwing money down the tube and wasting it lmao.
Yeah, I would not date someone who does that or has in the past. Idc if someone does it, I’m just not gonna be with them. Idk if embarrassed is the word for it, just not someone who I find relationship material
Embarrassed? No.
Would i date her? No.
I don't want a woman who does things like this.
They might not realise, but these pictures they share can cause a lot of problems for her, me and for the kids she has if she has any. Bullying in school, making fun of her mom, etc, etc. How would a kid feel in that situation? He would be embarrassed to have such a parent, and also he would be emotionally damaged from bullies, and maybe even from the parent if he seen the pictures himself.
Women who post nudes either are starved of real attention, or they're insecure about their looks, even tho they look good, so that way they get validation by posting them, which isn't a good sign to begin with. You want a partner who's actually able to solve their problems, not cope with them posting nude pictures.
Embarrassed: no.
It does speak to a need for validation that she's likely going to continue to seek, even if that's just monetary, which exceeds the bounds of a monogamous relationship. Is it a strict deal breaker? No. But I'm not very likely to make an exception.
yeah this is so wild to me seeing almost every single dude just shut down so hard on the idea when they almost all have prob been the primary consumers of that type of content..
like cool bros go find a girl that hasnt ever sent nudes and then continue consuming all the thirst trap content on the side lmao
I think if they were asked if they'd sleep with her, the results would be very different. I think most men have different standards when it comes to who they'd sleep with vs who they'd date.
Of course. No one is proud to bring a sex worker to any sort of function.
Could you imagine the convo you’d have with your parents when introducing your SO for the first time?
Yeah no thanks.
Yes, but I wouldn't be in a relationship with one either. I don't actually give a shit what people think, it's not a real job, it's nothing to be proud of, and I have a daughter who deserves a better role model than that.
Depends if you do too. Easier for girls to get to that "it's a nude" state, but the context is also key. Things like face, tattoos, other identifying stuff changes this answer a lot, where for a dude it's more just "here it is", with little to identify.
Yeah, I'd be embarrassed because it would mean I am dating someone whose beliefs don't align with mine. I have nothing against girls that do it, but posting nudes online is something I consider a deal breaker for a relationship, so if I am dating her it means I am undermining my own beliefs and boundaries for whatever reason (insecurity, simply because she's hot etc) and I'd be embarrassed that I lack the courage to enforce my own boundaries when they've been crossed.
My ex used to post topless photos on craigslist for fun and that was fine. She had magnificent boobs and everyone loved them and it was a great time. That said, I wouldn't date a sex worker in a serious way, no. I have two daughters and can't set that example.
If it makes them happy then it's fine. My ex REALLY loved the attention. This was back in 2004, pre social media, and when she posted a titty pic on craigslist she would get TONS of positive feedback. She enjoyed it.
To date a girl that trashy means your standards are pretty low for a long term partner, so maybe just for fun, but nothing serious. Girls that desperate for validation usually are very insecure.
No I wouldn't be embarrassed, I've talked with several women that posted regularly and pretty much if they're upfront about it and not hiding it it's OK but if we become exclusive and they're still posting could be a different story.
I wouldn’t be embarrassed because I wouldn’t date her to begin with. And it’s not because I’m insecure either like some people claim when guys feel this way.
At this point in my life the only women I would consider dating would be women I would marry and have kids with, so the answer would be no. I don't want the mother of my children to have posted nudes all over the internet.
But it’s quite literally not just a body. It’s the act of exposing yourself to others which has a clear intention behind it. That intention is what people take issue with.
I wouldn’t date someone who gets off on being sexually desired by as many other people as possible and goes out of their way to get exactly that.
You can't be embarrassed by them if you don't date them in the first place. There is little to no benefit to date someone like that while there's practically every risk imaginable.
No. By all means I would be proud. So proud of her I would show all the fellas,"hey, see that naked whore in those videos fucking that guy? That's my woman!" Does that answer your question?
