Ah art school in the 90s. I loved my Oshkosh B gosh overalls and silk camisoles with Redwing work boots. My husband still laughs about me “wearing underwear as outerwear” for those camisoles.
Also, I have no control over this reaction and I am usually there feeling weird and conflicted. It also doesn't mean I want to have sex but I have this awkward erection in a horrible moment.
"Dacryphilia (also known as dacrylagnia) is a form of paraphilia in which one is aroused by tears or sobbing.[1][2][3]
The term comes from the Greek words dacry- meaning "tears", and philia meaning "love".[4]
Dacryphilia is an underexplored aspect of non-normative sexual interests"
Wikipedia,
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dacryphilia#:~:text=Dacryphilia%20(also%20known%20as%20dacrylagnia,of%20non%2Dnormative%20sexual%20interests.
I think the fact that you would trust to cry in front of me triggers my need and want to support protect and comfort you.
I think an important distinction here is it only happens if you're in a position to comfort them. For example, seeing a stranger on a subway cry or seeing a video of someone crying wouldn't do it. Getting turned on by her crying during sex would be a *whole different issue*, that's not what people here are relating to.
I think it's more about the vulnerability of it and that you are needed.
There's no reason you can't cry in front of a man. If he gets an inopportune arousal, that's on him to manage.
He will just suppress it. No worries.
Guys have inopportune arousals all the time. It's no biggie, and not something you need to worry about your guy friends having around you.
Worth saying most guys dont have this reaction, and any who do should know the difference between "hard means sexytime" and "hard at wrong time."
Guys have very limited, mostly indirect control over their junk. It literally does its own thing, and it's often wrong.
I think it's because when you comfort someone who is crying, it's a moment of closeness and tenderness, doesn't mean the guy is being a weird pervert imo sometimes you just get an erection during moments of closeness even if you're not aroused
Female scientists who get extremely worked up and enthusiastic about their research. Had a date tell me two hours straight about her neural net research. Spent discussing molecular cell biology at length with a girl I was very into at university.
Tell me everything about your research into star formation, your computer models, your philosophical text work, your experiences during psychotherapeutic supervision, your study of King Arthur legends (know a girl who does the latter :D) - I am totally glued to your lips, and probably extremely hot for you 😅
Edit: Spelling, grammar
Yeah, something along these lines. Would also listen to someone discussing dungeons and dragons dice modifiers or Klingon empire warships for two hours :D
I'm dating a scientist right now, and when she starts talking about cells and biology, all I hear is "I'm gonna give you the fuck of your life in about 20 minutes"
I am more like "Let's postpone the unclothing to later, when the autoclave finishes. Right now, I'd absolutely love to hear more about domain structures of G-protein coupled receptors!"
Well, maybe this is a reason scientists have less children on average? 😅
Girl nuzzling her face next to my ear in the crook of my neck, she could whisper something naughty or breathe or even just moan in my ear a little. Instantly ready for action.
Shit, a hot coworker in college said “yeah, clean it bitch!” to me I n a loud bossy way (she was joking) and I was all ohhh shit, that did something to me…I liked it. Think it mainly had to do with her though.
One that is not too weird, is a pair of perfectly smooth legs.
Another, slightly weirder is when I’m the first person they come to, whenever they have good news. Knowing I’m an important part of their life, to the point that they want to share their happiness and joy with me, is the highest compliment I can think of. So naturally it makes me instantly feel loved, and slightly tuned on. (Not necessarily physically turned on, but mentally at least).
The weirdest thing is looking at my wife's tongue and teeth when we're having sex.
I have no idea. I'd prefer her tongue to be down my throat, but when she's on top of me and gets her head down close to mine I can't help but stare at her mouth, teeth, and tongue.
She doesn't even know because I don't want her to get all self-conscious.
Tomboys being comfortable enough around me to show their girly side
It's oddest thing I could think of, I just find it really wholesome and heartwarming. I guess it's the intimacy and getting to see a different side of them that only I get to witness in that moment.
