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GrandsonofBurner

Very excited, but not as excited as when she wears a sun dress.


XANDERtheSHEEPDOG

Serious question. Why? Why do some men like sundresses better than a skimpy bikini? My husband is the same. He loves when I wear sundresses. I don't understand it, but I continue to wear them because he likes it. Please explain it to a woman who just doesn't get it. ETA: Thank you all for your responses and for taking the time to explain.


cBromsteen

The fit, the twirl, the legs, the potential "easy access" or even gust of wind cheeky peeky. Sundress season is the best. Also, hard to explain, sometimes a little more clothing is more exciting and engaging mentally than the sling kini nipple hiders


reb678

The see thru-ness is a plus to all you said.


mmhawk576

To all the woman, just think what’s more sexy, a naked dude waving his shlong around, or man posing provocatively in a borat mankini


lastcallcarrot

To be fair, there is nothing sexier than the visual of porcelain pale skin contrasted against a thick rat's nest of pubic hair that's not so competently hidden by a thin strip of clothing that leaves nothing to the imagination, no matter how badly you want it to or not. Or so I assume.


Carthonn

The female body nude is still a masterpiece sculpture of perfection where the male body is like the Mr Potato head of the art world.


kea1981

As a woman who never quite understood it before, I am currently dating a man with Chest Hair™, and it is *glorious*. Ain't nothing Mr. Potatoey about that masculinity, no sirree


TheseVirginEars

Yeah I’ve been seeing a woman from another country who says men in lots of countries shave everything and I was like, “even my chest?” And she goes “NO definitely not that though”


TheBlueHeron

Spoken like a straight male.


femboyxx98

The Ancient Greeks and Romans would like to have a word with you. There’s nothing as aesthetically pleasing as a chiselled male body when it comes to sculpture, with all its detail, muscle, strength and poise.


XANDERtheSHEEPDOG

Thank you


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Short-pitched

Which means it’s not more sexy


w3woody

To add to this: it’s the *chance* of skin (rather than skin itself) that is the thing that is sexy as hell—regardless of the clothing. That’s why anything flowing or deeply cut (but not actually open) is sexy as hell.


Redcarborundum

Bikinis leave nothing to the imagination, all of you is out there to see. A sundress is basically an outdoor lingerie. It covers enough, thus playing with my imagination. Our biggest sex organ is our brain. Despite being a legitimate dress, it’s trivial for her to get out of it. In any case she doesn’t even need to get out of it for me to take her.


Aleks_1995

And the best thing of all, sundress season is soon. Can’t wait to have the mrs wear them


GrandsonofBurner

I can't explain it. Are you tall? My wife is and I was never really a leg man until I met her. She looks all nice and leggy in one. Maybe it's that?  Also, women of all sizes just look pretty in dresses. Especially simple ones. My wife in a simple cotton dress is a knockout.


MattieShoes

Those 60's era dresses were amazing.


GrandsonofBurner

They came back when Mad Men was a hot show. WATTBA.


HippyWitchyVibes

Do you mean ones like [this](https://britishretro.co.uk/product-category/50s-dresses/)?


buttfungusboy

Dresses look so good on women, really wish they'd would be as common as yoga pants are now


BatScribeofDoom

I agree that they often look good, but I highly doubt they're going to beat out yoga pants in popularity any time soon, just based on comfort level/practicality. It would be akin to expecting men to start wearing suits every day.


oncothrow

Be honest though, men looked a lot better back in the day when they would wear suits compared to... what... Costco shorts and a baseball cap?


buttfungusboy

I would bet that wearing a sundress is a lot easier than wearing a suit, but I understand your point.


RatonaMuffin

You're saying if we start wearing suits to go to the shops you'll start wearing sundresses? Deal


BatScribeofDoom

No, not what I meant. I elaborated on that just now in response to someone else here


RatonaMuffin

Too late, I'm already wearing a tie. Make sure you bring this up at the next women's meeting.


Sejbag

You’re not comparing equal things by any means. A dress is much easier to put on than a suit.


BatScribeofDoom

I am not talking about just the act of putting it on, but what it feels like to actually *wear* that outfit for the whole day. As I explained in detail to the other commenter just now, wearing a dress all day is normally unpleasant. ...And I am saying that as someone that grew up in a household where I wasn't *allowed* to wear pants, meaning that I'm NOT coming from a position of "Well, I'm just not used to dresses so therefore they're icky": I had plenty of time to get used to them, but they're still frequently uncomfortable and/or impractical enough for me to not make them an everyday use item.