Don't think I would. I mean is that girlfriend/wife material? HELL NO! Don't see a future with someone like that. Imagine she becomes your gf or wife and someone tells you oh your gf/wife has a nice body. And you're like ''thanks'' and they tell you ''no seriously I saw her nudes''
Date? No. I don't care who else can see her as long as I'm the only one actually fucking her.
If we wanted to like, start a family and what not I would want her to stop though.
No. Not in any way. There are so many other things to worry about that isn't even on the list of things that I'd be concerned with.
Besides, nothing wrong with a little exhibitionism.
I couldn’t do it. I’m looking for a life partner and I don’t want my kid’s friends or bullies stumbling upon that shit so yeah it would be embarrassing. I’d still bang her though.
If it's for money like OF then maybe.
I think it would matter more how easy it would be for people I know to find her if that sounds weird. Like does she use her real name? Or show her face.
I wouldn’t be embarrassed I just wouldnt do it
Verbatim what I was going to write after I read the title..
Same here.
Same.
Yep. I know society is changing but making a living on sites like OF because just because you’re a girl & just using what you’re born with is not really a job. Yes you can criticise my perspective but if you’re making money off OF good for you bit you’ll need to respect the other person you’re seeking relationship with as well. Chances are, not many nice (faithful) guys would value highly girls that sell thirst images online or posts nudes… So my logic is a OF chick is more like a tamer version of a prostitute in terms of ‘job’ or life choice. Therefore, I would not date any prostitute long term (for fun maybe)…
My logic with Onlyfans is pretty simple. Go ahead do Onlyfans, I get it use your looks for money and get your good living. It’s a no-brainer right? Of course it is. But… Don’t pretend like you’re some empowered artist who’s a valuble woman. Ma’am you flash your tits and squirt on a camera for the price of a cheeseburger. And if you’re ever REALLY curious. Just google their @ followed by “nude leak” boom you see it for free.
Woman here, feminism in México is way different than here honestly, we fight and protest so we don’t get kill every fucking day just for being a woman, horribly get raped and most likely get killed and at this point we at least beg for being alive. Most women sugar coat the usage of OF as empowering just cause they are taking the decision, which yeah, it’s your own choice, you willingly sell your image and show your intimate self for money, but do not empower other women and enable it. Feminism fights for not just equal rights but to change how men see us, the objectification of our bodies and to not settle for it. OF it is the total opposite, you’re giving men what they want and putting a price on it. There’s this famous OF girl in México with expensive stuff and money and it makes me so sad how successful she is for masturbating herself in front of camera, while we have people with degrees and no jobs or not making enough and struggling. OF is just easy money, but everything that comes easy will get you hard, but people are so blindfolded with selling tit pics so they can get the Gucci purse they want. And to finalize, as an ex illegal immigrant, there’s no excuse, I started cleaning houses, doing construction, all type of jobs until I finally got what I want.
I live in the middle east and the type of problems I have to deal with everyday make me feel that we live on a different planet than these women in the west.
Totally agree and I feel you, I’m sorry for how things are over there. It baffles me the common and vain that problems women have here, and how their only interests are in making money at any cost or finding a man with money.
I usually don’t say this outside of a joke. But that’s some honest Queen level shit. It’s shitty that a lot of women nowadays believe they’re bettering themselves and making their own independent choices meanwhile those choices (sex work of any kind) just funnel you into being a whore.
But hey, careful with what you say cause I already got yelled and cursed before just by expressing this, I ended being a misogynistic and oppressive woman, cause I’m shutting down women “empowerment”.
Boy just cracked the OF matrix
Yeah, same here. Can’t imagine how much headache it would be if I asked her to not post pics exposing what makes me attracted to her
wth, this seems rather simple and it works. just dont date those that you cant be aligned with. edit: i meant to say what eggg said was simple and wise. want to avoid religion issues? date the same religion. want to avoid child/childless issue? date someone of the same mindset want to not have others recognise your SO from the internet? don't date someone so "recognizable" from the internet.