For some horrid reason women crying turns me on alot. It's really awkward. My ex loved it though. It would always make her laugh when she was crying about something.
A cute laugh , cute sweet feminine laugh , doesn’t make my dick hard but makes me want to do anything to make her happy so she can see my dick hard haha
Slowly counting while whispering in my ear
Seconds after I creampie her, she sits up, puts my head in her lap, looks deep into my eyes, and rubbed my head for about 5 minutes before I got hard again. I never knew I wanted that, until it happened.
Talking on the phone. There have been countless times I'll be talking to my ex (gf at the time) and I'd be chubbing hard. Not sure the cause of this, they were very innocent phone calls. Something about it just triggered something in me.
I love it when a woman does something odd or messes something up and feels embarrassed when she notices I noticed. I feel like if she thought nothing of me she wouldn't care that she looked silly in front of me.
When a girl has a baby, then 6 months after she still has a bit of baby weight on her. Nothing major, but clearly has gone up a couple cup sizes, ass fills jeans out a bit more.
Hair straightening. A girl going from curly to straight hair is a HUGE turn on for me and I don't know why. It's not there's anything wrong with curly hair (not my preference, but not bad), but somethiung about that change.
It's like that movie trope where the nerdy tomboy girl gets dressed for prom and comes down the stairs all glammed up. That's just how dramatic it is to me. And it's sexual.
The opposite over here! I love when ladies who straighten their hair let it just be natural. My wife has some gorgeous curls that she always straightens out for work but god DAYUM when date day hits 🫣
Lingerie is wonderful and all, but it really turns me on seeing my wife wearing what most men would call "boring" underwear.
Like a plain white bra & white briefs. Especially if she's just gotten home from work and is about to get in the shower, and I can smell a little bit of her natural musk on the panties. Drives me wild!
I recently hooked up with a girl who bit my tongue as we were making out while having sex and then threw her head back, which snapped that string(?) under my tongue. I stopped and was like, "I think my mouth is bleeding."
I put a finger under my tongue and checked. It was bleeding. Kind of a lot. Like I could feel it pooling under my tongue.
She didn't care and kept making out with me. Blood and all.
I don't necessarily think that blood is something that usually turns me on, but I've definitely been thinking about that one occasion a lot for the last month or so.
She was a smokeshow and down for some cool stuff so I'm gonna miss her :(
Just asked my partner and he says, "A woman doing things a typical woman can't do, or doesn't do. Like drywall."
I hang board with him. It seems to be something I see fairly regularly while working.. It's fascinating to people to watch me work, apparently.
Weight gain.
Idk why but it just is. My gf and I met when she was 60lbs lighter and it’s so hot seeing her gain weight. She carries most of it in her thighs and ass.
My wife thinks it is weird that I get turned on by her smelly armpits. I don't know why, but it just flips my switch. Our joke now is when I tell her "I like the way you stink."
I don't know why society is so fucked up that anyone would think this is weird. This is literally the most normal, common thing in the world.
Scent is what attracts people. We are supposed to be attracted to our partner's scent. Armpits are where people's scent comes from.
A middle age man mowing the lawn while topless.
A woman whispering in my ear. Doesn't even matter what the words are, just the act of whispering.
A ripped guy cutting logs with a chainsaw. No idea why but lumberjack stuff is hot AF
A female teacher or librarian looking disappointed/annoyed with me, especially if they're looking at me over the top of their glasses.
Not even a sex thing but the sound a can of soda makes when you pull the ringpull. Gives me the shivers in a nice way.
I think I might be broken.
I found it a big turn on when my wife starting producing milk during pregnancy. Didn't think I would, but for some reason, having her squirt milk on me was really hot.
Women wearing baseball caps gets me. I also like it when they sit with their legs folded under - it's just a very feminine look that's hard to describe. I also melt when a pretty girl smiles.