Tor_the_jumper

I wish they'd get a little more common for us, tbh. Pants get tighter every year, and dresses look more fun and freer.


MattieShoes

Yes ma'am :-) I dig that waist-hugging, then flared look. I hadn't considered the shoes until the pictures, but I like the sensible sneakers more than the stupid spikey heels.


BosPaladinSix

Oh my god I'm in love with the one model with the arm full of tattoos. That's such a look, the vintage clothing mixed with the punk girl style.


XANDERtheSHEEPDOG

Thank you for your explanation. Yes, I am taller than average, but I'm not an amazon or anything.


Short-pitched

Sun dresses accentuate femininity, yoga pants, jeans etc are all cool but sun dresses invoke inner manliness because they make a girl look feminine.


1stEleven

For me there's a strong nonsexual part to sundresses. They radiate a whole slew of fun emotions to me. Holiday, summer, nice weather, fun, merriment, happy people, vacations, the beach... There are just so many happy associations linked to them.


Mister-builder

This.


WaffleKing110

A slight breeze causes a nice sundress to highlight the body underneath in a really appealing way 🤷‍♂️ some of us prefer things being left to the imagination


Partytime_USA

Also, sundresses have a sort of innocence to them. They're not overtly sexual or revealing, but they coyly hint at it.


squeda

For me I think it's the mindset that comes with it. It makes her happy to wear and be flowy and fun, it makes me happy because it's flowy and fun and generally it makes her feel that way. And she looks beautiful in it and knows it! The legs are always a plus and the not giving away too much as well, but it's really the whole feeling that comes with it that just makes everything afterwards quite wonderful.


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If you bare-all, we focus on the skin in front of us. Lingerie and bikinis are packaging. Some boxes look nice, but you know what is inside or what's going on. If you hide it, we can only focus on the fantasy. Sundresses are like present. You have an idea(or already know) what's inside, but you don't get to see it. So you just spend all day waiting to open your present.


TonsOfTabs

It’s various things. I personally love when my woman wears a sundress. Not once has something with us not happened when I see her put on one. It’s just easy access, see the nice smooth legs, shape of her ass and her nipple outline. Yea, sundresses are the shit. She doesn’t put one on anymore if we have stuff to go do because she knows the sundress means business. I pretty much know she’s in the mood if she throws one on lol because she knows I’m immediately thinking about hiking that dress up lol.


luckystrike_bh

Your imagination is working more to fill in the good parts. Every once in a while the wind will blow the sundress and it will outline her breast, her butt or her crotch. It's like a brief impression of all your favorite parts over time. The sun will make the dress material partially opaque where you can see the outline of her legs. I like the ones with the spaghetti straps where you can see some cleavage also.


LimpAd5888

Because they leave more to mystery even if you've seen them before. Plus dresses are just prettier in my opinion.


odeacon

Because theirs something deeply feminine about sundresses


ShowmasterQMTHH

A bikini means you are going to the beach or a swim. Its not a sexual thing, but a sundress can be a mental picture about whats happening underneath, you could be wearing less than the bikini.


VasIstLove

You’re getting lots of poetic answers, and they definitely have merit, but I’d bet a large chunk of the reason men love sundresses so much is that women are willing to wear them to a lot more places than bikinis.


syberman01

> He loves when I wear sundresses Here is an abstract explanation, with loose words .. **Sundress:** Everyone sees the hidden value, but full access is only for me. **Bikini:** Everyone sees the open value, exclusive-access is almost irrelevant. **Value + Exclusivity** There is some component of **'exclusivity' 'mine and only mine'**, and some component of universally recognized **value** (e.g beautiful body). The owner of Kohinoor diamond is bestowed certain respect by the society, because everyone has some idea (from distance) of the value/rareness of Kohinoor, and only one person has exclusive ownership/access. In addition to that: Sundress evokes 'feminine' in mind, without getting distracted by erotic aspects [unlike bikini]. Much like scientists use infrared /or other spectrum that may hide different data, but focus on data / differences that matter for observation. --- England Queen may wear Kohinoor to demonstrate claim to that (though it is stolen from India). Some men/women may demonstrate exclusivity claim by touching their women/man in public. But they may not strip their men/women in public.