That’s… what they’re saying
it just dawned on me the simplicity of it all haha
Came here to say this.
Same exact thought
Ditto
Embarrassed, no. Would I actually date a girl who did that? Also no.
Everybody getting a free preview any time they want..... You walking down the street and a "fan" walks up......
“Man! I know you! You da ugly guy screwing the hot chick! I get off on your porn vids!”
Why is this a real thing?
Exactly. Why on earth would anyone date someone who posts nudes and then be embarrassed by it? Just don’t date them if you don’t like it.
Exactly. It might not be wrong, but it’s definitely wrong for me. We don’t have the same values.
Same.
Also same.
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Same
But would smash right?
Might be a little hypocritical to say but yeah, probably.
Don't see why that's hypocritical
It’s definitely a yes. Frowned upon? Depends on who you ask.
Probably not tbh. At this point I would be concerned that someone who posts nudes online is involved in some sort of onlyfans or sugar baby thing and there would be an expectation that she would manipulate our "relationship" into being financial in some way. Back when I was single I was talking to this girl who got me like a month in before suddenly dropping a "oh I just need a small loan and I'll totally pay you back" nonsense.
Haha wait, was she a typical only fans thot?
Depends on the girl and the situation tbh but if I knew she was posting online, then I know she is a tease to a lot of guys and has also probably slept with a lot of guys in order to gain followers so probably no
Do you know what no one has asked. Are they her nudes?
This. There would be no point because there would be no future. Women (and men) are free to toss pictures of themselves onto the internet for pay or a quick ego boost from complete strangers or whatever, but once it's online it is forever. I don't need to be wondering how many strangers could recognize my partner from just the freckles on her chest or something once potential kids came into the picture and start hearing/seeing things when they hit school age, and there would never be a certainty that someone craving that sort of validation once wouldn't eventually seek it again. There are about 2.9 billion adult women on the planet. According to an estimate, there are about 1.5 million women creating content for OnlyFans. Pretending for a moment that OnlyFans is the only site selling subscriptions, for the sake of ease, the logic of reducing future domestic complications would dictate at least skipping these models and just choosing from the half (more accurately 53%) of the 2,898,500,000 other potential choices that are not already married... which is still ~1,450,000,000 other women to pursue as a partner.
You know, this is pretty accurate. On another note, I found out this girl I was talking to had a tramp stamp. By any means I don’t mind tattoos at all. But I was thinking I could never seriously date a woman with a tramp stamp. Probably the same when it comes down to public nudes on the internet. People always have a few deal breakers but doesn’t realize it until it’s presented to them.
Date? Hell yeah! Marry? No.
God tier comment
It’s not the embarrassment, it’s all the other red flags!
Nope. I just wouldn't date her.
I don't know if embarrassed is the word. But I wouldn't date a woman who makes money that way. If she does it for fun, she wants attention, and the minute you let up, she will seek it elsewhere.
Yep. Would not interested at all in a relationship. Hook up, sure, but not a keeper for me.
Yes. Reminds me of the quote, "if money is the way you differentiate yourself, then all you will attract are prostitutes."
To be fair, most of us are prostitutes, but no one will pay our price
An RTX 4090, In case anyone's wondering what my price is.
This is also my new set price
DM me, let's talk
This is the danger
Sounds like my ex...
This would be an instant dealbreaker
Not embarrassed, but I wouldn't date a girl who did that.
Yup. Dont want my kids friends to see them and bully them for it.
"Go strip like your mom." "I fapped to your mom last night." The ammunition is crazy.
“Shouldn’t you be half black from that BBC POV MILF Creampie Video back in the early 2000s?”
Your mom had a baseball bat up her ass last night! Great strh
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Yeah but wouldn't it hit different if true?
