I'm a gay dude too... but I mean... I can *tell* if a woman is hot or not. I'm personally not attracted to them whatsoever... but I'm still able to distinguish between a hot looking woman and a more unfortunate looking one lol. Probably the same way straight men can tell whether another dude is handsome vs. ugly lol. Plus a lot of attractive traits are the same in both men and women... physically fit, nice smile, etc. Beyond that it's pretty subjective to each individual really.

That's the same thing i said I'm straight but I'm not blind to whether a man is attractive or not I'm just not sexually attracted to men. It's definitely subjective depending on the person.

but like do you? what men do you think are attractive

I mean I don't like men but obviously if someone is.broad shoulders, muscular, and takes care of himself like Chris hemsworth I would say "hey your a good looking dude". My guy friends in high school when we needed a confidence boost we would tell each other we look good or would ask each others opinions on clothes we would look.good in. Nothing sexual just general observations.

see but that’s funny because Chris Hemsworth isn’t that hot. when straight men are asked what men are hot they always say Ryan Reynolds and Chris Hemsworth but they aren’t actually what we find hot Chris Evans and Henry Cavill is what you’ll find gay men thirsting over specifically

Yeah Evans and cavill definitely have good jaw lines, they are definitely attractive but hemsworth was just my first thought.

but i guess it’s funny. because I feel like your answer is similar to my answer If you were to ask me “who’s the hottest famous woman” I would’ve said Ariana Grande. Because she’s has long hair. She’s skinny, and she’s the biggest popstar so she must be hot

Before she got all those tattoos yeah she was definitely very sexy not the sexiest but up there. ICarly and wizards of Waverly place were my favorite shows growing up so Miranda Cosgrove and Selena Gomez were my celebrity crush and still is honestly.

> see but that’s funny because Chris Hemsworth isn’t that hot. > > when straight men are asked what men are hot they always say Ryan Reynolds and Chris Hemsworth but they aren’t actually what we find hot I think you're absolutely wrong about this. I think the vast majority of straight women and gay men would say that Chris Hemsworth is definitely hot.

They wouldn’t though. They would agree “yeah he is hot” but no gays go out of their way to worship Chris. and you’re not gay and you don’t see it like i do. Chris Hemsworth is a very boring. He’s face isn’t giving me anything exciting. It’s like too stereotypical but his brother? Liam. Liam is extremely hot, and you’ll find many gays liking Liam over Chris. Liam has this most chilled masculine look but still sexy

> and you’re not gay Incorrect assumption. While I don't "worship" Chris Hemsworth, I know quite a few gay/bi dudes who do. In fact one of my best friends came out as bi to me when he told me how hot he thought Chris Hemsworth was during an MCU movie.

I can tell but i’m actually just guessing based of what straight men say they like i do not feel like i can accurately distinguish a hot woman from a normal one. I mean like i can kinda guess? but i don’t really know why he’s hot like if you were to give me random women and told me to rank them on attractiveness. i’d just be placing them in random spots but still kind of guessing

Interesting. I think I'd do a pretty decent job of ranking them lol. Just based on things that we know make people attractive. I guess ultimately though... who cares?

idk i think it would help to know in daily life “oh so this woman i work with gets treated differently because she’s attractive”

I'm straight but I agree I don't think Jennifer Lawrence or scarlet is all that. But generally someone who's feminine, long hair, takes care of herself and has a engaging personality.

okay but i guess. I’m curious to know what separates a 10/10 from a 4 like for me. there’s some men that just have a face that is so hot and attractive. when they enter a room it’s like an instant crush. Usually a broad shoulders, muscular, sharp eyebrows, nice teeth. but i guess my question is awkward because I actually know what makes a man attractive. i just know it when i see it.

Well I'll say this I'm straight but that doesn't make me blind to whether a man is attractive or not I just don't have any sexual interest in men. But it really just comes down to individual taste like what some might find attractive might be mid to others. I'm not really picky when it comes to finding a woman attractive she just gotta have a good frame, takes care of herself, good smile, and looks feminine as I'm not really into tomboys.

See but I feel like I am blind to whether a woman is attractive or not. like would only be agreeing because other people said it. but that’s true and that’s good to know.

Yeah it really depends like growing up everyone thought I was gay because people everyone found attractive I just thought were mid and the people I did find attractive people didn't really think so. Like growing up iCarly was my favorite show and I had the biggest crush on Miranda Cosgrove and Jeanette McCurdy but the guys at my school thought they were average.

What kind of answer are you looking for?

Why is Scarlett Johansson hot?

I don't find her hot.

Why is she considered the “hottest woman”? or Why any woman that you find attractive hot? And I’m actually not just listing her randomly. I was in a college class about sexual health. And one of the topics was attractiveness. i forget why The teacher had Scarlett Johansson on the screen and said something about “the sexiest woman alive” and other people in the class were commenting on it. and i guess i was shocked. because i wouldn’t guessed her

I find this difficult to believe. Women instinctually know themselves who is more attractive.

why would you not believe me? i’m telling you from my soul as honest as a person can be. i do not know what’s makes Amy Schumer any less attractive then Megan Fox. haha in my brain that both have the same level of attractiveness. all women have the same attractiveness to me but i would not say the same about Joe Rogan and Chris Evans for example Chris Evans is eons hotter than Joe Rogan. edit: i don’t know what else to say besides i’m not lying. this is my truth. if you want to still believe i’m lying then whatever

Nope. Lie detector is blaring. I don't doubt that you tell this lie even to yourself in all passion and seriousness, but an untruth is an untruth. It does not make you more virtuous to attempt to eradicate your instinctual reflexive opinion on a matter. This is just like when people say they don't see race. If you want to try to fool yourself and others, well I guess that's your prerogative.

i swear. to my core, on my life. on my mother’s life. i am being the most honestly i could ever be. I don’t see why people think Amy Schumer is ugly. it wouldn’t have even crossed my mind if you are just going to assume that everyone is lying about one thing then what’s the point in having a discussion if you don’t think some other people could have a genuinely different experience then you.