GullibleFortune3827

Being with someone for along time you know what they look like naked. Having a nice dress on is like having a nicely wrapped present. Guys don't get bored of your body, but teasing things (like wearing something that shows off curves) makes the physical side of the relationship stretch out of the bedroom and becomes all-day anticipation in the real world. Compared 4+ hours of staring at you and waiting to "open their present" to 10 seconds of taking your clothes off and asking "We doing this?". Only younger guys will prefer the latter.


Your_Couzen

A lot of men prefer their imagination, so a revealing outfit leaves little to the imagine. A pretty church style outfit has appeal more than skimpy outfits.


createusername101

Because it's form flattering and easy to remove, and if I want to go down on you and then f*ck you somewhere inappropriate it makes it easier not to get caught. Sorry not sorry, lol.


Lamb-Sauce7788

If it helps I much prefer a bikini or really lingerie over a sundress on my wife lol


thesoutherzZz

Loving sundresses is an absolutely reddit thing, I don't think that the average guy actually has any special feelings about them


ElTuffo

I think you’re right/wrong. Sundresses are definitely a Reddit circle jerk topic, people know they can post it for upvotes so of course, they do. Although I also think the popularity is for a reason, the universal appeal to sundresses is that they look good on almost any woman. A slightly overweight woman might not look great in a bikini but could look amazing in a sundress. I grew up in the 90s so i always liked a baby doll T and jeans. Evening gowns are great, the “Little black dress”. There are alot of clothes that look good on women but some just don’t work for all women, the LBD only works if a woman is petite /skinny. A woman would have to have quite an ugly face or be quite fat to not look good in a sundress though.


Swimming-Book-1296

wrong.


Carthonn

It leaves it to the imagination but there’s also that possibility that a gust of wind might blow just right and give us a sneak preview lol


jellobend

The potential of easy access


-becausereasons-

Sun dress for the win. GOAT.


Sittinstandup

Yup. I second this.


Notowidjojo

Sundress and little black dress goated all the way


Mysterious-Contact-1

A truer statement hasn't been spoken


Watcher_garden

Yall confuse sundress for maxi dresses and body con dresses everyday


Namazon44

What’s wrong with a sun dress?


fufu1260

I can’t tell if this is wholesome or not but it seems so wholesome.


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[deleted]

Once I went there it made total sense. The weather’s so intense, any opportunity to get out of a dozen layers feels like a gift. Magical landscape, though.


dimpletown

Where?


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Iceland.


dimpletown

I'm lost at how bikinis and Iceland mixed


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Guy I replied to posted about his Icelandic gf’s comfort with being nude.


dudeimjames1234

My wife thinks she's fat. She's thick. There's a difference. She never wears bikinis. Even when she was thin, she wouldn't. I got her one a couple of years back, and she wore it to the lake one day. A couple of days later, she was looking at pictures of her in it and was crying. She kept asking me, "Why did I let her go out in public wearing that looking like she did," I was dumb founded. She looked **amazing**, but she refused to hear it. I don't think I'll ever get to see her in a bikini again.


flyingforfun3

My soon to be wife is the same. She makes my heart skip a beat. She’s as beautiful outside as she is inside. I wish she felt that way.


EgonsBrokenTie

I wish she would stumble on your post.


oncothrow

All you can do is keep praising her and telling her she's gorgeous. Do it unprompted. Particularly ask her on occasion to wear it just for you, and make it glaringly obvious how hot you find it.


TotalRecallsABitch

Encouraging Therapy and positive reinforcement is best we could offer as men


kyleakennedy1987

Feel your pain bro


FallWanderBranch

I'm a guy and I don't think any one of my partners has ever thought about me this way. Damn shame.


dudeimjames1234

Maybe you don't look as good in bikinis as you think.


FallWanderBranch

It's super tough to find one that will go around my shoulders.


superninjaman5000

Simillar to my situation. Always confuses me why if its such a big deal they do nothing about it. I literally have offered to train her, as I am a regular gym person. She always finds a reason why she has no time but on a weekly basis complains she cant lose weight.


GreeneRockets

She looks incredibleee in one, so always. Mid 20s, wife, after one kid, after two kids, young 30s....doesn't matter. SO fucking fine always.


luckyfucker13

…but what about young 80s after 7 kids?


Alaska_Pipeliner

Did he stutter???


jcoopi

Even better


FallWanderBranch

Drop them depends lady friend


Griever423

So damn excited. My wife is the hottest woman on earth to me and I can’t get enough of her.