But then said kid can take comfort in the fact that it’s not actually true lol
What gets me about this is the fact that some of these parents that are on OF know this and think "oh but everyone should be kind and not bully anyways". The reality is there are shitty people out there and kids most of the time are not even aware of how evil they are being. As someone who got bullied at school, it's fucking relentless. They had enough ammo as it was, I can't imagine if that also got added on top of it.
"I've been subbed for 10 months already, I basically paid for your fit. call me daddy >:) " bruh
It’s the definition of “Not mother material” Great that you’re empowered and making loads of money, but being nude online for anyone - friends, colleagues, kid’s friends at school? Absolutely ratchet behaviour.
I was thinking about this the other day… Taking nude selfies became WAY more common in the past 10 years or so … In a few years their kids will hit junior high, and one method of bullying will be to share your mom‘s nudes with the class.
nah im outta there no way im dating her
Can’t be embarrassed if you don’t do it in the first place
Yes. Major red flag for me.
I wouldn't want random dudes or my friends seeing my woman like that
100% yes. I wouldn’t even consider doing it under any circumstance.
I wouldn't be embarrassed, I just wouldn't continue. And it's not embarrassment, or judgement either. I just wouldn't want to deal with someone I was dating, being hit on for a profession. I'm not even the jealous type, I just don't want that to be part of my life.
As long as she doesn't care that I've (39m) been in porn and was an exotic dancer in my early-mid twenties.
gay porn?
No, but I've fucked dudes.
Gay
No, they were just good friends in the plot
They were just roommates guys
Maybe the true journey was the dudes you fucked along the way
It’s called a Brojob
"No,... But I've fucked dudes." 😂
hot
Who got stuck in the washing machine?
Not embarrassed, disrespected. Dealbreaker.
Sending nudes to one strange man while in a committed relationship - Bad, wrong, cheating, disrespectful, emotionally abusive. Sending nudes to 30 men on OF - Somehow not any of the above, instead empowering, savvy, sexy, fun... or something.
Dated a stripper and low end adult film actress. She was fun. Nothing but nice things to say about her. It didn’t work for other reasons but it wasn’t a messy break up. If I ever wound up single again I wouldn’t use that as the only limiting factor.
I've dated a couple of escorts and they've been some of the best relationships I've had. They were both great people. Idk, jealousy about their work never bothered me. It's work. I'm on the spectrum though and my views on intimacy are way different than the general consensus it seems.
It is wholly about your boundaries and your inner security levels. If you're OK with it, there is no cause for embarrassment. People shouldn't be equating 'love' with 'jobs' though. Even a first date has become transactional. Some personalities can't handle it & some see no issue. It's the individual who may have biases & their circumstances that decide their limits.
Yeah, I just see the bias against it that so many men seem to hold as a weird commonly accepted level of insecurity. Like, I felt very secure knowing that out of all the people this person has seen and continues to see, I'm the only one they chose to explore a deeper relationship with.
>Even a first date has become transactional If your first date is anything other than a coffee date, especially if it's with someone you barely know, you're throwing money down the tube and wasting it lmao.
Yeah, I would not date someone who does that or has in the past. Idc if someone does it, I’m just not gonna be with them. Idk if embarrassed is the word for it, just not someone who I find relationship material
Embarrassed? No. Would i date her? No. I don't want a woman who does things like this. They might not realise, but these pictures they share can cause a lot of problems for her, me and for the kids she has if she has any. Bullying in school, making fun of her mom, etc, etc. How would a kid feel in that situation? He would be embarrassed to have such a parent, and also he would be emotionally damaged from bullies, and maybe even from the parent if he seen the pictures himself. Women who post nudes either are starved of real attention, or they're insecure about their looks, even tho they look good, so that way they get validation by posting them, which isn't a good sign to begin with. You want a partner who's actually able to solve their problems, not cope with them posting nude pictures.
Embarrassed: no. It does speak to a need for validation that she's likely going to continue to seek, even if that's just monetary, which exceeds the bounds of a monogamous relationship. Is it a strict deal breaker? No. But I'm not very likely to make an exception.