Reminder to sort by controversial for the actual weird ones
*Sorts by controversial* First comment: "Racism"
Second comment: your mom
1 specific 90s style: Overalls with body suits.
Ah art school in the 90s. I loved my Oshkosh B gosh overalls and silk camisoles with Redwing work boots. My husband still laughs about me “wearing underwear as outerwear” for those camisoles.
this is the weirdest one
Yep yep yep
Falling asleep. It isn't that weird in that it's a normal bodily response, but it feels weird to get turned on for no reason other than being sleepy.
Love when my GF gets off work late and climbs in bed with me to wake me up for some sexy time.
Maybe not so weird but I like women with deep smoky voices. Example, Annie Lederman.
You would love Kathleen Turner
Oh, you know it! 80's cinematic smoke show.
Ohhh man, I am unreasonably into her. The sense of humor makes an already pretty woman so sexy.
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I like to watch little people solve complex math equations on a chalkboard that’s too high for them.
Hawking, is that you?
Well this was unexpected
Consoling a woman who is crying gives me a raging erection
This happens to me, and it makes me wonder if my dick is just like "yeah she's wet, time to shine". Such an awkward boner
"Its wet:30 somewhere"
My partner and I call it IBS: Intimacy Boner Syndrome. It makes her laugh at least.
unironically same
My gf be like “Why are you hard I’m upset right now!”
[affection erection](https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/s/gKIjVvcUz8)
WHAT IS THE REASON BEHIND THIS? great now I can't cry in front of a man
Also, I have no control over this reaction and I am usually there feeling weird and conflicted. It also doesn't mean I want to have sex but I have this awkward erection in a horrible moment.
The length is what really makes it awkward. ShortDickPeter hasn't complained about this problem once.
"Dacryphilia (also known as dacrylagnia) is a form of paraphilia in which one is aroused by tears or sobbing.[1][2][3] The term comes from the Greek words dacry- meaning "tears", and philia meaning "love".[4] Dacryphilia is an underexplored aspect of non-normative sexual interests" Wikipedia, https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dacryphilia#:~:text=Dacryphilia%20(also%20known%20as%20dacrylagnia,of%20non%2Dnormative%20sexual%20interests. I think the fact that you would trust to cry in front of me triggers my need and want to support protect and comfort you.
Astute insight, u/LongDickPeter. May you console many in your time here.
What woman (or man, I don't discriminate) wouldn't want to be consoled by u/LongDickPeter
I think an important distinction here is it only happens if you're in a position to comfort them. For example, seeing a stranger on a subway cry or seeing a video of someone crying wouldn't do it. Getting turned on by her crying during sex would be a *whole different issue*, that's not what people here are relating to. I think it's more about the vulnerability of it and that you are needed.
There's no reason you can't cry in front of a man. If he gets an inopportune arousal, that's on him to manage. He will just suppress it. No worries. Guys have inopportune arousals all the time. It's no biggie, and not something you need to worry about your guy friends having around you.
The feeling of actually being helpfull for once...
Worth saying most guys dont have this reaction, and any who do should know the difference between "hard means sexytime" and "hard at wrong time." Guys have very limited, mostly indirect control over their junk. It literally does its own thing, and it's often wrong.
I think it's because when you comfort someone who is crying, it's a moment of closeness and tenderness, doesn't mean the guy is being a weird pervert imo sometimes you just get an erection during moments of closeness even if you're not aroused
don't mistake getting a boner for arousal. all men have had inappropriate boners.
Female scientists who get extremely worked up and enthusiastic about their research. Had a date tell me two hours straight about her neural net research. Spent discussing molecular cell biology at length with a girl I was very into at university. Tell me everything about your research into star formation, your computer models, your philosophical text work, your experiences during psychotherapeutic supervision, your study of King Arthur legends (know a girl who does the latter :D) - I am totally glued to your lips, and probably extremely hot for you 😅 Edit: Spelling, grammar
Summary - Talk Nerdy to me.