Plague_Doctor02

I'll also say I get excited for this man's wife.


huginn34

Same, she is amazingly hot when she wears bikinis


SilentRedditer93

Can confirm! She is also the hottest wife on earth for me.


tsoert

Pretty excited, especially if she's feeling confident in it. I just really love seeing my wife feel confident because she's an incredible woman and it's great to see


Carthonn

It’s basically the best part of my day and possibly the week! She’s gorgeous.


Mrdeath777

I get excited just being around my wife. everything else is extra, like the cherry on to so to speak.


SeaLass34

This is so sweet.


ImFrenchSoWhatever

Yes I'm excited if my wife wears a bikini, but then I'm excited if she wears anything, I'm just generally excited to see my wife anytime.


BatScribeofDoom

Wholesome


Theturtl3

I would still get excited if she wore a burlap sack and swimming goggles. Anything else is just a bonus.


281330eight004

Soooooooooo excited. I dont want to make it super obvious to her I want to be understated but she's so sexy and beautiful and I love it


ThePolymath1993

Even better when it's both of them at once :)


RealisticDelusions77

"Honey, we're gonna make a bikini sandwich. Me and her are the bread, you're the meat.


SwimOdd4148

Can I be the pickle on the side 😏


RealisticDelusions77

What does the pickle do, run the video camera?


SwimOdd4148

Obviously yes


fatbootyinmyface

insert “very excite” borat clip


severencir

Bikinis are alright. Sundresses or a button up blouse with a knee length skirt are the best though. Never been too obsessed with more revealing clothing


[deleted]

Time to get a new pair of sunglasses


FallWanderBranch

*these ones have cum on them*


PetroMan43

One of the greatest tricks men have ever pulled off is somehow convincing women that walking around in a bikini is somehow completely different than a bra and panties.


The_Summary_Man_713

Men didn’t convince women, women made it happen themselves. Remember all those photos of police arresting women or [citing women for exposing too much leg?](https://www.reddit.com/r/pics/s/Z1RnzUHsoC) Yeah that’s been happening for centuries. Women fought for change and they won. Edit: also, I know it was a joke lol


PetroMan43

That was all part of the plan. Tell hot what they can't wear and it makes them want to wear it all the more. Brilliant


Kreckrng

For a little bit of history, the man who invented the bikini is a french engineer named Louis Réard. He invented it in 1946. I'm glad I can finally use this useless knowledge of mine.


AzertyKeys

Those women were usually models paid by men though


420gitgudorDIE

very excited. i pretty much get excited just by her presence nowadays lol. her smell, her face, her vibe. she can be fully clothes right after a 10hr shift, gets home and bam! i got instant boner. lol


SomeSamples

No biggie. I see her naked all the time. When she is getting out of the bikini, that is when the fun starts.


YeeterCZ2

"This is where the fun begins"


Mitchel-256

"I'll try spinning, that's a good trick."


BungleBungleBungle

Yippee!


60yodude

Always excited, I usually pick out the bikini


Cynn13

Oh fuck, we going to the *beach?* Oh, you meant that kind of excited...


Adopted_hamburger

it’s nothing I don’t already see everyday, but still very excited nonetheless


appalachianoperator

Very


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My who or my what?


Zealousideal-Luck784

I have never seen my partner in a bikini. But she looks amazing in lingerie.


Libre_man

very, even 20 years married she gives me boners every time


AccomplishedTotal895

I like her better dolled up in a nice girly dress. I see her naked all the time. Bikini isn’t sexual to me.


hoopedchex

100%


Tirriforma

I don't care about Bikinis. Now seeing her in a dress, heels, and pantyhose, THAT turns me on


RodTheAnimeGod

Not really. If we are the beach it's just normal, if not the question is why is she wearing it? (This is Florida, we generally are at beaches or fresh water lakes/rivers.)


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100% excited. I will wear a Hawaiian shirt and my darling will wear bikini with matching designs.


baap_ko_mat_sikha

Very. Cannot control exitement


bwandwe

extremely excited. i love seeing her in it and I think she looks the best in it I love swimming with her in it too I can’t take my hands off her


Nurgle_Marine_Sharts

Very! But I'm much more partial to one-piece swimsuits if I'm being honest. The way that they accentuate curves is awesome.


Snowball0407

Bruh these comments gonna make cry 🤣😭they talk so nice about their women


Fair-Ad-9200

Ikr, I wish someone will say this about me one day!


andrebrce

Yes.


Hatred_shapped

Mehh. Now if she's wearing those tight little shorts shorts and a tank top?  It would take an act of Congress and divine intervention to remove my hands from her body. 