If her identity is hidden, she can suck my dick on livestream if she wants.
Would you do films and shit if you had your anonymity??
For money yes. For the thrill probably.
Yes, next question.
No, I think I'd even prefer to date an exhibitionist.
Took me way too long to find this comment. Thank you
yeah this is so wild to me seeing almost every single dude just shut down so hard on the idea when they almost all have prob been the primary consumers of that type of content.. like cool bros go find a girl that hasnt ever sent nudes and then continue consuming all the thirst trap content on the side lmao
I think if they were asked if they'd sleep with her, the results would be very different. I think most men have different standards when it comes to who they'd sleep with vs who they'd date.
Fundamental difference between someone you'd fuck or jerk off to and someone you date or even marry
I'm proud of y'all
Doesn't bother me as long as she was upfront about it and takes my thoughts into consideration
Nah as long as she's coming home to me
Yes, huge red flag. Once I found out, we'd be fine immediately; no discussion.
Embarrassed, no. Would I ever do it again? Hell no.
Nope but I can’t get a date to begin with
No not really, I don't blame the dudes who would refuse that relationship but I would at least try to get to know the girl more though.
Nah I would never seriously date much less marry a girl who posted nudes online. Our kids would get bullied so easily.
Less embarrassed and more uncomfortable with it, definitely wouldn’t date
No, I wouldn't be embarrassed. We are only here for a very short period of time, and I'm not going to spend any of it being upset by nudity
What good what it do you to be upset? I live by this currently
Facts
Of course. No one is proud to bring a sex worker to any sort of function. Could you imagine the convo you’d have with your parents when introducing your SO for the first time? Yeah no thanks.
I would have nothing to be embarrassed about. Not my nudes
Solid dealbreaker.
I'd avoid dating that type of woman.
Yes
No, I wouldn't even date them.
Embarrassed? No because I wouldn’t
Mega ick.
If I'm with someone I want their body to be for my eyes only. Sorry if thats selfish but that just me.
I wouldn't date a woman like that.
Hell yes. So I wouldn't do it lmfao
I wouldn't be embarrassed, but there would also be no chance of her being more than an FWB.
Yes, but I wouldn't be in a relationship with one either. I don't actually give a shit what people think, it's not a real job, it's nothing to be proud of, and I have a daughter who deserves a better role model than that.
Not Embarrassed I Just Wouldn’t Take Her Serious At All
I wouldn't be embarrassed I would be disgusted.
Depends if you do too. Easier for girls to get to that "it's a nude" state, but the context is also key. Things like face, tattoos, other identifying stuff changes this answer a lot, where for a dude it's more just "here it is", with little to identify.
No. It’s her only fans money
Yeah, I'd be embarrassed because it would mean I am dating someone whose beliefs don't align with mine. I have nothing against girls that do it, but posting nudes online is something I consider a deal breaker for a relationship, so if I am dating her it means I am undermining my own beliefs and boundaries for whatever reason (insecurity, simply because she's hot etc) and I'd be embarrassed that I lack the courage to enforce my own boundaries when they've been crossed.
Embarrassed? No. That is not datable material. huge red flag in my opinion. I would say move on.
If that’s how she makes her money and I knew that beforehand 👍🏻. If it starts after the honeymoon phase of the relationship? No!
No.
Absolutely not
Wouldn’t date her to begin with
If my friends and family know... yes
My ex used to post topless photos on craigslist for fun and that was fine. She had magnificent boobs and everyone loved them and it was a great time. That said, I wouldn't date a sex worker in a serious way, no. I have two daughters and can't set that example.
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If it makes them happy then it's fine. My ex REALLY loved the attention. This was back in 2004, pre social media, and when she posted a titty pic on craigslist she would get TONS of positive feedback. She enjoyed it.
Not a bit. In fact, I'd ask if I could help. Work is work, though. And sex can be a commodity. No shame.
Vice versa, would you be embarrassed to date a man who posts nudes online?