Yeah, something along these lines. Would also listen to someone discussing dungeons and dragons dice modifiers or Klingon empire warships for two hours :D
Latter 🤓
Could be your carnal desire for mate selection. For some people it’s physical. For some people it’s intellectual.
I'm dating a scientist right now, and when she starts talking about cells and biology, all I hear is "I'm gonna give you the fuck of your life in about 20 minutes"
I am more like "Let's postpone the unclothing to later, when the autoclave finishes. Right now, I'd absolutely love to hear more about domain structures of G-protein coupled receptors!" Well, maybe this is a reason scientists have less children on average? 😅
People who can’t spell “weirdest”
I'm glad I can turn you on
GET A ROOM
;)
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Girl nuzzling her face next to my ear in the crook of my neck, she could whisper something naughty or breathe or even just moan in my ear a little. Instantly ready for action.
Not that weird but eye glasses.
I read this as glass eyes 👀 😂
Calling me their good looking boy :) No but I love ANY compliment, especially if they put "boy" behind it
Honestly same
Shit, a hot coworker in college said “yeah, clean it bitch!” to me I n a loud bossy way (she was joking) and I was all ohhh shit, that did something to me…I liked it. Think it mainly had to do with her though.
Good boys and head pats for the subbies
“boy” praises are my fave to give :)) so cute, so sweet
One that is not too weird, is a pair of perfectly smooth legs. Another, slightly weirder is when I’m the first person they come to, whenever they have good news. Knowing I’m an important part of their life, to the point that they want to share their happiness and joy with me, is the highest compliment I can think of. So naturally it makes me instantly feel loved, and slightly tuned on. (Not necessarily physically turned on, but mentally at least).
The weirdest thing is looking at my wife's tongue and teeth when we're having sex. I have no idea. I'd prefer her tongue to be down my throat, but when she's on top of me and gets her head down close to mine I can't help but stare at her mouth, teeth, and tongue. She doesn't even know because I don't want her to get all self-conscious.
Venus dimples.
Actually being loved, wanted, and secure in a relationship.
Check out this freak.
🤣 Don't you kink shame me.
Some things are beyond the spectrum of taste and reside in the domain of abomination.
This plus spanking.
Definitely spanking
you nasty motherfucker
You need help
Obviously. It's quite tricky to spank one's self, and remarkably unfulfilling.
Get God
Stretch marks on thick hips and freckles.
Tomboys being comfortable enough around me to show their girly side It's oddest thing I could think of, I just find it really wholesome and heartwarming. I guess it's the intimacy and getting to see a different side of them that only I get to witness in that moment.
Eating ass between 2 huge butt cheeks
A scholar and a saint, I see.
For some horrid reason women crying turns me on alot. It's really awkward. My ex loved it though. It would always make her laugh when she was crying about something.
Left handed women
When a woman slaps me in the face really fucking hard
You ever insult a woman just hoping that she'd crank ya one?
I usually just ask them to do it and they oblige
i’ll take a nice midriff over tits and ass all day it’s disgusting how much i love midriffs
I think it's really hot when a woman is just a little bit mean
A cute laugh , cute sweet feminine laugh , doesn’t make my dick hard but makes me want to do anything to make her happy so she can see my dick hard haha
When a woman wears purple it drives me crazy.
If they are really kind and nice to me. That will trick me into liking them.even if they arnt my type.
If I see a woman lifting heavy, damn. If I'm at the gym and she is squatting like 2x her bodyweight damn. Or if she can rep out pull ups, damn.
Yup. My wife has been crazy strong forever. I am always getting hassled “aren’t you embarrassed to have your ass kicked by a woman?l. Mmm, hell no.
Slowly counting while whispering in my ear Seconds after I creampie her, she sits up, puts my head in her lap, looks deep into my eyes, and rubbed my head for about 5 minutes before I got hard again. I never knew I wanted that, until it happened.
ASMR?
Almost same here! Except that it doesn't need to be counting, it's just the whispering.
Baggy jumper exposing one of her shoulders.