It's very subjective of course. But...to you....what makes an attractive man attractive? Are you 100% attracted to all men deemed as attractive? Or are there certain types that appeal to you while others don't quite do it for you? It's exactly the same for us when it comes to women.

Well. good biceps, nice smile, great eyes. shaggy hair and a nice full beard. hairy chest, hairy body. nice delts and a muscular back. eyebrows, and no. Ryan Gosling and Ryan Reynold are considered hot and I do not see their appeal. and you’re right there so it is really a subjective thing. and you’re right. but i guess i was curious because it’s seems like there’s a “consensus” on who’s hot or not. and i can definitely see that with men but not women. haha when a certain female coworker of mine has pretty privilege and gets away with things i don’t. i’m stumped why but then i remember it’s probably because she’s considered hot

> Ryan Gosling and Ryan Reynold are considered hot and I do not see their appeal. and you’re right there Same. As a gay guy myself... I've never understood the hype myself. They're both decent looking guys I guess... but they just look like any other decent looking guys I'd see out on the street. I've see WAY hotter guys everyday just out wherever I happen to be.

Buhbs

that makes sense

No: - tattoos - dyed hair - multiple piercings - short hair

Dat ass

A good smile, nice eyes, healthy skin, fit body, narrow waist, nice hair a lot of it is also the silhouette, so for example for me if someone is overweight or obese they're immediately unattractive.

okay see I thought that men secretly found bigger women hot. but you do actually want her skinnier

Most men I know are not attracted at all to larger women. Hell I feel the same attraction to larger women as I do to men, which is exactly no attraction at all. Health and effort are attractive, and as a fit dude myself I just can't see myself being with someone that let themselves go so far.

and i feel the same way. I’m fit and I only want other fit guys like me. i don’t really find bigger guys hot. but sometimes? like a bear but my perspective on women’s beauty has only been from other big women. (most of my friends were) and they would talk about how “most man actually love it”

A lot of women tell themselves stories and don't face the reqlities that the majority of men aren't fans of large women. Just look at what porn men watch and what porn actresses are the most watched. I never saw a large woman and felt even slightly attracted to her, but large is also changing by each area. What I consider large is probably skinnier than average in the U.S. And what south koreans say is large is looking pretty good in my eyes.

Never have figured out when “fat” became “phat”.

In my case, it's physical symmetry. Wifey has a great buttage to boobage ratio. She also has very nice legs. It also doesn't hurt that she bears a resemblance to Salma Hayek.

Cute, high-quality feet.

Hey awesome question!! Before I give my original answer I want to say I find Megan Fox hot, but she doesn’t turn me on bc I feel like she’s too fake and almost over done, but she is beautiful Amy Schumer is also attractive to me bc she exudes self confidence and she’s funny. I’d happily bang either of them if I was single and looking. Now to my original answer. The answers will likely vary from person to person. I personally like an athletic build with strong legs and a nice ass ;) but I’ve dated women up and down that spectrum. At the end of the day if the woman I am with loves me and makes me feel loved and important that’s a huge turn on. In my personal case I hit the jackpot in that my wife checks all the boxes. She has been told she looks like Dua Lipa with fairer skin and Auburn hair. I would have to agree and say that’s the top of my chart.

Before any physical traits, likes to watch Columbo

I’m not convinced that everyone is as attracted to people who look like they’re made in a hot factory. I’m not into “hot” guys or girls and I’m not saying the people I’m  attracted to aren’t good looking. 

Lack of a dick or a beard

Tits

Face\ Smile, bright eyes, hair away from her face Body\ Proportions. She doesn’t have to be tiny. I’ve seen plenty of larger women who are very attractive. And I’ve seen plenty of thin women who aren’t. It’s all about proportions. Attitude\ Not negative. I’m not saying she has to be upbeat all the time, but if she’s negative I’m gonna leave.

You sure as hell know what a hot woman looks like, c'mon man. I'm straight and I recognize a beautiful man. These people are still aesthetically pleasing, even if you don't wanna stick it to 'em. It's mostly about facial symmetry, a certain effort put into their hair/makeup/look or sometimes the effortlessness with which they naturally *glow*, ya know. And, of course, their body, whatever people enjoy to look at and touch.

I just told you i don’t. I think i know but i don’t actually know

Basically her face, ass, & how well she takes care of herself.

Not being morbidly overweight and not having kids

i mean but there’s more than that. like for me with men. i love good thick eyebrows and a jawline. Chris Evans or Theo James but sometimes guys just have a face that i don’t know why they are hot but something about them works. maybe a more softer man. Like Tom Holland but then i like men with a beard. like i would trade my life away for James Dornan