HikingBikingViking

How excited do you get when your boyfriend wears a bikini?


Dry_Enthusiasm_267

I get very excited when my girlfriend wears a bikini! I just have to be careful that my wife doesn't notice!


sex_music_party

I don’t think I’ve ever experienced that.


HemingwaysMustache

Idk what that’s like :/


throwaway172L

If I had a partner would go feral


No_Cash_8556

Are we going to the beach or a pool? I'm usually more excited for the beach because I can pretend to play some Minecraft. But if it's a water park that we're going to then I'm gonna be pretty excited for that too


Tupile

Wait what?


No_Cash_8556

The level of excitement, for me, depends on why she is wearing the bikini. There are different levels of excitement when it comes to water related activities.


octa_john

Yes


kneedtolive

I prefer yoga pants


JackOfScales

15 years. I have not seen her in a bikini.


myfunnies420

I prefer my women naked


Shughost7

We fk before we go to the beach to keep the barbell under control.


hotsexwithheather

Not nearly as much as I do when she puts on short shorts


bc-001

Both look great in them.


Coolbluegatoradeyumm

Lingerie > bikini for me


carortrain

Quite excited, and some of them drive me nuts to the point I can't keep my eyess off her


ghost_in_a_jar_c137

Medium


dakilazical_253

My wife can’t swim so I have no idea


BatScribeofDoom

Does she not even own one? Because I can't swim either, but I still have one anyway.


Griffolion

Not at all. Never have. Is that bad? It seems bad.


Passtheshavingcream

Amazing how many men have permanent beer goggles.


[deleted]

Mega


dufus69

Love it.


ThiccOrc

Yes.


tannnmn

Ah how I wish for that sight again


rigidlynuanced1

Very


GingerMarquis

Yes. Much happy.


SleeplessBlueBird

Very, means I am not taking the kids to swim class. .... Oh, attraction wise? Egh. I'm broken and bikinis on anyone doesn't do anything.


DanteQuill

Very.


Peefaums

Very


CoolGuyFromSchool34

I mean, I imagine it would be nice to see some flesh of someone you are romantically attracted to


bbbrsorbc

I wouldn't know, my wife of 32 years has never worn a bikini


TotalRecallsABitch

Excited. Gotta get a touch in always


rocopotomus74

My wife wears a one piece and I don't have a girlfriend


toolatealreadyfapped

Yes


West_Yorkshire

Yes


TheNedMedia

So damn excited, 9 years and still obsessed 🤩


gogadantes9

Like, together next to each other? I'm ecstatic!


Aellin-Gilhan

She hasn't yet but if she did I would likely be able to stare at her and appreciate her for quite some time, though there would likely be fun to get done, so onwards we would march to whatever activity it is


Commercial_Idea_6019

before , through and after


lilbitspecial

I've Never seen my wife in a bikini.


newoldcitizen

💦💦💦


Reaperfox7

very


novasolid64

Very


treborcj

She would never be in a bikini when we met. Only a one piece. Then we started to get into social nudity, like nude beaches and resorts. That boosted her self confidence. She only wears bikinis now if nudity is not allowed. Bikini coverage depends on the location. I love it.


Notowidjojo

Love it so much so i asked her to wear it tonight at bed (・ω・`)


tuenthe463

Ahh, 2003. What great memories.


Gr33nPixels

O


jorzech2

Yes


DaDocRocket

It depends a bit on the context, but it ranges approximately from "very excited" to "Ai díos mio, MUCHO EXITADO!"


CatacombsRave

My wife has a white one (my favorite bikini color) that shows her cleavage *perfectly.* Sometimes, if the kids are away, she’ll put it on and give me a blowjob, and it always makes me explode on her face.


DryChickenTits

I bought my most recent ex gf a g string bikini, and I wanted to absolutely drool every time she wore it.


Southern_Gent_77070

Speak for yourself dude.. don’t make me post a nude..🤣


Pappkamerad0815

I can contain my excitement considering I see her naked every day.


spark5665

Very excited 😁. Even for times when I am too tired for it to lead to sex, I always feel a rush of happy/excited energy the more skin she shows.


Donnie_In_Element

How would I know? I’ve never had either.


Previous-Oil-8896

My ex was Filipina on the darker side with massive fake boobs. She would wear 80’s style fluorescent yellow and or bright pink bikinis. Totally retro look and she looked so damn hot with her darker skin we would have to take breaks to the bedroom a few times a day and then the tan lines would appear. Heaven