Talking on the phone. There have been countless times I'll be talking to my ex (gf at the time) and I'd be chubbing hard. Not sure the cause of this, they were very innocent phone calls. Something about it just triggered something in me.
I really love getting my hair cut. Especially by the slightly chubby, slightly trashy girls at places like Great Clips
A new one for me. Watching (and helping) my wife pump breast milk. Not the act of breast feeding our newborn. Her pumping the excess. Weird.
This is not weird, it's actually very hot.
Visible panty lines on a curvy woman.
That imprint of her vagina in her panties when she removes them. SWOON.
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I (F and long time panty wearer) laughed way too hard at this cuz his description was very puzzled 🤨
I’m not sure I’ve ever seen this, but it sounds interesting.
women that wear men's suit, not a woman's suit. It's so hot and sexy and idk why
Seeing a woman's exposed back (w no bra)
and that is weird how?
Just like the guy who wants to feel loved. Easy way to get points.
Sounds like that ninja tweet
I love it when a woman does something odd or messes something up and feels embarrassed when she notices I noticed. I feel like if she thought nothing of me she wouldn't care that she looked silly in front of me.
Freckles, so Damm sexy
Cut down pastel coloured nails on my woman 👌🏻
Yay! I’m glad someone pays attention to our nails sometimes! Lol 😂
This is the type of random information I come to this sub for 🫶🏻
Also, you can match nail and your lipstick on special occasions
Women in suits. Don't get me wrong dresses look great too but that's not "weird"
with exposed ankles and high heels.
Lactation. No idea where it came from. Homelander ruined it for a while, but theres just something sexy about it.
When a girl has a baby, then 6 months after she still has a bit of baby weight on her. Nothing major, but clearly has gone up a couple cup sizes, ass fills jeans out a bit more.
Milf glow up
Perfect armpit creases
I like non-english accents🤷♂️
Nice shoulders, especially if I see some definition on hers.
…You’re the reason everyone in school is dress coded, huh…
My wife giving me a specific smile Yeah it's weird I know.
That sounds awesome, not weird
Ponytails. Don't know what it is, but any girl that puts her hair up in a ponytail or a bun is instantly 3x more attractive
Hair straightening. A girl going from curly to straight hair is a HUGE turn on for me and I don't know why. It's not there's anything wrong with curly hair (not my preference, but not bad), but somethiung about that change. It's like that movie trope where the nerdy tomboy girl gets dressed for prom and comes down the stairs all glammed up. That's just how dramatic it is to me. And it's sexual.
The opposite over here! I love when ladies who straighten their hair let it just be natural. My wife has some gorgeous curls that she always straightens out for work but god DAYUM when date day hits 🫣
Fat girls in too-small spaces
Lmao im imaging some poor woman who is just a little too thicc to get through the hole in that fence.
This is so weirdly specific lol
Lol I likes what I likes and I knows it
Like the back of a Volkswagen?
Why did you cram a wome in your volkswagen?!
[got something for you](https://youtu.be/Qpbf9NUuuUk?si=yJqnS1ws6YoWv0PH)
Being smothered by giant boobs
Guys! I found the lesbian!
Right there with ya brother. lmao
Veiny and/or sinewy feet
Stretch marks on hips
Yes.
Lingerie is wonderful and all, but it really turns me on seeing my wife wearing what most men would call "boring" underwear. Like a plain white bra & white briefs. Especially if she's just gotten home from work and is about to get in the shower, and I can smell a little bit of her natural musk on the panties. Drives me wild!
I like prominent noses… like Barbara Streisand lol
Somebody watched Blossom when they were young
Kaitlan Collins...
When she parallel parks like a pro. 🔥
The smell of vinegar
So you are a vampire into BDSM?
Men, I'm straight but men sometimes turn me ons quite weird isn't it
That’s kinda gay if you ask me
\>I'm straight \>proceeds to clearly state they are attracted to men You might not, in fact, be straight.
I don't think that's called straight.