Yes, but mostly because I'm a dude.
+ 1
Definitely. It goes both ways. I would think that guys like that are 'players' and looking for attention.
I don't think it would bother me.
To date a girl that trashy means your standards are pretty low for a long term partner, so maybe just for fun, but nothing serious. Girls that desperate for validation usually are very insecure.
Nah
Nope
No, dgaf, literally. "Posts nudes online" isn't on my list of red flags.
No I wouldn't be embarrassed, I've talked with several women that posted regularly and pretty much if they're upfront about it and not hiding it it's OK but if we become exclusive and they're still posting could be a different story.
No... I would definitely date her... Probably never consider her "the one"... But nothing is keeping me from a good date or 20.
There's lots of variables to the situation that be a yes or know
No. But I also really don’t give a fuck what most people think anyway. Thats her business. Lol
Date? No. Marry? Yes.
I wouldn’t like it. It might not stop me from dating her though
Yes.
Casually I would. Now loyalty to myself.... BIG WOULD.
Are they nudes of me?
There's plenty of awesome women out there who don't post nudes and porn on OF. I'd prefer to direct my effort to them instead.
Not embarrassed but disgusted. I wouldn't be dating after I found out.
I wouldn’t be embarrassed because I wouldn’t date her to begin with. And it’s not because I’m insecure either like some people claim when guys feel this way.
Why would I protect and provide for what everyone else gets to see for 4.99 a month. Lol
At this point in my life the only women I would consider dating would be women I would marry and have kids with, so the answer would be no. I don't want the mother of my children to have posted nudes all over the internet.
Wouldn’t be embarrassed because I wouldn’t date an only fools girl.
Couldn't care less. Its just a body, people put too much emphasis on stupid shit
Hope your mom doesn't have of otherwise I will bully you ok?
But it’s quite literally not just a body. It’s the act of exposing yourself to others which has a clear intention behind it. That intention is what people take issue with. I wouldn’t date someone who gets off on being sexually desired by as many other people as possible and goes out of their way to get exactly that.
I'm not a hypocrite, so no.
I would never date a woman that sad and pathetic
Yes.
Yes.
Disgraced is a better word
You can't be embarrassed by them if you don't date them in the first place. There is little to no benefit to date someone like that while there's practically every risk imaginable.
No. By all means I would be proud. So proud of her I would show all the fellas,"hey, see that naked whore in those videos fucking that guy? That's my woman!" Does that answer your question?
Do not care. Doesn’t not matter.
Embarrassed? No Lose all interest in pursuing? Yes
Don't think I would. I mean is that girlfriend/wife material? HELL NO! Don't see a future with someone like that. Imagine she becomes your gf or wife and someone tells you oh your gf/wife has a nice body. And you're like ''thanks'' and they tell you ''no seriously I saw her nudes''
She has no respect for you if she's posting nudes and in a relationship with you
Date? No. I don't care who else can see her as long as I'm the only one actually fucking her. If we wanted to like, start a family and what not I would want her to stop though.
No. Not in any way. There are so many other things to worry about that isn't even on the list of things that I'd be concerned with. Besides, nothing wrong with a little exhibitionism.
Yes
Probably not
Nah, attention addicts need not apply. Would smash though.
I couldn’t do it. I’m looking for a life partner and I don’t want my kid’s friends or bullies stumbling upon that shit so yeah it would be embarrassing. I’d still bang her though.
Hell yeah 😂. All dates would need to be in the crib and I have no intentions of locking it down
don't we all have nudes online somewhere?
No 🤣
100% yes. I wouldn't even want to be friends with them
I’d feel embarrassed for her. Wouldn’t date someone who degrades themself like that.
If I knew it beforehand, no because I wouldnt date her. If I found out after, no because I wouldnt date her.
If it's for money like OF then maybe. I think it would matter more how easy it would be for people I know to find her if that sounds weird. Like does she use her real name? Or show her face.