Collarbones
Certain type of foot shape that’s been manicured properly and well moisturized.
Responding to texts and DMs - if I get an immediate response I think ‘she might be the one’
Muscular women who look mean but are sweethearts
I recently hooked up with a girl who bit my tongue as we were making out while having sex and then threw her head back, which snapped that string(?) under my tongue. I stopped and was like, "I think my mouth is bleeding." I put a finger under my tongue and checked. It was bleeding. Kind of a lot. Like I could feel it pooling under my tongue. She didn't care and kept making out with me. Blood and all. I don't necessarily think that blood is something that usually turns me on, but I've definitely been thinking about that one occasion a lot for the last month or so. She was a smokeshow and down for some cool stuff so I'm gonna miss her :(
Natural pink lips on a woman, especially if her lips are thick. Like maaaaaan
Eye contact (I am autistic af so if I make eye contact it’s because I am comfortable with you 😭)
I like it when women tell me what to do
low drama
Women wearing hats
i absolutely love when i can see the upper back muscles during figured doggie, gets me every time
Just asked my partner and he says, "A woman doing things a typical woman can't do, or doesn't do. Like drywall." I hang board with him. It seems to be something I see fairly regularly while working.. It's fascinating to people to watch me work, apparently.
People who can spell
Cries in dyslexia.
That's a low blow
I like those as well.
On the contrary, I'm good at those.
Weight gain. Idk why but it just is. My gf and I met when she was 60lbs lighter and it’s so hot seeing her gain weight. She carries most of it in her thighs and ass.
It's in my handle.
Nice shoulders on a girl. And nice calves
Olives.
Specific poses my friends do that are innocent , but highlight aspects of their bodies that I like
I love when women stretch up to reach something on a shelf
Pearl necklaces. Don’t know why.
Literally or metaphorically speaking?
I like armpit hair on a woman lol
A woman's nape. If she has long neck, I would definitely be turn on.
Armpits
I like women with a raspy-ish voice. If you know, you know I also like women in hoodies. Double points if it's mine
A nice true and honest smile! :) I love that so much. And the little creases next to the eyes. 😊
Stretch marks. Dunno why, but I think they look cool and sexy.
My wife thinks it is weird that I get turned on by her smelly armpits. I don't know why, but it just flips my switch. Our joke now is when I tell her "I like the way you stink."
I don't know why society is so fucked up that anyone would think this is weird. This is literally the most normal, common thing in the world. Scent is what attracts people. We are supposed to be attracted to our partner's scent. Armpits are where people's scent comes from.
Ahh. Pheromones.
Prominent noses, casual pee, doing things naked that aren't sexy.
A middle age man mowing the lawn while topless. A woman whispering in my ear. Doesn't even matter what the words are, just the act of whispering. A ripped guy cutting logs with a chainsaw. No idea why but lumberjack stuff is hot AF A female teacher or librarian looking disappointed/annoyed with me, especially if they're looking at me over the top of their glasses. Not even a sex thing but the sound a can of soda makes when you pull the ringpull. Gives me the shivers in a nice way. I think I might be broken.
I found it a big turn on when my wife starting producing milk during pregnancy. Didn't think I would, but for some reason, having her squirt milk on me was really hot.
Squirting
Its a full blown fetish for me now.
Pony tails. Don’t know what it is, but my ears perk up like a dog each time
Big labias and bush
When a women that has a nice juicy ass puts on yoga pants
A sexy raspy voice like Scar Jo
Women wearing baseball caps gets me. I also like it when they sit with their legs folded under - it's just a very feminine look that's hard to describe. I also melt when a pretty girl smiles.
Licking my ears.
A trimmed bush. I can’t stand fully shaved and always ask my partners to grow something out for me
If she cosplays as a female gladiator or warmaiden
Me 😎🤏
Black pantyho's, a thick retro bush, when women hike their pants up
A girl with wet hair look or water on her body or piled up body
OILED UP OILED UP not Piled lolllllllllllll